Do I need a coach to truly succeed?

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Hey everyone!

Ive marketing since August of 2014 and made roughly $500 online... But I've invested nearly $1000. (Sad times haha)

I keep reading that the best way to find success online is to get a coach.

The problem is, I'm only 18 years old and at college. I don't have a ton of money to invest to hire a coach.

I have a product launch next month and if everything goes to plan, I could invest $2000 in a coach.

Is there any coaches out there that charge less than $2000? I really want to tinvest the time to give myself a successful future and learn more about this wonderful industry!

Thank you.
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  • Profile picture of the author lgibbon
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    Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post


    I keep reading that the best way to find success online is to get a coach.
    But it's the coaches that write that sort of thing.
    Save your money. Don't become another victim.
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  • Profile picture of the author Zodiax
    If it's a good coach it will cost much more than $2000.

    But, that's a lot of money to spend if you have it. Why not use that money to build a list of 5000 people....
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  • Profile picture of the author PaulSmurphyy7
    Thanks for the replies!

    I just feel like I'm getting no where and having someone that has already found success to help me, would get me to where I want to be much quicker.

    I don't know, I guess I'm just 'stuck' at the minute.

    I will keep working my ass off though!
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  • Profile picture of the author Terry Hinton
    I also know where you are coming from and I to worked very hard and seemed to get no where. I finally realized my problem. It was not about working hard, it was about focus. That is where a coach comes into play. Now I am not talking about all coaches. I had a couple of them also that were not that helpful. But now that I found a good one, and yes it cost money , but I am focussed and getting somewhere. One of the first things I was asked to do is drop all of what I was going in circles doing and focus on the one thing being thought for 60 days and I would see success. That is what I am doing now and I feel much more productive.
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  • Profile picture of the author iAmNameLess
    I personally don't believe someone should ever get a "coach" until they're already succeeding.

    In business, you have multiple mentors along the way, in many different areas. You don't start off with those mentors, they kind of just fall into your life as you build your own experience.

    The same applies with coaching, there are a lot of things that you would need to already have setup and experienced before seeing any benefit from a coach. You can also tell who is legitimate and who isn't once you have a certain level of experience.
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  • Profile picture of the author DavidAllenNeron
    I don't think it's necessary if you have enough time to learn yourself and find the information you need to succeed.

    Sometimes a coach can be the right direction because they can help you with the steps necessary to meet your goals, they've been there, done that, type of thing.

    It reminds me of a great story:

    There is an old story of a boilermaker who was hired to fix a huge steamship boiler system that was not working well.After listening to the engineer’s description of the problems and asking a few questions, he went to the boiler room. He looked at the maze of twisting pipes, listened to the thump of the boiler and the hiss of the escaping steam for a few minutes, and felt some pipes with his hands. Then he hummed softly to himself, reached into his overalls and took out a small hammer, and tapped a bright red valve one time. Immediately, the entire system began working perfectly, and the boilermaker went home.
    When the steamship owner received a bill for one thousand dollars, he became outraged and complained that the boilermaker had only been in the engine room for fifteen minutes and requested an itemized bill. So the boilermaker sent him a bill that reads as follows:
    For tapping the valve: $.50
    For knowing where to tap: $999.50
    TOTAL: $1,000.00”
    At the end of the day, education will most likely help you to find-a-job, while education combined with {insight x creativity} will enable you to define your future.
    Point-to-remember: Lots of folks can & do “tap the valve” – very few know precisely where to tap & why. Be that tapper.
    As for finding a coach that charges less than $2,000; I think all you have to do is reach out to the coaches of your choice and talk to them, let them know what you want to do, and see if they can help.
    I know myself, I'm here to help so I make deals with people for coaching especially if they're already pretty savvy and just need a bit of direction and done-for-you services.

    As for some of the replies about coaches.

    There's a reason why consulting and coaching is a billion dollar industry, because there's a definite need for it in the market.
    Coaches and Consultants are a different type of person, they enjoy helping others using their experience and knowledge, often coaches and consultants are better at helping others than they are at helping themselves because they jump from thing to thing learning as much as they can and when they get a client, they use that drive to get people results, it gives them a direction, a goal, a project they can feel passionate about because of their inner nature to want to help others.

