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Need some help here

by rahulrockerdwor
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Last night my result came out and i scored a 61%, It's good enough for me but my dad..he isn't the kind of guy who'll be happy even at 99% so he began with all of lectures about why you don't study, why do you always have be sitting online and doing something? You'll spoil your life and roam around in search of jobs..You haven't got a future..you are nothing!!
Everything was just fine until he said "You are nothing", out of somewhere I just grabbed myself and told him in the same tone and manner "I'd did not want to pursue B.Sc.!! I wanted to become an internet marketer, yet you forced me to and now you are crying about the percentage..I don't want to become a doctor...I want to become an IM and then i continued with all my great plans and he LISTENED!!! (trust me that never happens, you just cant go head to head in an argument with a lawyer) Anyways at the end it was both of us silent staring at each other and he broke the silence, saying bring me $4000 till January'13 and you can have what you want..but if you fail you are not gonna complain about anything and become a doctor..

Well,
I didn't have a choice did I?? and that is the whole freaking problem..I am a newbie in IM and can earn only around $150 a month and that too via hard work!! I have purchased quite a few WSO's but never earned a penny form them..

WHAT TO DO????:confused:

Before you advice me on this, do make note that
1. firstly, I AM NOT GONNA QUIT!!!!
2. I will die trying, but theres just no way I'm quitting coz for me it's like now or never!!

PLEEEEESE!!!!! I REQUEST ALL OF YOU WARRIORS, SHOW ME A DOOR WHICH WILL DEFINITELY GET ME THERE!!


thnx in advance
Rahul
#$4000 #advice #internet mareketing #money #urgent
  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    I can hear your cries but I must say that there isnt a backdoor.

    You need to learn how to make money & you neex patience.

    do you work at a full time job? how old are you? why does your father decide what is good for you? you need to give him 4000$? why? if you are a working grown man then you should whatever you want to do.
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    • Profile picture of the author henry10
      yes but some time have take other decision than the present hint ....
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  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    Besides, if you dont have any interest in becoming a doctor then dont!

    clearly your father only wants whats best for you, but if you will do something that you are not passionate about, you simply going to regret it for the rest of your life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Chris Silvey
    Trust me. If your Father is willing to send you to College and further Education to become a Doctor. Take him up on it. In this World you have to have something solid. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

    Most IMrs do this on the side and they build their lists over time. If you have a job , dont quit. If you are a student, dont quit.

    I'm doing this because not just that I like it, but I have too! Last March I was hurt at work and I thought I was totally disabled, luckily with physical therapy I am getting better moving around, but since then I have had no income what so ever besides a bit of IM and Web Dev clients. My employer has been fighting me tooth and nail, social security turned me down and the Dept Of Labor says I am still employed. Until the DOL got involved then did my employer start to comply. They may fight the FMLA Leave as well and keep me in a loop without paying me one dime.
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  • Profile picture of the author rahulrockerdwor
    Nope I am a part-timer as I have college to go to. I am 19 and will turn 20 in November this year. This is the exact answer i wish to know myself...why do I need to do what they say..am I not big enough and why should follow in his footsteps?? he says once you show me that you've earnt $4000 i can believe that it is possible to make a living online!!
    I aint saying that I want to just show him the money and be done with it...I want to prove him wrong about the "online money is a lie" that he carries in his mind.

    Also, I know there isn't a backdoor but then what method should i go for?
    niche? Squidoo? PPC? clickbank? what!!
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  • Profile picture of the author rahulrockerdwor
    @chris- I get you point of having a back-up-plan but I don't need one...I just want to become a successful IM nothing else...may what ever be the time, money, hard work it may take!!
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    • Profile picture of the author Chris Silvey
      Originally Posted by rahulrockerdwor View Post

      @chris- I get you point of having a back-up-plan but I don't need one...I just want to become a successful IM nothing else...may what ever be the time, money, hard work it may take!!
      I'm just letting you know the reality. Everyone wants to succeed, but it is when we are not looking and think everything is just fine that the ice gives way and you fall through.

      Instead of going toe to toe with your father, you might want to get him involved. How about the Health Industry? I have a group of Doctors as clients and we are pushing a new Vitamin Complex for Seniors.

      Show him something that isn't alien to him, ask him for advice. Doctors always get samples to give out. Something to think about.
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  • Profile picture of the author rahulrockerdwor
    @kdavies What skill is that?? that's what I am asking? what should it be?
    Clickbank? CPA? CPL? Adsense? what
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  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    List Building is your answer.

    but before you go ahead and start learning about all that IM stuff, you need to understand that you need go have patience.

    keep working and studying, create a future for your self and a financial shelter, relax and understand your father.

    with all due respect to you and your father I must say that you both ned to sit and have a grown man conversation, he will listen.
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  • Profile picture of the author rahulrockerdwor
    @TomYevsikov- i seriously have been trying to do so, but when does he have the time? Even on sundays- he's off to work comes late in the night and he's so tired..that he hardly takes a breadth before he is flat on the bed.
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  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    Look, I dont know how he works or whatever, find time and talk about it.

    Its either that or either you do what he says no questions asked, and thats not the right way of communication.
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  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    Chris got a great point!

    You can both get into the health niche!

    Its profitable and you have an advantage since you guys have insider knowledge on the subject.
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  • Profile picture of the author rahulrockerdwor
    great point Chris, Now I'd better get an idea to take out some time from his schedule
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    • Profile picture of the author Chris Silvey
      Glad I could help

      Father and Son projects will always be one of your fondest memories to come and you in turn share with your children in the future.

      so Tally Forth!
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      • Profile picture of the author hsbinmarket
        Dear Rahul,
        Dont think ur father as ur opponent. He always think about ur success. He may not have the clear idea about IM, u may spend more time in IM than in Study. If u cannot show ur success in the field, ur father get sorrow. Even if he knows about IM and found u unsuccessful he will also tell u the same.

        Take care of u, honor ur parents and keep trying,
        success must come to u.
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  • Profile picture of the author TomYevsikov
    Very good bro!

    go ahead and slaughter all the negative energies around you.

    warch the negative energies as they run for their lives and ressurect the army of good energies to avenge!
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