Do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?

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I was just talking about this with my wife. I think Internet Marketing is a great way to make a living. You have lots of freedom and unlimited income potential. However, I'm not sure I'm going to push my kids to be Internet Marketers.

Should I tell them not to go to college because it's not needed for IM?

Should I tell them not to be a doctor or lawyer if that's what they're pursuing?

My kids are 5 and 2 so I still have a lot of time, but at this point I'm not sure if I'll encourage them to be Internet Marketers. I will definetely introduce them to "the family business" though .

How about you, do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?
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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    If I had kids (and I don't), I'd support their dreams rather than trying to point them towards my own likes and dislikes.

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  • Profile picture of the author Shaun OReilly
    Rather than telling kids what to do, ask them what they'd
    most like to do and listen to what they say.

    Listen out for their dreams and what they want to do with
    their lives.

    Let them follow their bliss.

    Don't push - find what pulls them.

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  • Profile picture of the author MJ Sterling
    I'll be proud of my kid whatever he chooses to do.. as long as he is living a happy life to his full potential.

    He is interested in web design, he is 8 years old and wants me to teach him.. but his interest levels don't hold up for very long.
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    • Profile picture of the author Peggy Baron
      Neither of my kids are interested in IM. I would love it if they were and I've offered to get them set up and show them what to do, but they have no desire.

      So I support them in whatever they're interested in (legal and ethical) and know that someday they may want a "website to go along with that."

      Cheers,
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  • Profile picture of the author autofix
    Absolutely! The lifestyle that can come from this business is very unique.

    I have set up a site for my 12 year old son where he writes reviews about books he has read (he's a prolific reader) and he earns a little bit of pocket money from Amazon (under my acc. of course!). The site came about because he asked me if he could start mowing lawns or something like that to earn some money but I suggested he think of a way he could make some money from his hobbies so he wasn't just trading hours for dollars. So far he is very enthusiastic and finds the time to do a review or two a week.

    In the big picture though, if they are not interested in doing internet marketing I would still be behind them 100%.

    Craig
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      It's much better to show them all the options for what they can "be" - and let them choose their own path.

      I disagree with teaching young children to "make money". I think there's a danger to creating a "money" mindset that ignores other qualities they need to develop.

      Your children will grow up seeing how you work - if it appeals to them they'll let you know. As for education - I would encourage any child to become as educated as possible. The experience of higher education is not limited to book learning.

      I've met many marketers who say they are glad they didn't go to college - or that they quit to pursue IM. I've never met anyone who said they were sorry they achieved a college degree.

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  • Profile picture of the author cooldaddy
    Yes,I do want my kid to do IM.After how I see him struggle every month to survive till the next pay day.After all my son is in the IT industries.He can do web designing and also programing.The only problem is he is not very keen in business.For him what ever come from the internet is bush ****.He alway remind me not to be trick by the internet.So what should I do?
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  • Profile picture of the author Lee Wilson
    I am 46 and I've never had a real job. I have been successful in business and I have failed. The real education comes from failing, but, the first ten to fifteen years I was doing neither, I was going from pillar to post without a clue. Now it might not matter, everyone is different, but for me, I would have learned those lessons so much faster if I had first experienced a few years of what it's really like in the corporate world.

    It took me years to learn the difference between small and big business. They are completely different worlds. When I had a taste of (almost) big business I had no idea how to handle it. I will encourage my kids (hopefully) to start out with a 'business' education by working for a corporate, learn from the inside, and then let them make their decision.

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  • Profile picture of the author Lisa Gergets
    Ron, mine are 5 and 2 as well, so I think we've got awhile...

    But, I definitely would NOT push college to my own kids unless something huge changes in the next 15 years or so...

    I tell them they can do whatever they want to, and when the time comes, if the curiosity is there, sure I'll teach them what I know. And I'll also tout the fact that they can do this anywhere, with anyone, with no boss, and they can help a lot of people in the process.

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  • Profile picture of the author Dan C. Rinnert
    Wouldn't you at least want them to have Internet marketing skills?

    Seems to me that just about whatever they choose to do can be helped by Internet marketing skills.

