How to Write Conversationally

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Writing conversationally is a skill that has to be learned and the first step is to unlearn everything that you've been taught in high school.

As a writer, you want to appear intelligent, literate and well versed in grammar, however writing conversationally requires an additional level of writing expertise for digital marketers and marketing professionals in general.

When writing conversationally, there are a few ways you can make your content stand out to attract your target market.

We're put together our top tips for developing a conversational writing style that engages with your reader and ensures your marketing message is delivered to your target audience:

Write as if you're speaking
This may be obvious but it's not as easy as it first appears. There are a couple of ways you can put this into action starting with reading back over some old emails. Flip through emails that you've sent to your friends, the style is usually more informal and because of the potential to receive a reply straight away with email, they're often written as if you're having a conversation. Keep this style of writing in mind when planning your written content, just like you're talking to your buddy.

Understand your topic
It's vital that you do your research. As a writer, there is no way you can explain a subject informally if you don't understand it. Paraphrasing from documents will lack your natural personality and will be unappealing to your reader.

Make it personal
When engaging readers with your writing, it's important that they feel like they're the only one in the room. If you sound like you're addressing the masses, they will get that vibe too and won't pay too much attention to the content you've tried so hard to create. If it is a document for locals, mention the weather or recent events that have appeared in the community. If your writing is going further afield, refer to a recent interaction they may have had to ensure your intended reader feels like your words are meant for their eyes only.

Avoid jargon
Breaking technical terms down into everyday language will mean you'll be more likely to hold the attention of the reader for longer. If you're unsure, read back what you've written out loud or record it on your phone if necessary. Recording and listing back to your writing will provide an insight into what you sound like to your reader, if you're bored, there's a good chance your reader will be too!

Add your personality
Use personal anecdotes and experiences in your writing so that your readers get to know you. Reading about a subject is often necessary, but anything that stirs up emotions or empathy will stay in the reader's mind and will make your content much more effective.

The Internet can be a shallow place so the more the person on the other side of the screen feels like they're involved in a conversation, the better your engagement and response rate will be.
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  • Profile picture of the author discrat
    Good stuff, Dan.

    This is definitely my type of Writing . The Conversationalist part that is. It really makes it simple and relatively easy just to speak out loud like your buddy is in the room when writing an Email or Blog Post.

    Practice enough and it becomes second nature and you just do not even have to do this


    - Robert Andrew
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  • Profile picture of the author DABK
    I disagree with the write-like-you're speaking part. You do that, you get boring very fast.

    Really, try it. Record yourself speaking; then have that typed up. Then read it.

    It doesn't work.

    For some people, their speaking style is advanced English literature level while their writing style is 8th grade grammar with 10th grade words.

    Just my experience.

    Originally Posted by dansilvestre View Post

    Writing conversationally is a skill that has to be learned and the first step is to unlearn everything that you've been taught in high school.

    As a writer, you want to appear intelligent, literate and well versed in grammar, however writing conversationally requires an additional level of writing expertise for digital marketers and marketing professionals in general.

    When writing conversationally, there are a few ways you can make your content stand out to attract your target market.

    We're put together our top tips for developing a conversational writing style that engages with your reader and ensures your marketing message is delivered to your target audience:

    Write as if you're speaking
    This may be obvious but it's not as easy as it first appears. There are a couple of ways you can put this into action starting with reading back over some old emails. Flip through emails that you've sent to your friends, the style is usually more informal and because of the potential to receive a reply straight away with email, they're often written as if you're having a conversation. Keep this style of writing in mind when planning your written content, just like you're talking to your buddy.

    Understand your topic
    It's vital that you do your research. As a writer, there is no way you can explain a subject informally if you don't understand it. Paraphrasing from documents will lack your natural personality and will be unappealing to your reader.

    Make it personal
    When engaging readers with your writing, it's important that they feel like they're the only one in the room. If you sound like you're addressing the masses, they will get that vibe too and won't pay too much attention to the content you've tried so hard to create. If it is a document for locals, mention the weather or recent events that have appeared in the community. If your writing is going further afield, refer to a recent interaction they may have had to ensure your intended reader feels like your words are meant for their eyes only.

    Avoid jargon
    Breaking technical terms down into everyday language will mean you'll be more likely to hold the attention of the reader for longer. If you're unsure, read back what you've written out loud or record it on your phone if necessary. Recording and listing back to your writing will provide an insight into what you sound like to your reader, if you're bored, there's a good chance your reader will be too!

    Add your personality
    Use personal anecdotes and experiences in your writing so that your readers get to know you. Reading about a subject is often necessary, but anything that stirs up emotions or empathy will stay in the reader's mind and will make your content much more effective.

    The Internet can be a shallow place so the more the person on the other side of the screen feels like they're involved in a conversation, the better your engagement and response rate will be.
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    • Profile picture of the author DABK
      What a polite spammer!

      Originally Posted by jacobthomasvillanueva View Post

      You create very good threads. I read some of your other threads. They are very helpful. Thanks for sharing them. Do you have any site where I can find all of your posts?
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    • Profile picture of the author dansilvestre
      Originally Posted by jacobthomasvillanueva View Post

      You create very good threads. I read some of your other threads. They are very helpful. Thanks for sharing them. Do you have any site where I can find all of your posts?
      You are on it

      Thanks for the kind words.
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  • Profile picture of the author Profit Traveler
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    I agree another great thread.

    For me it is exactly the opposite. I am a natural at typing the way I speak but then I have to go back and make sure I am not all over the place in my thoughts and not assuming the reader will pick up on the transfer of my thoughts to paper.

    A great post to share.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sven300
    Good thread. I will add this:

    Read the book of Dale Carnegie: "How to Win Friends and Influence People". This book has sold 40 million copies.

    It is a masterpiece in the art of writing in a conversational manner.

    Although I first write in French (my websites are then translated into English), I constantly try to imitate the way of writing of Dale Carnegie. And it works very well.
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  • Profile picture of the author MrWhistler
    This is one skill i know I need to learn. Thanks so much for the insight.
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