Thank you forum/ guru wanted

This is a half thank you and half an help post, sorry if I bore any of you.

I come across this forum about 24 days ago, honestly I have spent about 12 hours a day reading reading and reading, I would like to thank anyone who has contributed positively in forum, I do not see my self as an seo guy but from what I have learned here it has enabled to open doors that was in the past closed, i.e enabled me to launch my very own products and services (not going to url them but they are taxi company, e-cigs and an on line sweet shop, (in the pipe line is also an wedding directory, taxi directory and a free resource centre for dementia suffers/family members), all the above I was quoted silly prices for seo but I have always stuck to my guns that I would not buy something I dont understand, so I went about learning more (and after a few hours I found my self engulfed in something I enjoyed - learning!!). So this is what I have done so far.

Market samurai - now I know which key words i can target
Best spinner - only if I had this tool at university lol
UAW - spin and post and repeat
ping fm - ping all submitted directories

now it comes to the help part.

this is how I have set up my link wheel

uaw ----> goes to big boy article directories (enzine, squidoo, hubpages,wordpress) -----> to my site

uaw -----> edu/gov/ac blogs and sites -----> to my site

all the UAW articles are pinged

I have just brought scrape box - still in process of learning how to use it (private proxy's rented), kind of know how to find blogs i.e site:.edu ************* etc (sorry brought this information edu squeeze so would not infringe copy right)
These are some of the tools I am looking at using:



bookmarkwiz Automatic Social Bookmarking Software - BookmarkWIZ same as ping fm but costs $90
ALN Service not read to much about this
BuildMyRank from what I have read they lose link juice after 1 year
magic submitter - was thinking of using this but want to master uaw first
seo nuke - rated as the best - but very complex to use
article marketing robot - not read much about this
book marking demon cant remember anything about this product
SocialBot Social Bookmarking Software - same as ping fm?
articl edemon - similar to uaw?

I have read and learned (I think as much as I can without proper direction), so I am looking for a mentor / coach, I don't need pay per click, or click bank etc or do this and you will make $10,000 per blog no offence I am not here for that I don't need to make quick money or miracles I want someone that gives me skills for life , a monitor has to understand what drivers me .......

achievement and the ability to improve myself on a daily bases, I want someone with proven results of getting web sites to rank 1 for high competitive words (always been a firm believer if you're going to do something learn to do it right), now people going to ask why do I need someone that good, if the teacher only teaches me 10% of what they know and I only take in 1% that 1% is equivalent of one years trial and error
I cant pm guys (not enough posts) so if any one has something I would value just pop me your email address and I will contact you back.
No offence coaches / tutors please don't message me if you think I am an easy person to sell to, as I will research you and your ability to do what you say you can. Ideally uk based 1 on 1 but any others who are good enough I would love to hear from.

So any advice would be appreciated,