The 6 Month Meltdown!

by art72
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Warriors,

Hopefully, this helps others find some direction, and help me gain some too.

Back in Feb 2011, I purchased my first hosting account and domain. This was in an effort to commit myself to learn the basics of internet marketing, and find a methods I could employ to make a few extra bucks online.

At that time, I had NO clue "How To"

  • Buy Domains or Set DNS
  • Do Proper Keyword, Market, or Product Research
  • Upload Files via FTP
  • Create a WP Site
  • Use a Web Editor
  • Setting Up an Autoresponder (AWeber)
  • Set Up Payment Processor
  • Apply Basic SEO Techniques
  • Tracking and Analytics
  • Article Marketing, Spinning, or Submitting
  • Creating Content, Sales Funnels....
  • Basically...I didn't know Jack Schitt!
In six short months, I have developed a basic understanding of much that once seemed impossible. Naturally, I've yet to master these techniques, but I encourage all newcomers to prepare themselves mentally, as it is a lot to learn and digest.

Personally, I have been consistently devoting 40 hours per week (at least) to internet marketing, while working a full-time job, and maintaining my responsibilities as a Husband, and a father of 3 teenagers...for 6 months straight

My objective is to transition into a full-time online marketer, and eventually earn a consistent income online. One that will afford me to surpass my current reliance on my dead end job, and drop the JOB all together.

To say I am "exhausted"...is an understatement!

With both time and income restrictions, I maintain those efforts, and have since learned a massive amount of information within a relatively short period of time. There too, I have done so with a minimal financial investment. (*Roughly $3,000 to date over those 6 months)...which for any business is IMHO is dirt cheap!

The objective of this post is NOT necessarily designed to my promote myself, or that of my accomplishments, or lack thereof. It's NOT even about the money, as I have had only 4 sales, and still do not focus on the money as the priority.

Instead, it is an effort to understand, and help beginner's find direction (myself included) to answer a few questions that have arose in my experience.

Naturally, we all learn differently, and in my experience it requires some trial and error, testing, and a determination NOT to quit, and keep TAKING ACTION. (* I have no quarrel with such facts)

6 Months later, I have collected a massive amount of tools, training, and software...cheap!

Most of the above "bullet pointed" necessities has become a familiar daily practice, and are NOT so intimidating anymore. I have crashed 2 computers, and learned valuable lessons about backing up files, and protecting my content. Along with a mind-blowing amount of technical skills, which still remains my greatest weakness.

There too, My PayPal account was 'hacked' for $212.63, which has since been refunded, and I scored a nifty little password protector in the form of a credit card, with a built in digital password generator synced to my PayPal account. (Really cool actually)

The majority of the above "basics" I have conquered, and remain focused on mastering, are the root of creating online success in any market/niche for the long-term gainn, not solely quick money schemes.

One thing that has definitely changed, is my mindset!

When I dove into this journey, I thought it was going to produce some easy money, and I'd just cut and past some "affiliate links" and banner ads and Wah-Lah be earning a decent living online!

To the contrary, the journey has been nothing of the sort. I have waded knee-deep in research, read enough opinionated information to make my head explode, and determined the value of time management is critical to include when working from home and online.

I have 'failed miserably' in an admission to the fact, I am currently a great student in conducting research, but have yet to cross the threshold to become a professional 'practitioner' at earning consistent sales or a living online exclusively.

Truth is, I have studied soooo much, that the more I learn, the more 'unfit' I feel my focus on money has become. Another words, I have become patient in establishing money sites, until I learn methods that surpass my previous theories and ignorance.

I am sure I am NOT alone here!

Information overload...yeah, a definite factor here.

However, unlike most seeking instant gratification, I am willing to accept the money comes later. There IS work involved in this industry, a major learning curve, and several methods of marketing to be explored.

Factor in, the many 'profitable' methods that require specific knowledge (i.e. site flipping, affiliate marketing, content & article writing, back-links, SEO, list building, targeted traffic, Copywriting, etc.) these are all time consuming studies I have mildly explored.

