Starting a new website...Need help PLEASE!

Hello...

This is my first post....

I've been selling on eBay now for 5 years...

It was going well, but I was importing my items from China and finally I said "enough with that"...not shipping goods to me on time high cost of shipping etc....

So I decided to have my own website built and get items dropped shipped...

Simple idea/concept....

Found a site to build website and drop ship products and had items populated to the website...

over 120,000 items available from drop ship companies....

So far...so good....in theory anyway.....

Then the "back end" or "administration" of the website kicked in, as well as obviously trying to get my website up and running and moved higher on Google as well as other search engines....

Then reality kicked in....

I'm fairly good on the computers....or so I thought....did all my listings, pictures text/copy for ebay and started selling and making some decent $$$

Now I am finding over the past several weeks, I am in WAY OVER MY HEAD here as getting this website up and running properly...

Meta tags

site maps

then processing through Google to max my exposure there....

Then my situation is even more complicated...

This selling online isn't just something to do in my spare time but something that MUST be done and accomplished well...

My situation is this...

*** I live in rural TN and jobs aren't all that plentiful....

***In my previous occupation I did well until a rare & serious illness almost killed me. CIDP....(think MS, Polio ALS)...and it took me 4 years to get somewhat back to normal...out of bed wheelchair and walking again.

***Wife 2 years ago hurt her back and can no longer work...

So selling online is about my only option....

So I really really need to get this working well...

So I am trying to see if I can find someone who can help me get my new website up and running well.

I also want to drop ship items from my eBay site rather than importing and stocking items....

So I'm looking to see if I can find someone who can guide me, give me suggestions etc to make this work.

Thanks

Steve