Using your real name online - Yay or nay?

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Hello fellow warriors.

I operate an offline business, write articles pertaining to that industry and put my real name on it. I rather not have my name tied to my online activities as they don't really have anything to do with each other.

I know I can for articles but can I set up autoresponders using a pen name? Do you guys always use your real names? Discuss...
#nay #online #real #yay
  • Profile picture of the author jiminic2
    I use my real name on Twitter and Facebook; but that's about it.
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  • Profile picture of the author David
    Google my name, you tell me if it's a good idea or not

    Mind you I'm in the publicity business so of course it's a requirement for me:
    I do local SEO=> if you can't find me, I've not done my job.

    Google

    I've got some pretty famous ancestors who I share this name with...
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  • Profile picture of the author Jaysmyne
    Depends on the situation, I generally keep my real name off of certain things but if I am working with someone and know someone I just give them my real name for work, especially since those dealing with me financially will see it on my paypal account.
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  • Profile picture of the author FriendlyRob
    To be honest, I'm not sure why not. I use my real name for everything, except here obviously only because I was asked to choose a user name.

    But that aside, I'm proud to have my name associated with my work.

    Unless I'm missing the point here.
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    • Profile picture of the author sarafina
      To clarify the point:

      Lets say you are a real estate agent offline and you also do article marketing where you're pumping out articles for yeast infections. Somebody who googles you and see's ebooks and the like on a subject other than your expertise, would probably be turned off. It certainly can't help.

      This is just an example. Unless you are in IM or SEO or making a living focused online, there are several instances where being tied to IM may not help your offline career.

      That is why I want to know...real name online..yay or nay?
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      • Profile picture of the author FriendlyRob
        Originally Posted by sarafina View Post

        To clarify the point:

        Lets say you are a real estate agent offline and you also do article marketing where you're pumping out articles for yeast infections. Somebody who googles you and see's ebooks and the like on a subject other than your expertise, would probably be turned off. It certainly can't help.
        Ok, I didn't realize you lead a double life as a real estate agent, yes that changes things a bit. In that case then I would consider some kind of variation on your real name.
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      • Profile picture of the author David
        Originally Posted by sarafina View Post

        To clarify the point:

        Lets say you are a real estate agent offline and you also do article marketing where you're pumping out articles for yeast infections. Somebody who googles you and see's ebooks and the like on a subject other than your expertise, would probably be turned off. It certainly can't help.

        This is just an example. Unless you are in IM or SEO or making a living focused online, there are several instances where being tied to IM may not help your offline career.

        That is why I want to know...real name online..yay or nay?
        I blog about what some would consider a *touchy* subject:
        substance abuse, PTSD and childhood sex abuse

        For a time I feared my small business brick n mortar clients would freak out to see their blogs on the same blogger profile as a Crack Addiction Recovery blog.

        It turns out no body gives a sh**
        All they want is the results I can very clearly provide for them, they know I've got less than 340 days clean, they know I've got an arrest record.

        Doesn't seem to matter, not at all

        Provide what you say you can provide and I think you'll be fine, it's not the Victorian era any more.

        I even told that story on my Warriorforum blog.

        Rather than my shady past being a hinderance, it's actually a boon.
        whoda thunk it?

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    • Profile picture of the author ozespirit
      I agree with you. By using your own name, you are adding credibility to that name. When people deal online or offline, they want to know they are dealing with a real person so why hide who you are?

      You have actually made me wonder now about trusting people who deal on the internet. Hmmm...are they really who they say they are?
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  • Profile picture of the author mukti
    I currently use an alias other than when I'm transacting. Curious to see how others have done this...
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  • Profile picture of the author designyourlife
    It depends on your personal preferences but if you are an new affiliate trying to promote multiple products, you may want to use a "user" name for each category.
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  • Profile picture of the author MSGeek
    If you are really good at many disconnected thing I noticed it makes it really hard for the people to believe you. I know, most people are not, in which case real name should be ok, but if you are good at, say, two totally different things people sometime won't believe you are good at either. Alias makes you more targeted.

    Also, if you develop a niche site and plan eventually sell it, alias may be a part of an asset. And, of course, those of us who are still on 9 to 5 may not want the employers to find out about their night life. Depends on the job, of course.

    About PayPal and clickbank, that's not completely true. They'll only see it if this is a sole properietorship. Otherwise they see the name of the company.
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  • Profile picture of the author TheDebtEliminator
    Hello Sarah,

    I always use my name with my established niches

    For selling eBooks in different fields a pen name works well

    This situation and need will vary form person to person.
    There is no right or wrong, just what fits the situation best.

    Even changing gender for certain niches could be advantages for increasing sales.

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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    I'd start with assumed names, then brand myself once I knew where I was staking my claim. You don't want to plaster your real name all over (say) yeast infection sites, and then go into some kind of classy niche like public relations. People will dig up your yeast infection sites and post them on message boards, then giggle hysterically.
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  • Profile picture of the author Quentin
    Well I guess it depends if you are running an honest business or not. If you provide good products and services then your real name is asset.

