In a crowded place a smart looking person, seated close to you, may ask you in a very polite manner "Do you mind if I smoke?” A seemingly innocent request to which your response will be to nod agreeably as if to say okay. We do not realize that such a mannerly question spells evil? Would you have nodded and said ‘okay’ if he had asked you the same question this way… “Do you mind if I poison you?" If he had asked you “May I have your permission to give you Cancer?" then your spot...