I'd never been this desperate before.....

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Hi guys. I'm not another of those old, middle aged guy with huge debt to pay. However, like them, i'm totally desperate to make money in a shortest time possible. Why? Let me introduce myself.

I'm only 21 years old and extremely healthy. I can climb the mountain faster than most of the people here. However, i've a major speech problem that make it hard for me to communicate with people VERBALLY. And because of that, i'm always subjected to unfair treatment by my colleauges and bosses due to inexpressiveness. I really wouldn't mind that at all if i do not have thoughts of living big one day, owning my own house, my own car and provide the best for my parents. But because i DREAMT and YEARNED that one day my wish would come true and the fact that it's TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE at the current state. And because of current recession, my dad lost his job and mum is the sole breadwinner. Our financial status is still stable but mum has been really emotional losing her temper everyday and it really pains my heart as the family seems to be falling apart. I know i'm still considered lucky as there's still food/clothes and shelter unlike MANY others out there that are badly hit by recession. But the main problem is i YEARN for success but yet have NO ABILITY to do so... and that's very mental torturing..

And it's really shameful to post this kind post even though no one know who i'm in real life as i'm behind the screen. But i've basically tried my best. I bought a total of $700+ of WSO, refunded 300+ over the past months. Tried many methods, spent $80 on PPV at clicksor, got banned at mturks.com, tried domain flipping and earned $72 on revenueloop after more than $200 bucks invested. That's total of around $600 spent(including the WSOs) and earning $72 bucks which is blackhat profit and thus my mturks account got banned. And this is the reason why i'm posting here as i'm not about to give up, no matter how shameful it is.

I'm looking for ANYONE that can give me a 1 to 1 coaching. I'm earning $800SGD which is around $500USD after conversion.(serving the army) After deducting bus fare, i'm still left with $400USD per month. I eat at home so there's no issue for food. I'm willing to fork out everything. $400USD per month for a Coach. Someone that can really help and not sell me WSO, advice, ideas anymore. For every dollar earned, i can pay you back. Say if i get a $20 sales, i would immediately pay you back $20 as long as your method works. I can pay up to $50 upfront to you as long as i get a guaranteed that i would start making money.

If you are from Singapore, i could also meet you up too everyday after work(7pm - 11pm). I'm just too desperate and my ego to be rich doesnt help. I really hope you could feel my seriousness in this post and understand that i would give in more than 100% to make things work if you are willing to coach me.


Regard,
forfun_cash
#desperate
  • Profile picture of the author rosetrees
    Hi forfun. I can't help you with coaching as I'm still learning myself.

    Don't give up. You have the desire to succeed and that goes a long way.

    I know others will disagree with this - but I don't think buying loads of WSOs is the way to go. You need to experiment to find what works for you.

    Have you tried article writing? Although you have speech difficulties you can certainly express yourself eloquently in writing. If you are able to back that up with in-depth research I'm sure you would find yourself in demand,

    Try posting in Warriors for Hire. Perhaps offer to write some articles for free to get feedback and a reputation.

    Good luck
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    • Profile picture of the author forfun_cash
      Originally Posted by rosetrees View Post

      Hi forfun. I can't help you with coaching as I'm still learning myself.

      Don't give up. You have the desire to succeed and that goes a long way.

      I know others will disagree with this - but I don't think buying loads of WSOs is the way to go. You need to experiment to find what works for you.

      Have you tried article writing? Although you have speech difficulties you can certainly express yourself eloquently in writing. If you are able to back that up with in-depth research I'm sure you would find yourself in demand,

      Try posting in Warriors for Hire. Perhaps offer to write some articles for free to get feedback and a reputation.

      Good luck
      Nope article writing is not for me as english is not my first language. I agree that buying loads of WSOs is not the way to go. However, i've tried a few of them and it didnt work out. I'm confused whether they just wont work or i'm doing something wrong. I feel that with an experienced mentor, he can POINT OUT what can and cannot work or what i'm am or am not doing wrong.

      Regards.
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      • Profile picture of the author rosetrees
        Originally Posted by forfun_cash View Post

        Nope article writing is not for me as english is not my first language.
        Don't underestimate yourself. Your English is excellent.
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  • Profile picture of the author GoGetta
    forfun_cash,

    The first thing that hits me here is that it seems you have attempted just about everything to try and make money. Doing this will only hinder your process to make money online.

    If you have bought $700 worth of WSOs and other products I am assuming you know your way around in IM a little now. This meaning, you don't necessarily need a coach. Many think a coach is a quick step to success but it really isn't. It can certainly help, dont get me wrong, but you can do this yourself.

