Kids and teenager on IM.
thanks for the discussion so far. for new readers pls try to touch on point 1 and 2 and maybe 3.
my least important point is 4 and i already have many views and replies on that. point 4 was just thrown in and not the most important point. so pls touch on 1-3 and im more interested to know how u guys combat point 1 and 2. point 3 is open for discussion too.
thanks
IMHO i think parents should encourage their kids to concentrate on their school work. its fine once they are out of school.
For some reasons.
1. in some situations u need a CC.
2. in some situations u need to be 18. or 21. [depending on state]
3. u need lots of concentration and focus, lots of time and energy spent on IM as all the veterans will tell u, so how can u expect this from ur kid whhen they have school? its worse than working at macdolnalds after school.
4. even if all this isnt a problem, u MAY [i used "may" cos we are not God so no one knows until it happens, even me thats why i didnt use the word "will" ] haev a hard time controlling them.
kids with excessive money [u see this in adults, what more children] will easily go wayward.
and also if ur kids earns 100k a month, and u only earn 5k a month[whether its from working or IM], i could only imagine ur kid having a superior mindset and may have a hard time listening to u. after all he earns more than u.
there was a research about husbands and wife although some people dont mind and it doesnt affect some, but its a fact that psychologists say, when the wife earns more than the husband , it has certain effects on the husband. wife will tend to be domineering and all that, and the husband will lose esteem. this is a fact. although its not 100% the case.
addon from some warriors.
Everyone here seems to be looking at this with pros and cons both, and I agree. It also depends what age we are talking about here. I have to think about it from the perspective of my own children... If they are under 15, then they had better be spending most of their time being a kid, and doing kid things - having fun, relaxing, playing sports, playing games, doing their school work, learning responsibility from relatively easy things like completing their chores and maybe volunteering through the church once in a while. That's what I want for my kids at that age. |
I just want to say that anything thats keeps children away from drugs and bad influences is a good thing....if they can make money while doing it, its even better! Anything that keeps them off the streets is a plus! And if they can help pay your bills...its a winwin situation! haha Mark |
again this is my honest opinion, u are entitled to urs just as i am to mine.
but i would love to hear from u guys, just remember to keep things friendly, there is a difference between plainly stating ur opinion on the OP and offensively stating ur opinion. [by putting down someone's opinion for urs to rise.]
in short : be kind and courteous.
peace out. !
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