Need help with my blog

by lulu25
9 replies
Hi Everyone,

Am a newbie to affiliate marketing and decided to try the dating niche. I v written articles and have not gotten a sale yet now. Am not sure if my articles are not good enough. I have got about 1248 views and 101 clicks.

The first article I wrote was on the 12/18/09.

I direct them to my blog now but am now not sure why there is no change.

Here is my blog and an example of one of the articles.

relationshipsebooks.blogspot.com

Having someone to tell you that you look beautiful or calling to tell you to have a nice day brings about a great feeling. That is what makes relationships special. Sometimes we can be in good ones or bad ones. If you have just broken up or about to break up, you may be asking what you can do to save your relationship. Here are a few things that you can do to get your ex back.
As much as everything is important, your happiness is too and that means paying attention to your relationship as well. Most times we make our relationships second choice. You have to want to make it work and that means you have to find out what went wrong. So that in the future same mistakes are avoided. You have to learn to communicate with yourself and build the trust in yourself before you can do them to someone. Usually it is communication and trust that go wrong.
You have to want the same things as in with your ex or the relationship will not work. That is why time apart is important for both. You will have you time to think about what you want or what your ex wants. It is a good to be missed by your ex and they will realize just how much they want you back.
After the cooling period, you will need to spend time with your partner together. It might be to make sure you have more nights to eat together and just talk. Be the best person you can be and make sure you have your own life. Your ex will want again to be part of your life. This is the first few steps in a proven strategy to get your ex back. It does not stop here, though. What you do next is crucial to get your ex back. Do not throw away your chances by not knowing what to do next.

How I Saved My Relationship and Got Back My Ex on ezinesarticles.


Am asking for advice please on how to improve.

Thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author scrofford
    So many people new to IM come in the industry thinking it is a get rich quick thing. You have been doing this since December? That's not even two months? How many articles have you written? What else are you doing to promote your site? IM is work...a lot of work, and it takes a lot of time USUALLY to start making any kind of money at all. You need to quit thinking this is a "get rich quick" thing and treat it as a long term business.
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    • Profile picture of the author lulu25
      Hi Scroffor,

      Thanks for the reply. I started the dating niche in dec. I know it's alot of work but wanted someone's point of view on my blog or articles to help me blog and write good content.

      Thanks
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      • Profile picture of the author Dan Bainbridge
        Originally Posted by lulu25 View Post

        wanted someone's point of view on my blog or articles to help me blog and write good content.
        Thanks
        A good way to do research into what works is to search for the top authors and top articles in your categories on Ezine articles - if you click to browse the articles by category there are links to the top authors on the top. Look at a few people who have written a lot of articles (it is likely this is working for them). I'm not saying steal their content or blatently just rewrite it, but learn what sort of titles they use and how the write their articles and make sure you are doing similar things.

        In time with more and more writing experience you will learn what works and what doesn't, but only sending 100 hops is not near enough to get a clear view of what works or doesnt.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rob Barbour
    Almost all posts that I respond to on this subject say the same thing as Scrofford - it's building a business - not making a quick buck. Set realistic goals, map out a plan, and stick with it.

    Buy your own domain, hosting, aweber, and the tools you'll need to build your business.
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  • Profile picture of the author RGallowitz
    There is no such thing as a "get rich quick". that **** doesn't exist.
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  • Profile picture of the author lilbrk4lilmac
    ok, i will try to give a little advice here, but i'm new, so take it for what it's worth. do you have specific keywords that u r using in your articles, if u don't, get some and then use those keywords consistently throughout the article. for example your blog is realtionshieobooks.blogspot, so, maybe use relationship ebooks as your link a few times throughout your article, if allowed, otherwise just use those keywords. hope that helps a little
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  • Profile picture of the author lulu25
    Thanaks everyone for your help.
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  • Profile picture of the author organicgirl6
    Hi Lulu,

    Do you have goals for the site?
    If you have an ebook to sell, you should be building a list of subscribers. Aweber(aweber.com) is essential for this.
    To build the list, you should offer something free (like a mini-ebook or free preview of your ebook you want to sell). That will make people sign up for your list. You will need a squeeze page so people can sign up. When you have a large list of say, 500-1000 people, you can start sending them offers for products for them to buy.

    You have to promote your site through the many free social networking sites. I recommend using Only Wire (onlywire.com) as it submits your content to tons of social bookmarking sites.)

    You can create a Facebook group for your site also to build fans and you should have a Twitter account.

    DarrenMcDuffie.com has some great info in more detail on a lot of what I have told you.

    I have been doing this for almost a year and it does take a lot of time and effort to build your fan base. Any other questions, e-mail me.

    Robin
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  • Profile picture of the author meblogger
    I will also wait for some good tips to earn through web
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