Are Your Goals Really Just Hopes?

by Zeus66
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Setting goals works. But a little tip I got a few years ago that qualifies that simple advice really helped me immensely. Especially as someone who deals with ADD on a daily basis.

Focus the goals you set on the activities that earn you money, not on the money figure you hope to achieve.

For example, instead of setting a generic goal of earning $1000 this week or $5000 this month, make the goals about the things you have to do to get there. If you just focus on a money goal, you may end up directionless. You won't reach that goal.

So, if you know from past experience that writing 100 articles in a month usually earns you $2000, your goal needs to be to write 100 articles over the next 30 days.

I know this may seem pretty basic, but it's not (for a lot of people). It's about changing your mindset. It's about the difference between "hopes" and "goals." Hopes are things you wish for (like $5000/month). Goals are tangible things you can achieve by doing. Focus on the doing and the hopes become reality as a matter of course.

John
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  • Profile picture of the author Sara Young
    This is so true! Thank you for reminding me, as I tend to forget this on a regular basis ...
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  • Profile picture of the author Joanne Reid
    John -- you said it perfectly. It's all about the activity. Took me a while to realize that but what a different it makes. Otherwise it's like digging a hole in your backyard and hoping someone will come along and pay you good money for the hole.

    I spent a long time reading about CPAs, etc. etc. etc. and finally realized that that did not matter to me in the long run. I don't want to reinvent the wheel but I want to bring good information to the world and hope that I can solve problems and I am playing to my strengths this time instead of hopping on a bandwagon hoping that it is the right bandwagon.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hesaidblissfully
      Yup. A goal without a doable plan of action is a hope.

      What you've outlined is pretty much how I set my goals.

      1. Define a specific, measureable goal.

      2. Determine what activities will be needed to achieve the goal (this is the only tricky part, especially if it involves activities you've never done before, or on a scale you've never done before, as you may not know what results you can expect. But you plan them anyway, then tweak as necessary based on feedback.).

      3. Break those activities down into sequential steps.

      4. Execute the steps.
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  • Profile picture of the author spyxx
    For me Goals is like the Driving Force that keep me motivated to do what I am doing, while hope is more like expectation. You wont get anywhere with just expectation. This is the reason why setting goals is very important.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      As you start getting really good at doing this (I'm a freaking internal
      calculator) you can start to do stuff like this.

      List size - 5,000
      Open rate - 10%
      Conversion rate 10% on the 10%

      That translates to 50 sales for one mailing.

      So, want to make $2,000 for that one email?

      You need to promote a product that will pay you $40 per sale.

      You get the stats from doing this long enough. You then just plug in the
      dollar amount and figure what you have to promote to get it.

      So let's say my income goal for the month is $10,000.

      I can...

      Promote 5 $40 products or a little more than 1 per week. That's really
      not a lot IF you're offering value to your list in between promotions and
      the products really tie in to what you're teaching them.

      Or, if I don't want to promote that many products, I can promote 2 $100
      products. One at the beginning of the month and one in the middle of the
      month or even end of the month. Problem with end of month is that the
      beginning of the next month comes too soon.

      Point is, once you have the metrics down on how your list responds,
      you can pretty much decide how much you want to earn each month,
      again, providing you're treating them well.

      Otherwise, you're going to burn them out and lose them.

      I have a group of people on my list who I literally can't stop from buying
      something when I come out with it.

      These are your golden customers.

      Treasure them.
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  • Profile picture of the author TheRichJerksNet
    John I just hope my goals of becoming like you and reaching your level does come true one day

    James
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      A Simple System to Achieve Your Goals

      Free. Nothing you have to do but download it. Worksheets and all. They point you to a plan with specific steps, just like John described.

      I put that together as a Christmas gift for my subscribers a while back. Help yourself...


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      • Profile picture of the author Lisa Gergets
        Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

        A Simple System to Achieve Your Goals

        Free. Nothing you have to do but download it. Worksheets and all. They point you to a plan with specific steps, just like John described.

        I put that together as a Christmas gift for my subscribers a while back. Help yourself...


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        I LOVED this! Still carry it around in my messenger bag in case I need to revisit my goals.
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    • Profile picture of the author Zeus66
      Originally Posted by TheRichJerksNet View Post

      John I just hope my goals of becoming like you and reaching your level does come true one day

      James
      Shut it, Jerk.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sour
    I completely agree, John. It always baffled me when people had directionless goals.

    "I want to make $1,000/week."

    That's great, but how're you planning on getting there? It sounds more like wishful thinking than an actual goal, in my opinion.

    I like to set daily/weekly short term goals consistently, which all add up to achieve a long term goal. I find this keeps me much more focused, and I'm a lot more productive.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndyBlackSEO
    So true John. People can get blinded by $$$'s, and eventully those figures don't seem to stand out anymore.

