This is somewhat perverted but also very cool imo got a date due to copywriting..
But I did genuinely think this was very very cool.
To keep it clean, lets just say like any other man I like women. So when I get bored, I tend to go looking for them and I usually do it by getting up and leaving my house.
In the past I have tried posting ads on various dating sites, and rarely ever had success. I'm a good looking guy too, so I never really understood what my problem was.
I essentially gave up on the whole online dating thing a while ago, and for some very odd reason gave it another try tonight. In person I'm not bad with meeting people, but online I absolutely suck. The ONLY thing that has really changed in my life, is I have been reading A LOT about copywriting in the last 3 months.
I almost didn't even realize I did it, but I made a damaging admission in the begining of my dating profile. I also spoke very little about why I rock, and more about the modest benefits of hanging out with a person like myself. When in the past I think I would have tried to make myself look like a prince, tonight I just showed the world exactly how it is.
What suprised me the most, was the amount of responses I got from females when I have NEVER gotten any legitimate response like that online before (only 7 but still a pretty major difference). So I wound up messaging back and forth with several of them, and at that point I really understood I was marketing myself completely differently than I use to in college. That whole "honest copy" concept basically just reinvented my entire online dating life! I'm not a liar or anything, I guess I just use to boast too much.
Have a date tonight with a totally attractive indian girl. In one of her first messages she said "you sound like a really cool guy". When I asked her what she meant she said something like "well you just seem different". Then I got it out of her that her opinion of most american men is that they are full of themselves. That damaging admission (which I won't get into for the sake of time) has actually gotten me my first date online, and then it totally clicked in my head.
Women want a confident guy, but confidence isn't conveyed by talking yourself up, in fact, it looks like it might be communicated through the total opposite, talking yourself down. I think you just need to do it in a way that comes off secure is the point.
THANK YOU to all the copywriters on this forum, I got 90 mins to shower up and get the hell out of here. If things don't go well, I got 6 more messages to respond to when I get home!
Complete insanity - I think I just matured 10 years within the span of 3 months thanks to copywriting.
-Red
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