Here's the thread
And it looks like many people do not understand the implications their 'advice' can have on someone that's genuinely looking for help.
WF is one of the most helpful resources out there - I'm sure many of us can testify to that. There are tons of IM veterans here who I look up to.
But please be careful with the advice which you take. Especially newbies.
If you are faced with decisions which are not very easy to reverse, don't always take the advice of someone on WF as final. Take the time to research other sources, read, educate yourself, get the opinions of other people in the field. That will really go a long way as far as helping you make the right decisions.