11,000 Posts...11 Things That Made Me A Success

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Can't believe this machine is still going. Okay, let's forget the chit chat and
get to the brass tacks. I'm going to reveal the 11 most important things I
did in my 6 years of marketing online that have most contributed to my
success. These are in no special order because quite honestly, I could never
even begin to figure out which of these was most important.

They all were.

So let's get started.

1. Organization and Planning - Didn't always have this one, and boy did
it kill me when I first started. I had no plan, was totally unorganized and
didn't have a clue what I was doing.

Today, I wake up each day with a definite purpose. I know exactly what
I am going to do, how long it's going to take me, and what I expect to
get from it in the process. I am so freakin organized these days that I am
almost anal. Don't try to get me off my routine...I'll buck like a bronco.

You have got to be laser focused if you're going to have real success in
this business. Jumping around from one thing to another is a recipe for
disaster.

2. Listening To Others - Boy, was I one stubborn cus when I first started
out and even years later. I wouldn't listen to nobody. I was going to do
it my way and make it work if it killed me.

Then I learned to listen to people smarter than me...way smarter. People
like Paul Myers, John Taylor, Allen Says, Willie Crawford, and the list goes
on and on. These people may not realize it, but they changed my life,
especially the ones who gave me a kick in the pants when I needed it.

Trust me, you do not have all the answers. Listen to those here and at
other forums who have reputations for being successful. Dig for those
golden nuggets where you can.

One of them may just save your business from disaster.

3. Concentrating On My Strengths - I used to try to do it all. Those days
are gone. Today, if there is something I don't do well, I get somebody else
to do it for me.

The only thing I will never outsource is my writing because that is my
personality and who I am. Everything else will be given to those who can
do them better.

I have no more time to fiddle with things that I am just okay at.

4. Spending My Money Wisely - I just killed $200 of monthly expenses
because they weren't bringing me the return that I expected. If you're
spending money on something, such as advertising or a membership site
and it's not bringing you a positive return within a reasonable amount of
time...kill it.

How much time?

That's going to depend on way too many factors to get into here. Some
investment strategies are long term. Others should bring results relatively
fast. So you have to look at each situation individually. There is no one
answer here.

In my case, this $200 was working well up until recently. After a few
months of downturn and finally one month of pure disaster, I realized that
this investment wasn't working anymore and killed it.

5. Always Thinking Of New Ideas - I can't believe how many products
and services I've come out with over the last 3 years. I am constantly
thinking of new ideas. Each one is carefully thought out. Niche research
is done to make sure there is a demand.

I don't believe, unless you have something like Sam Stephen's DLGuard,
that you can ever have just one thing that is going to sell forever. Sure,
there are exceptions, but they are few and far between, especially in the
IM make money niche.

It can never hurt to think of new things or ways to improve the things
you're already selling so that competition doesn't kick you out of the
marketplace.

Never stop thinking...never.

6. Cultivating Relationships - I wore the badge of the loner with pride.
No more. I have made quite a few relationships during the period of time
that I have been hanging out here. I won't drop any names because these
people may not want to be associated with me in public.

All kidding aside, because of these relationships, my income for next year
will probably double. I could have never done this alone. And yet for so
many years, I did it alone.

One word on relationships. Don't try to partner up with a John Reese if
you're a John Doe. Look for somebody in your income level. The stories
about how the boys from years ago (Filsaime and the rest) got together
and made names for themselves is legendary. You can easily do the same
thing. Three or four startup marketers, with the right idea, can make a
killing.

You don't need a top level earner to make your fortune.

7. Testing - I was the laziest SOB when it came to testing. I'd just throw
anything up at the wall and prayed that it stuck. No more. I test every
little thing I do now. I have so many tracking URLs in my collection I'm
having trouble keeping track of them.

If you don't know where your traffic and sales is coming from, you're
marketing in the dark. Unless you're that sure of yourself, this is just
plain suicide.

Test and track...test and track.

Do it until your eyes bug out. Just do it!

8. Experimenting - I am not afraid to try something new and off the wall.
I have tried some things that were total disasters. I have also tried others
that turned out to be gold mines.

You can't be afraid to take chances. If you live in a scared little "What if
it doesn't work" world, you'll never get anywhere.

I took my biggest chance this year with Diceology. I put everything I had
into it.

It was a total disaster. I'm not even going to bother paying for the
trademark that I applied for. It's just more good money after bad. I
misjudged the market and as a result, came up with a dud. I think after
almost a whole year and only 5 sales, it's safe to say it was a failure.

But I also came up with some gems.

Don't let fear paralyze you into doing nothing.

