It's Not What You Know or Who You Know, It's...

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...who knows you.

I know it's important to learn all you can about doing business online. It's also important to know who's most likely to be helpful to you. However, if that's all you know, you're missing a very important element of your future success.

You need to know that those who know you can make or break you! While it's great when everybody loves you, that doesn't mean you'll be successful. In fact, the quality of your enemies is a surer measure of your future success.

Hopefully, those who hate you will all be fools:

"When a true genius appears in this world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him." -- Jonathan Swift

Sincerely,
Vince Runza
P.S. It's tough, being a genius. For one thing, all the dunces hate that you contradict them in a way that proves they're idiots. No, really!
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  • Profile picture of the author VegasVince
    Originally Posted by Vince Runza Online View Post

    ...who knows you.

    I know it's important to learn all you can about doing business online. It's also important to know who's most likely to be helpful to you. However, if that's all you know, you're missing a very important element of your future success.

    You need to know that those who know you can make or break you! While it's great when everybody loves you, that doesn't mean you'll be successful. In fact, the quality of your enemies is a surer measure of your future success.

    Hopefully, those who hate you will all be fools:

    "When a true genius appears in this world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him." -- Jonathan Swift

    Sincerely,
    Vince Runza
    P.S. It's tough, being a genius. For one thing, all the dunces hate that you contradict them in a way that proves they're idiots. No, really!


    From one Vince to another...well said.

    Truth is....haters exist to hate. That's their job.

    If you'se handed them a free pass to heaven on the day of the apocolyse....you'd still find haters pissed off they had to sit in coach rather then first class. True.

    Like comedian Katt Williams said so well....."If you'se only 7 peeps hatin' your ass.....your goal should be gettin' 10 more..."

    Anyone universally loved.....doesn't hold much power in my book...cuz it tells me they present themselves in a way that is warm and fuzzy to the entire population....aka...fake.

    Be yourselves Warriors.....and when the dust settles......what you have left in terms of friends and or followers is at least real.

    Those who do have integrity and honor. Those who don't.....live life via a smoke and mirrors gimmick.


    xxx Vegas Vince
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    • Profile picture of the author Greg Cooksley
      Hey Vince,

      This is so true, doesn't matter what type of business you're
      in.....

      As they say - "Keep your friends closer and keep your enemies
      even closer"

      It's also vital to learn how to network. it's such a vital ingredient
      to your success that I'm surprised that they don't teach these
      techniques from an early age.....

      I must admit that I struggle with this from time to time....I
      guess life is too hectic....

      Regards

      Greg
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      • Profile picture of the author Peter Bestel
        It's not what you know,
        It's not who you know,
        It's what you know about who you know
        .
        Selwyn Froggit.
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        • Originally Posted by Peter Bestel View Post

          It's not what you know,
          It's not who you know,
          It's what you know about who you know
          .
          Selwyn Froggit.

          "To do is to be" -- Socrates
          "To be is to do" -- Descartes, Plato
          "Do-be-do-be-do" -- Frank Sinatra

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        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
          It's not what you know,
          It's not who you know,
          It's what you know about who you know
          .
          Selwyn Froggit.
          I was just going to say that, with one minor addition...

          "... and how badly they don't want anyone else to know it."


          Paul
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          Stop by Paul's Pub - my little hangout on Facebook.

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          • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
            "Be normal, and the herd will accept you. Be deranged, and they will make you their leader."
            -comedian Christopher Titus
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by VegasVince View Post

      From one Vince to another...well said.

      Truth is....haters exist to hate. That's their job.

      If you'se handed them a free pass to heaven on the day of the apocolyse....you'd still find haters pissed off they had to sit in coach rather then first class. True.

      Like comedian Katt Williams said so well....."If you'se only 7 peeps hatin' your ass.....your goal should be gettin' 10 more..."

      Anyone universally loved.....doesn't hold much power in my book...cuz it tells me they present themselves in a way that is warm and fuzzy to the entire population....aka...fake.

      Be yourselves Warriors.....and when the dust settles......what you have left in terms of friends and or followers is at least real.

      Those who do have integrity and honor. Those who don't.....live life via a smoke and mirrors gimmick.


      xxx Vegas Vince

      Then I guess I should be happy that I tick a lot of people off.
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  • Profile picture of the author James Schramko
    To avoid criticism do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.
    Elbert Hubbard
    US author (1856 - 1915)
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  • "If you would be unloved and forgotten, be reasonable." --Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
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