In conclusion, it dawned on me that one of the greatest enemies in both getting started and succeeding at any online marketing effort is NOT necessarily acquiring the knowledge, as I have had no problems finding quality knowledge concerning all-the-above...

The problem (as I see it) is NOT having a mentor, or like minded group of people to share ideas, and implement a real business approach, with real feedback from those who have overcome those obsticals.

In short, I feel my biggest handicap is trying to do everything myself, and have done so...but NOT having a person or group to call upon for direction (*other than random responses here, and in other forums) it
has become clear, I need a coach and a team!

My question to both newbies and seasoned marketer's alike;

"How critical is it to You to have like-minded individual's to share knowledge, and maintain growth in Your Business?"

While I am going it alone...I personally believe; I need a mentor, and a support group more focused on a 'targeted' goal over that of creating more confusion, information over-load, and variables associated to asking a questions to an entire forum...then trying to find that which suites my specific need or application.

Another words, I think the missing component in my efforts (and many others) is not having a person or persons on speed dial...who can 'relate' or provide guidance and feedback to the everyday problems we all incur.

Being independent in conducting studies, doing the work, and learning the 'basics' I believe is essentially to everyone. But to succeed, it appears a coach, a mentor, and a fellowship is a component I previously over-looked.

Would You Agree?

Thanks for reading,

Art
#meltdown #month
  • Profile picture of the author Blue Moon
    Art, what an excellent post thank you for taking the time! I have gone through the exact same things as you and I completely understand the frustration of "the more you learn, the more you think you don't know enough"!

    I've been hit by the info overload pitfall for over a year now and after trying everything under the sun, I finally feel focused.

    I don't have a mentor either but I think that's another area that needs to be looked at only After you have a focused plan on what you want to pursue. Since there so-called mentors in every area of internet marketing, I think it would be easy to pick the wrong one and end up with more frustration.

    Thanks again for sharing, it's nice to know others have gone through the same tough times!
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    • Profile picture of the author kbailey1734
      I have found my success by doing my research with one idea in mind instead of bouncing from one idea to another. This will put you in a spin and won't take you to success any time soon.

      If you are looking for a mentor, these can be extremely costly and may not help as much as you would think.

      I found that having others in the same shoes as you (who truly understand what your currently experiencing) can be just as beneficial.
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  • Profile picture of the author marketingstatic
    I relate to vast majority of what you said here. I dare so I cant speak for others but Im sure were not the only ones that ave had this experience. Even as great is this forum is nothing beats having a partner that's a real person and a sounding board. I think its like allot for people that want to lose weight and get fit. They buy fitness related food and items but lack the will power to actually use the tools and advice on a regular and consistent basis. I recently looked in the corner of my room and there sat several self help books. I have read some of them through entirely and some only partially.
    To summarize all of the self help gurus will tell you that you can measure your success by how many uncomfortable conversations you have had. I'm thinking I have not had enough....lol outside of the ones with my creditors and kids when they want money.
    The thing I have started to focus on of late is picking one actionable event or service and running with it no matter what for 90 days. Ask yourself daily what are the actions I take or need to take to get some cash coming in Daily. Thats my goal in the next 24-48 hours.
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  • Profile picture of the author sleblanc
    Great post, Art.

    As somebody just diving into Internet Marketing I can definitely relate. I have started to uncover different areas of research/information that have been useful in beginning to understand IM however have not invested in any projects just yet). I'm finding it difficult to "jump in with both feet" without any sort of direction or guidance in how I should be researching and implementing that knowledge effectively. Having a team to work with and bounce ideas off of, or having one-on-one mentoring would be tremendously helpful even just to begin the journey!

    Your post and dedication to your IM career is inspiring and I wish you the best of luck in the future of your IM'ing! I cannot stress how true your point about "INFORMATION OVERLOAD" is even within the WF forum itself!

