How do you become the best?

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Let's face facts; being second (or any place after), is losing. Sure, you might still be making millions, but there's someone out there that's better than you.

I'm the kind of guy to aim for the top; even if I don't ever reach the top, I want to have that lofty goal and to shoot for it. I owe myself that much. And if you're sitting there thinking "What an arrogant son of a b***h!" then something happened in your life to get you where you are now; why did you stop aiming for the top?

Why did you stop shooting for the moon?

Listen, we all know BEING the best is far different from being renowned as the best; Nikola Telsa is a prime example of this. Thomas Edison is the name we all attribute to electricity and the AC current. It's only recently a lot of publicity has shed light on Telsa being the genius. Edison was simply the master salesman and marketer.


I want to know how to be the Telsa and the Edison. Now, I know how to become the Telsa; hard work, practice and a lot of patience. But what about the Edison? There's some incredible copywriters on here; tell me...how do I become as reputable and renowned as you?

How do I put a shadow over the competition, over you? I'm certain there's many great copywriters on this forum, and off it. But how many famous names do we hear? Only a handful, because even though many copywriters can sell, they can't market themselves.

So, my question: How did you make your way to the top? And can you give me some advice on how to follow you up? Of course, I want to carve my own path, but sometimes following the footsteps of greats helps on the climb.

I'm not trying to boast or brag; I know the writers on here who are 10x better than me, and I'm humble enough to know when to shutup and ask for advice.

So, looking to hear from the greats (you know who you are - newbies looking to position themselves, please either sit with me and lap up the great advice that is bound to follow, or keep quiet!)


Thanks guys!



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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Ten
    I'm not at the top in much of anything.
    However, I think that the theory to get to the top is: practice, practice, practice, practice.... and more practice....
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  • Profile picture of the author BrainCopy
    You wanna know how? - Mindset. That's it man... just your mindset.

    "It is well to respect the leader. Learn from him. Observe him. Study him. But don't worship him. Believe you can surpass. Believe you can go beyond. Those who harbor the second-best attitude are invariably second-best doers."

    David Schwartz
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  • Profile picture of the author Shazadi
    So really, you're asking about how to be famous instead of skilled. Edison was a complete jerk, and that's putting it nicely. He stole Tesla's ideas, mocked him for the inventions he eventually claimed, and underpaid Tesla for the tireless work he put in while Edison himself grew wealthy. Oh, and he literally got him killed. Tesla's arms were amputated after too much exposure to x-rays, after which he died. I would advise not becoming the sort of person Edison was.

    Sorry if that sounds a bit venemous, it's not exactly directed at you. I hate Edison as a person, so not the best analogy in my mind.

    My question is, why are you so focused on being the most notorious copywriter instead of one that earns more than enough to support himself and any family? If your happiness is tied to being "seen" instead of getting results, I'm not sure how long your happiness will last.

    If you want your name to be heard, one easy way is to gain celebrity by association. Work with those who are already famous, heck, even interview them. Part of that exposure rubs off on you. Go to marketing events. Speak at marketing events. Get interviewed by the press.

    Thankfully, other than that, copywriting tends to be a fairly insular field. If you want to be known as the guy that wrote a package that earned millions for the big publishers... well, write a package that earns millions for the big publishers. Word spreads fast in the industry, and if you want others to know about that, then just keep putting yourself out there.
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  • Yea given a choice I would be Tesla and never Edison.

    Ben, you don't have to be the best in the whole wide universe.

    Chances are people will spend their lives trying to knock you down.

    Just be the best for all your clients.


    Steve


    P.S. Anyway you can't be the best because Laura is (lol)

    She won a prize. And quite right too.
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    • Profile picture of the author Alex Cohen
      Ben,

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      • Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

        Why would anyone at the top tell you?
        Because I asked nicely?



        Originally Posted by LauraKryza View Post

        So really, you're asking about how to be famous instead of skilled. Edison was a complete jerk, and that's putting it nicely. He stole Tesla's ideas, mocked him for the inventions he eventually claimed, and underpaid Tesla for the tireless work he put in while Edison himself grew wealthy. Oh, and he literally got him killed. Tesla's arms were amputated after too much exposure to x-rays, after which he died. I would advise not becoming the sort of person Edison was.

