Help..Im about to lose my mind!!

I have spent the last few weeks looking for a decent social net/dating software program. Right now i have narrowed it down to socialgo, socialengine, pilot groups pg dating pro and pg social net, dolphin, abledating, and skadate. They all have there plus and minuses. I also dont mind having to purchase any addons/widgets if its a good script overall. Also my budget is above bootstrapping but trying to stay below 1,000 unless its just to good aprogram.

Another thing, i dont have any programing skills so i want something thats K.I.S.S(keep it simple stupid) and the content manager is very very easy to use. another concern i have is with the addons/widgets. every program has axtra addons to buy. but some addons i see for one i dont see for another. can you go outside and get addons from other sources??

So at this point im leaning towards 1.pilot groups pg dating pro because of all the features and ease of use. downside is the price for open liscense and they arent rated in the BBB. 2. socialengine seems very user friendly for a newbie. plus its cheaper for open liscense and even with the extra addons its still not that bad. Only downside i seem to find is that its not geared so you can create a dating website.

So, any help would be greatly appreciated. Should i maybe go to elance and just post a job? what kinda price could i expect? thanks