    If the decide to become lawyers, Internet marketing may help them promote themselves and their services. Ditto if they are a doctor.

    If your kids are 5 and 2 now, I imagine that Internet marketing will be of even greater importance in the future. (Unless, of course, an EMP attack sends us all back into the pre-electronic age.) So, having the skills to promote themselves online--whatever their chosen profession--is going to be greatly important.

    Plus, in a great many fields, Internet marketing may help them achieve their dreams. Imagine if their dream is to be an actor or a musician or some creative field where earning an income can be challenging sometimes. If they have Internet marketing skills, maybe they can be in a better position to either promote themselves or earn an income when their job market is slow.

    By presenting Internet marketing as a skill-set rather than a career option, you wouldn't be pushing your kids into being Internet marketers. Rather, you'd be giving them additional skills and options for achieving their own goals and dreams.
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  • Profile picture of the author JackBas
    I think they should follow their passion (hey, shouldnt everyone?) but regardless of what it is, internet marketing is a great skill to have behind it. The internet is only going to become a bigger part of everyones lifes so they'll really benefit from your IM teachings
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  • Profile picture of the author Zabrina
    I'm not going to have kids, so I won't have that problem. If I did, I'd certainly encourage them to follow their own path wherever it should lead, like I did.
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  • Profile picture of the author eQuus
    Parents sometimes (while intoxicated) think that their children will listen to their sage advise.
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  • Profile picture of the author pavionjsl
    Constantly try to get the son to take interest. IM still represents a sense of freedom in choice to me, I hope we all keep that spirit of hope.
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  • Profile picture of the author drmani
    Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

    I think Internet Marketing is a great way to make a living. You have lots of freedom and unlimited income potential.
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    How about you, do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?
    GREAT question, Ron.

    I want my kids to be HAPPY.

    It's wonderful that the advent of the Internet has widened the scope and
    breadth of what exciting careers and future paths youngsters can now
    follow.

    There's truly a "generation gap" between when we grew up, and where we
    are today.

    Exciting opportunities are waiting to be exploited. But I personally believe
    the fundamentals will always matter. Good education. Common sense.
    Ethical values. Respect for tradition. Hard work. Discipline. Caring and
    compassion for the less fortunate.

    These are things I'd try hard to inculcate in kids. The rest is up to them -
    but with that foundation in place, they'll surely find a great path to follow
    ... be it in Internet marketing, or something else!

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  • Profile picture of the author CurtisN
    Many parents do push their kids towards certain career paths (the most common examples being doctor and lawyer), but we all know this isn't right. Pushing your kids towards IM would be no different.

    If I were you Ron, I would not even bring the subject up unless the kids explicitly asked to be taught the trade, and even then, I'd be hesitant to teach them everything. But then again, what do I know, I'm still a kid myself

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  • Profile picture of the author jennypitts
    I think as parents we HAVE to be supportive of our children regardless of the path they choose in life (considering of course that IT's an honest career). SO, I would never tell my daughters what to do and what not to do. On the contrary, if they wish to pursue a college degree and become a Doctor or a Lawyer, or if they opt to try their luck in Hollywood, I would advice them as to the pros and cons, but support them nonetheless.

    I think that if we try to get our children to follow in our footsteps without them having any genuine interest in what we do, we are not only keeping them from fulfilling a dream they may have but might ruin the relationship in the long run. We have to nurture them, teach them morals, to be responsible human beings and model citizens, and lead them on a path to become strong, independent adults capable enough to make the RIGHT choices in life.
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  • Profile picture of the author butters
    I don't have kids so I can't speak from experience but this is what I would do. I would let my kids be kids and at about the age of 16 (when they are at the age where they want a job etc...) I would show them what IM can do and then leave it upto them to decide. That being said, I would still encourage it, even if it wasn't full time. Part time IM can still pay a good role on life and help cover some bills or something along them lines but never force it on them.
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    • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
      Originally Posted by butters View Post

      I don't have kids so I can't speak from experience but this is what I would do. I would let my kids be kids and at about the age of 16 (when they are at the age where they want a job etc...) I would show them what IM can do and then leave it upto them to decide. That being said, I would still encourage it, even if it wasn't full time. Part time IM can still pay a good role on life and help cover some bills or something along them lines but never force it on them.
      That's an interesting response.