        Sorry if that sounds a bit venemous, it's not exactly directed at you. I hate Edison as a person, so not the best analogy in my mind.

        My question is, why are you so focused on being the most notorious copywriter instead of one that earns more than enough to support himself and any family? If your happiness is tied to being "seen" instead of getting results, I'm not sure how long your happiness will last.

        If you want your name to be heard, one easy way is to gain celebrity by association. Work with those who are already famous, heck, even interview them. Part of that exposure rubs off on you. Go to marketing events. Speak at marketing events. Get interviewed by the press.

        Thankfully, other than that, copywriting tends to be a fairly insular field. If you want to be known as the guy that wrote a package that earned millions for the big publishers... well, write a package that earns millions for the big publishers. Word spreads fast in the industry, and if you want others to know about that, then just keep putting yourself out there.

        Haha, perhaps NOT the best example then. Yeah, I realise what Edison did, and I totally agree with you; the guy's lower than low. I didn't mean to use him as an example in that way. I meant, how do I show myself as a 'master', rather than just one of many people aspiring to be a copywriter?

        But yeah, I kinda suspected the answers I've got; just do well at your job, and you'll get noticed. I guess this really is one of those fields where it IS 'what' you know, not so much 'who' you know, though that counts also.

        Anyway, thanks for your reply!

        Originally Posted by Steve The Copywriter View Post

        Yea given a choice I would Tesla and never Edison.

        Ben, you don't have to be the best in the whole wide universe.

        Chances are people will spend their lives trying to knock you down.

        Just be the best for all your clients.


        Steve


        P.S. Anyway you can't be the best because Laura is (lol)

        She won a prize. And quite right too.
        Haha, Steve I look forward to your replies! And yeah, you're right. I just have a win-or-die attitude to life; grew up pretty nerdy and introverted, and I came out of that several years ago with help from a mentor. So I kinda got instilled with "Don't be a loser. Be a winner!" attitude.
        My girlfriend thinks I'm friggin' crazy, since I berate myself massively if I start slacking. My role models are Muhammad Ali and Will Smith, so y'know - not that I'm black or anything



        Originally Posted by Daniel Scott View Post

        The best practical advice on this I got from Parris Lampropoulos. He said he worked his ass off for a few years then started beating controls. Once he got his first master hit everyone wanted to hire him and his phone never really stopped ringing.

        It depends how you want to be renowned, too. Lots of people don't know Parris' name but all the players in the health markets know him and his work quite well. Whether or not he's "famous" as such in your eyes, I don't know.

        I'll also say that the guys who stay at the top (or near it) have a positive view on it. They're competing against themselves primarily, not their peers. Their main motivation is to better themselves, not to see where they "stack up" against other greats.

        I remember in the Bencivenga 100 seminar, Gary Bencivenga said a lot of his success came from knowing when to try and beat a control and when not to. He pointed out some of the amazing copy talent in the room (Halbert, Makepeace etc) and said he never wanted to have to try and beat a control they've written... it's too hard.

        Yet he's billed as the highest-paid (and in some people's eyes, best) copywriter of all time (and you better believe he wanted this to happen.)

        There's no magic answer here, and I doubt you'll get one. But I figured I'd at least share some thoughts.
        Thanks! I'll check that Bencivenga Seminar out. Yeah, to be honest, that's what I was after. get a discussion going, get some people's thoughts. As I said, I don't consider myself a master and probably never will (all that zen stuff about keeping your mind in 'beginner' mode), so I like to hear other's opinions.

        What makes me laugh is, as copywriters our job is to find out what the market wants, their deepest desires and problems; but you contrast that with what we see on this forum, and the ego's that come out to play - craziness! Maybe since we spend so long in other's shoes, we have to find ourselves again in a big way.

        *Shrug*

        Who knows?

        Originally Posted by Alex Cohen View Post

        Ben,

        Doug D'Anna, an A-list copywriter who writes for the big mailers, has an offer that would help you with your goal...

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        Alex
        Thanks Alex!