Take chances...For crying out loud it's only time and money. It's not like
you're risking your health or your life.

If it bombs, so what? Who cares? Go on to something else.

But give it a fair chance before you do.

9. Providing Value To My Customers - This seems like such an obvious
duh! But how many of you have bought things from others that turned
out to be utter crap?

I could wall paper the town of Roselle where I live with all the emails I've
received from people saying, "Thank you for such a great product."

You will never survive in this business long if you sell crap.

I think I've made my point.

10. Honesty Above And Beyond - I'm told many times that I am losing
money by telling people that my product isn't for them.

I don't care.

When people write to me and say things like, "Steve, my English not so
good. I want write articles. Will your book give me the help?"

I politely write back and tell them that if English isn't your first language
and you don't feel comfortable writing in it, my book, while maybe being
able to help you somewhat, I don't think it is going to turn you into a
proficient writer of the English language. For that, you probably need to
take a course in English.

And then they write back to me, thanking me for my honesty and I never
hear from them again.

I'd rather this than having them buy the book and then 3 months later
writing to me telling me that every article they submit to EZA is rejected.

I know many won't agree with this but that's the way I am. If somebody
asks me a question, they get an honest answer...even if it means that
I lose a sale.

Take what you want from this, but it's a big part of my success because
people trust me.

11. Customer Service - I can also wallpaper the town with the emails I
get back saying, "Man that was fast!"

I take care of my customers promptly, regardless of what their problem is.

If it's a request for a refund, they get it that day, usually within minutes.

If it's a list of questions, depending on how long those questions are, I get
back to them at least within a day or two.

I take care of my customers. I send each one a personal thank you for
their purchase, something not a lot of marketers do.

I treat them the way I'd want to be treated.

If you treat your customers like crap, you will lose them.

If you treat them well, you will keep them.

Summary - All of the above can really be summed up like this...

I run my business as professionally as I can.

Do I make mistakes? Of course I do. We all do. But I try to keep those
mistakes down to a minimum.

The number of my customers who have been upset with me over the course
of 6 years can be counted on one hand.

How many people can say that?

Please go through the list above and see where you can improve your
business.

I think you'll find that if you do, you'll make more money in 2009 than you
did in 2008.

Happy Holidays and please have a safe and happy New Year.
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  • Profile picture of the author kumar
    Steven,

    Thanks a ton for those Golden Nuggets. It seems just y'day that you completed your 10K and were generous enough to gift me your Article Writing and Marketing Guide. Time does fly!

    All the best to you and your family for the New Year.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dan Ambrose
    WOW - You are a true inspiration to me Steven.

    Great post.

    Daniel
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  • Profile picture of the author Jamie Iaconis
    Great post Steve....

    I fully agree with your list!

    If you combine all 11 things, you
    are sure to become a success.

    Jamie
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  • Profile picture of the author Amy Bass
    Another great post from Steven. I got to say, I have been enjoying your days of Christmas emails.
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  • Profile picture of the author TheMagicShow
    Hey Steven,

    Congrats on getting to 11,000 posts, you are a machine indeed and your posts are always very interesting to read.
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  • Profile picture of the author zeppb
    Congrats on the 11k posts steven. Thanks for the great post as well.
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  • Profile picture of the author writerval
    Steve,

    You are an inspiration to me. I just purchased your "Make Money Today" WSO, and as usual, you over-deliver. I especially appreciate how honest you are that you were not an instant success, that it took time and didn't happen overnight.

    Excellent post.

    Valerie
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  • Profile picture of the author jhongren
    Hi Steve,

    Thanks for sharing your dally life thinking pattern and practice. I love it.

    I have learnt to leverage on my strengths too and not to focus too much on my flaws. I learn to improve my weakness but it is not the focus of my life.

    Plus I want to add you are a very nice person and always genuine to help others.

    Thanks alot for all your gifts!

    Cheers,
    John
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  • Profile picture of the author Chuck Underwood
    Great post Steven,

    Something that everyone could use in creating an online and offline business. Thank you for the inspiration.

    Chuck
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  • Profile picture of the author JV3STUDIO
    Excellent advice, Steve. Your input here is making a difference.

    Happy new year!

    Johan


    PS. Where's the beer icon gone?
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  • Profile picture of the author yinkamuyi
    Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

    Can't believe this machine is still going. Okay, let's forget the chit chat and
    get to the brass tacks. I'm going to reveal the 11 most important things I
    did in my 6 years of marketing online that have most contributed to my
    success. These are in no special order because quite honestly, I could never
    even begin to figure out which of these was most important.

    They all were.

    So let's get started.