      That brings up another question - at what age do you introduce Internet Marketing to kids? Do you wait until 16 as butters suggests or do you not introduce them to it at all as someone else said?
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      • Profile picture of the author WealthWithin
        Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

        That's an interesting response.

        That brings up another question - at what age do you introduce Internet Marketing to kids? Do you wait until 16 as butters suggests or do you not introduce them to it at all as someone else said?
        Around 12-13 would be a good time.

        Before that it would be stealing their childhood. IM will always be there - but not those years to play and enjoy.

        Most adults will say they would like to go back to their childhood if they can. It wouldn't be so nice if all those years are surrounded with mailing lists, emails and web-sites.

        When they are in early teens you will have a feel if they have any interest in IM. Let the time decide.
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    • Profile picture of the author Silas Hart
      Originally Posted by butters View Post

      I don't have kids so I can't speak from experience but this is what I would do. I would let my kids be kids and at about the age of 16 (when they are at the age where they want a job etc...) I would show them what IM can do and then leave it upto them to decide. That being said, I would still encourage it, even if it wasn't full time. Part time IM can still pay a good role on life and help cover some bills or something along them lines but never force it on them.
      In theory, that makes a lot of sense. At 16, most kids start to depart from their parents and listen to them much less so that can become more social, or learn more about themselves by doing things they want to do.

      My stepson actually has a basic understanding of being frugal, and what I do for a living, which is buying foreclosed properties, commercial and residential, and either selling them for profit or turning them into rental properties which is more common. He actually understands this, and he's FOUR. This is something people in their 40's often don't understand. It's pretty damn amazing, he even understands working for something, and has a savings account of $27.14 that HE worked for by raking leaves (not doing a perfect job, but good enough)

      Now he goes through a toy aisle and knows what he actually wants, if you pick up a crappy toy and show it to him, he literally says "So what?" and then he will tell you how he has $27.14 and he's saving it until he finds a 'super cool toy he really wants.' and he loves it. I was afraid that by teaching him about finances, I would be robbing his youth or something. Nope, not even close. He loves playing the money game, and I'm pretty damn proud of him. I don't know of any other 4 year old that understands how a credit card works, personally.
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  • Profile picture of the author EndGame
    Like a few others in this thread, when the time comes to have kids for me (few years off yet) I want them to do whatever inspires them. It's the reason I am doing all this work now, so my current and future family can live the lives and dreams they have always desired. I can't think of a better reason to be doing this stuff.
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  • Profile picture of the author badboy_Nick
    Internet Marketing is GREAT if your kids are into going into business.

    If they want to do something else you should let them do their own thing and suggest to them that IM may be a good alternative.

    Any questions let me know

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  • Profile picture of the author turntwo21
    You've got to remember that just because they're YOUR kids, doesn't make them your YOUR clones or something like that.

    They're going to have minds of their own, and might think IM is completely silly. I think the best way to test the waters is allow them to dabble in it with you while they grow up...if they love it or the idea of it, they'll find out.
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  • Profile picture of the author money2k
    My kids are little now (4 and 3). I would definitely let them be internet marketers. Of course I will encourage my kids whatever they would like to do. I am going to teach them that you need to work hard at whatever you decide to do.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Rogers
    My happiest and most successful child is the one who discovered an occupational passion while still in high school. He learned how to tint car windows when he was 15 and has been doing it ever since. Because he's both talented and fast, he's in demand, and a number of shops have been fighting to get him to work for them for years. He's been able to make consistent and decent money, even during the down economy. He's not getting rich, but he's far from poor, and most importantly, he's happy. What I may do in the next few years, if he has the interest, is help him get his own shop going.

    None of my kids are interested in doing what I do, at least at this point in their lives. My advice to anyone with young kids is to expose them to as much stuff as you can while they are young, and help them develop their natural talents in what they're most interested in.