    All you need to do is focus on 1 area and 1 area only! Whether that be affiliate marketing, CPA, blogging, site flipping? Its up to you. But focusing on one area will yeald great results because you will become better and better in one area. Trying your hand at everything will leave you feeling despondent and washed out (kinda like you are probably feeling right now!)

    Pick something, get a plan of action together, whether thaat be your own plan or a product plan and stick to it to the bitter end and you will start seeing results!

    You have the ability and it seems drive to get up and make things happen, so you can do this yourself for free or alternatively use the money you earn on your IM project!

    As warriors I am sure many will help you and offer different advice to mine but thats my 2 cents! You got the minerals, just focus and put it to work on one thing!

    GoGetta
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    • Profile picture of the author forfun_cash
      Thanks for your time and advice gogetta.

      As replied above, I'm confused whether the methods i choose just wont work or i'm doing something wrong. I feel that with an experienced mentor, he can POINT OUT what can and cannot work or what i'm am or am not doing wrong. Because i'm afraid i might waste lotsa time doing the wrong thing. A mentor would shorten the learning curve imo.

      Regards.

      Originally Posted by GoGetta View Post

      forfun_cash,

      The first thing that hits me here is that it seems you have attempted just about everything to try and make money. Doing this will only hinder your process to make money online.

      If you have bought $700 worth of WSOs and other products I am assuming you know your way around in IM a little now. This meaning, you don't necessarily need a coach. Many think a coach is a quick step to success but it really isn't. It can certainly help, dont get me wrong, but you can do this yourself.

      All you need to do is focus on 1 area and 1 area only! Whether that be affiliate marketing, CPA, blogging, site flipping? Its up to you. But focusing on one area will yeald great results because you will become better and better in one area. Trying your hand at everything will leave you feeling despondent and washed out (kinda like you are probably feeling right now!)

      Pick something, get a plan of action together, whether thaat be your own plan or a product plan and stick to it to the bitter end and you will start seeing results!

      You have the ability and it seems drive to get up and make things happen, so you can do this yourself for free or alternatively use the money you earn on your IM project!

      As warriors I am sure many will help you and offer different advice to mine but thats my 2 cents! You got the minerals, just focus and put it to work on one thing!

      GoGetta
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      WSO: I PROMISE/GUARANTEE you that this will be the LAST WSO you will ever need to purchase!

      Here's the thing. The above may seem too good to be true but all I can say is there isn't even 1% hype or BS in the above sentence. This WILL BE YOUR LAST WSO to purchase.
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  • Profile picture of the author dsmpublishing
    Have you tried twitter - i know many that make a living on there just with affiliate products, dont need to write articles or blog post and get to chat and make friends at the same time.

    I hope you find something soon that helps you out of your hole.

    kind regards


    sam
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  • Profile picture of the author whoismarktaylor
    I was unsure of whether or not to post. But here goes....

    Forfun (i detect a little irony coming), your obviously not having fun!

    Take a little encouragment from the fact that you are not on your own, probably everyone on this forum has at some time felt frustrated confused and a little lost.
    If you are spreading yourself thin i.e. your blogging, adsense, article writing, affiliate marketing, seo, product creation and the list goes on, then im not suprised your feeling washed out overloaded and generally reaching out for some guidance!

    It does take time patience and discipline to build the skills you need and a 1 on 1 coach will shorten the curve immensley, however that will come at a price!.

    Identify what you are looking to achieve, spend some time finding the market you want to work in. Research the niche you have chosen and determine whether or not there is currently products and advertisers in that market. If all the boxes are ticked (make sure your not going after a super high competitive niche) then decide on the one method of driving traffic that suit's your style! Stick to that one method ...for now.

    All you need is one way of driving traffic to a page that converts...... test......evaluate......tinker......test......eval uate......tinker.......test......

    Once you have a page that is converting you are on your way.......

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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    Hi forfun,

    You said:

    Originally Posted by forfun_cash View Post

    And because of current recession, my dad lost his job and mum is the sole breadwinner. Our financial status is still stable but mum has been really emotional losing her temper everyday and it really pains my heart as the family seems to be falling apart.

    And you said:

    I'm earning $800SGD which is around $500USD after conversion.(serving the army) After deducting bus fare, i'm still left with $400USD per month. I eat at home so there's no issue for food.
    Here's what I think (and I know this isn't what you asked)...

    But your mom sounds like she's on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Certainly she's under a tremendous amount of stress. And as you said, it seems your family is falling part.

    Then you mention how much you're earning and how much you have left over after bus fare. So, it would seem that you're not contributing to the household at all, not even paying for the food you're eating.

