How To "Out" Warriors Who Don't Keep Their Word?

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I have a problem with a certain WSO seller who is refusing to reply to my support requests or grant me a refund for a product which isn't working.

I have just read the forum posting rules which says if I have a problem with another Warrior I should take it up with them directly.

Well, I've done this and have stopped receiving replies to my support ticket.

Under these circumstance, what do I do?

Surely people like this should be outed rather than be allowed to continue to taking advantage of others....
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  • Profile picture of the author BrianMcLeod
    As a buyer, you have every right to report on your experience in the WSO thread.

    Keep to the facts of the matter - don't make it personal.

    Explain what you did with what you bought and why it didn't work for you.

    Explain what happened when you decided to ask for a refund.

    REPORT on the matter like a journalist would, not a jilted ex, if you know what I mean.
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    • Profile picture of the author Bill Farnham
      Originally Posted by BrianMcLeod View Post

      REPORT on the matter like a journalist would, not a jilted ex, if you know what I mean.
      Yes, the pen is still mightier than the sword.

      That's why the preferred method of jilted exes everywhere is the handywork of a good lawyer...

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  • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
    You are allowed to post your issues in the wso thread. I don't see your name in the WSO forum.

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    Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

    I have a problem with a certain WSO seller who is refusing to reply to my support requests or grant me a refund for a product which isn't working.

    I have just read the forum posting rules which says if I have a problem with another Warrior I should take it up with them directly.

    Well, I've done this and have stopped receiving replies to my support ticket.

    Under these circumstance, what do I do?

    Surely people like this should be outed rather than be allowed to continue to taking advantage of others....
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    What Brian said.

    Also, if someone has a posted refund policy in their offer and doesn't honor it, report them to the mods, using the little red triangle next to the offer post. Explain the problem. They'll fix it, or they'll find their offer going bye-bye. And possibly their accounts, if it's a pattern.

    Note: If they don't specifically offer a refund policy, the proper assumption is that they don't give refunds.


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  • Profile picture of the author SuppaDave21
    Posting on the WSO will most likely get you the results you want, the seller doesn't want the thread to have posts for unhappy buyers as it will ruin his rep for potential customers.

    Like stated above, don't make the post an angry 1, just state the facts and you should get that taken care of.
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  • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
    Thanks for the advice everyone.

    I'm going to post on the WSO thread now. Problem is, this issue has now been going on for nearly 2 months now (yes, I've been that persistent and still haven't received either the support I initially ask for and then the refund I requested as a result...) and the thread has basically died so the seller hasn't got anything to lose by not replying.

    Let's see what happens anyway. I will come back to update this thread soon...
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Alastaire,
      the thread has basically died so the seller hasn't got anything to lose by not replying.
      They do if they want to sell anything here in the future...


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    • Profile picture of the author lgibbon
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      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      and the thread has basically died so the seller hasn't got anything to lose by not replying.
      No,
      But he has, if you're the first one to post on his next WSO
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      • Profile picture of the author John Durham
        Originally Posted by lgibbon View Post

        No,
        But he has, if you're the first one to post on his next WSO

        ......Ouch....yup that hurts. lol
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  • Profile picture of the author barbling
    I've never understood the reasoning behind not honoring refunds.

    Just because a customer might not appreciate one product doesn't mean they won't appreciate the next. So you generally always want to keep the customer happy (unless said customer is a serial refunder, in which you want to blacklist them).

    Good luck w/your refund!
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    • Profile picture of the author Oggyoi
      Originally Posted by barbling View Post

      I've never understood the reasoning behind not honoring refunds.

      Just because a customer might not appreciate one product doesn't mean they won't appreciate the next. !
      I'm getting fed up with sellers not delivering the goods. What does annoy me more is when they advertise in their sales pitch that there is a no quibble refund, yet you have to chase and chase for a refund.

      In my opinion it makes it harder to have faith in newbies with a post count of single figures who joined the forum within the last month or 2 to deliver what they are selling.
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  • Profile picture of the author Patrick Kelly
    Hi,

    We all have rights and responsibilities. This is one of the beauties of the Warrior Forum. It allows you to speak the truth. As mentioned previously, stay objective and not defamatory. This should allow for a satisfactory outcome for you!

    cheers, Patrick
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  • Profile picture of the author PPC-Coach
    Let us know how it goes. Typically at the point where you're going to go public with your problem the person will step in.
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Wilson
    I always refunded my requests. I've soon realized that thinking a lot of those people who give bad excuse such as "don't have time" or something are just not worth of your time.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jeff Burritt
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    I have had a few bad experiences with people online. So I'm sharing from my own journey here.

