A Cry for help from struggling marketer!! I think those burning folders are awesome, lets make one!

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Is it me or have I become an obsessed marketer that feels like I am trapped in a maze. The two biggest problems that have been holding me back... Not sticking to one thing and terrified to take long time and money consuming risks with no mentor .

How about this, any marketer that wants to take me by the hand like a father would to his son, can make a customer for life that would invest tons of money, time and energy into make sure everybody knew who changed my life.

If I was on television spreading my success I would credit YOU for that success. I just need to find you.

I come here and I know there are mostly marketers who are not making one cent, but then they chime in with stuff like they know what they are talking about. Why do you do that, just be honest.

Here is my honesty. I have made less than 500 bucks in over a year, with several hours invested on reading ebooks, writing articles, some ppc and feeling like I need one on one help.

I will buy your course, but just know that I am asking someone to help me for me to be your best testimonial that will help you build your credibility because I finally am able to free myself from a maze.

We can film all of the before stats and I am willing to even travel to meet you. I want to have a giant help me become a giant so we can help other people as a team, and get them to giant status but with a more hands on approach. Its hard times right now.

I ask for a person reading this that is making money to email me at dennisrich101@yahoo.com

I am an average Joe who is a workaholic, I just really need training similar to how a job trains its employees. I know there is no magic button but it would be incredible to learn from someone who is making money and is not going to put a lot of flash and appeal with the same ol: write articles, forum participation, etc with no critical feedback.

I check out other peoples articles and find many people getting no views, videos no views, blog page no comment. Do you still tell those people write articles and expect them to get excited. They need feedback. Corrections, reviews.

I am promising my future mentor that wants to help me, he/she will make thousands to way more if he can show me how to profit. I will let everyone know who he/she is by posting thousands of posts with my signature telling people that Mr/Mrs X was the one that changed my life forever and I am going to spend the rest of my life returning the favor.

If 97% are failing how are the 3% making it? This is when those 97% people come on and give the answer. (Blah, blah, blah, blah) WAIT you don't know because you are lying to people with signatures like make $200 a day, when you haven't made anything.

Sorry for a little bit of negativity but I feel like begging a successful person to pay them back 100 fold on the backend. PLEASE HELP ME, but not the failing marketers.

Thank you for reading.
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    I just want a strategy that I can start making $10 a day that I can learn how to scale up to $100 then to $1000 per day. I can be a maniac once I learn how. My main goal is to find something that works and then I will go into workaholic for the next few years on it.
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    For the first year 25k, 50k, 100k, 1mil. Just show me how without it just being a course. The number can be anything, because once I find a working strategy I would like to make millions. But $50k in first year would be surreal.
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  • Profile picture of the author hotseochick
    I think your number 1 problem is not focusing on a certain project or group of projects. Sometimes you have to go all or nothing when it comes to this stuff. Do your homework, check resources, read, read and read some more. You'll find something that works, but it takes time, money and dedication as I'm sure a lot of people on here will tell you. I'm not expert (duh!), but I hope you find what you are looking for
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    Hot seo chick are you making money?
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    • Profile picture of the author hotseochick
      Originally Posted by jamesrich1 View Post

      Hot seo chick are you making money?
      Yes...I have my hands in a variety of things.
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      • Profile picture of the author donsean
        Number #1 most important thing imo...build your list as fast as possible. "If you build it, they will come".

        When you set out to do something, create a to do list, allocate a certain number of hours you will spend to achieve smalls goals bit by bit. I consider myself an intermediate marketer, not some big guru, but my list is growing and I plan on creating my own product and have a plan.

        They say the best way build your list fast is to create a product launch. I've probably been down the same exact road as you. Countless mlms, cpa, aff marketing and it wasn't until I just focused on one thing did I start seeing results.

        You sound motivated so that's a plus, perhaps you just need to organize a bit and keep yourself from getting distracted and focus on one thing at a time...

        I'll give you a shout and email you. We'll chat more there.
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  • Profile picture of the author rammonster
    Well you are motivated right now, ill give you my entire plan of action if you're ready to do it. i m serious.. add me on skype..ill show you everything i know. Ill give you my entire business plan. I know what you're looking for...are you willing to work on it with the same determination you show here?

    im PMing u my skype now...

    ill tell you everything i know....give you all my resources....it'll be upto you to decide how you make use of it.