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  • Profile picture of the author Sam Mlambo
    I want my kids to be confident enough to go for what they want in life. If that means being an internet marketer, great! I can teach them a thing or two.

    It would be nice if my kids wanted to get into marketing, business, and salesmanship. Since that's my passion we could bond all day just talking about it.
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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    Now I have a tune running through my head.

    Mamas don't let your babies grow up to be IM'ers
    Don't let 'em pick domain names or create products
    Make them be doctors and lawyers and such

    Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be IM'ers
    They'll always be home and they're always alone
    Even with someone they love...
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel E Taylor
    You better teach your kids internet marketing.

    Some of you guys have the impression that there will
    be "Offline and online" business. by the time your
    kids are grown every business will be dependant upon
    the internet.

    This isn't the 1960's when alot of you grew up. The world
    is changing very quickly. Hence why "Go to college to get
    a good job" is really the dumbest thing to tell a child.

    All the old corporate structures are folding and at the rate
    at which their losing money most of those jobs
    will be gone.

    Many government jobs in the next 10 years will be gone as well.

    People are getting tired of paying ridiculous amount of taxes
    to pay government employees that honestly don't do
    jack ****.

    Internet Marketing isn't going to be a "Career option" in the future.

    It will be the only option.

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    • Profile picture of the author WealthWithin
      Originally Posted by Daniel E Taylor View Post

      You better teach your kids internet marketing.

      Some of you guys have the impression that there will
      be "Offline and online" business. by the time your
      kids are grown every business will be dependant upon
      the internet.

      This isn't the 1960's when alot of you grew up. The world
      is changing very quickly. Hence why "Go to college to get
      a good job" is really the dumbest thing to tell a child.

      All the old corporate structures are folding and at the rate
      at which their losing money most of those jobs
      will be gone.

      Many government jobs in the next 10 years will be gone as well.

      People are getting tired of paying ridiculous amount of taxes
      to pay government employees that honestly don't do
      jack ****.

      Internet Marketing isn't going to be a "Career option" in the future.

      It will be the only option.

      Daniel
      So everyone should be doing internet marketing and no one should go to college to become doctors, lawyers, engineers and teachers in 10 years?


      Having/doing a 'job' is not all about money.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Atkins
    I'd like that.

    I would not force them to do anything against their will though.

    Everyone should be free to make his own decision when it
    comes to his future career.

    But yeah, I would love it if they took the same line of work that
    I did. After all, it'll be easier for them to succeed since there will
    be me to help them out.
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    • My son is 9 years old, very diverse, a LOT of interests, like every 9 year old.

      This summer we are going to start building websites together. Every week or 2 weeks, whatever seems to flow best, I'm going to ask him what he wants to build a website about. We will then put one together, as we progress he will take on more of the responsibility.

      I will also be setting up a corporation. All the proceeds from the sites we build will be paid to that corporation.

      We will be accomplishing at least 2 things....

      1. Teaching him about being in business and the power of residual income...set it up once, and make money. This translates to any business, and it sure beats getting a job.

      2. A "nestegg" will be established within this corporation that will continue to grow over the next 8 to 10 years. He will learn firsthand the power of compound interest and other simple yet seldom understood or taught math principles.

      When he gets to be 18 - Well, there will be some money there. If he wants to go to college (he tells me he's going to KU to play football), then there is money there for that. If he wants to "get a job", whatever that means 10 years from now, well, more power to him.

      And, if he wants to live a life of freedom and explore his dreams, well, that foundation will have been laid for him to do that.

      Personally, I think laying the foundation this summer of showing him how to build sites and monetize and manage a business and finances is just as important as teaching him when he was younger how to tie his shoes. It is a foundation that potentially offers him extraordinary freedoms as he grows into adulthood, and I can want nothing more for my child than for him to have the opportunity to explore and chase his own dreams.
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    I want my kinds to do whatever they want to do...

    I'm gonna do what I can to educate them about their options, which will naturally include our business.... but it's their choice, and I won't be pushing them into a decision either way.