    Ok, some food for thought:

    "Is this a hill I'm willing to die on."

    In other words, is what I'm upset about really worth me spending my precious time/energy on? I know it sucks to be jilted, disappointed, conned, lied-to, deceived, etc. I have personally lost a few thousand dollars from bad vendors online. And, I've had a lot more stolen from my real store biz.

    So, for me personally, I have struggled with balancing the wrong done to me versus the amount of effort I'd have to go to get reimbursement and/or retribution.

    My bottom line: If it's just a few bucks, I won't worry about it. If it's a significant sum AND I can easily get something back, then it's probably worth it to pursue. But, my mental/emotional/peace is also worth a lot to me. I try to stay positive and keep my energy directed to my own improvement and not sidetracked on chasing cheats.

    So, I'm not suggesting you are not right to pursue in this specific case. I just thought I'd share some perspective from my own personal journey. I really hope to be bigger and rise above the faults of other people. Honestly though, it's really hard sometimes to "just let it go." Can't say I've got this perfected yet. Just trying.

    Hopefully, my ramblings can offer you some perspective. Good luck to you.

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  • Profile picture of the author HairyPoppins
    If someone is going back on their word I think they should be outed. Say something in the WSO thread. Make it known. People have the right to not get burned. Reputation is everything here.
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  • Profile picture of the author stephenwaldo
    I had a really bad experience with a popular WSO seller on WF, in which they were not only failing to deliver their membership course but also not responding to anyone's refund requests and FURTHERMORE just having a really piss-poor attitude towards their customers (openly mean, telling people not to buy the product instead of answering questions, telling people to get a refund if they didn't like his support, etc).

    Suffice to say, initially I was really - really - mad. I ended up typing out multiple really long posts and emails that never got posted or sent just so I could get my fury off my chest. But then I realized how much time I was wasting, and I realized that my emotional energy, positive or otherwise, was actually fueling their own success.

    It was a high dollar product , but they were still continuing to promote their offer and other WSOs, so what I did was this:

    I started doing a report in the WSO thread on a day-by-day basis of how terribly my refund request was going, and I also reported on the reasons for the refund within the WSO thread. I didn't go like the 'jilted ex' (love that), but rather pointedly without emotion. Soon others were joining me in their complaints.

    Surprisingly, it still took like 5 days to finally get a refund. I have never and will never do business with this seller again...I would say his name (hint) because I really do believe no one should be supporting this person, but I don't want mods to slap my post out of existence...But boy, it sucks to know that someone can be so terrible to their customers and still make $XX,XXX from their products.

    C'est la vie.

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    • Profile picture of the author yesacpow
      Fist off I think you should check to make sure that the seller does have a refund policy..

      Now the question is, did you request the refund after the guarantee expired? Also, you said you stop receiving replies to your support ticket which means the seller did respond at some point before.

      What we need to figure out was the relationship between you and the seller in the initial conversations.

      1. Were you polite to the seller
      2. Was the seller polite to you and respond appropriately
      3. Why do you really want a refund - is it that you can't understand the product?
      4. Why have the seller stop responding? How long ago you received the last message from him?

      I think you can check some of his/her recent post and see if he/she is still active on the forum. Then you'll know that he/she is fine and just ignoring you.

      Then if push comes to shove, you can open a dispute within paypal and then be sure to share your experience on the wso thread.
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  • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
    Update for everyone.

    The seller has responded very quickly to my post in his WSO thread.

    I initially wasn't seeking a refund, rather support for the plugin I purchased which wasn't working on my website. The refund request came after the seller failed to provide any support even after I waited a couple of weeks.

    The problem is now, the seller is claiming that support was given and that he did respond to my questions.

    This is incorrect and I have made a video for him of me logging into his ticketing system live to prove that no I received no helpful response or support.

    Honestly, at this point if I was the seller I would be like "this is too much effort" but he still seems to be hanging on.

    My video is pretty categorical that no support was given.

    I wonder what he'll do next....