    I haven't even ventured into the War Room yet..
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    • Profile picture of the author art72
      Originally Posted by Blue Moon View Post

      Art, what an excellent post thank you for taking the time! I have gone through the exact same things as you and I completely understand the frustration of "the more you learn, the more you think you don't know enough"!

      I've been hit by the info overload pitfall for over a year now and after trying everything under the sun, I finally feel focused.

      I don't have a mentor either but I think that's another area that needs to be looked at only After you have a focused plan on what you want to pursue. Since there so-called mentors in every area of internet marketing, I think it would be easy to pick the wrong one and end up with more frustration.

      Thanks again for sharing, it's nice to know others have gone through the same tough times!
      Blue Moon,

      It has really been more of a frustration of not having any real support. I am a very independent person, and generally do not like seeking assistance from anyone.

      I do agree that a so-called pursuit for a mentor could prove just as frustrating. From a business prospective, I made the mistake of doing all the work myself, and looking back cost me greatly, as I as one person could only do so much.

      Originally Posted by kbailey1734 View Post

      I have found my success by doing my research with one idea in mind instead of bouncing from one idea to another. This will put you in a spin and won't take you to success any time soon.

      If you are looking for a mentor, these can be extremely costly and may not help as much as you would think.

      I found that having others in the same shoes as you (who truly understand what your currently experiencing) can be just as beneficial.
      kbaily,

      Definitely guilty of having too many ideas, over that of focusing on one for a select period of time to see or even test results.

      Perhaps, this thread has already shown me that which I personally could not see, or refused to hear...which is stay on one project at a time.

      It spawned from the closing of Eben Pagan's recent launch of "Guru MasterClass" and in truth; I was disappointed at myself that I'd yet to earn enough to afford what 'on the surface' appeared to be some great teaching.

      Originally Posted by marketingstatic View Post

      I relate to vast majority of what you said here. I dare so I cant speak for others but Im sure were not the only ones that ave had this experience. Even as great is this forum is nothing beats having a partner that's a real person and a sounding board. I think its like allot for people that want to lose weight and get fit. They buy fitness related food and items but lack the will power to actually use the tools and advice on a regular and consistent basis. I recently looked in the corner of my room and there sat several self help books. I have read some of them through entirely and some only partially.
      To summarize all of the self help gurus will tell you that you can measure your success by how many uncomfortable conversations you have had. I'm thinking I have not had enough....lol outside of the ones with my creditors and kids when they want money.
      The thing I have started to focus on of late is picking one actionable event or service and running with it no matter what for 90 days. Ask yourself daily what are the actions I take or need to take to get some cash coming in Daily. Thats my goal in the next 24-48 hours.
      marketingstatic,

      Truth be told, hitting the submit button on this post was both humiliating (to a degree) and in-line with that of an "uncomfortable conversation" as you mentioned above.

      I have decided that niche marketing is 'my calling' of sort, as it requires many of the skills I mentioned in the bullet points in post #1. But, I too realize that generating cash within 24-48 hours employing 'proper' niche marketing methods is not likely.

      Originally Posted by majortraders View Post

      I think a group of like minded people are just as bad as not being creative enough yourself. You have to find a way to be profitable no matter how small the margin of profits are and get that business up and running. You can get here by reading stats thoroughly and maintaining a customer base that you can stay in contact with. Then get a group of creative individuals together to expand those margins.

      Don't try to put anyone else in charge of making your business profitable or assume anyone else can. They would have done it by now if they could have.
      majortraders,

      Of all the responses, this post probably suits me best as a wake up call, being I was a one-man operation and offline brick-n-mortar business owner for several years.

      And...after I established my offline business, the group systematically followed, built relationships, and benefited the industry greatly. Oddly enough, my competitor's used to call on me for advice, and I would give it.

      In return, I acquired many projects they either didn't want, or couldn't handle. It was a win/win indeed.

      It's a bit awkward admitting with internet marketing, I've yet to establish the confidence I once had with my offline business. It took time, as it appears will be so with creating a successful online business.