    Jay

    p.s. As for age... my daughter is 2 years old, and she spends time in the office with me right now, on her own baby laptop.. she will find internet marketing in her own time, I won't decide when to introduce it, her asking questions will
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  • Profile picture of the author Sylvia Meier
    I will stand behind my children in whatever they want to be.

    My eldest daughter, Angel, has taken an interest in IM, and even made around a grand last year doing it. She left it at that, and now that she's another year older and wanting to do more stuff without having to do extra chores etc she is looking forward to getting back into it.

    I think the most important lesson, irregardless of their age and how it is done, is simply how to earn money, save money etc How they choose to do it in the long run will always be their choice.

    For the younger 4, I have some time to go, before they hit the same stage as Angel.

    Russ, who is turning 7 is now into earning money because he is saving his allowance for some "cool toy" he has to have, and is always asking if he can do the other kids chores to get their allowance for the day. (We have a chart of doing this earns you this etc, and at the end of the day they get their money and put it in their piggy bank.)

    A perfect example of why this is good, is Alexzandria who is just turning 4, was happy as could be to take the $5 she's earned for allowance (her chore is to feed the cats, twice a day) and bought herself a littlest pet shop, and even gave the cashier the money herself. The pride and happiness she had from doing it all herself, with her own money is invaluable, and something I hope she carries forward in her lifetime.

    So I guess, if they want to yes, if they don't, then no. And as far as Ron's second question about age, whenever they decide they are ready I will assist them in something age appropriate.

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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Ames
    I want my children to be whatever they think makes them happy in life. I will encourage them to get college degrees, not because it is required for success, but because it gives them experience and a sense of accomplishment.

    If my son wants to be a doctor... that's fine... I'll encourage him. I will however teach him how to make money by marketing so he will still have a choice even after he is practicing medicine.

    The most important thing is that my children choose to do something they love. I will guide them, but never force them. I've seen the effects of children forced into a career they did not want nor choose.
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  • Profile picture of the author AaronSnider
    I definately want my kids to be IMers.

    I want them to goto college, but if they goto college with a lucrative IM business going, just think of all they fun they will have. FRAT PARTY!!!!!
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    • Profile picture of the author Lambert Klein
      Gently guide them, but let them choose what they want. Whatever makes them happy as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.

      We should all be able to do what we desire within reason. You may have to guide them some when they are young, but don't impose your dreams onto them...

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  • Profile picture of the author sloanjim
    I wouldn't dream of telling my kids to "be anything" Let them grow up and decide what they want to do.....Why do some people feel the need to control this outcome? Like those soccer coaches who stand on the sidlelines screaming at their kids to get the ball, do this, do that. It's an emberassment.

    I'm not sure I'm going to push my kids to be Internet Marketers.

    Should I tell them not to go to college because it's not needed for IM?

    Should I tell them not to be a doctor or lawyer if that's what they're pursuing?
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  • Profile picture of the author Vanquish
    Ron

    Just like in marketing when we send out a survey to find out what our customers needs and wants are I would do the same for my children and find out what they enjoy doing and suggest career paths for them but I think it is most important for them to figure out what they want to do for themselves because that is the only way they will be happy.

    As for the college thing it would depend on my kids attitude toward school. For example some people hate school and the environment and the type of knowledge it teaches and prefer to work alone while others flourish in the environment and network a ton and have a lot of good life experience.

    Overall I would suggest my kids try out college for 1 year even if they choose IM as a full time career because college provides many priceless experience in terms of meeting new people, developing social skills, networking and having fun in a very short yet prime time of your life.

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  • Profile picture of the author Kevin_Hutto
    My 11 year old daughter already is... she has a niche blog about baby dolls that she makes just over $100 a month on right now. She loves it. No telling what she will be abe to do by the time she's an adult.

    I think that we better get what we can right now, because these are "the good ole days"...
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  • Profile picture of the author dvduval
    We don't have kids, only cats, so it will be interesting.
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    • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
      Originally Posted by dvduval View Post

      We don't have kids, only cats, so it will be interesting.
      If your cats are like mine, they're constantly running over the keyboard. Do you think that's a sign that they're interested in IM? I mean should we be springing for War Room memberships for them or something?
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  • Profile picture of the author PCRoger
    I want my kids to develop some automatic income via IM so they CAN do what they want to do.