    I made the mistake of wasting all the money i had..i have to start from scratch too...
    check ur PM

    Cheers
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    rammonster is the man! He went out of his way to help me and was honest the whole way. Thank you.
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  • Profile picture of the author lotsofsnow
    I've send you an email.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
      Originally Posted by jamesrich1 View Post

      I just want a strategy that I can start making $10 a day that I can learn how to scale up to $100 then to $1000 per day. I can be a maniac once I learn how. My main goal is to find something that works and then I will go into workaholic for the next few years on it.
      Big big HUGE mistakes here.

      #1 - I would remove that email address as you have just opened yourself up to every spammer on the planet

      #2 - Seeking a mentor or a coach should not be "here I am I will do what ever" but more along the lines of "I have a particular business model specifically that interests me, are you proficient in that kind of model?

      You just walked in the restaurant, handed over your credit card, and are willing to eat what ever is fed to you. You are willing to try eating monkey brains or Colorado oysters or even a cement block on a plate?

      Seriously, stop and think for a minute here.

      Look at a list of ways to make money, decide which of those you want to do.

      Figure out your long term goals first.

      I wouldn't want someone spoon feeding me some crap when I can order caviar and get what I expected.

      * edit added - most all if it does work but you really need to decide what you want first.
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    • Profile picture of the author oneplusone
      Originally Posted by Helenaliyn View Post

      Just putting this out there: the reason a lot of people on here aren't making much money is because they either
      A: just started
      B: are scared
      C: don't have motivation

      That doesn't mean they don't know what they're talking about and it doesn't mean their advice is void. If you have all the answers but no motivation, you're not going to make money, but you can offer advice.
      Experience is another one.

      And some people aren't very intelligent to be blunt about it.

      You'll rarely come across a successful marketer who is stupid.

      The OP comes across as intelligent to me, isn't scared and has motivation.

      So his problem is probably lack of experience.
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      • Profile picture of the author rammonster
        Originally Posted by oneplusone View Post

        Experience is another one.

        And some people aren't very intelligent to be blunt about it.

        You'll rarely come across a successful marketer who is stupid.

        The OP comes across as intelligent to me, isn't scared and has motivation.

        So his problem is probably lack of experience.
        Just spoke to him on skype, he has made a few sales earlier and has quite a bit of experience too. he'll do great.... although leaving his email out there wasnt a wise decison.
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    I was scared but now I feel like I have nothing to lose. I am embracing this forum because it has been the only legitimate place to tell the truth about many things I was curious about. My biggest problem was that I didn't have the guts to stick to something not knowing if it was certain.

    I have two areas that I am going to apply myself towards for reasons below. Promoting physical products with seo, and mobile marketing.

    I am personally now 99.9% turned off with digital products, and every body I know won't even look at a salespage for digital. I can do some seo, but haven't applied myself fully because of doubt.

    I have no clue where to began with mobile marketing but I have that funny feeling that I had about 12 years ago when I should of started internet marketing. I wish I could hot tub time machine my way back.

    Mobile marketing feels that way now. Thanks for the feedback. I can take constructive criticism.
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  • Profile picture of the author jamesrich1
    Last thing I will say and then I have to go is leaving my email out there has already helped me build starting relationships. I can decipher people trying to sale me to real honest people. I trust warrior forum. Thanks for everything warrior forum. I'll be back later. I am excited!
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  • No offense -- but it sounds like you are looking for a 'job', not to be an entrepreneur. They are two entirely different things.

    And spending a 'several' hours reading books is nothing. Unless that was a mistype, if you've only spent 'several' hours reading, doing ppc, etc -- then your results are phenomenal.

    In a nutshell, you need do to this.

    1. Figure out what you want to do. Do you want to make things? aka product creator? Or do you want to market it? (i.e., IMer). Or, do you want to do both?

    2. Like others have set, set some very specific goals for yourself. How much money is 'a lot'? $5000? $50000? etc. Figure out which activities will get you to that point.

    3. You'll actually need to 'work' at it, read a lot more than just several hours, and then apply what you've learned. You'll need to figure out whether what you are doing is getting you closer, or farther away from your goal. Eventually, you'll hit upon something that works, and then you keep on doing that, but just more of it.

    That's what you need to do.

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  • Profile picture of the author Steven Miranda
    3 words to get started. Offer a service

    Trust me, one of the easiest ways to get started and will get you on the road to making money... After that you will be motivated and then you create a product.
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  • Profile picture of the author iking5789
    This was real interesting to see everyone's re-action towards this man. Hmmm....
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  • Profile picture of the author Andyhenry
    Your only problem is that you're waiting for someone else to tell you what your business should be....
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    nothing to see here.

