HEELPP!!! MY AFFILIATE CAMPAIGN IS DYING

hello my friend,thanks for click in,
first thing first,sorry for my english,still learning for improve it,
i just hope you understand...

the problem is:

i already found a great niche product to sell,
right now my affiliate campaign is about to die,
promote and promote but no one respons...
but i still have a dream to reach 10 000 per month,
is that possible,and how can i make is possible ?

what should i do: im begging you,pleaseee help me
the only thing that i know,
1=make my own website review,
use bombastic word,
drive traffic or for quicker way,BUY TRAFFIC,
the more traffic i buy,the more i get,thats is ?
2=buy mailing list,not targeted but random,because the niche is sooo hot,
spamming using bombastic seduce headline ,
to grab people attention to buy

sometimes im still wondering how can ryan lee,anik singal,
can make a huge income as a affiliate marketer,

one of my guru say
"they all got a HUGE MAILING LIST,
they BUY MILLION VALID MAILING LIST,
they scanning email to check if valid or not,
then spamming people using a smart way
(USE A CATCHY WORD TO CAPTURE
PEOPLE ATTENTION TO BUY)

i think he got a point,because if we know on how to use the power of word...
BUT,
how can i make sure my email go to spam folder or inbox ?


any advice ? please help me