    Will update.
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    • Profile picture of the author Alexander K
      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      I don't think it's right to name this person just yet as there still might be a reasonable explanation for all of this (although I'm really struggling to think what this could be...) but those who are interested, can easily find my posts on his thread along with the video response I made.
      Screen shot everything. Keep the video. Collect all the evidence you can so you will have it when he doesn't deliver.

      I recently bought a WSO. In it, the buyer claimed an ad of his got 719 comments and a ton of clicks and sells in 24 hours. He had proofs of this. Then while employing his method, I found the exact ad, with the exact same comments shown in the WSO, minus one thing. It only had 39 comments.

      Being new here, I wasn't sure what to do. Didn't want to "kill" my rep right before launching a WSO of mine. So I PM'ed him instead of asking in the thread, he said he had multi-ads posted and it was a different one. Obvious lie here. Then he took down the ad. I hadn't thought ahead of screen capping it first. So he is making a good amount of money with lies. No evidence, I can't do anything about it.

      So.. if you're giving him time / benefit of the doubt, don't allow him to use that time to protect himself. My situation I at least got refunded, but I don't like the fact others are buying off doctored info.
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    • Profile picture of the author onSubie
      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      This is incorrect and I have made a video for him of me logging into his ticketing system live to prove that no I received no helpful response or support.
      It might have been more useful if you logged into your website to show the problem you are having with the plug-in rather than trying to bolster your side of the "he said she said".



      You don't have to wait for the seller to give you a refund. If he is being difficult and you have a legitimate complaint you can file a dispute with PayPal and/or a charge-back from your Credit Card if you need to.

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      • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
        Originally Posted by onSubie View Post

        It might have been more useful if you logged into your website to show the problem you are having with the plug-in rather than trying to bolster your side of the "he said she said".



        You don't have to wait for the seller to give you a refund. If he is being difficult and you have a legitimate complaint you can file a dispute with PayPal and/or a charge-back from your Credit Card if you need to.

        Mahlon
        Mahlon - I can't file a dispute with paypal anymore as this has being going on for so long that I am now outside of the time frame for opening a dispute.

        That's how long the seller has failed to provide the support I was asking for.

        For the same reason, it's pointless me showing him my problem with the plugin as I gave up on this about a month ago and found another solution for what I was trying to achieve with the purchase. Hence the request for a refund instead.
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        • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
          Fellow Warriors - I need advice.

          The seller in question is now refund to address my claim or answer my questions via the WSO thread.

          Instead, he is demanding that I submit my issues to him via his support desk - the very same support desk which drove me to begin this thread because he wasn't replying to my tickets.

          Under these circumstances what do I do?

          The whole point of posting via the forum was to force the seller to respond my issues were out in the open. This has worked to a point but now he is trying to drive me back to his support desk where my problems and request sent unanswered in the past.

          I can't lodge a claim with paypal anymore because this issue has been going on for too long and I know that once he is is away from from the eyes of this forum he has nothing to lose by ignoring me or stone walling me again.

          Can someone give me some advice?

          What's crazy is this is a long term Warrior with a decent number of posts. Is this really how he has conducted himself all this time...
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          • Profile picture of the author BIG Mike
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            • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
              Originally Posted by BIG Mike View Post

              Yes - stop complaining and go through his help desk. I mean, what are you expecting him to do? Come to your house?

              He's given you a mechanism to obtain support - you need to use. Pretty simple.
              It doesn't sound like you have read my post properly. Let me say it again to me clear:

              THE REASON WHY I'M POSTING IN THIS FORUM AND ON THE WSO THREAD IS BECAUSE THE SELLER DIDN'T RESPOND TO ME VIA HIS OWN SUPPORT DESK.

              I'm now beginning to understand how this whole game works...
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              • Profile picture of the author Bill Farnham
                Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

                THE REASON WHY I'M POSTING IN THIS FORUM AND ON THE WSO THREAD IS BECAUSE THE SELLER DIDN'T RESPOND TO ME VIA HIS OWN SUPPORT DESK.

                I'm now beginning to understand how this whole game works...
                I don't think you are.

                The way the game works is people come to threads like this one and look for other posts you've made to find the WSO you're talking about.

                They see who is selling that WSO and some of them go "Dang! Those guys make great products! I may have to buy this one."

                This is afterall, a marketing forum, and believe it or not, you're doing a bit of marketing for these guys. Because trust me, a lot of us know their reputations way more than the one you're making for yourself in this thread.