    By the sounds of it, you're going in the right direction. It can be hard to balance school/work and your desires to make money online, because it requires a lot of work and sacrifice. Getting home from school or work; where you spent 8-10 hours only to come home and spend another 8-10 hours working on your goals for online success doesn't leave you much time for socializing, family, hobbies (unless you connect your online goals with your hobbies) and most people give up because they can't handle the sacrifice.

    Don't give up, your hard work IS going to pay off, just keep at it, regardless of getting a coach or not, you know you're missing a step or missing something that's crucial for your success, just find out where you need to tap
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  • Profile picture of the author vikash_kumar
    I believe, You have time to learn and implement some systems to make your first flow of consistent income and then after some specific skills you can hire a coach in the future.

    The major benefit of having a coach is consistency of work and commitment towards a focused action towards a single goal at a time....if you can achieve that by yourself then you can achieve that success by yourself...

    Other than that I agree with above comment that if you have that money with you to invest...then the best investment will be to invest in building a large list
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    • Profile picture of the author DavidAllenNeron
      Originally Posted by vikash_kumar View Post

      I believe, You have time to learn and implement some systems to make your first flow of consistent income and then after some specific skills you can hire a coach in the future.

      The major benefit of having a coach is consistency of work and commitment towards a focused action towards a single goal at a time....if you can achieve that by yourself then you can achieve that success by yourself...

      Other than that I agree with above comment that if you have that money with you to invest...then the best investment will be to invest in building a large list
      I agree with this, and a lot of people will tell you this, but not many people will give you the steps required to building a large list, how to maintain that list, and how to integrate that list building with your overall goals and direction.
      It's merely one facet of the overall game-plan you *should* have.

      A large list is useless if you don't know how to use it.
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      • Profile picture of the author PaulSmurphyy7
        Originally Posted by DavidAllenNeron View Post

        I agree with this, and a lot of people will tell you this, but not many people will give you the steps required to building a large list, how to maintain that list, and how to integrate that list building with your overall goals and direction.
        It's merely one facet of the overall game-plan you *should* have.

        A large list is useless if you don't know how to use it.
        That's why I've felt like I need a coach. I could build a huge list... but I don't know how to maintain the list and keep it profitable.
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  • Profile picture of the author David Keith
    well, there are different types of coaches. many in the MMO market call it coaching and its really essentially just a "buy in fee" to be part of a group that can help you get affiliates and trade testimonials and that sorta stuff. the idea of coaching in the MMO is far different from real world consulting

    personally, i dont really suggest most people spend big money on a coach. I do however think you need to work out what your plan is and run that by some people with more experience than you long before you spend weeks or months implementing such a plan.

    many of us do that sorta stuff for free quite a bit on WF to be honest. some will charge a modest fee for slightly more personalized advice that is directed at your situation and requires more than a few paragraphs of analysis via a forum post.

    i have been around a while, and i can safely say there are very few "coaches" in the MMO market that i would be able to recommend to a relative. (well, a relative i liked anyway...lol)
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    • Profile picture of the author PaulSmurphyy7
      Originally Posted by David Keith View Post

      well, there are different types of coaches. many in the MMO market call it coaching and its really essentially just a "buy in fee" to be part of a group that can help you get affiliates and trade testimonials and that sorta stuff. the idea of coaching in the MMO is far different from real world consulting

      personally, i dont really suggest most people spend big money on a coach. I do however think you need to work out what your plan is and run that by some people with more experience than you long before you spend weeks or months implementing such a plan.

      many of us do that sorta stuff for free quite a bit on WF to be honest. some will charge a modest fee for slightly more personalized advice that is directed at your situation and requires more than a few paragraphs of analysis via a forum post.

      i have been around a while, and i can safely say there are very few "coaches" in the MMO market that i would be able to recommend to a relative. (well, a relative i liked anyway...lol)
      Who are the "coaches" you would recommend??
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      • Profile picture of the author David Keith
        Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post

        Who are the "coaches" you would recommend??
        thats a pretty vague question really...depends on what game you are playing. bill belicheck is probably the best football coach, but i am pretty sure greg popivich could out coach him any day of the week if you were to be playing an NBA game.

        i know you dont fully realize it at this stage, but your question just basically asked who is the best sports coach. which is why i replied with my sarcastic yet informative answer.

        this is another reason why trying to find a coach when you are starting out with little knowledge is a fools game really. you dont know what to ask to get the answers you are looking for and worse than that, in this market, there are plenty of fakes.
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        • Profile picture of the author PaulSmurphyy7
          I would love to get into the solo ad business and I have seen that Igor Khefeits is a huge name when it comes to solo ad coaching. The problem is, I'm pretty sure his coaching costs more than $2,000.