        I'll check it out.
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        • Profile picture of the author Daniel Scott
          Originally Posted by CharismaticMannequin View Post

          What makes me laugh is, as copywriters our job is to find out what the market wants, their deepest desires and problems; but you contrast that with what we see on this forum, and the ego's that come out to play - craziness! Maybe since we spend so long in other's shoes, we have to find ourselves again in a big way.
          Most people hanging out on this forum are just playing at being copywriters.

          The guys and gals who've actually got their shit together and could nail a package for the major mailers are pretty rare.

          So that may partially explain the "skew".

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      • Profile picture of the author Shazadi
        Originally Posted by Alex Cohen View Post

        Doug D'Anna, an A-list copywriter who writes for the big mailers, has an offer that would help you with your goal...
        I actually subscribe to Doug D'Anna's list and got an email that's perfect for this thread. Thought you might appreciate it, Ben. To sum up, too many copywriters are married to their swipe files. They're great tools, yes, but when it comes down to it, one very important thing to focus on is creating a different voice that publishers (and their customers) haven't heard before. It's one thing to be "among" the greats, and another thing to simply mimic them.

        He also discusses the all-important personal salesmanship you referenced.

        Originally Posted by Doug D'Anna

        As I've mentioned many times, I'm a big collector of old advertising and copywriting books.

        Why? Because many of the techniques these masters discovered years ago hold true today.
        I have used many of them in the past and still refer to these ideas today.

        However, as John Caples, Claude M. Bristol, Robert Collier, and John E. Kennedy would tell you if they were still alive, simply copying their techniques will never give you the breakthroughs you're looking for or set you apart as an A-list copywriter.

        To be sure, I'm not going to say that those tested ideas won't work for you. But they were designed for specific products at that time--and not necessarily for what you are trying to sell now.

        Why is this important?

        Because when you send your copywriting samples to publishers, marketers, and entrepreneurs, you will not be perceived as an original copywriter. They will see you as someone who may be a good mimic, but that is not what they are looking for.

        They are looking for original copywriters with their own ideas, experts who may have mastered the techniques of the past--and didn't just copy them.

        One of my clients recently told me that he receives so many "Caples wannabe" packages from copywriters that he doesn't even bother to read them. He throws them directly in the trash.

        Can you blame him?

        1. He sees nothing original in the writer's work, and
        2. His products are far too important to leave to a copywriter who merely copies somebody else's approach.

        Most new copywriters wouldn't know this, but the publishers and marketers I work with know who has written a direct mail package they receive in the mail because they, for the most part, know the selling styles of all the top copywriters.

        I would venture to say that if you sent three publishers a Gary Bencivenga package, a Doug D'Anna package, a Bob Bly package, and a Clayton Makepeace package, they would know exactly who wrote each one.

        The reason is simple: each one of us has our own unique selling style.

        If you want to rise to the top of the A-list, you must develop your own personal selling style--and not simply mimic one of the greats from the past.

        Believe it or not, one way to develop your own personal copywriting style is to take a sales course--and not just by reading sales books.

        Truth is, if there's a reason why I've had such great success in copywriting, it is because I'm not a writer--I'm a salesman who types for a living.

        By attending a basic sales class you will learn so many things that you never could by just reading a sales book. You must learn what it feels like to be face-to-face with a customer. To identify what it takes to persuade them. To answer their objections in real time. You will not only learn to see and feel their emotions but also know how to react to them.

        I promise you this: If you take a sales class, my friend, you will gain an overwhelming advantage over copywriters who only take writing classes.

        How can I make such a claim? It's easy. Most copywriters are introverts and fear selling!

        They send samples of their work with cover letters and never follow up. They're afraid of hearing "no" on the phone. So on one hand the copywriter's job is all about selling, but on the other hand, many are afraid to sell themselves.

        In some ways, I was the same way.

        But I got over that when I spent two years out of copywriting in the 1980s, selling real estate and making no money. My lack of sales didn't mean I was a bad salesman. It's just that through it all I learned something more important: I liked selling: I just didn't like selling real estate.

        I liked writing copy from the convenience of my home and not driving a bunch of strangers from house to house. I'm sure you know what I mean.