    1. Organization and Planning - Didn't always have this one, and boy did
    it kill me when I first started. I had no plan, was totally unorganized and
    didn't have a clue what I was doing.

    Today, I wake up each day with a definite purpose. I know exactly what
    I am going to do, how long it's going to take me, and what I expect to
    get from it in the process. I am so freakin organized these days that I am
    almost anal. Don't try to get me off my routine...I'll buck like a bronco.

    You have got to be laser focused if you're going to have real success in
    this business. Jumping around from one thing to another is a recipe for
    disaster.

    2. Listening To Others - Boy, was I one stubborn cus when I first started
    out and even years later. I wouldn't listen to nobody. I was going to do
    it my way and make it work if it killed me.

    Then I learned to listen to people smarter than me...way smarter. People
    like Paul Myers, John Taylor, Allen Says, Willie Crawford, and the list goes
    on and on. These people may not realize it, but they changed my life,
    especially the ones who gave me a kick in the pants when I needed it.

    Trust me, you do not have all the answers. Listen to those here and at
    other forums who have reputations for being successful. Dig for those
    golden nuggets where you can.

    One of them may just save your business from disaster.

    3. Concentrating On My Strengths - I used to try to do it all. Those days
    are gone. Today, if there is something I don't do well, I get somebody else
    to do it for me.

    The only thing I will never outsource is my writing because that is my
    personality and who I am. Everything else will be given to those who can
    do them better.

    I have no more time to fiddle with things that I am just okay at.

    4. Spending My Money Wisely - I just killed $200 of monthly expenses
    because they weren't bringing me the return that I expected. If you're
    spending money on something, such as advertising or a membership site
    and it's not bringing you a positive return within a reasonable amount of
    time...kill it.

    How much time?

    That's going to depend on way too many factors to get into here. Some
    investment strategies are long term. Others should bring results relatively
    fast. So you have to look at each situation individually. There is no one
    answer here.

    In my case, this $200 was working well up until recently. After a few
    months of downturn and finally one month of pure disaster, I realized that
    this investment wasn't working anymore and killed it.

    5. Always Thinking Of New Ideas - I can't believe how many products
    and services I've come out with over the last 3 years. I am constantly
    thinking of new ideas. Each one is carefully thought out. Niche research
    is done to make sure there is a demand.

    I don't believe, unless you have something like Sam Stephen's DLGuard,
    that you can ever have just one thing that is going to sell forever. Sure,
    there are exceptions, but they are few and far between, especially in the
    IM make money niche.

    It can never hurt to think of new things or ways to improve the things
    you're already selling so that competition doesn't kick you out of the
    marketplace.

    Never stop thinking...never.

    6. Cultivating Relationships - I wore the badge of the loner with pride.
    No more. I have made quite a few relationships during the period of time
    that I have been hanging out here. I won't drop any names because these
    people may not want to be associated with me in public.

    All kidding aside, because of these relationships, my income for next year
    will probably double. I could have never done this alone. And yet for so
    many years, I did it alone.

    One word on relationships. Don't try to partner up with a John Reese if
    you're a John Doe. Look for somebody in your income level. The stories
    about how the boys from years ago (Filsaime and the rest) got together
    and made names for themselves is legendary. You can easily do the same
    thing. Three or four startup marketers, with the right idea, can make a
    killing.

    You don't need a top level earner to make your fortune.

    7. Testing - I was the laziest SOB when it came to testing. I'd just throw
    anything up at the wall and prayed that it stuck. No more. I test every
    little thing I do now. I have so many tracking URLs in my collection I'm
    having trouble keeping track of them.

    If you don't know where your traffic and sales is coming from, you're
    marketing in the dark. Unless you're that sure of yourself, this is just
    plain suicide.

    Test and track...test and track.

    Do it until your eyes bug out. Just do it!

    8. Experimenting - I am not afraid to try something new and off the wall.
    I have tried some things that were total disasters. I have also tried others
    that turned out to be gold mines.

    You can't be afraid to take chances. If you live in a scared little "What if
    it doesn't work" world, you'll never get anywhere.

    I took my biggest chance this year with Diceology. I put everything I had
    into it.

    It was a total disaster. I'm not even going to bother paying for the
    trademark that I applied for. It's just more good money after bad. I
    misjudged the market and as a result, came up with a dud. I think after
    almost a whole year and only 5 sales, it's safe to say it was a failure.

    But I also came up with some gems.

    Don't let fear paralyze you into doing nothing.

    Take chances...For crying out loud it's only time and money. It's not like
    you're risking your health or your life.

    If it bombs, so what? Who cares? Go on to something else.

    But give it a fair chance before you do.

