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Little story here but please bear with me as I do have a point.

Having been recently laid off my family and I are still trying to enjoy life but within a new tighter budget. A fav restaurant of ours runs a special on Thursdays and we headed out to eat (and by special I mean my family of 4 including myself for $22 which included drinks and a tip). While we ate the whole countryside became blanketed in a fog.

During the drive home we came upon a came a car driving very slowly and swerving dangerously into the other lane. With the fog so thick a car could literally come up at any second and a horrible accident would ensue. At one point the car pulled over and we passed by only to notice it was a little old lady and one of her headlights was broken. Turned the truck around and pulled along side her.

This poor woman was near tears when I asked her if she was ok and where she was headed. Turns out she was so lost and missed her turn - couldn't find her way home. 30 miles in the opposite direction of our house she followed us till we lead her to her driveway. She profusely thanked us and we parted ways. Never got our name nor did we get hers.

My rambling really does have a point - sometimes it really is better to give than get. Now I'm not saying that everyone needs to take a person by the hand but an encouraging word, a link to a great service, a reply just to say you read a post and wish a person luck, etc means more to people than we may realize. I have seen it time and time again on this forum where members graciously guide people and it's an awesome feeling.

There is no amount of monetary value that can be placed on helping a person (whether a small gesture or a grand one) but the reward is so worth it.

So to all those who are willing to and/or have helped others - THANK YOU!
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  • Profile picture of the author nick1123
    Thanks for the great story.

    Yah know the old cliche, What goes around comes around. I think in many ways this is true.

    Funny thing is, this can be effective in IM. The most well respected people on the forum are the ones who give the most.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kevin AKA Hubcap
      It's always good to help someone when you can and I think you did a great thing.

      Just wondering...how long did it take you to go those thirty miles in the fog with her following you?:confused:
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  • Profile picture of the author artwebster
    One of the things that has been a constant surprise to me throughout my very long illness (50 years) - people really are not as bad as we think we are!

    This is a nice and up-lifting story but how many millions of times can it be repeated - but isn't?

    How many times will you hear a person yacking on about how this other person really made them angry by doing something preposterous - and yet that same person would seldom, if ever, bother to tell you of the last time (maybe as recently as yesterday) he did something for the benefit of someone who appeared to need help?

    The number of times I have been assisted by anonymous human beings is beyond counting. I have been picked up off the street after collapsing and taken into peoples' homes to recover or warm up while an ambulance was awaited. I have been taken home, sometimes with my dogs in tow, when my mind had gone on holiday without me. I have had people read notices to me when I was unable to read them for myself.

    I have received so much help in my life from complete strangers that I know that being helpful is a majority trait - being reticent about reporting this help seems not only normal, but expected.
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    Some old school smarts would help - and here's to Rob Toth for his help. Bloody good stuff, even the freebies!

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  • Profile picture of the author NashRyker
    Excellent story Teresa! It's one of the best feelings in the world when you help someone selflessly.

    Here's one of the things I like to do...

    I am big into large 4-wheel drive trucks. I have a huge Jeep Wrangler 4x4 with giant mud tires. In the winter whenever we get a huge snowfall, I always go out to the most hilly, dangerous roads that I know.

    There are always people that are stuck and can't make it up the hills. I like to give them all a tow, one by one and not charge them anything. I never accept their money when they offer and they always look astounded.

    It just makes me feel good knowing that I made someone's day a little bit better. And to see others doing the same.

    Thanks for the share!
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    • Profile picture of the author Brett Kruger
      Hi Teresa.

      What a great person you are.

      You really deserve a big pat on the back!!!

      It's so nice to help those less fortunate.

      I hope things work out ok for you and your family.

      Congratulations on being a wonderful human being.

      Kind Regards

      Brett.
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  • Profile picture of the author anomaly
    Do unto others as you would wish them do unto you.

    What goes around comes around.

    Or as Earl would say :

    Do good things and good things happen.
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  • Profile picture of the author Inbound
    Yes, this is sooooo true. Great post! The only sad thing is I know people that have never experienced this high and probably never will. To bad really.

    Thanks,
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  • Profile picture of the author neat123
    That is a great story, I feel the same way. There is no feeling that is more satisfying when you know you helped someone less fortunate. I felt proud when I read your story.
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  • Profile picture of the author Anthony Robinson
    Let me share a similar story with you...