        Yet, the techniques I learned from my two years of selling real estate moved me from charging $1,500 per package to $10,000 per package within nine months of getting back into the business.

        My success wasn't because I was any kind of a better writer. I enjoyed a higher degree of success because I was a better--and battle-hardened--put-the-money-in-the-envelope-please salesman.

        For these reasons, I believe I enjoy more success than most copywriters when it comes to launching new products. Why? Because I'm not thinking of which Caples headline I'm going to steal.

        I have discovered my own personal selling style and I'm going to use that.

        So please, as a future A-list copywriter, promise me this:

        1. Don't send publishers or marketers any kind of Caples rehash,

        2. Develop your own personal selling style that stands out, and

        3. Take a sales course!

        Do this and I promise you'll rise to the top of the A-list much faster than you could ever imagine--and get paid even more for your copywriting work.

        All good wishes,

        Doug



        PS If you like the copywriting and business-building advice I offer you in the A-list and feel that you could benefit from my personal coaching, I'd like to tell you about a coaching opportunity that I will be offering in 2008.

        No, it's not a copywriting class--but a course that that I consider far more important--selling yourself as a copywriter.

        As I've continued to mention in my e-mails over the past 12 months, there are hundreds of copywriters who may be more talented than I am with words. But what they aren't is better salespeople.

        Frankly, I kick their fannies all over the place.

        That's really what most copywriters simply don't get. They invest all their time and money taking copywriting courses only to struggle to find work.

        When I started out in my business, I had declared myself a copywriter and had one sample to my name--that's it. Yet it was my ability to pick up the phone, send samples, and call people and CLOSE THE DEAL that resulted in my success.

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        • Originally Posted by LauraKryza View Post

          I actually subscribe to Doug D'Anna's list and got an email that's perfect for this thread. Thought you might appreciate it, Ben. To sum up, too many copywriters are married to their swipe files. They're great tools, yes, but when it comes down to it, one very important thing to focus on is creating a different voice that publishers (and their customers) haven't heard before. It's one thing to be "among" the greats, and another thing to simply mimic them.

          He also discusses the all-important personal salesmanship you referenced.

          Awesome! Thanks Laura

          If I'm honest, in the year and half I've called myself a copywriter, I've not laid my fingers on a swipe file. ever.

          As Doug said in that email, it's a cop out. Hell, if I can't write my own stuff at the start, how am I ever gonna progress? I'm not. I'm just going to rely on my swipe file to get me through projects.

          Screw that. I'd rather sit there writing bad pieces of copy for years and develop my style, than write good pieces based on someone else's work. Also, I was speaking to a copywriting friend yesterday, and he said something interesting which relates to what we're talking about.

          He said a lot of copywriters focus on what worked, not what works right NOW. So swipe files are, in essence, redundant. Sure, they worked last year, or the year before, but do they work now? It's a gamble.


          Seriously Laura, thanks for the email - I think a lot of people forget we are in essence salesmen, not writers.



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          • Profile picture of the author ewenmack
            Ben, there is a right way, and a very valuable way
            to use a swipe file.

            Example: There is an old headline..."When Doctors Fell Rotten, This Is What They Do..."

            Conversion Rate Experts used the same concept for a client and added, if I recall correctly,
            an extra 1mill $ for them. They made some other changes as well.

            The concept is using authority and proof up front.

            The new headline named well known international brand names to replace "Doctors"
            and replaced "Feel Rotten" with the company name.

            Take a winning concept from one industry into another where it hasn't been used and you get breakthroughs.

            Best,
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            P.S. I feel I'm a broken record here, it's not about the words,
            it's about the big idea behind them.
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          • Profile picture of the author Marvin Johnston
            Originally Posted by CharismaticMannequin View Post

            As Doug said in that email, it's a cop out. Hell, if I can't write my own stuff at the start, how am I ever gonna progress? I'm not. I'm just going to rely on my swipe file to get me through projects.

            Screw that. I'd rather sit there writing bad pieces of copy for years and develop my style, than write good pieces based on someone else's work. Also, I was speaking to a copywriting friend yesterday, and he said something interesting which relates to what we're talking about.

