You have to...
Believe in yourself.
Improve upon your past experiences.
No one will do it for you.
I could go on and on here, but I don't want to over complicate things.
PS Thanks to Kung Fu Panda for giving to idea for this post months ago. I hope it helps someone.
Some people will look at this short and sweet post and think "what a waste... hooked in by a headline and all I got was this silly post", but they are just missing the point. This post wasn't for you, I guess, it was for the person sitting behind their desk wondering what they are doing wrong or why they are struggling... that needed a short little bit of help in the right direction.
Also, this isn't about being selfish or self-centered - it is about having a little faith in yourself and applying it!
PPS Okay, still don't get it? Geez... watch Kung Fu Panda and wait for the ah-ha moment, then maybe you will.
PPPS Yes, I know it is weird to go to an animated movie and pick up IM lessons. I see them everywhere. Groceries stores, fast food restaurants, etc. Though, this isn't really just an IM lesson... it is a life lesson... you can apply it to any area of your life.
Thus ends the lesson.