clickbank membership question...any technical people?

hi,

i have a membership site that i created with dlguard...doing just fine...

the only problem is that...one of my affiliates added my membership site as an UPSELL to his front end product...

...so that's great but every time one of his customers buys the upsell (my membership site using dlguard), i have to MANUALLY add the upsell customer's login info to dlguard all the time...so the upsell customer can log in to my membership site (after payment).

...this is becoming lot of work for me since i have to do this manually all the time to this upsell...

...the REASON for this is because clickbank's upsell flow says to get the vendor's id & item #...that's all they ask...so it goes STRAIGHT to the order page (the default clickbank order link)...

so these guys who buy upsell pay for my membership site...they are led to the thank you page link (that really isn't the thank you page for dlguard)...such as:
http://www.mywebsite.com/dlg/members/cbreturn.php

which has the " Error: Clickbank sales data incomplete" .


the upsell link my affiliate uses looks something like this:
http://ITEM#.VENDOR1_VENDOR2.pay.clickbank.net/?cbur=a

i am vendor 2 in this case...

anyone know a solution for this or have dealt with this before?
i'm just throwing it out here because i figured maybe some warriors may know a solution or have been through this before...

BJ
PS...im thinking of getting another membership script if there software works for this...any amember or easymemberpro or membergate users have others upsell your product without any problems?