    The LAST thing I wish for them is to be a slave to a J - O - B

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    • Profile picture of the author davidjames42973
      I don't have any children, so I can't speak from experience. I heard a radio show and on the show they had a guy who wrote a book about raising your children to be entrepreneurs. I don't remember the name of the book or the author, so I apologize.

      When his kids were old enough to ask for allowance, he told them that they needed to come up with a way they can make money on their own.

      Their son was 15 years old and started his own detailing business and was making $4,000 a month. He actually hired his friends to do the work for him while he found clients. Their daughter was somewhere around 12 or 13 and she started a part time job taking care of people's myspace sites while they were away. So if there was a musician that was touring, they would hire her to add updates everyday. She was making about $500-$1000 a month doing this.

      I think teaching your children to be entrepreneurs is something you should do. The best part of it is they can use that knowledge in just about anything. That's something they don't teach in school.
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      • Profile picture of the author PCRoger
        Originally Posted by davidjames42973 View Post

        I think teaching your children to be entrepreneurs is something you should do. The best part of it is they can use that knowledge in just about anything. That's something they don't teach in school.
        So right.

        What do they teach in school these days?

        How to get out early and still have it count as a day?

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  • Profile picture of the author AnneE
    Geez... am I the only one who took this as a question of...

    Everything else being equal would you choose for your kid to be in IM or something else?

    My answer is NO, I don't want my kids to grow up to be IM's. I encouraged my teen to write for the internet, because it was encouraging him to write. And I encouraged his interest in making money online, because it was encouraging his entreprenurial skills. But I don't think I really would want him to make IM his primary purpose full-time long-term.

    While I admire people's ability to sell and convince others of a course of action, often times if marketing is your primary focus, you sell with little regard for what you are selling.

    Everything else being equal I'd choose for my kid to be the one curing cancer or (as one son does) being a positive influence in many young people's lives.

    Now, I'll sit back and wait for all the born-marketers to chime in about how marketing can be all about promoting good and you can "sell" positive values to kids. Which is all true, but let's be honest -- that is SO rarely what IM is about.
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    • Profile picture of the author innocent07
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      I would introduce them to Internet marketing, but let them have their dreams aswell.
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    • Profile picture of the author Vlad Shelest
      All I want for my kids is to have a job they are happy to do even if they don't feel like working. If it happens to be IM, I would be more than happy as I believe it to be an occupation that can provide rewards well beyond of what most people expect to get out of a University degree.
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    • Profile picture of the author SamuelJ
      Yeah absoultly let them if that is what they choose. It's one of the
      best lifestyles I can think of. A friends 12 yo daughter is making $$
      online... Wish the internet was around when I was 12 ha ha
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  • Profile picture of the author wesgroupsm
    My kids are 9 and 8 and they want to earn some extra money and I am going to show them how to do it. But I will make them put away 35% of the money they earn for college. I will make them go to college and get a degree.
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    • Profile picture of the author John Rogers
      Originally Posted by wesgroupsm View Post

      I will make them go to college and get a degree.
      The problem with that theory is they'll likely turn 18 before they graduate high school. What happens when they tell you what to do with your college, hmmm?

      Of my four kids, three graduated high school. The one who dropped out is the most financially successful, and the happiest of the bunch.

      John
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  • Profile picture of the author pdmarketing
    Flat Out NO!... Let Them Strive For Their Own Desires before becoming an IM.
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  • Profile picture of the author Emily Meeks
    I don't have kids, but when I do (down the road) I'll wholeheartedly encourage them to follow their dreams.