                Just food for thought...

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    • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      The problem is now, the seller is claiming that support was given and that he did respond to my questions.

      This is incorrect and I have made a video for him of me logging into his ticketing system live to prove that no I received no helpful response or support.

      Honestly, at this point if I was the seller I would be like "this is too much effort" but he still seems to be hanging on.

      My video is pretty categorical that no support was given.

      I wonder what he'll do next....

      Will update.
      Personally, even if I didn't have a refund policy, which I don't put one on my sales pages for digital downloads, I would refund you.

      There are two sides to every story and while you pasted a video, in the WSO thread, responses to your support tickets have also been pasted.

      So who's telling the truth and who is not? We don't know and that is precisely one of the reasons why Rule #1 of this forum exists.

      I purchased the same plugin and it works as described. The sellers have a somewhat perplexing habit of being non-responsive in their WSO threads, preferring that people use their support system instead. I personally don't think that's a good idea, but that's just me.
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Suzanne,
        The sellers have a somewhat perplexing habit of being non-responsive in their WSO threads, preferring that people use their support system instead. I personally don't think that's a good idea, but that's just me.
        We require sellers to have a contact system outside the forum. I'm not at all surprised some of them don't want to handle support issues within their WSO threads.

        Given the high percentage of support problems resulting from PEBCAK errors, I'm actually surprised more of them don't simply refuse to handle any support outside their help desks.

        Note: That doesn't mean, obviously, that you can't post reviews, or bring in support issues if they're not addressed through the offered channels.


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        • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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          Originally Posted by BIG Mike View Post

          ^^^ What she said +5

          Probably for the same reason I have PM's disabled here - I did that years ago, because rather than go through the proper support channels, the customer sends a PM. I might not see it for days and then he or she gets ticked off because no one is responding.

          I periodically find support questions in the Product Review forum too - it's frustrating that people can't be bothered to send an email, but will spend all day posting about it. They're only preventing themselves from getting appropriate, timely help.

          If there's a downside to the WF, it's that a lot of people seem to think it's a help desk for every product under the sun. Support issues shouldn't even be allowed in WSO or any other threads - they don't typically help the rest of the membership or provide any community value in any way.

          Maybe a thread somewhere that is a compilation of the URL's or emails of product support would help? If we could get people to actually read it.

          But at least you get it - you run your business the way you choose to.

          I know a lot of the responses are meant to be helpful, but it doesn't matter what anyone else would do, except the product owner...because he or she is the only other person who knows what's really going on.

          I think rule #1 needs a lot more enforcement by members :confused:
          Yeah ... I agree with both you and Paul. If you've given a link to your support desk or your email, you've met the requirements for having contact info outside of the forum.

          I would just pop in and remind people of that rather than let a WSO go all to hell, as they can do very quickly if it appears that the seller has disappeared. But again ... that's just the way I do it.
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      • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
        Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

        Personally, even if I didn't have a refund policy, which I don't put one on my sales pages for digital downloads, I would refund you.

        There are two sides to every story and while you pasted a video, in the WSO thread, responses to your support tickets have also been pasted.

        So who's telling the truth and who is not? We don't know and that is precisely one of the reasons why Rule #1 of this forum exists.

        I purchased the same plugin and it works as described. The sellers have a somewhat perplexing habit of being non-responsive in their WSO threads, preferring that people use their support system instead. I personally don't think that's a good idea, but that's just me.
        The responses which the seller has posted are in correct.

        You've obviously found the WSO thread in question. Watch the short video and you'll see that no responses were pasted.

        IT'S AS CLEAR AS DAY!

        I think I might just take a screen shot of the thread since this would be easier for people for people to access quickly. On the other hand, a video is basically beyond dispute since I'm doing it live without any cuts and logging in directly to their support system.

        In my mind, there isn't any dispute here.

        I requested support. The seller failed to give it and this is documented. I requested a refund in line with his refund policy. He seller stopped relying to my support tickets.

        I don't know how much clearer this can be...
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        • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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          Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

          The responses which the seller has posted are in correct.

          You've obviously found the WSO thread in question. Watch the short video and you'll see that no responses were pasted.

          IT'S AS CLEAR AS DAY!
          I suggest that you DON'T take a screenshot of the thread in question. You're already very close to violating Rule #1 of this forum.