    It is far better to do as you propose. Forget the money aspect and just strive towards doing those tasks that wll help you get to where you want to be.

    Also a great post from Steven! I do that ALL the time, that's why I'm striving to build my list up more and more and mail them good info when I can.
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    • Profile picture of the author Liam Hamer
      Very well said, John and Steven especially I set a financial goal of $1k in 30 days(it's actually day 30 today) and I've fallen short of it. That said, as a result of being accountable to myself I have moved forward in a lot of ways, especially in terms of organization and motivation.

      My goals are now all about tasks. I'm still tweaking, testing and finding out what results I get from specific tasks. Hopefully in the not too distant future I'll be able to say definitively what I need to do to get specific results, like Steven mentions above.
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      • Profile picture of the author TheRichJerksNet
        Originally Posted by Liam Hamer View Post

        Very well said, John and Steven especially I set a financial goal of $1k in 30 days(it's actually day 30 today) and I've fallen short of it. That said, as a result of being accountable to myself I have moved forward in a lot of ways, especially in terms of organization and motivation.

        My goals are now all about tasks. I'm still tweaking, testing and finding out what results I get from specific tasks. Hopefully in the not too distant future I'll be able to say definitively what I need to do to get specific results, like Steven mentions above.
        Oh so that's your blog in my stats ...lol Cool blog, may have to do some bookmarking for you Liam free of charge ...

        James
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  • Profile picture of the author JaiJay
    Those are some wise words that need to be remembered by most.
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  • Profile picture of the author argus456
    There's nothing wrong with setting goals, just have to make sure they are realistic :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author ozzyinyang
    Thanks 4 the reminder on setting goals. It just took me back on track.
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  • Profile picture of the author jazbo
    I cover this in depth, and its amazing how people still don't understand that money is NEVER the goal - the goal is what you do with it.
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  • Profile picture of the author paulie888
    John, this post of yours needs to be required reading for every newbie in here! It's time for them to know the difference and distinguish between ethereal, lofty "hopes" and concrete goals. There's a huge difference between the two, and hopes are just arbitrary "feel-good" abstract concepts, whereas goals should be concrete, discrete and easily tracked/monitored! Even if you don't have true ADD, the information-addled world of IM is going to inevitably cause information overload to set in sooner or later. The goals you've set will be your compass to guide you in the right direction, away from the distractions and bright, shiny objects!
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  • Profile picture of the author Ruth P
    I completely agree that setting almost arbitrary monetary goals does nothing to get us closer to them. This is something I always found confusing when I see people setting random goals - of course that's not to say they're all arbitrary, people need certain amounts of money to live and to achieve certain aims.

    As well as breaking down your monetary goals into actions, which you quite rightly said, I also think that a key to the process is relating your monetary goals to your real life goals. After all, what is money in itself? On its own it's completely meaningless, but when we start relating it to e.g. buying a house, travelling, donating to good causes, it starts to become something with real meaning, something tangible and something that you can really go after.
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  • I set 1 overall specific goal to: (1) keep myself motivated to do the things I need to do, (2) monitor my performance, (3) have the initiative to learn new things, (4) learn from my mistakes, (5) innovate solutions and new concepts based on what I knew and the new stuff I learned, and (6) implement those new concepts right away since these can take me to my overall goal much faster...

    ...but I also make it a point to plan the set of specific steps and substeps I need to take so as to achieve my overall goal....

    ...and these steps and substeps each has its own specific results necessary for my overall goal, so:

    ---> I focus on getting these exact results every step (and substep) of the way, which motivates me more and even satisfies my mini daily goals.

    I'm also guilty of angling all my specific overall goals towards a super goal, which can mostly be subjective at times ("happiness" for me and my family, a worry-free family life, all the time in the world to spend with my family doing things which make us "happy", etc.), but these are dreams, not hopes mind you, and I fly with these dreams as I get closer to them.

    This may not work for everyone, but it sure works for me.
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    • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
      Originally Posted by Hesaidblissfully View Post

      Yup. A goal without a doable plan of action is a hope.

      What you've outlined is pretty much how I set my goals.

      1. Define a specific, measurable goal.

      2. Determine what activities will be needed to achieve the goal (this is the only tricky part, especially if it involves activities you've never done before, or on a scale you've never done before, as you may not know what results you can expect. But you plan them anyway, then tweak as necessary based on feedback.).

      3. Break those activities down into sequential steps.

      4. Execute the steps.
      The "trick" John is talking about is making #4 the goal you are trying to achieve. You can control your own actions.

      If you set your goals according to other peoples' actions, you rely on luck to reach them.