    Maybe I'd get them to help with my own business occasionally... not on a full-time basis or anything, but if one wanted extra cash to spend with friends or on some new expensive toy...
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  • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
    Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

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    How about you, do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?
    My son will be born in less than a month's time from now (ultrasound and a loud-mouth technician inadvertently revealed gender). Right now I'm not thinking so far ahead, lol. At this juncture, I just want him to be healthy.
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    • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
      Originally Posted by thunderbird View Post

      My son will be born in less than a month's time from now (ultrasound and a loud-mouth technician inadvertently revealed gender). Right now I'm not thinking so far ahead, lol. At this juncture, I just want him to be healthy.
      Congratulations and best of luck to you. Health is definitely the most important thing.
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      • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
        Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

        Congratulations and best of luck to you. Health is definitely the most important thing.
        Thanks! Everything is looking good. Routine fetal monitoring today shows an active baby with a strong heartbeat

        (I even started a baby blog as a way to get up to speed and research what's involved in raising a baby, lol)
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  • Profile picture of the author rondo
    Not necessarily IMers, but I'll encourage them to be entrepreneurs of some kind.
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  • Profile picture of the author freudianslip27
    I've got three kids, 5 and 2 years, and 8 months. I've actually thought about this question quite a bit.

    Of course I will want them to follow their dreams. I do think that there are core skillsets that we have as internet marketers that I will definitely want to teach my kids (how to communicate yourself well, how to set goals, the importance of managing moving parts, etc). I agree that marketing common sense is good to have!

    I was thinking about introducing internet stuff by helping them create a website based around something they are interested in at the time. If they aren't interested that's fine, but it could be a neat way to spend time together on a project, and slowly introduce business ideas if it developed

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  • Profile picture of the author LB
    I will tell my kids to do what makes them happy. They get to choose what that is.
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  • Profile picture of the author James Schramko
    I won't be pushing my kids into anything.

    Pushy parents suck and the kids turn out
    bad in most cases.

    I will let them decide what they want to be
    and more importantly - who they want to be.
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay Zee
    Well, if I do have kids, I want them to be professional Tennis players.
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  • Profile picture of the author TerrieS
    I bought 2 of SuiteJ's wordpress packages and had my 16 year-old daughter sit down next to me. His guide is excellent, by the way.

    We each had a laptop and I walked her through the process of setting everything up on her domain as I worked on mine, following his instructions.

    In about 90 minutes, here is what she learned about:
    • Wordpress and wp-admin
    • Working the Gazette theme
    • Cpanel
    • Fantastico
    • FTP
    • Setting up a MySQL database
    • PHPMyAdmin and changing MySQL settings
    • What is an Autoresponder
    • Aweber
    • Photoshopping a Header graphic
    • Replacing a Header graphic
    • What Adsense is
    • How to create a new Adsense block
    • Putting Adsense on the site
    • Clickbank
    • How to add affiliate offers to a Wordpress blog
    • Adding additional articles
    I'm sure there's more, but how is that for starters? We aren't even done yet - next she gets to learn about driving traffic to "her" site and how to set up the ebook.

    She was very excited to see her "creation" when it was live and she now has a much better understanding of what Mom does on the computer everyday.

    I asked her if she thought she could do another site on her own with another package. She said yes, so I am going to let her try.

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    • Profile picture of the author Vlad Shelest
      Originally Posted by TerrieS View Post

      • Wordpress and wp-admin
      • Working the Gazette theme
      • Cpanel
      • Fantastico
      • FTP
      • Setting up a MySQL database
      • PHPMyAdmin and changing MySQL settings
      • What is an Autoresponder
      • Aweber
      • Photoshopping a Header graphic
      • Replacing a Header graphic
      • What Adsense is
      • How to create a new Adsense block
      • Putting Adsense on the site
      • Clickbank
      • How to add affiliate offers to a Wordpress blog
      • Adding additional articles
      Wow, all of the above in 90 minutes! You are obviously a fantastic teacher and your daughter, judging by her website, an even better student.

      Well done to both of you!

      Will you take on more students?
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      • Profile picture of the author TerrieS
        Originally Posted by diggitydog View Post

        Wow, all of the above in 90 minutes! You are obviously a fantastic teacher and your daughter, judging by her website, an even better student.

        Well done to both of you!

        Will you take on more students?
        Thanks for the compliment, Diggitydog!

        I'm a pretty good teacher, she is an excellent student, but by far, the credit goes to SuiteJ for such an excellent step-by-step guide.