          It is clear as day to you perhaps. To me, not so much. As I said, I bought the plugin and a lot of people here already are familiar with the thread in question as they bought it too and it in fact ... works as described.

          I'm not interested in the video or the dispute. That's for you and the seller to work out or not work out.
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  • Profile picture of the author Adie
    There were several cases that I refunded the customer even if he is not asking for a refund. It's case to case basis especially when he demands a number of things which is not covered by my service... Seller should refund when the customer asks, but of course, there are customers who are annoying..

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  • Profile picture of the author IM Lover
    Well I would personally contact Staff using the support ticket, if he is out right ignoring you then you don't have much of a choice.

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  • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
    It's funny how things work.

    This thread was originally started because I needed advice in dealing with a seller who was dodging my support tickets at his help desk.

    People (including moderators) encouraged me to post on his WSO thread. I did and the seller duly replied and told me to contact him at his help desk! The very place where he had failed to provide support in the first place.

    Now, all the big guns are chiming in and telling me to do what he is saying.

    I know I'm out numbered here but what's the betting the seller is just going to ignore me again?

    Can anyone provide some helpful advice (i.e. don't just kick the little guy) about what to do here...
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    • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      It's funny how things work.

      This thread was originally started because I needed advice in dealing with a seller who was dodging my support tickets at his help desk.

      People (including moderators) encouraged me to post on his WSO thread. I did and the seller duly replied and told me to contact him at his help desk! The very place where he had failed to provide support in the first place.

      Now, all the big guns are chiming in and telling me to do what he is saying.

      I know I'm out numbered here but what's the betting the seller is just going to ignore me again?

      Can anyone provide some helpful advice (i.e. don't just kick the little guy) about what to do here...
      I disagree. The title says what the purpose of this thread was/is.

      How To "Out" Warriors Who Don't Keep Their Word?

      No one is kicking anyone, so skip the drama. There are conflicting statements between you and the seller and this is not our dispute.

      The main overriding rule for this forum is this:

      Rule #1

      If you have a problem with another Warrior, a Guru, or God, take it up with them directly. Not here. No exceptions.

      http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...ing-forum.html
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        This thread was originally started because I needed advice in dealing with a seller who was dodging my support tickets at his help desk.
        Horse puckey.

        This thread was started to create pressure on someone to give you what you wanted. It was left intact because you didn't name the seller, which would have gotten you into Rule #1 territory. It's on the verge of getting deleted because you've tried to drop pointers throughout the thread.

        Here's the rub: The product works for a lot of people. The seller has no history of ignoring support requests, despite having sold a whopping great batch of stuff here.

        So, you're coming up a bit short on the whole credibility thing...


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  • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
    Well I have my support ticket transcript which clearly shows a failure to reply to my requests for help.

    But I guess that doesn't count because I'm not credible?!

    I'm obviously going to lose this one but this has been a useful experience nonetheless.

    Thanks to those who tried to help.

    Alastair
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post

      Well I have my support ticket transcript which clearly shows a failure to reply to my requests for help.
      Would you like me to list the ways that sort of thing can be misleading?


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    • Profile picture of the author John Taylor
      Alastair,

      Originally Posted by alastairevans View Post


      I'm obviously going to lose this one but this has been a useful experience nonetheless.
      Clearly, you've already decided that you're going
      to play the role of victim. That's your choice.

      The seller has offered to sort out your problem
      through his help desk. I can understand that your
      experience thus far has been unsatisfactory.

      However, unless you are willing to put aside your
      mantle of martyrdom and try just one more time,
      you'll be the one to lose out.

      You either want the problem solved or not.

      When you choose "not" by refusing to try again, you
      only have yourself to blame for the outcome.

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  • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
    Paul - You can if you want but I'm sure you've got better things to do!

    Appreciate the offer anyway.

    Just have to take this one on the chin I guess.しょうがない as we say here in Japan.

    Things usually have a way of coming round...
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  • Profile picture of the author GarrieWilson
    Open a NEW support ticket. If he ignores you, then do a charge back if possible.

    It's pretty simple.

    FYI: I have sent the seller PMs in the past and he always replied. I've never purchased from him either.

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  • Profile picture of the author Power Solutions
    Personally I would have never waited so long that the refund mechanisms built into the payment options expired. Credit Card companies give you 30 or so days, Paypal gives you 45 (i think), and Clickbank gives you 60 (i think). If I have any issues and the seller is not responsive I have no problem escalating quickly through my refund options. If there was some valid reason, death in the family, then I would no problem purchasing from them again with a renewed commitment to support.