          I know how solo ads work and have bought plenty of them, but being able to make money as I'm building a list is a whole different story.
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  • I not only recommend it, I see it as being NEEDED, if you want to get anywhere online.
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  • Profile picture of the author Steve B
    Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post

    I keep reading that the best way to find success online is to get a coach.

    Paul,

    Rule #1: Don't believe everything you read.

    Do you understand why people in the "make money" market are anxious for every new marketer to jump in with both feet and buy every product and coaching opportunity there is? More money for them!

    Just like some football players couldn't make a basket or swing a golf club to save their lives . . . you need to take advice from someone who is an expert at what you want to learn. Experts are often good in one specialization and they are often not coaches - they're too busy making money in their chosen business model.

    I would look for a marketer that is proven in his/her specialization, get on their mailing list, study their web site, and if they have a product or service that teaches what they are doing - that's what I would buy.

    I think coaches are most helpful once you've found your niche and are experienced enough to ask the right questions. A coach can help you over hurdles and teach you how to scale your business once you've done all the basics.

    If you start from scratch with a coach, you're going to be paying heavily to learn the very basics which are freely available on this forum.

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  • Profile picture of the author Irn7997
    In one word YES coach mentor what ever it takes invest in yourself best money you can spend
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    • Profile picture of the author heavysm
      I think you're the only person who can really answer this. That's a strong self reflective question that we can, like any good coach, guide you toward resolving yourself.

      One of the best scenarios is if you know you can do the work, but you're just unsure of what work to do, then a coach can help guide you.

      But you shouldn't rely on them for all of your knowledge. I just think of them like a teacher in class you can ask questions to personally to get their knowledge directly rather than through an ebook or video.

      Also, need is a very strong word to use. I don't think most people need a coach but many do in order to shortcut the learning curve.
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  • Profile picture of the author PaulSmurphyy7
    Thanks everyone! It's really good to hear everyone's opinion!

    For the past 6 months, I feel like I've learned a ton (I even have a product launch soon). Although I've learned a ton, I'm really struggling to make money consistently. That's all I want. To be able to make money each month COBSISTENTLY. <-my goal
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  • Profile picture of the author SouthSpawn
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    This is exactly why I am creating a product gear towards combining Information Technology and Internet Marketing. Being in the IT world as a software engineer / architect. It has taught me to see the big picture and how to put things together.

    For example: Things like knowing how to put together Use Case Diagrams are critical to any venture that involves technology. Any project is all about vision. Can you put your vision on paper. Then put together a plan to execute that vision. Being on the inside of different companies in an IT role has helped a ton!!!

    Mark
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  • Profile picture of the author Rory Singh
    Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post

    I keep reading that the best way to find success online is to get a coach.
    It's usually the Gurus who want you to believe this kind of stuff.

    Is it really true?

    Well I believe that in order for you to become successful you will need a coach to help you succeed.

    But a coach doesn't necessarily have to be some Guru with extraordinary results that you have to pay and work one on one with.
    • A coach can be a community of like minded entrepreneurs (just like right here on WF).
    • A coach can be a great course that you bought and gives you tremendous value.
    • A coach can be a 'system' that you plug into (that has an awesome community) and teaches you one on one how this industry works and offers some type of curriculum and further knowledge.

    Now with all that said and done, I actually had 3 coaches to date since 2005.

    I didn't pay them some kind of fee but did buy into a biz opp that they were selling.

    The last coach that I encountered turned out to become a good friend. Something that started as a business venture turned out to be a 9 year friendly relationship.

    I still speak to him 'weekly' and he doesn't charge me one cent. However, I do pass up sales to him (and feel 100% great about doing that).

    However, too many new up coming marketers do make the mistake of 'expecting' too much from a coach.

    Most people figure that it's some kind of short cut to success by finding a good coach.

    In truth....