        And yes, I'd love more students!
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  • Profile picture of the author downhomebruce
    Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

    How about you, do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?
    Hi Ron,

    Heh, heh. I've got two tween daughters and they're nuts about the Web. When I mention that they could learn how to make extra money by selling things they know about online (and they know a lot about markets that I haven't a clue about!) they're totally enchanted, but of course their attention spans are not large enough for them to really jump in with both feet.

    So I teach them little bits of things when they're up for it. My take on it is that no matter what they end up doing with their lives, having Internet marketing skills can only serve them well. They're certainly not going to get those skills (or any entrepreneurial skills for that matter) in school. Anything I can do to give them a leg up on being able to make extra money I do. But as far as pushing them into being full-time Internet marketers, no way. That's up for them to decide when the time comes.

    Cheers,
    Bruce
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    • Profile picture of the author Martin Percival
      I thought I'd just chime in here as my 2 daughters are absolutely at one of those decision points in life, being 15 and 16.

      They both have subject choices to make that will affect the next set of choices etc etc until they hit university (and here in the UK, that will be pretty much determined by the choices they make now...2-3 years earlier).

      It's a real dilemma....the oldest kept saying she wanted to be a doctor (despite a real genius for languages - and not such good science marks). Now it took a lot of gentle conversation to discover that what she really likes is the medical photography she has seen on some TV programs - and so becoming a doctor would have been a hugely wrong choice for her. Mind you, having a degree of any kind in the UK at the moment is no guarantee of finding a job at the end of it all.

      I guess what I'm trying to say in my bumbling way is that I'd like her to get as much out of her life as possible. If she wants to hit university then fine...I'll make sure that she isn't saddled with a huge debt at the end and that she gets the chance for 3 formative years like I had. Along the way, I'll try to educate her in all the things that I am learning so that she has choices available when no obvious job is forthcoming

      So, IM, yes if she wants it too, otherwise a load of principles from here that will see her right no matter what she does.
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  • Profile picture of the author Nicholas Kemp
    Absolutely! I would want them to discover that they can choose a lifestyle rather than a job or career.
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  • Profile picture of the author tylerdrun
    No, I'll make one kid of mine better than Bruce Lee.
    The other kid - A soccer player/football player better than Maradona/Messi
    The other kid - The best Special Op on the planet
    The other kid - The best psychologist
    The other kid - The best cricketer

    And also I'll make sure that all my kids are James Bonds from the beginning. If it's a girl, she'll be the most mature, intelligent, street smart female who whoops guys asses and (stays a virgin-protectin my nobility according to ancient customs)..........
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  • Profile picture of the author basefunding
    I am showing my 5 year old what "Daddy" does as far as IM AND encouraging him to do what makes him happy. His latest plan is to be the worlds best dad and stay at home scientist/inventor/artist.
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  • Internet marketing is an incredible way to make a living. It allows the ability to create a "lifestyle" business. Simply put, it DOES give you freedoms others will never experience. However, for countless individuals it is a dead end road due to not understanding what running an IM is actually about; it's about running a business.

    Letting your children know what options are available gives them a greater understanding of what IM business is and is not. Also, it really depends on who you ask as to how they define an IM business.

    Would I want my children to become IMs? Since I don't have kids hard to say. Would I want my nieces and nephews to do so? Yes, if they fully understand this is something you work at.
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  • Profile picture of the author ant_arias
    I don't look at it as encouraging children to be "Internet marketer", but it's more of encouraging them to be in business for themselves raher than rely on the whims of there employer. Whether it be online or in a more traditional setting.
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  • Profile picture of the author Lance K
    Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

    How about you, do you want your kids to be Internet Marketers?
    I only want my kids to be 2 things...
    1. Happy
    2. Responsible
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  • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
    I'll say this much. I have seen lots of parents attempting to compensate for their own personal shortcomings by trying to vicariously achieve their own personal ambitions through their kids. That puts unhealthy pressure on a kid.
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  • Profile picture of the author Marhelper
    Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

    However, I'm not sure I'm going to push my kids to be Internet Marketers.
    I do not want to push my kids to anything other than what they like to do (unless of course it is going to hurt them).
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