    So first things first: Start contributing to the household before your mom cracks under the pressure.


    I know, I know... you want to contribute by making it big so you can take care of your family. But you really need to start contributing something today, especially since you've mentioned how you have $400 left over every month.



    Second, your main problem seems to be a lack of focus (that and buying everything, mostly stuff you don't need). You need to choose ONE thing and stick to it. You don't even need to run out and buy every ebook or WSO on the subject. You can learn plenty from this forum and ask questions to fill in what you can't find.

    IMHO,
    Becky

    P.S. Don't look for the quickest way to big riches, forget the BH methods, etc. Stick with the tried and true... like choosing a niche, building a list and selling affiliate products to the list while you simultaneously create your own products.
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  • Profile picture of the author gacott
    forfun_cash

    Probably not exactly what you are looking for but I can probably help you get started in one area. I'm willing to one on one you through that.

    Just PM me.

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  • Profile picture of the author JAIDEEP2959
    Originally Posted by forfun_cash View Post

    Hi guys.

    And because of current recession, my dad lost his job and mum is the sole breadwinner. Our financial status is still stable but mum has been really emotional losing her temper everyday and it really pains my heart as the family seems to be falling apart. I know i'm still considered lucky as there's still food/clothes and shelter unlike MANY others out there that are badly hit by recession. But the main problem is i YEARN for success but yet have NO ABILITY to do so... and that's very mental torturing..

    Regard,
    forfun_cash
    I am giving you my ebook about Ebay secret money making method free by PM and will give you free coaching regarding that method until you start making money.

    Don't worry.
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    • Profile picture of the author Martin Avis
      Listen to Auntie Becky. She knows what she is talking about.

      Start helping your mother out right away. You don't need $400 to make it in Internet marketing. Hell, you don't even need $50. Give her a decent amount and know that you are doing your part to keep your family togehter.

      Stop buying WSOs. Most of them are not for newbies anyway.

      Stop beating yourself up because a few things you've tried haven't worked. The mark of a successful marketer is that we have tried everything - and most of it doesn't work! Not for us, anyway. Lack of success with any particular method just means that the method isn't suitable for you.

      So look at yourself and decide what does suit you.

      There is enough free information on the Warrior Forum to give you ten new ideas a day. use it and them. See what excites you - YOU.

      Forget mentors. You might strike it lucky and find someone who can help you, but more likely you - and the mentor - will end up frustrated.

      Everyting you need to succeed is in your head or on this forum. Dig it out.

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  • Profile picture of the author elaine drennan
    Hello Forfun,

    Your ability to communicate through words more than makes up for your speech impediment and will be a great strength to you as an internet marketer.

    I can understand your desperation to make a better life for your family - fast. The thing is, learning how to make money online is a process which takes TIME and effort.

    Internet Marketing involves learning new skills, one after the other. Start at the beginning. The first step is to decide what your niche is going to be. You then need to starting building a list of suscribers. To do this you will need a Squeeze page and a product that you can offer FREE.

    Start thinking about this - it will give you plenty to be going on with for now...

    And as others have said - give your Mom support in LITTLE ways first - that will mean so much more to her than you throwing away good money on get rich quick schemes.

    I wish you all the very best - keep in touch - we'll all support you
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  • Profile picture of the author Tom Brite
    I was very interested in coaching you one to one until you said that you were not interested in article writing.

    You english is better than alot of peoples here and the main thing is everyone can understand you fully. You are even using some english words that i suspect many people here don't even understand.

    So if you are interested in working hard and article writing (wont be that much of it) then i am more than happy to work with you one on one and we can sort out a payment plan.

    Let me know.

    Tom Brite
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  • Profile picture of the author sf_Imtiaz
    I agree with rosetrees, alexa_s and Tom Brite, you shouldn't underestimate yourself. English isn't my first language as well yet i have earned my fair share through article marketing. It's obvious that you can express yourself quite fine through writing so why not use your abilities to make some money. It will take some time till you start to see some significant results so it's gonna take some persistence on your part and one strange thing about earning online is that you don't exactly believe in it unless you see it happening for yourself.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mangozoom
    I really like GoGetta's advice ... sticking at it and focussing on one thing is in my opinion the way forward. Make sure you are clear the method is working for others of course and then go for it.

    You seem articulate and able to put together good copy ... just looking at your post. With this in mind the whole blogging and/or minisite method might be your bag.

    Personally I create simple low tech sites with well researched keywords and get very good results ... earning good money EVERY DAY.

    All the best to you

    John
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