Integrated Shopping Cart + Memberships
I need help finding a solution that has both an integrated shopping cart and members area control, all part of the same script that I would host myself. A leased license would be alright, but I need to be able to host it. I see a lot of nice membership scripts/plugins listed here and there with carts that can sell downloads, but they seem to be missing the ability to sell shippable products. Paypal WPPro is also something I'm looking for.
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I've tried Drupal and hated it. It sounded promising with it's robust permissions system, but I spent more time trying to work around bugs/issues and looking for answers to bugs that haven't been fixed for months (paypal double-or-no email bug in Ubercart) than getting anything done.
Joomla sounds similar to Drupal, except you have to pay for more plugins, from different sources. I'd rather pay one source and have one place to go for support.
osCommerce and derivatives honestly sound worse than Drupal, and sound like a real pain in the butt to theme.
Wordpress-based stuff would be fine, as my site's currently running on that. I've yet to find something for WP that had both great member-control options AND a shopping cart that could deal with group(member)-based discounts, and sell physical products. Maybe I've just been looking in the wrong places.
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Any suggestions, reviews and experiences would be much appreciated.
Project HERE.