Help - Am I looking for a mentor, a coach or just a friend?
I have enough skill & knowledge on what I need to do. I have a firm idea of what I want to do and what direction I want to head in. My problem however is self-doubt, sadness and not dealing with stress well.
These tend to affect my ability to focus. My situation is weird because everything I've tried or done in regards to business & marketing has worked well for me. The problem I normally run into is getting stuck at certain points in my process or not scaling things up once I have them working. I then beat my self up about the situation.
I tend to be really hard on myself and seem to focus on what I'm doing wrong or not doing instead of what I'm doing right. I do want to say that I have made some great progress in changing and reframing the way I think using various self-help materials.
The problem is that for every 2 steps forward I take one step back and this has been going on for a long time now. On the whole I'm glad that I'm moving forward, but there are days where I just get sad about it all.
This has caused a lot of problems at home. Over the years things have gone from making 3-4 figures in a day to being short on rent. This really hurts me inside because I have 2 young children and a wife who end up feeling the effects of all this on our quality of life. It's even almost caused us to split up on more than one occasion due to the stress. The thought of losing my family tears my soul from the seams of body.
So the last few days while trying to finish up on a project before the new year and having days where I get ton done and days where I'm not getting nearly enough done I started to ask myself...
(pardon the language)
"What the fu*k is wrong with me?"
After thinking about my situation a bit I realized I lack a certain kind support structure. It's a sad realization that I have no friends or anyone to talk to about business or personal things beside my wife. (Which is kind of why I'm talking about this all on the forum)
I screwed up over the years and pushed my friends away because I did not want them to see how much I changed due to health issues. I rather them remember how I was when I looked normal then see how I changed over time.
Doing that was foolish, I know...
So I sit here now wanting to connect with another person, someone who can chat with me just a few minutes maybe once or twice a day to help keep me on track and help me squash my self-doubts when they creep up.
To help take a proactive role in it all I’m trying to figure out if I need a coach or mentor of some sort. Obviously a friend would be nice, however finding a friend that gets along with me and actually likes me as a person and could help me with my dilemma seems like a tall order.
So my fellow warriors what are your thoughts? Any and all feedback is much appreciated.
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