WP 2.8.4 & Flexibilty2 theme.wheres the upload images tab

Just started out using Flexsqueeze2 theme and downloaded Wordpress 2.8.2 yesterday and infact this is my first blog so i`m very much new to all HTML and really need to learn quick,

But i`ve watched the tutorial videos and i want to change the images on the home page that is set with the theme but on the video it says go to Theme options then click on download images but in my Theme options i dont have any `download image` tab ??

It must be a different version also because all the options run down the page and a few of the options i see on the tutorial video are missing like squeeze page and something else it looks different than the one on the video can anybody help ?

As i say i`ve just started out and have so many questions ..Can i also ask if i can make this image on the home page `clickable` direct to the selling page or not ???

Aso just one more question and i add a image to the Header ?? Where it says the name of the blog can i put a image on the righthand side ???

Thanks for anybody that helps me i really appreciate all the help i can get right now..

Jim