      Even in Steve's example above, he talks about what he needs to do in order to achieve results his past experience tell him are likely to happen.

      He stated his goal in the active voice - "promote 5 products at $40 within the next 30 days". Not the passive voice - "have 50 people buy a $40 product five times this month".
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  • Profile picture of the author Rod Cortez
    John,

    Talk about hitting the nail on the head. As I've gotten older and a bit wiser I believe more and more that mindset is about 98% of success, 1% being useful knowledge, and 1% being consistent action. I weigh mindset so heavily because we really are our own worst enemies or our best allies. I've often wondered why so many people struggle because success leaves so many clues, especially with the vast amount of information that's available.

    Then I remember back in the day (the last millennium) when I first started, I couldn't see the forest for the trees because my mind kept getting in the way. There are a lot of obstacles that newbies have to plow or work through, especially with some of the garbage that is out there. Having written that, your post succinctly communicated that while people should have goals, they also need to focus on the specific actions (activities) that are going to get them there. Hoping doesn't accomplish a whole lot, getting off one's duff and "getting to work", as one famous marketer likes to say, does.

    It also reminded me of an old Mike Litman quote that I heard on one of his CDs:

    "Successful people do the things that unsuccessful people don't like to do."

    I've never forgotten that quote and it's ingrained into my head. Anytime there's a task I don't want to do I remind myself of that phrase. Though it's far and few between since my habits have changed over the years.

    Rod "I-Still-Grind-My-Own-Coffee-Beans" Cortez
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  • Goal setting is good. It guides you and give you direction. However, as you have said, we need to have achievable goals. Something you can deliverable and as well accountable. So that when time comes, you can tell if you have done what you need to do to reach your goal. Not just saying it and no action.

    Emphasize on the size, and do plan what you need to do. That is the kep thing.
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  • Profile picture of the author mlord10
    Goal setting is great, and writing your goals down is even better. I know when I first started out I wanted to make $200 a week, but I had no idea how to do that! It was not until I started writing my specific goals down that I was able to achieve a stable income.

    The best method is not to say "I want $1,000 per week." The best method is to write down what you have to do to get there. Like John said, if your testing has shown you that you need to write 100 articles a week to do it, then start off with that!

    Do whatever you need to do (legally) to reach that income figure. Focusing on completing tasks as opposed to income figures will help you achieve your goals much faster!
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    John's post is about more than he said. By focusing on the steps you need to take to reach your goals, you're actually training your mind for achievement and success. Each step you complete is an accomplishment, and repetition of accomplishments trains the conscious and subconscious mind to expect achievement and success. This will spill over into other areas of your life as well. You will experience subtle changes in the way you think. You will begin to see opportunities you would have probably missed before. If you do this and stick with it, a process of self-evolution to a more productive mindset begins, and more and more of your "dreams" become a reality.

    For those that haven't read Paul Myers free material on goal setting, don't underestimate its value because its free. His material is as good an any you'll read on the subject. He could be selling this stuff and people would be happy to have bought it. As if that wasn't enough, Paul has a way of writing that is both entertaining and enlightening. Get it, but don't tell him I recommended it. He has too many worshippers already.
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  • Profile picture of the author cjay
    nice post John
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  • Profile picture of the author Zeus66
    I really appreciate the viewpoints a lot of you have shared here. That's one of the things that amazes me about Warriors - so many different angles to look at one topic. Always learn something new here, just about every single day. Don't take this place for granted.
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  • Profile picture of the author Simon Lim
    Too many people have that approach to goal setting. They think that if they just put a monetary goal out there, it will happen.

    I think a lot of this comes down to people not knowing how to achieve goals. Take New Year's resolutions; a lot of people say they'll lose weight or get into shape this year (and every other year before this one), but that's it...they don't take it any further.

    So you're absolutely right, John. You need to focus on the activities and the plan that will allow you to reach that goal, rather than just waiting and hoping for the goal to reach you.

    If you're waiting for the goal to come to you, it's not going to happen. You have to go after it.

    Simon
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  • Profile picture of the author USGTMauthor
    I am in the time management and productivity niche and what you say is true. Think about it there is no action tied to make $1,000 dollars. The action is write 10 articles, write an ebook, launch a new website. The focus on action produces the goal you desire. Great lesson to keep in mind.
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  • Profile picture of the author Zeus66
    I want to add that a lot of this mixing up of hopes and goals is not inherently bad. I think the two are clearly connected. You need hopes/dreams to spur you on. That's the emotional side of the equation. But hopes alone are the path to frustration and unhappiness without the unemotional goal side of that equation.

    Someone said long ago (Confucius maybe?) that a journey of a thousand miles starts with one step. This is an image that has always stuck with me. I see my hopes as the end of the thousand miles, and my goals as each step along that path.
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