    About 2 years ago, my family and I were returning from a trip to the zoo when we noticed an elderly couple on the side of the highway. Being the nice guy I am, I pulled over into the breakdown lane about 500 yards ahead of them (took me a while to slow down) and was in the process of backing up to see if I could help when my then 8 year old said "Hey! That old guy's peeing!" Sure enough, grandpa decided he needed to whiz, so he pulled the car over (on the side of the highway) walked around to the passenger side of the car, and was in mid-whiz when me and my well-meaning family happened along.

    Moral of the story? Apparently when you reach a certain age, you can pee whenever and wherever you want!

    Here's to the golden years!
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    • Profile picture of the author Teresa Coppes
      Originally Posted by Kevin AKA Hubcap View Post

      It's always good to help someone when you can and I think you did a great thing.

      Just wondering...how long did it take you to go those thirty miles in the fog with her following you?:confused:
      To get her home and then back home ourselves it ended up being about 1 1/2hrs drive time. The ride home went quicker than the ride there as she wasn't comfortable going over 20mph.

      Originally Posted by chopper180 View Post

      Let me share a similar story with you...

      About 2 years ago, my family and I were returning from a trip to the zoo when we noticed an elderly couple on the side of the highway. Being the nice guy I am, I pulled over into the breakdown lane about 500 yards ahead of them (took me a while to slow down) and was in the process of backing up to see if I could help when my then 8 year old said "Hey! That old guy's peeing!" Sure enough, grandpa decided he needed to whiz, so he pulled the car over (on the side of the highway) walked around to the passenger side of the car, and was in mid-whiz when me and my well-meaning family happened along.

      Moral of the story? Apparently when you reach a certain age, you can pee whenever and wherever you want!

      Here's to the golden years!
      That is hilarious! Bit harder being a woman peeing alongside the road though
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    • Profile picture of the author chris8918
      Originally Posted by chopper180 View Post

      Let me share a similar story with you...

      About 2 years ago, my family and I were returning from a trip to the zoo when we noticed an elderly couple on the side of the highway. Being the nice guy I am, I pulled over into the breakdown lane about 500 yards ahead of them (took me a while to slow down) and was in the process of backing up to see if I could help when my then 8 year old said "Hey! That old guy's peeing!" Sure enough, grandpa decided he needed to whiz, so he pulled the car over (on the side of the highway) walked around to the passenger side of the car, and was in mid-whiz when me and my well-meaning family happened along.

      Moral of the story? Apparently when you reach a certain age, you can pee whenever and wherever you want!

      Here's to the golden years!

      This is hilarious!!! It was the thought that counts.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
    Originally Posted by Teresa_C View Post

    ....My rambling really does have a point - sometimes it really is better to give than get. Now I'm not saying that everyone needs to take a person by the hand but an encouraging word, a link to a great service, a reply just to say you read a post and wish a person luck, etc means more to people than we may realize. I have seen it time and time again on this forum where members graciously guide people and it's an awesome feeling.

    There is no amount of monetary value that can be placed on helping a person (whether a small gesture or a grand one) but the reward is so worth it.

    So to all those who are willing to and/or have helped others - THANK YOU!
    Teresa, this is an excellent, heart-stirring thread. Thanks.

    I experienced in my 6,5 decades that you may find helping people everywhere. If you ask gently then you'll get. And it is natural that peoples help others if they can.

    God bless,

    Sandor
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  • Profile picture of the author moncef
    Beautiful story indeed.

    Hey Teresa,
    I got your message, I just can't reply to you yet, I will once I get 15 posts.
    I just don't want to spam to get to 15.

    Talk to you soon and thank you.

    Moncef
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  • Profile picture of the author chris8918
    Sounds like we need to start a RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS thread on a recurring basis just to encourage and remind each other how important these types of gestures really are. Who knows....you may need someone liked this one day. Good job, Teresa!!
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    • Profile picture of the author Teresa Coppes
      Originally Posted by chris8918 View Post

      Sounds like we need to start a RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS thread on a recurring basis just to encourage and remind each other how important these types of gestures really are. Who knows....you may need someone liked this one day. Good job, Teresa!!
      If you take a look through the forum you can see the random acts of kindness that many warriors have done. Posts offering help to strangers by taking a look at their site, a membership to their own product site to help someone get started, or just a post made to let someone know they care....all done selflessly. This is a great forum and those acts of kindness don't go unnoticed.
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  • Profile picture of the author andrewhorowitz
    Great story Teresa. I throughly enjoyed.
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