            He said a lot of copywriters focus on what worked, not what works right NOW. So swipe files are, in essence, redundant. Sure, they worked last year, or the year before, but do they work now? It's a gamble.
            I think you are WAY off base with your thoughts for several reasons.

            The first is that most people who contribute to any field build on what went before them. Ignoring that previous work is probably not the best idea in the world.

            Second, you acknowledge you have little experience. So why wouldn't you take advantage of the education others have gone through? The ideas gotten from a good swipe file are what is important. Reread what Ewen said, especially the PS. I can't think of any case in any field where the people at the top were lone rangers and didn't take advantage of the work that went before them. YMMV

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            • Originally Posted by Marvin Johnston View Post

              I think you are WAY off base with your thoughts for several reasons.

              The first is that most people who contribute to any field build on what went before them. Ignoring that previous work is probably not the best idea in the world.

              Second, you acknowledge you have little experience. So why wouldn't you take advantage of the education others have gone through? The ideas gotten from a good swipe file are what is important. Reread what Ewen said, especially the PS. I can't think of any case in any field where the people at the top were lone rangers and didn't take advantage of the work that went before them. YMMV

              Marvin

              Marvin, no disrespect, but I think you've got it seriously wrong.

              1.) I analyse and view previous work from a variety of other people. As I've said, I respect that there's other people before me with a huge amount of skill - and I intend to learn everything I can and build on that.

              I read PLENTY of books (an understatement if I ever wrote one), and take detailed notes that I review regularly. I'm nothing if not an astute and thorough student of the greats.

              2.) When did I mention I had little experience? I don't believe I said that; I've got quite a bit - a year's worth. Sure, people have got decades on me, but I'm working hard.

              I understand what you were trying to say, but I haven't shrugged off previous knowledge. I just simply don't rely on a swipe file to write my own stuff. I'm creating my own voice, and developing some new, something fresh. What worked a year ago, wont necessarily work today.

              As for what Ewen said, he's totally right, and what worked in one niche, can be reapplied successfully to another niche. I've not yet done it, but I'm sure I'll try it out at some point.

              Thanks for your replies.



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              • Profile picture of the author Marvin Johnston
                Originally Posted by CharismaticMannequin View Post

                Marvin, no disrespect, but I think you've got it seriously wrong.
                While I didn't say it, there was no disrespect meant at all in my comments either. And if I have it wrong, it wouldn't be the first time ... nor the last .

                I don't see swipe files as interfering at all in developing our own voice, but rather directing our voice in a direction that has been shown previously to work.

                While I haven't tried it, I suspect that a swipe file of things that have proven themselves not to work would also be useful.

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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Scott
    The best practical advice on this I got from Parris Lampropoulos. He said he worked his ass off for a few years then started beating controls. Once he got his first master hit everyone wanted to hire him and his phone never really stopped ringing.

    It depends how you want to be renowned, too. Lots of people don't know Parris' name but all the players in the health markets know him and his work quite well. Whether or not he's "famous" as such in your eyes, I don't know.

    I'll also say that the guys who stay at the top (or near it) have a positive view on it. They're competing against themselves primarily, not their peers. Their main motivation is to better themselves, not to see where they "stack up" against other greats.

    I remember in the Bencivenga 100 seminar, Gary Bencivenga said a lot of his success came from knowing when to try and beat a control and when not to. He pointed out some of the amazing copy talent in the room (Halbert, Makepeace etc) and said he never wanted to have to try and beat a control they've written... it's too hard.

    Yet he's billed as the highest-paid (and in some people's eyes, best) copywriter of all time (and you better believe he wanted this to happen.)

    There's no magic answer here, and I doubt you'll get one. But I figured I'd at least share some thoughts.
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  • Profile picture of the author FuNwiThChRiS
    There is no "best" in anything. Period.

    What's the best? A grape flavored candy, or an orange flavored candy?

    "The best" is always subjective.

    To be "the best" is to maximize your potential and be smart enough to make a living and enjoy your life. You must define your own goals and conquer them on your own terms.
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  • Profile picture of the author Pusateri
    I'm sure certified NLP practitioners have interviewed the best copywriters and elicited the sub-modalities that produce bestness.