    I also have no idea why a seller wouldn't just do a refund in an active WSO to keep his reputation clean.
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    GarrieWilson - doh - embarrassing! You should have told me you were going to wear THAT avatar. Now go home and change. 8)
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  • Profile picture of the author Alan Petersen
    Most interesting attempt to circumvent rule #1 I've seen in awhile. Down to the "who me?" routine and playing the little guy vs. the big evil Warrior card.

    Classic case of two sides of the story. Who's right, who's wrong? Dunno but long live rule #1 which prevents these type of threads.
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    This has actually been one of the most educational threads I have read in a long time. Pragmatic. Informative. A very interesting exposition of how I approach many problems.
    Is it my problem?
    Answer: Yes. Then handle it.
    Answer: No. Then not my problem. Not interested.
    The to and fro was very educational and I actually felt quite proud to be associated with WF. Well done, ladies and gentlemen. I would have paid for this bit of knowledge.
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      • Profile picture of the author Gail_Curran
        Originally Posted by Alan Petersen View Post

        What the hell? Is this like a bot or something? Copied and pasted my response in this thread verbatim (post #47). Odd stuff.
        This is a classic "cookie stuffer." It copies posts until it gets enough to post a link, then adds cookies to its posts. Check the posting history and you'll see hidden images in the posts.
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        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
          Alastair,
          You can if you want but I'm sure you've got better things to do!
          Well, listing just a few of them might be instructive for the rest of the folks here.

          The first, of course, is that they're just text files. Those can easily be edited to show pretty much anything you want.

          The second is that they show only one channel of communication. They don't show any exchanges that may have occurred via private messages, Skype, emails, or via the phone.

          For instance, someone could send a blisteringly nasty comment via email and behave properly on the support system. Then they could claim that snarky responses on support were uncalled for when they could well be much more subdued than were warranted.

          Or you could have gotten an answer via email and used the support system's lack of recorded response to pretend you were being ignored.

          Along with those, there's the real possibility that out of channel communications were about other things entirely.

          I see this sort of one-sided complaint all the time, and the person complaining rarely includes all the relevant information. That tendency toward distortion is one of the reasons we often won't get involved in exchanges between buyers and sellers.


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          • Profile picture of the author alastairevans
            Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post


            I see this sort of one-sided complaint all the time, and the person complaining rarely includes all the relevant information. That tendency toward distortion is one of the reasons we often won't get involved in exchanges between buyers and sellers.
            Paul,

            Why are you assuming that the person making the complaint is the one who fails to include all relevant information?

            Yes I know social proof and reputation goes a long way and you obviously have had some experience with this. But nonetheless, is this mindset not a little dangerous?

            Honestly, I'm not too bothered anymore about the seller in question. He won't get my custom again and I now know what to do if this situation arise in the future.

            But it seems a little unfair to tar everyone with the same brush.
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Alastair,
              Why are you assuming that the person making the complaint is the one who fails to include all relevant information?
              Exactly where do I state or imply any such assumption?

              I listed a few possible ways the sort of evidence you offered to provide could be misleading.
              But nonetheless, is this mindset not a little dangerous?
              What mindset? Being aware of possibilities and their implications without assuming they apply in any specific circumstance? No, I don't consider that dangerous at all.

              At this point, I've read your side, the seller's side, and the refund policy in question. I don't see any side that is especially more right or wrong than the other, so it's really not my place to get involved in the resolution of the issue.

              It's mostly a matter of poor communication, fueled by ambiguity and ego. Have fun with that.


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  • Profile picture of the author jannatus
    Of course you should always give him/her the 'benefit of the doubt', as they could be ill, away, out of action etc. But if they are truly avoiding dialogue, reneging on their part of the deal, then a big emphatic "YES", they should be 'outed'.
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    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Originally Posted by jannatus View Post

      But if they are truly avoiding dialogue, reneging on their part of the deal, then a big emphatic "YES", they should be 'outed'.
      Great advice. :rolleyes:

      So the person that does the outing gets banned, probably before anyone see's it that effects the seller.

      ...and you get to achieve, bugger all.

      Seriously, you really ought to read the whole thread before you leave these sort of comments. All it will do is get other people in trouble.
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