Motovation to Millions.....

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Hi everyone.

I want to tell you a story and hopefully it will get you inspired.

For the pas 3 years I have been depressed and not really looking forward to life. About 5 years ago my grandmother died who I lovd dearly. The about 3 years ago my mother died. That tore me apart. Then my best friends 6 year old son died which tore him apart. A year ago my wife died and about 5 month ago my aunt died.

Now I am not telling you that to get emotional feedback but just waned to give you a little back story as well as set the tone of how I was feeling. Now there are other items that lead to my depression but I will leave them out because I think you get the picture.

Anyway.... I believe most of you have had similar experiences. So draw on those as you continue to read.

During this depression state I was trying to find some type of focus in my life. I would jump from one idea to another no completing the tasks I set for myself. Everytime I turned around something would go wrong or some bs would just knock me down just a little more.

Well enough became enough and I had to make a decision. I had to decide if I was going to let othes dictate or control how I would do thing or was I going to stand up and say "FU" I am not going to take it anymore. I am tired of your excuses you need to go away.

And that is what I did. I sat down and wrote down everything that was bothering me. I made a list of all the negative people and situations in my life and I made it my goal to eliminate each and every one of hem.

And you know what. It worked. I feel great. From there I did something positive and put everything into a manual. I took all my frustrations all my viewpoints and jus spilled them out onto my computer until I just couldn't write anymore. I ended up calling this "The Mindset Manual".

Every time I get depressed or think somehing is not going my way I refer to that manual. And it picks me up.

Now I have focus and a plan. I finally found work I am passionat about and people enjoy. I have clients, I have customers and I am getting ready to take a trip for an entire month somewhere just to get away from here. Things are looking up finally.

I offered this manual in the Private Forum and got 13 likes and some great comments. I also have the manual as part of my Product Creaion Mentor Program. But seeing that it helped a lot of people I decided to give it away to everyone here as well.

You can download it for free here - http://www.exposingnichemarkets.com/mindset.zip

So the bottom line in my little story here is this, don' let anythng get you down for long. Yes it is good to sometimes take a step back and look at what is really importaint in life. Don't make it about making money or needing to get the bills paid. Yes those are importaint but don't revove your life around it. Life is too short. Enjoy yourself.

So read the Mindset Manual. Take it to heart an apply it to your own goals an dreams. Take all the negative aspects of your life and flush them away. If people or situations hold you down just knock them away and reach for your goal. Because today is all that we have. Tomorrow is a promise no one can keep.

Enjoy and to your success in whatever it may be.
#millions #motovation
  • Profile picture of the author Peggy Baron
    Hi Eric,
    I haven't gotten all the way through it yet, but I liked what you said about Don't Get Married. True!

    Thanks,
    Peggy
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  • Profile picture of the author NicheExposed
    Thanks Peggy..

    Yeah.. don't get married to any idea. But don't jump from one idea to another. Play out the first idea, see what directions it leads you to and then pick one. Like Joe Dirt said "Life is a garden. Dig it!"

    Enjoy.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike McAleer
    It is very important to keep motivated or else you will get no where in life. If you keep going at it, you can succeed.
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  • Profile picture of the author NicheExposed
    Hay Mike!

    Your are 100% right. It is amazing what you can accomplish if you just take baby steps and do just a little every day. That one article that you write or that one blog post that you put up online may not seem importaint to you at that time but if you get someone in the right frame of mind at the right time amazing things will happen. And just think if you said, "I not wasting my time with article writing or blog commenting" just because they are no follow link or people don't use your sig file you would have lost what may have come.

    Just because you might not see the value doesn't mean someone else wont.

    Here's an example. I just started with vWorker.com. I put out about 5 posts the first day and didn' get anything. Then I found one for a hosting compay (Rivalhost.com). I got the job because I said I can do it right now. If I didn't do that I wouldn't of had that job. It was for a review. And offtopic. They are pretty cool. The two things I liked most was the fact you can pay monthly and they have lots of scripts. I gave them some tips on improving cmmunications and I made $25.00.

    But anyway.. Back to my topic.

    That one step lead to another $50.00 job. Which lead to a job I am doing now for $125.00 and I got a side job that will start at $150 and probably lead to about $10,000.00. So making money online is easy. The main thing you need to know is ths.... don't tell anyone....

    "It isn't about making money online when it comes to making money online." ?????

    It is about selling yourself and your skills. No one on this forum cares if John Doe makes $0.01 online. You care if you make money online. The seceret to making money online is that there is no seceret. Selling online is just like selling offline. You just get a bigger audiance online compard to offline.

    So if you want the abc's of making money online.. here it is.

    A. Don't think about the money. Do something for free to impress someone and get your name and skills out there.

    B. Look for people who want somethng done. (Work for hire sites) See what people are looking to have done. Bid on those jobs and if you get them do them to the best of your ability. If you don't get them, write down the idea and look to see who else needs that service done and then do that job for them.

    C. Take your knowladge you learn about other people and yourself and then form a company around those skills and just market yourself. Even if you take a loss on a job or a product you gain "WORD OF MOUTH" which is the best advertising you can ever. Just keep your eye out for the "Freebie Seekers" who will get what they can out of you for as little as they can get away with and not give you any credit for your efforts.

    A + B + C = Results

    To your success!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author NicheExposed
    I have taken the mindset manual off the market and am redoing it with an audio version. If you still want to get it let me know and I will tell you when it is released.

    thanks.

    And if you have read it and want to give me a testimonial then please send it to me in a pm.

    thaks.
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  • Profile picture of the author WebPen
    Glad to hear things are going better- that's a rough history my friend.

    There's no way around it- negative people are going to bring you DOWN.

    As a pastor of mine illustrated one time- it's MUCH easier to pull someone down then lift them up!
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