    One should be along any minute to post the formula.
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  • Profile picture of the author maximus242
    Copywriting is not about writing its about psychology.

    The psychology of getting someone to perform a desired action. The words are just a means to an end.

    It works like this:

    See words -> Thought -> Evaluation -> Create Meaning -> Feeling -> Decision

    Your skill as a copywriter is really only about 1 thing. The ability to know what is going to psychologically cause someone to perform the action you want them to perform.

    Thats it.

    Understand what will cause more of your consumers to do what you want them to do and you are a better copywriter

    Copywriting is persuasion on paper. Thats all it has ever been.
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  • To put it simply.

    Copywriting is giving people the ideal solution proving it will solve their problem.


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    • Originally Posted by Marvin Johnston View Post

      While I didn't say it, there was no disrespect meant at all in my comments either. And if I have it wrong, it wouldn't be the first time ... nor the last .

      I don't see swipe files as interfering at all in developing our own voice, but rather directing our voice in a direction that has been shown previously to work.

      While I haven't tried it, I suspect that a swipe file of things that have proven themselves not to work would also be useful.

      Marvin
      Of course. And thanks for your input! I always welcome other's views. I know more often than not I have a limited viewpoint (my own), and am always looking to expand it.

      Originally Posted by maximus242 View Post

      Copywriting is not about writing its about psychology.

      The psychology of getting someone to perform a desired action. The words are just a means to an end.

      It works like this:

      See words -> Thought -> Evaluation -> Create Meaning -> Feeling -> Decision

      Your skill as a copywriter is really only about 1 thing. The ability to know what is going to psychologically cause someone to perform the action you want them to perform.

      Thats it.

      Understand what will cause more of your consumers to do what you want them to do and you are a better copywriter

      Copywriting is persuasion on paper. Thats all it has ever been.

      Exactly - something many people forget; many people put their egos in the writing and act as if the writing itself is the most important aspect. And that's something quite rife in general advertising. Sure, they win awards for genius, but do they make money? Hmm, I wonder...
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  • Profile picture of the author wlasikiewicz
    You become the best from learning from the best but i have to log off soon
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    • Profile picture of the author MikeHumphreys
      How do you become the best at anything?

      There's some natural ability (i.e. a 5'3" man probably will never make it in the NBA as a center because he's too short).

      The rest is heart and the relentless desire to keep practicing and honing your skills until someday your peers say that you're one of the best.

      Here's a nice NFL football example for you:

      Early in his career, Peyton Manning started throwing 100 balls after football practice to his teammate, wide receiver Marvin Harrison. Rain or shine... tired or not tired... it didn't matter. It was always 100 balls after practice with the two men.

      They'd run every route combination in the Colts offense until they became instinctual. They'd run plays where they'd ad-lib... Harrison would break off his original route and go where there was an opening in the defense and Manning would throw him the ball.

      Manning always knew where Harrison was going to be on the field for every single pass play, even when the pass rush was coming and he had to get rid of the ball fast. Harrison always knew where Manning was going to put the ball when it was coming his way too. And it came his way a lot of the time.

      It's no coincidence that both men broke all kinds of NFL records when they were playing together.

      Most people know what Manning has done in his career to date but what Harrison did was amazing too.

      In a typical NFL season, the vast majority of the NFL wide receivers catch 90 balls or less for the 16 game season. I'd estimate 90% of them are under 90 catches for the year.

      But Marvin Harrison had 90 receptions or more 5 years in a row, including one season (2002) where he set an NFL record of 143 receptions in a season... a record that still stands today. Every single one of those record-setting passes that he caught that year, was thrown to him by his equally hard-working quarterback, Peyton Manning.

      Harrison retired from the NFL in 2009 (I think) but Manning is still playing. At some point, I predict both Manning and Harrison will be enshrined in the Pro Football Hall of Fame... because they are among the elite group of NFL players who were considered the best at what they did. They got there with some natural ability, a lot of heart and a lot of relentless desire.

      Food for thought,

      Mike
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      • Originally Posted by MikeHumphreys View Post

        How do you become the best at anything?

