Can An Accountability Partner Jumpstart Your IM Efforts?

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Hello All,


Some of the most productive times in my life have come from working with an accountability partner. For those that don't know, an accountability partner is someone that is expecting you to follow through on what you said you would do.

The thing is: humans are generally lazy.

And if you don't have anyone to answer to, there's a higher probability of you not completing those tasks that you know you need to do.

For those of us making a living online, this is especially important. We don't have bosses telling us when to go to work, or what to do. We are the boss, and it is up to us to decide when and what we do. And if we don't get it done, there's no one there to say anything.

It's a double-edged sword. You have the freedom to make income on your own terms, but you also have to keep yourself motivated to keep doing those profitable tasks that you should be doing.

Don't get me wrong, not everyone is going to need or want an accountability partner. And that's cool. But for me, there's a certain synergy found in this type of relationship.

Just knowing that someone is expecting you to complete a tasks can motivate you to not only get it done...but to get it done well. To impress them.

A few years back, I had an accountability partner. She was awesome. She was Warrior that had similar goals and plans as I had. Online, everyone else is competition, but it never felt that way with her. We would share stories, ideas, strategies, resources, etc. It was fun.

It was a great relationship. It was competitive, but in a good way. We pushed each other, had fun, and made money doing so.

Every week we would connect. Sometimes email, or Skype, or phone calls. We would tell each other what we were planning for the following week, and what we had done the week before. It was magical. We'd have out list of "top 10 tasks" that needed to get done...these were the ten things that would make us the most money in the upcoming week. We focused on those 10 things.

I loved that part of my life....


But things changed. My accountability partner got married. She had children and is focusing most of her time in raising healthy kids and travelling. And although I am very happy for her, I do miss those magical moments. When making money online was so fun.

People seem to think that making money online is all hearts and rainbows. And although I do prefer this path compared to working at some job, it does get hard sometimes to stay focused and motivated.

Accountability partners are a way to keep you on your toes. To give you that extra bit of motivation because you know he or she is going to ask you if you did what you said you were going to do. For Internet Marketers, this is especially important.

Still looking for a new accountability partner....to touch that fire again.


JoeMack
#accountability #imers #partner #power #synergy
  • Profile picture of the author JoeMack
    Am I alone in thinking this way? I find that the most challenging part of success in internet marketing is being able to consistently take action. Left to our own devices, most of us fail to do what we need to, even when we know that doing it can result in drastic positive results.

    An accountability partner can give us that extra drive needed to get us to where we want to go. And it doesn't have to be a one-sided relationship. The synergy of this type of partnership, when done correctly, is truly outstanding. I have seen it firsthand. I long to see it again.


    Much Success,

    JoeMack
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    • Profile picture of the author agmccall
      I have a business partner in my Golf Club ecommerce site and he is basically my accountability partner. His job is to take care of customer service and process orders, and respond to emails.

      My job is to take care of the technical aspects of the site, update products, create blog, etc. and if it was not for him constantly calling and emailing me I would not get half as much done. sometimes I find myself doing things just to shut him up. Sometimes I get extra done and not tell him, it is like money in the bank for me, he calls, I say "I'm on it" and a few hours later tell him it is done.

      It can be a pain sometimes but the ends justify the means

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    • I would love to have an accountability partner. I posted a similar post some weeks ago and got no takers, which surprised me.

      I feel that if more people had accountability partners then less people would need coaches in order to succeed. Many of us know exactly what we should be doing, but find it difficult to keep ourselves on track.

      I'm in, if you are. I'll send you a PM.
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      • Profile picture of the author JoeMack
        Originally Posted by Attraction Marketing View Post

        I would love to have an accountability partner. I posted a similar post some weeks ago and got no takers, which surprised me.

        I feel that if more people had accountability partners then less people would need coaches in order to succeed. Many of us know exactly what we should be doing, but find it difficult to keep ourselves on track.

        I'm in, if you are. I'll send you a PM.
        Hey Denise...

        I am so glad I started this post. I just sent you a PM, pretty much giving you a brief history of me, and my internet marketing experience up until this point. I have been a Warrior for years, and have been involved in just about everything: Adsense, affiliate marketing, article marketing, CPA offers, PPC marketing, autoresponders/mailing list, creating my own products, building websites, building Wordpress blogs, marketing with web2.0 sites, having WSOs, niche marketing, and on and on.



        Much Success,

        JoeMack
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        • I've been thinking about this a lot. I'd like to connect with someone who wants an accountability partner. Checking in daily would be great. I'm flexible. If you think it would be a help for you too, please PM me or post here!

          To a great New Year,
          Mary
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      • Profile picture of the author seriousjake
        That's a great idea. You're lucky to have had a relationship like that to help you grow in this field. I could definitely benefit from a similar relationship.

        If anyone is in the fitness market and is looking for someone to keep them on track, send me a PM. I'm good at identifying excuses and won't hesitate to call you out if you're not acting.

        I can definitely use some of that in my day as well.

        Originally Posted by Attraction Marketing View Post

        I would love to have an accountability partner. I posted a similar post some weeks ago and got no takers, which surprised me.

        I feel that if more people had accountability partners then less people would need coaches in order to succeed. Many of us know exactly what we should be doing, but find it difficult to keep ourselves on track.