    There is no short cut to your success.

    You will have to work your ass off (especially in the beginning) just to start getting momentum in your business.

    You will also have to learn by trial and error. This will cost you time and money. It is inevitable.

    But you already managed to make $500. Yes it did cost you double but you still managed to get some kind of return.

    Good for you!

    Some people who don't understand IM would think that is some kind of failure.

    But it really isn't.

    If you probably made a few 'tweaks' in what ever you did, maybe you could have 'tripled' your ad spend in profit.
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  • Profile picture of the author yukon
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    Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post

    Hey everyone!

    Ive marketing since August of 2014 and made roughly $500 online... But I've invested nearly $1000. (Sad times haha)

    I keep reading that the best way to find success online is to get a coach.

    The problem is, I'm only 18 years old and at college. I don't have a ton of money to invest to hire a coach.

    I have a product launch next month and if everything goes to plan, I could invest $2000 in a coach.

    Is there any coaches out there that charge less than $2000? I really want to tinvest the time to give myself a successful future and learn more about this wonderful industry!

    Thank you.
    If you can't make money on your own, your not going to get far with IM. Your in the hole $500 already, adding $2,000 more is just digging deeper.

    Focus on learning how to generate targeted traffic, that's the key to online success.
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  • Paul,

    Originally Posted by PaulSmurphyy7 View Post

    and made roughly $500 online... But I've invested nearly $1000.
    No, I don't think you need a coach. Based on what you said, I think you can on your own find and test out the answers to the following questions:

    • What did you exactly do to invest $1,000 and earn $500? Identify all relevant inputs, its moving parts to process those inputs, and everything else that has significant effects to its output ...

    • Are there ways where you can lower your $1,000 investment down to say at least $400, and still potentially earn $500 gross? An idea is to cut down your investment overheads by finding and testing more inexpensive suppliers of services and materials and everything else involved in that investment ...

    • Are there ways where you could possibly earn more profits from the same investment? Perhaps find other markets that'd willingly buy whatever you're selling at higher prices once you re-package whatever you're selling in the right ways for those new markets, sell other things to the same people who bought whatever you're selling, sell whatever you're selling now at higher prices to the same market by re-packaging it, etc.

    • After you test out those ways, what do your results show? If your results are good enough to turn a significant profit, then can you repeat those ways that generate the results you want multiple times across the same industry, or throughout different industries? Can you scale up those results by doubling your investment so as to potentially double your profits?
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  • Profile picture of the author hilear
    Some people like coaching, some not.
    Some coaches are great, some not.
    Some are very expensive but they do not have to be.

    Some people have success without it, a lot do not!

    You have had some success already so you have a lot going for you. But sometimes to get to the next level it is great to work with someone that has made the journey. You can benefit from their experience and contacts. You can also condense time frames. Personally coaching has been one of the best things I have done. It is great to really work with someone that knows their craft, someone that has your back and you can go to with your specific questions.

    If you are going that route start looking at the coaches who are advertising on the WF. See who you resonate with. Do you like their methods? Are they reputable? Have they been around a while and stood the test of time?

    Then ask questions. What exactly does their coaching program consist of? What methods are they going to cover? Is it structured? Do they have a plan? or are they just their to answer email? Ask until you are satisfied and never spend more than you are comfortable spending!
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  • Profile picture of the author NeedBucksNow
    Anything you want to find out about marketing you could probably find in the forum or on Google for free... If you had $2000 to invest, I would recommend using at least half on Facebook or Bing ads and keep tweaking your ads until you are making twice what you are spending. Sounds like traffic is your biggest problem right now and if you have already made $500 it at least sounds like you are on the right track. I have been using YouTube and social media quite a bit myself and if you can make some good videos they are a great way to get a ton of traffic and great backlinks as well. I have made 70 videos so far and would one day like to have a 1000 or so and this sounds like a great plan for you too. The best part is you can make money from placing ads on them as well
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    • Profile picture of the author More Than Tips
      I have had coaches that did not know they were. mostly because I was following exactly what they were doing not so much what they were saying to do.
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  • Profile picture of the author markbeno
    Everybody needs a coach / mentor at some point.

    Who that is and what they know you will have to do your research

    A good coach will cut through all the BS and give you a positive direction.

    Just my take.

    MB
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