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    • Profile picture of the author Jarrett
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      Originally Posted by Andyhenry View Post

      Your only problem is that you're waiting for someone else to tell you what your business should be....
      Bingo.

      James, I read your post. All of it. I really feel for what you're going through.
      But you don't have 2 problems.. You only have 1.

      Fear. (fear of loss more specifically)

      You're not sticking to 1 thing because you are AFRAID of missing out on opportunity.. If you do 1 thing and just keep cranking away at it.. you'll miss out on everything else... and what if..

      What if...

      That 1 Thing you pick... is WRONG?

      Did you just waste all of your time and energy on something that doesn't work....???

      (scary, I know

      but here's the thing..

      The only WRONG thing you can do is NOTHING...

      And right now.. that's exactly what you're doing.

      nothing.

      You're waiting on someone else before you take action.. Right now.. you could be doing something..

      And something is ALWAYS better than nothing.

      I'll be honest with you. there are a MILLION ways to make money online.. and they all work! So just pick something!

      Even if all you did was write articles. if you cranked out 5 articles a day.. and did nothing else.. I guarantee you that you'll be making serious money by the end of the year. even if the articles are written bad.. or aren't for the best keywords.. or don't have tons of backlinks.. You'd have what? 1500 articles out there?

      You'd make money. trust me

      It's not about WHAT you know.. but WHAT you do with WHAT you know.

      We've been lied to. Knowledge is not power. Teachers are surrounded by books. University staff dedicate their whole life to literary arts and gaining knowledge.. YET most of them die broke or living paycheck to paycheck.. why? because knowledge is not power. Applied knowledge is POWER.

      if you've been in IM for more than a month or two then you ALREADY know stuff... so work with that

      I'm serious. even if all ya knew how to do is write articles.. write articles!

      And don't tell me that you can't make SERIOUS money from just doing that...
      I know a guy who did exactly what I just told ya about.. he zoned out for a whole year and every single day just kept cranking out articles.. 3-5 a day.

      a year went by. he now builds a list of 1,000+ a DAY just from those articles.
      and he doesn't have to do a dang thing.

      I make good money online.. I've helped alot of people make good money online.. but ya know what I've found?

      The people I've helped that ended up making the most money are the ones that just stuck with their guns and did what they love doing and what they are already good at.. because when you ignore everything else and just focus on what you're good at.. you're gonna get DAMN good at it.. REALLY quick.

      And each time you do it, you're gonna get faster and faster.. better and better.. until you're one of the best... and the best get paid the most ;0

      If I took you on as a coaching student.. I could show you a way to make money with videos.. and i told ya.. look all ya gotta do is crank out 3 videos a week.. and you'll make money by following this blueprint..

      If deep down inside you HATED doing videos... would you really do it?

      Probably not. you'd do it for a week or two.. then stop. because it's a job... and it's not what you want to do... i speak from experience.. i've seen it over and over again.

      So young jedi.. it's your move. Your fate is in YOUR hands...
      figure out what you love doing.. what you're good at.
      Do that. do more of it. Focus on it. Ignore the rest. get other people to do the rest. and you'll be styling...


      btw, I actually live right near ya. I'm in El dorado hills... and I got no problem meeting up with ya.. but just fyi i'd probably give ya the same exact speech in person lol
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      • Profile picture of the author scrofford
        Originally Posted by Jarrett View Post

        Bingo.

        James, I read your post. All of it. I really feel for what you're going through.
        But you don't have 2 problems.. You only have 1.

        Fear. (fear of loss more specifically)

        You're not sticking to 1 thing because you are AFRAID of missing out on opportunity.. If you do 1 thing and just keep cranking away at it.. you'll miss out on everything else... and what if..

        What if...

        That 1 Thing you pick... is WRONG?

        Did you just waste all of your time and energy on something that doesn't work....???

        (scary, I know

        but here's the thing..

        The only WRONG thing you can do is NOTHING...

        And right now.. that's exactly what you're doing.

        nothing.

        You're waiting on someone else before you take action.. Right now.. you could be doing something..

        And something is ALWAYS better than nothing.

        I'll be honest with you. there are a MILLION ways to make money online.. and they all work! So just pick something!