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    • Profile picture of the author MSGeek
      Originally Posted by Quentin View Post

      Well I guess it depends if you are running an honest business or not. If you provide good products and services then your real name is asset.
      Quentin
      A lot of Hollywood stars run an "honest business", why do they use scenic names then?
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  • Profile picture of the author expertcapper
    I use a pen name usually
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  • Profile picture of the author BloggerDownUnder
    Hi - I mix and match depending on my products. I use my real name for business products but pen names for non related products. I also set up pen names with a gmail address to keep things separate.
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  • Profile picture of the author Matthew Iannotti
    Unless you are trying to be deceptive I can't think of how not using your name would be a benefit.

    Ideally, you want to brand yourself and your name and build trust in the marketplace.

    I'd go a step further and would use a picture of yourself as well as your name.

    In addition, if you were to say build a content blog filled with nothing but plr articles, scraped content and such and were to use it just for perhaps adsense/CPA/clickbank products than I could see not using your real name if any name at all..

    Good luck..
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  • Profile picture of the author ahlexis
    In some industries there is something called moral turpitude. So it stands to reason, you would not necessarily want to be a teacher who was also an expert on drug abuse from past usage, even though your intentions might be honest and even though you might be sharing your story to help students choose a different path. (And no, I'm not that teacher ) For instance, in using the name A. N. Roquelaure, it was most likely the subject matter written about that caused Anne Rice to use it. Now there's one instance where the writer understood branding!

    And with all this "company doesn't like your blog so you're fired" stuff I've read lately, maybe a pen name is not such a bad idea. It's your life and your choice. My only advise is, sit down and write out a plan before just using an online persona, whether your real name or a pen name. Otherwise life just might get a bit confusing somewhere down the road.

    P.S. Michael Keaton's real name? Michael Douglas. He couldn't use it because SAG already had a Michael Douglas listed! Michael Douglas' real name? (I don't remember it, but it wasn't Michael Douglas.) And Martin Sheen's real name would have likely kept him from getting good work when he started his career. My point? Why does it matter about the name you use? Just go do good work and be consistent under the name you use!
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  • Profile picture of the author TimTyus
    always use my first and last name always. But I think you can use any name you want. Why would you not want your name on something you did?
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  • there are many marketers that use pen names in each and every niche they sell in. i feel its a good thing. the main reason marketers do this is to keep people off their trail from finding out everything that they are doing in the market
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  • I dont like using my real name as I don't want people googleing me, finding my personal facebook page (which contains photos of my family and my house), etc. My opinion? it's best to separate personal life and business life, and the only way to do that on the net is by using pen names.
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  • Profile picture of the author MADULALI
    Here's my two cents worth. I agree that it depends on what you are trying to accomplish. There is no right or wrong way.

    If you are in several different niches then it is ok to use a pen name. For example, if you were a lady and was writing as an expert in a male dominated sports, then you may not be perceived well.

    A little exercise maybe to sit down and ask yourself what are the disadvantages of using my real name? What am I trying to accomplish?

    Hope this helps.
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    • Profile picture of the author philwiley
      There's no right or wrong answer. Just do whatever suits you and your circumstances best.

      Many of the best known actors we've heard of don't use the names they were born with. Lots of novelists use pen names when they're writing in different niches, or they're very prolific and their publisher doesn't want them to put out more than one book a year. Newspaper columnists often use non de plumes.

      And online, and in the IM niche, perhaps the best know marketer to use a fictitious name is Michael Green because when he's not working on the Internet he's got a very high ranking career as a British politician.

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  • Profile picture of the author BrandonBourne
    On products I create and when posting on forums such as this, I use my real name. On my landing pages used for PPC, I have a username.
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  • Profile picture of the author Audrey Harvey
    I use my real name for my writing business. However, when I build my niche sites, each niche has a pen name. Why? I still work in a vet clinic, and I prefer to keep my online work completely separate. It makes it easy to flip the sites if I decide not to keep them for any reason.

    I was recently asked to rewrite an ebook, the client found me via my website, and it turns out it's a lady I knew many years ago, when my daughter was a baby. The internet can be a small place.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mary Gallivan
    Hi

    I use my real name in the forum and on my ghostwriting site but I use a pen name for niche sites.

    When I submit articles to directories I can use my real name or pen names depending on what the article is related to.

    You just need to make sure you don't get confused as to who you are.

    Mary
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  • Profile picture of the author robinincarolina
    I use the same screen name everywhere, real name in bio boxes etc. The only problem I have had with this is that I have been stalked on line. Anyone can google my screen name and find out everything, including any man that may be in my life (I am single). That being said, men have shown up on forums that I post on with an alias and this has been an issue, but I have to deal with it because my screen name is my online presence. Lost a good man when he googled my name, but oh well. Guess he wasn't so great after all.
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