        There's some natural ability (i.e. a 5'3" man probably will never make it in the NBA as a center because he's too short).

        The rest is heart and the relentless desire to keep practicing and honing your skills until someday your peers say that you're one of the best.

        Here's a nice NFL football example for you:

        Early in his career, Peyton Manning started throwing 100 balls after football practice to his teammate, wide receiver Marvin Harrison. Rain or shine... tired or not tired... it didn't matter. It was always 100 balls after practice with the two men.

        They'd run every route combination in the Colts offense until they became instinctual. They'd run plays where they'd ad-lib... Harrison would break off his original route and go where there was an opening in the defense and Manning would throw him the ball.

        Manning always knew where Harrison was going to be on the field for every single pass play, even when the pass rush was coming and he had to get rid of the ball fast. Harrison always knew where Manning was going to put the ball when it was coming his way too. And it came his way a lot of the time.

        It's no coincidence that both men broke all kinds of NFL records when they were playing together.

        Most people know what Manning has done in his career to date but what Harrison did was amazing too.

        In a typical NFL season, the vast majority of the NFL wide receivers catch 90 balls or less for the 16 game season. I'd estimate 90% of them are under 90 catches for the year.

        But Marvin Harrison had 90 receptions or more 5 years in a row, including one season (2002) where he set an NFL record of 143 receptions in a season... a record that still stands today. Every single one of those record-setting passes that he caught that year, was thrown to him by his equally hard-working quarterback, Peyton Manning.

        Harrison retired from the NFL in 2009 (I think) but Manning is still playing. At some point, I predict both Manning and Harrison will be enshrined in the Pro Football Hall of Fame... because they are among the elite group of NFL players who were considered the best at what they did. They got there with some natural ability, a lot of heart and a lot of relentless desire.

        Food for thought,

        Mike

        Mike, that's awesome. Thanks for the share.



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        • Profile picture of the author ewenmack
          Harlan has mentioned the benefits of being mentored in the past.

          What I see very little written about here, is studying split test results.
          Specifically web split tests and multi variate ones.

          Online it's easy to get these experiments for free.

          With direct mail, those were mostly kept within a company.

          The biggest library of these online tests are over at marketingexperiments.com
          They give the reasons why the tests were done and their learnings from them.

          This is a great field to work in,
          if you are a testing and numbers freak.

          You get to work on existing high performing websites
          and carry out tweaks which may make a BIG difference.

          It's got to the stage it has become a science,
          not random acts of inspiration.

          Having a high certainty of your actions
          turning into gold, gives you super powers over lesser mortals.

          Best,
          Ewen
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  • Profile picture of the author max5ty
    My son, if you wish to be the best, consider and learn from the following tale.

    Two young peasants both yearned to be the best copywriter in all the Kingdom...

    ...they sought the advice of a Grand Wizard in their village by the name of Marcus.

    He advised them of the path to follow.

    Excited, both peasants began their long journey...

    ...they traveled across the vast, hot, sun drenched desert for many days until they reached the castle of the copywriting gods.

    Upon arriving at the castle, both peasants were given a golden script that told them all the secrets -- secrets from the great gods like Ogilvy, Schwab, Makepeace and Bencivenga.

    Both peasants spent weeks reading the script and learning every precept that was written therein.

    Soon they both had mastered the secrets.

    One peaseant, excited about all he had learned, climbed up and sat on the castle wall...he began to brag about his new found knowledge.

    Soon all the villagers gathered around to witness his loud bragging.

    Tired of listening to the young peasants bragging, they began to throw sticks and stones...

    ...the young peasant fell from the wall and broke into many pieces. All the kings horses and all the kings men couldn't put peasant Humpty Dumpty back together again.

    The other young lad used his new found knowledge for a much better purpose.

    He wrote great sales pieces, offering products that helped the sick...ways to get wealthy to the poor...hope to those looking for a better way...

    He was admired by all the villagers. He had used his knowledge to bring them something they needed...he became the best in their eyes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Internetoholic
    It's simple.

    I don't need to show i'm the best. I am the best doing what I like. When you stop thinking about the money and fully concentrate on your work you are giving your 120% energy and you just realise that money are coming without 'working'.
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