        Even if all you did was write articles. if you cranked out 5 articles a day.. and did nothing else.. I guarantee you that you'll be making serious money by the end of the year. even if the articles are written bad.. or aren't for the best keywords.. or don't have tons of backlinks.. You'd have what? 1500 articles out there?

        You'd make money. trust me

        It's not about WHAT you know.. but WHAT you do with WHAT you know.

        We've been lied to. Knowledge is not power. Teachers are surrounded by books. University staff dedicate their whole life to literary arts and gaining knowledge.. YET most of them die broke or living paycheck to paycheck.. why? because knowledge is not power. Applied knowledge is POWER.

        if you've been in IM for more than a month or two then you ALREADY know stuff... so work with that

        I'm serious. even if all ya knew how to do is write articles.. write articles!

        And don't tell me that you can't make SERIOUS money from just doing that...
        I know a guy who did exactly what I just told ya about.. he zoned out for a whole year and every single day just kept cranking out articles.. 3-5 a day.

        a year went by. he now builds a list of 1,000+ a DAY just from those articles.
        and he doesn't have to do a dang thing.

        I make good money online.. I've helped alot of people make good money online.. but ya know what I've found?

        The people I've helped that ended up making the most money are the ones that just stuck with their guns and did what they love doing and what they are already good at.. because when you ignore everything else and just focus on what you're good at.. you're gonna get DAMN good at it.. REALLY quick.

        And each time you do it, you're gonna get faster and faster.. better and better.. until you're one of the best... and the best get paid the most ;0

        If I took you on as a coaching student.. I could show you a way to make money with videos.. and i told ya.. look all ya gotta do is crank out 3 videos a week.. and you'll make money by following this blueprint..

        If deep down inside you HATED doing videos... would you really do it?

        Probably not. you'd do it for a week or two.. then stop. because it's a job... and it's not what you want to do... i speak from experience.. i've seen it over and over again.

        So young jedi.. it's your move. Your fate is in YOUR hands...
        figure out what you love doing.. what you're good at.
        Do that. do more of it. Focus on it. Ignore the rest. get other people to do the rest. and you'll be styling...


        btw, I actually live right near ya. I'm in El dorado hills... and I got no problem meeting up with ya.. but just fyi i'd probably give ya the same exact speech in person lol
        This is EXCELLENT advice and anyone reading it should get some good information out of it! I needed to hear this! I get lazy and afraid also at times and I'm not saying the OP is lazy by any means...I'm saying I am. This just kicked me in the rear and got me motivated!

        I also want to get off track at times. I know I need to focus on what I am doing and nothing else for right now. Thanks for taking the time to write this!
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      • Profile picture of the author rjweng
        Originally Posted by Jarrett View Post

        Bingo.

        James, I read your post. All of it. I really feel for what you're going through.
        But you don't have 2 problems.. You only have 1.

        Fear. (fear of loss more specifically)

        You're not sticking to 1 thing because you are AFRAID of missing out on opportunity.. If you do 1 thing and just keep cranking away at it.. you'll miss out on everything else... and what if..

        What if...

        That 1 Thing you pick... is WRONG?

        Did you just waste all of your time and energy on something that doesn't work....???

        (scary, I know

        but here's the thing..

        The only WRONG thing you can do is NOTHING...

        And right now.. that's exactly what you're doing.

        nothing.

        You're waiting on someone else before you take action.. Right now.. you could be doing something..

        And something is ALWAYS better than nothing.

        I'll be honest with you. there are a MILLION ways to make money online.. and they all work! So just pick something!

        Even if all you did was write articles. if you cranked out 5 articles a day.. and did nothing else.. I guarantee you that you'll be making serious money by the end of the year. even if the articles are written bad.. or aren't for the best keywords.. or don't have tons of backlinks.. You'd have what? 1500 articles out there?

        You'd make money. trust me

        It's not about WHAT you know.. but WHAT you do with WHAT you know.

        We've been lied to. Knowledge is not power. Teachers are surrounded by books. University staff dedicate their whole life to literary arts and gaining knowledge.. YET most of them die broke or living paycheck to paycheck.. why? because knowledge is not power. Applied knowledge is POWER.

        if you've been in IM for more than a month or two then you ALREADY know stuff... so work with that

        I'm serious. even if all ya knew how to do is write articles.. write articles!

        And don't tell me that you can't make SERIOUS money from just doing that...
        I know a guy who did exactly what I just told ya about.. he zoned out for a whole year and every single day just kept cranking out articles.. 3-5 a day.

        a year went by. he now builds a list of 1,000+ a DAY just from those articles.
        and he doesn't have to do a dang thing.