      Thanks!

      Originally Posted by sleblanc View Post

      Great post, Art.

      As somebody just diving into Internet Marketing I can definitely relate. I have started to uncover different areas of research/information that have been useful in beginning to understand IM however have not invested in any projects just yet). I'm finding it difficult to "jump in with both feet" without any sort of direction or guidance in how I should be researching and implementing that knowledge effectively. Having a team to work with and bounce ideas off of, or having one-on-one mentoring would be tremendously helpful even just to begin the journey!

      Your post and dedication to your IM career is inspiring and I wish you the best of luck in the future of your IM'ing! I cannot stress how true your point about "INFORMATION OVERLOAD" is even within the WF forum itself!

      I haven't even ventured into the War Room yet..
      sleblanc,

      First off, I'm glad my efforts could be inspiring to you! -Thank-You for the moral booster.

      I'd be lying if I were to deny I have found some easy ways to make fast money. Ways, I have refrained from employing, as they are NOT ethical.

      With that said, beware...there are plenty of sharks looking to feed off your inexperience. Luckily, I have only invested in one or two of these types, and learned quickly by my own experience 'what I do not want to become'...which is a money hungry fraud preying on the newbies who don't know any better!

      Honestly, I think this is a major factor to only having had 4 sales so far. Those all being from 'affiliate marketing'. Seeing what's out there takes time. Grasping the "Big Picture" takes even longer.

      I feel to have seen "The Big Picture" and have decided to concentrate specifically on Niche Marketing w/ quality affiliate products as the source of income.

      By doing this, I can rely on my writing passions, apply the techniques learned here, and stay out of the public eye until my knowledge is proven beyond that of just theory.

      I swear to God if I see one more CB earnings screen shot of someones 6-figure income, I'm gonna scream!

      Because the truth is 99% of those screenshots are one of two things:

      1. FAKE!
      2. Earned by massive JV launches, and the money though real, is derived from those having massive lists and partnerships!
      I do believe, those numbers are achievable with hard work, time, effort, and proper marketing.

      Thanks for responding!

      Art
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      • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
        Originally Posted by art72 View Post

        It has really been more of a frustration of not having any real support.
        I am a very independent person, and generally do not like seeking assistance from anyone.
        Sorry for any disrespect but that doesn't make any sense.
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        • Profile picture of the author art72
          Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

          Sorry for any disrespect but that doesn't make any sense.
          I'll elaborate. Generally I am a stubborn, confident, and egotistical a-hole. This worked well for me offline for 15 years in business!

          However, as the tide has turned, and I find myself at the mercy of those more knowledgeable online concerning my internet marketing growth, I have humbled myself to accept; I have a long way to go before I can consider myself an authority.

          As such, it forced me to seek direction from the community, a lesson in humility, no doubt...as I am finally able to admit being lesser than!

          edit: might I add that in seeking advice here, it often leads to more overload, as everyone suggests methods that have worked for them. If I attempted to believe every response here was less than flattering in an attempt to get me buy someone's WSO or program, I would be broke, and a liar!

          Not sure if that helps clarify the conflicting responses above, but it is an honest answer none-the-less!
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          • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
            Originally Posted by art72 View Post

            Not sure if that helps clarify the conflicting responses above, but it is an honest answer none-the-less!
            It does and my apologies if I sounded rude.

            If you like, I'll get on Skype tomorrow (I'm off to bed in a moment ) and I'll be more than happy to try and guide you in the right direction.
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  • Profile picture of the author art72
    Thanks Richard,

    No, I was not implying it was rude at all.

    I think my direction and focus will remain solely on Niche Marketing, as I have the tools and training, I just haven't committed to building my niche sites yet, as they require a lot of work.

    I do appreciate the offer to guide me in the right direction. Perhaps, that will be a reason for me to set up a Sykpe account tonight...LOL

    Good Night,

    All the Best,

    Art
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