    9. Providing Value To My Customers - This seems like such an obvious
    duh! But how many of you have bought things from others that turned
    out to be utter crap?

    I could wall paper the town of Roselle where I live with all the emails I've
    received from people saying, "Thank you for such a great product."

    You will never survive in this business long if you sell crap.

    I think I've made my point.

    10. Honesty Above And Beyond - I'm told many times that I am losing
    money by telling people that my product isn't for them.

    I don't care.

    When people write to me and say things like, "Steve, my English not so
    good. I want write articles. Will your book give me the help?"

    I politely write back and tell them that if English isn't your first language
    and you don't feel comfortable writing in it, my book, while maybe being
    able to help you somewhat, I don't think it is going to turn you into a
    proficient writer of the English language. For that, you probably need to
    take a course in English.

    And then they write back to me, thanking me for my honesty and I never
    hear from them again.

    I'd rather this than having them buy the book and then 3 months later
    writing to me telling me that every article they submit to EZA is rejected.

    I know many won't agree with this but that's the way I am. If somebody
    asks me a question, they get an honest answer...even if it means that
    I lose a sale.

    Take what you want from this, but it's a big part of my success because
    people trust me.

    11. Customer Service - I can also wallpaper the town with the emails I
    get back saying, "Man that was fast!"

    I take care of my customers promptly, regardless of what their problem is.

    If it's a request for a refund, they get it that day, usually within minutes.

    If it's a list of questions, depending on how long those questions are, I get
    back to them at least within a day or two.

    I take care of my customers. I send each one a personal thank you for
    their purchase, something not a lot of marketers do.

    I treat them the way I'd want to be treated.

    If you treat your customers like crap, you will lose them.

    If you treat them well, you will keep them.

    Summary - All of the above can really be summed up like this...

    I run my business as professionally as I can.

    Do I make mistakes? Of course I do. We all do. But I try to keep those
    mistakes down to a minimum.

    The number of my customers who have been upset with me over the course
    of 6 years can be counted on one hand.

    How many people can say that?

    Please go through the list above and see where you can improve your
    business.

    I think you'll find that if you do, you'll make more money in 2009 than you
    did in 2008.

    Happy Holidays and please have a safe and happy New Year.
    Whao fantastic inspiration worth thousands of dollars,i just bookmark your post so that i can go over to it all the time.Happy new year in advance.
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  • Profile picture of the author Simon Ashari
    well done steve.

    look forward to another 11000 posts and more


    keep up the good work

    Simon
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    Is that it?...

    11K posts and you post this worthless crap?...

    LMAO.. jus playin' Waggerz..

    Dude.. I really have no idea how you write so much.. I put in about 1 LONG Warrior post a month and it kills me to get it done. I just can't do it unless it is in my business, and it's going to bring me profit.. different motivation I s'pose...

    I think you are amazing for sharing so freely.

    Peace dude..

    Jay
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    Bare Murkage.........

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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by JayXtreme View Post

      Is that it?...

      11K posts and you post this worthless crap?...

      LMAO.. jus playin' Waggerz..

      Dude.. I really have no idea how you write so much.. I put in about 1 LONG Warrior post a month and it kills me to get it done. I just can't do it unless it is in my business, and it's going to bring me profit.. different motivation I s'pose...

      I think you are amazing for sharing so freely.

      Peace dude..

      Jay

      Jay, what can I tell you. For the most part, I enjoy being here and
      sharing with others. I still get plenty of work done (just check my EZA
      stats) so as long as it doesn't affect that, I'm cool with it.
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  • Profile picture of the author BSM
    Steven,

    I'm just starting out & have read many of your posts...I find them extremely helpful, particularly because of their honesty & no-holds-barred attitude. Thank you for being so prolific -- I am learning a great deal from your contributions. Barbara
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  • Profile picture of the author Charann Miller
    That was one of the best and inspiring emails I've ever read here.

    It can be a little daunting seeing someone who is such a prolific writer with such a wealth of knowledge and experience yet at the same time humbling to learn that you started somewhere too and learned from your mistakes and made better decisions as a result of them.

    I love the fact that you thought you could do it all, I'm experiencing that very lesson as we speak especially when our time could be more productively spent focusing on our strengths.

    You're right, everything needs a plan, from constructing skyscrapers to writing film scripts, we are no different especially if we want to measure our progress and have something to strive for.

    By the way, you can print this and add it to your already huge collection of wallpaper.

    Cheers for the post.
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  • Profile picture of the author loktakwah
    Steve, I want to say thank you for all of your posts. Any time I see your name on a post on this forum, I always put reading that post at the top of my priority list. Always learn something new.

    Thanks!
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