        I'm in, if you are. I'll send you a PM.
        Where did you put your post up?
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave
    JoeMack,

    You’re 100% correct about accountability partners (AP). I never thought having one or even knew I wanted/needed one until I stumbled onto one. He was a friend that I was coaching. He ended up moving half way around the world and never really enjoyed IM like I do so, while we're still good friends, we rarely discuss IM or act as AP’s any more.

    Similar to what you mentioned, I found that my passion levels were at their highest for my business when we were talking about our goals, what we wanted to accomplish that week and then later talking about what we ACTUALLY accomplished.

    It's just basic human nature. You're proud of yourself when you meet your goals and it motivates you to talk to your AP about the to-do list tasks that you’ve completed . On the other hand, if you know you'll be talking to your AP this weekend... but you've yet to do much towards your goals... you are motivated to do something so that you don't have to admit that you've been goofing off. The fear of having to tell my AP that I didn't accomplish my weekly goals motivated me to accomplish them (nearly always). I’ve never had any problems with drive and ability to focus… but admit my productivity levels were much higher when my AP and I were talking about our business one a weekly basis.

    I’m interested in hearing feedback from others as well… thanks for starting the thread.

    Dave
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  • Profile picture of the author JoeMack
    Dave,

    Finding an accountability partner definitely seems to be a challenge, which is quite surprising to me. With how much they can benefit both parties, you'd think that more people would be interested in them.

    JoeMack
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  • Profile picture of the author PavanKumar
    It is true having an AP brings that urgency and focus to carry out tasks at hand within the deadline. AP could be among peers or could be some one whom you look up to. Presently am working with 2 mentors who are my AP who keep me on my toe...so for me It has brought in the focus I needed in my IM efforts.
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  • Profile picture of the author IanGreenwood
    I've been using an accountability partner for 3+ years now.

    I had one at first who was a close friend and colleague, but wasn't in IM, and turned out to be less than helpful as the sessions tended towards me "coaching for free" on our skype calls. Eventually, that died a natural death although we're still great friends. All our calls now are just friend chat!

    The current one is a friend that I met regularly at an IM event. He has an online business and understands IM. He's much more "at my level" and we have a much more productive and beneficial and equal relationship.

    I would say that the 4 unbreakable rules for accountability partnerships are:-

    1. Total confidentiality. You can't have your partner blabbing about your business to others.

    2. Trust - Related to above. That's why I don't think you can get your partner from posting on a forum like this. I think you need to know the person and have spent time in their company.

    3. Total honestly. Related to above. If I have a stinker of an idea I really expect my partner to tell me and not soft pedal the truth.

    4. Your partner should understand your business and you should have confidence in his or her ability and knowledge.

    I would say you really need to gel with the person on a personal level way before you can ever hope to have an accountability relationship that lasts. This is after all a commitment in time, expertise and in trust!

    Plus you really need to care what your accountably partner thinks about you and your business. If you don't care then where's the motivation to complete on your promises and gaols?
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  • Profile picture of the author Ricardo-Acosta
    Originally Posted by JoeMack View Post

    Hello All,


    Some of the most productive times in my life have come from working with an accountability partner. For those that don't know, an accountability partner is someone that is expecting you to follow through on what you said you would do.

    The thing is: humans are generally lazy.

    And if you don't have anyone to answer to, there's a higher probability of you not completing those tasks that you know you need to do.

    For those of us making a living online, this is especially important. We don't have bosses telling us when to go to work, or what to do. We are the boss, and it is up to us to decide when and what we do. And if we don't get it done, there's no one there to say anything.

    It's a double-edged sword. You have the freedom to make income on your own terms, but you also have to keep yourself motivated to keep doing those profitable tasks that you should be doing.

    Don't get me wrong, not everyone is going to need or want an accountability partner. And that's cool. But for me, there's a certain synergy found in this type of relationship.

    Just knowing that someone is expecting you to complete a tasks can motivate you to not only get it done...but to get it done well. To impress them.

    A few years back, I had an accountability partner. She was awesome. She was Warrior that had similar goals and plans as I had. Online, everyone else is competition, but it never felt that way with her. We would share stories, ideas, strategies, resources, etc. It was fun.

    It was a great relationship. It was competitive, but in a good way. We pushed each other, had fun, and made money doing so.

    Every week we would connect. Sometimes email, or Skype, or phone calls. We would tell each other what we were planning for the following week, and what we had done the week before. It was magical. We'd have out list of "top 10 tasks" that needed to get done...these were the ten things that would make us the most money in the upcoming week. We focused on those 10 things.

    I loved that part of my life....


    But things changed. My accountability partner got married. She had children and is focusing most of her time in raising healthy kids and travelling. And although I am very happy for her, I do miss those magical moments. When making money online was so fun.

    People seem to think that making money online is all hearts and rainbows. And although I do prefer this path compared to working at some job, it does get hard sometimes to stay focused and motivated.

    Accountability partners are a way to keep you on your toes. To give you that extra bit of motivation because you know he or she is going to ask you if you did what you said you were going to do. For Internet Marketers, this is especially important.

    Still looking for a new accountability partner....to touch that fire again.


    JoeMack
    Joe Mack you are right on the money, I actually got here through a google search!
    Im glad I am not the only one who feels that an accountability partner can make a really big difference in your business. Thanks for the thread.
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