        I make good money online.. I've helped alot of people make good money online.. but ya know what I've found?

        The people I've helped that ended up making the most money are the ones that just stuck with their guns and did what they love doing and what they are already good at.. because when you ignore everything else and just focus on what you're good at.. you're gonna get DAMN good at it.. REALLY quick.

        And each time you do it, you're gonna get faster and faster.. better and better.. until you're one of the best... and the best get paid the most ;0

        If I took you on as a coaching student.. I could show you a way to make money with videos.. and i told ya.. look all ya gotta do is crank out 3 videos a week.. and you'll make money by following this blueprint..

        If deep down inside you HATED doing videos... would you really do it?

        Probably not. you'd do it for a week or two.. then stop. because it's a job... and it's not what you want to do... i speak from experience.. i've seen it over and over again.

        So young jedi.. it's your move. Your fate is in YOUR hands...
        figure out what you love doing.. what you're good at.
        Do that. do more of it. Focus on it. Ignore the rest. get other people to do the rest. and you'll be styling...


        btw, I actually live right near ya. I'm in El dorado hills... and I got no problem meeting up with ya.. but just fyi i'd probably give ya the same exact speech in person lol
        Hey Jarrett,

        I totally agree with you. You hit the bulls eye with that piece of advice.

        Once you find your passion and start working on it, you will find that working becomes a pleasure and the quality of work that you produce would be excellent.

        Here's a quote from the late Bruce Lee that I think is very relevant to most of us in the IM world.

        "Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do." – Bruce Lee
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    • Profile picture of the author ryanmilligan
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      Originally Posted by Andyhenry View Post

      Your only problem is that you're waiting for someone else to tell you what your business should be....
      Exactly what I was thinking Andy.

      To the OP, you need to stop moaping about and just get to work. Like Andy said, stop waiting on someone to tell you what to do and just start somewhere. If somebody holds your hand the whole way through success, how do you know that when they let go you will still be successful?

      I mean this in the nicest way possible if I am coming across as a d*** :p
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  • Profile picture of the author wingman7
    The problem with all the books, courses, videos, advice etc is that what you want is to be given some choices of things you could do, make a choice to do one of those things then choose someone who is good at those things to mentor and encourage you to persist in those things. I hear your frustration at going not far enough in any area to succeed.
    Jarrett sounds like hes onto it. Maybe talking it to death will help clarify a direction. Sitting alone in front of a computer can be pretty hard sometimes. Thank goodness for forums and forumees.
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    • Profile picture of the author DOWORKSON
      We've been lied to. Knowledge is not power. Teachers are surrounded by books. University staff dedicate their whole life to literary arts and gaining knowledge.. YET most of them die broke or living paycheck to paycheck.. why? because knowledge is not power. Applied knowledge is POWER.
      Brilliant!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author wingman7
    Quote "I'm serious. even if all ya knew how to do is write articles.. write articles!

    And don't tell me that you can't make SERIOUS money from just doing that...
    I know a guy who did exactly what I just told ya about.. he zoned out for a whole year and every single day just kept cranking out articles.. 3-5 a day."

    You struck a chord. Instead of doing videos, blogs, mp3's and a hundred other things just do the 1 thing you do well. My base is too broad! Time to narrow it down!
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    • Profile picture of the author Claire Koch
      there you go thats it ...read it carefully. thats it!

      Originally Posted by wingman7 View Post

      Quote "I'm serious. even if all ya knew how to do is write articles.. write articles!

      And don't tell me that you can't make SERIOUS money from just doing that...
      I know a guy who did exactly what I just told ya about.. he zoned out for a whole year and every single day just kept cranking out articles.. 3-5 a day."

      You struck a chord. Instead of doing videos, blogs, mp3's and a hundred other things just do the 1 thing you do well. My base is too broad! Time to narrow it down!
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  • Profile picture of the author laurenswuyts
    You should be motivated, an focus on one thing. If it doesn't work than try another thing. but if it works, even just a lil bit. Stick to it! Take action!
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  • Profile picture of the author vivi62
    great motivation and a will to succeed and a plan will ultimately bring you success.
    Regards
    vivi62
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    • Profile picture of the author FreeMeal
      Originally Posted by Armando6887 View Post

      Hot seo chick are you making money?
      She said yes
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