Would you lie to get a sale ($1000)?

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Well I have a ton of people on craigslist who want my products. But I do not live within the same state as them. Because I could make over $1000 dollars today. But like I said this is craigslist and I am an out of stater, so since the genocide that craigslist has started against shippers, I probably am going to miss out on all of this money! It pisses me off!!!

So what I'm trying to do is salvage some of this cash by coming up with something that will sound halfway decent to get them to trust me:

"Congratulations on being able to recognize such a great deal! I list my iphones on craigslist for more exposure for the items i'm selling on ebay (I have a positive feed 100% with over 2000 sales). This helps me make extra money, im a retired disabled vet of the military (served 20 years).

I currently live in texas, and I have had tons of success with shipments through craigslist, and I accept payments through paypal. at ***********@yahoo.com. As soon as your item is shipped I will give you the tracking number!"

So yeah this is a little cheezy and sleazy but I need to get these sales its not fair to me that I lose these sales. If they purchase the items I will ship the item. SO if I lie to get their trust it really doesn't matter because they are going to get the item either way.
#lie #sale
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by CPA For Food View Post

      I say go ahead and sell them to the people. They want them so give it to them.
      You are exactly right, SIR!

      Now can you help me perfect the message so they will, so they will let me ship, because so far all they have done is asked me if the item is still available.
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    can we be real for a second? It is not my fault that people have been stiffing people on craigslist?
    Should I be punished because of a few people from nigeria? asia or wherever?
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    No, but it would be YOUR fault if you choose to LIE!

    There is no justification for it.

    Look, we all know your angry and upset, but give it a rest - it'll do you good.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

      No, but it would be YOUR fault if you choose to LIE!

      There is no justification for it.

      Look, we all know your angry and upset, but give it a rest - it'll do you good.
      there is some truth to this post.
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    • Profile picture of the author Galactus
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

      No, but it would be YOUR fault if you choose to LIE!

      There is no justification for it.

      Look, we all know your angry and upset, but give it a rest - it'll do you good.
      I second that!

      Ps: Weird though, hes actually honestly stating hes lying!
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      • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
        Originally Posted by Galactus View Post

        I second that!

        Ps: Weird though, hes actually honestly stating hes lying!
        I didn't lie..just asked a question. So you can get off your high horse.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Riddle
    I have an answer for you send me $1000 to paypal, and I'll send you the tracking number as soon as I ship it.
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  • Profile picture of the author ShayB
    Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

    This helps me make extra money, im a retired disabled vet of the military (served 20 years).

    <snip>

    ....it really doesn't matter because they are going to get the item either way.
    As the wife of a disabled vet, this makes me ill.

    Period.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by ShayRockhold View Post

      As the wife of a disabled vet, this makes me ill.

      You want to know why you are broke and not successful?

      Your mindset is wrong and you are dishonest.

      Period.
      Hey hey, I havnt lied yet! And my dad is a disabled vet, so calm down.

      My point is, that craigslist attack on shippers is pushing, who would be honest shippers to have to lie. Its not fair either way.

      Since you do have a personal experience with this you should kind of let your emotions lie dormant because right now I'm just planning stages.
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      • Profile picture of the author ShayB
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        Hey hey, I havnt lied yet! And my dad is a disabled vet, so calm down.

        My point is, that craigslist attack on shippers is pushing, who would be honest shippers to have to lie. Its not fair either way.

        Since you do have a personal experience with this you should kind of let your emotions lie dormant because right now I'm just planning stages.
        You haven't lied yet? Good Lord.

        If your Dad is a doctor, it doesn't mean you can practice medicine. You are not your Dad.

        And as far as "honest shippers have to lie," that's horse hockey.
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        • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
          Originally Posted by ShayRockhold View Post

          You haven't lied yet? Good Lord.

          If your Dad is a doctor, it doesn't mean you can practice medicine. You are not your Dad.

          And as far as "honest shippers have to lie," that's horse hockey.
          on craigslist you have to lie in order to get people to let you ship.
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          • Profile picture of the author ShayB
            Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

            on craigslist you have to lie in order to get people to let you ship.
            *sigh*

            No, you don't.

            Okay, let's start from the beginning.

            1. If you have over 2000 sales on eBay, why are you going to Craigslist?

            2. If you have such a good rep on eBay, why not direct them to your eBay site with feedback to build your credibility?

            Or am I totally missing something and the eBay comments are lies, too?
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            • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
              Originally Posted by ShayRockhold View Post

              *sigh*

              No, you don't.

              Okay, let's start from the beginning.

              1. If you have over 2000 sales on eBay, why are you going to Craigslist?

              2. If you have such a good rep on eBay, why not direct them to your eBay site with feedback to build your credibility?

              Or am I totally missing something and the eBay comments are lies, too?
              so the 2000 is actually 77 and the 100% is actually 95%.
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              • Profile picture of the author ShayB
                Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                so the 2000 is actually 77 and the 100% is actually 95%.
                Are you serious?
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            • Profile picture of the author Melody
              No matter how you dress this up - you are trying to justify your actions to break the rules of the CL marketplace because they don't benefit YOU!

              There are other marketplaces to sell in - find them and do your business ethically! And posting this kind of thread here doesn't do much to build your reputation here either.

              You say that you haven't lied on CL yet - and technically, that's true - BUT you have violated the ad code by implying that you were a local seller and now you are trying to figure out how to dig out of the hole you are in - so you haven't really been totally honest have you?

              I would suggest that you find another way to sell your iphones - I cannot imagine that anyone would be comfortable sending $1000 bucks once they find out the terms anyway!

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              • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
                Originally Posted by Melody View Post

                No matter how you dress this up - you are trying to justify your actions to break the rules of the CL marketplace because they don't benefit YOU!

                There are other marketplaces to sell in - find them and do your business ethically! And posting this kind of thread here doesn't do much to build your reputation here either.

                You say that you haven't lied on CL yet - and technically, that's true - BUT you have violated the ad code by implying that you were a local seller and now you are trying to figure out how to dig out of the hole you are in - so you haven't really been totally honest have you?

                I would suggest that you find another way to sell your iphones - I cannot imagine that anyone would be comfortable sending $1000 bucks once they find out the terms anyway!

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                They are not sending 1000 its alot cheaper than that, but come on mam.
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                • Profile picture of the author ShayB
                  Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                  They are not sending 1000 its alot cheaper than that, but come on mam.
                  What do you mean, "Come on, Ma'am" - as if she does not have a valid point.

                  Here is another question - if the shipping is such an issue, why not sell locally? Problem solved!
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                • Profile picture of the author Melody
                  Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                  They are not sending 1000 its alot cheaper than that, but come on mam.
                  So the amount justifies the lie?

                  I have a feeling that you are going to do what you want anyway - but I think you may be surprised at how few prospects actually take you up on your offer.

                  It's more likely that you will get reported and kicked off CL for violation of their policies.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    In this post...

    http://www.warriorforum.com/off-topi...tml#post702211

    you said...

    Im only 20 I wish I was born 15 years earlier so I could have ridden the money wave of the internet when it first began, because nowadays people are too scared to commit to a damn thing!
    And then above you want to tell people who buy from you that you are...
    a retired disabled vet of the military (served 20 years).
    Yes, you're right when you said this in your other post...
    All thse scammers out here ruined IM
    My question is: how are you any different?

    To claim to be a disabled vet is fraud, it's disgusting, and it's a scam.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

      In this post...

      http://www.warriorforum.com/off-topi...tml#post702211

      you said...



      And then above you want to tell people who buy from you that you are...


      Yes, you're right when you said this in your other post...


      My question is: how are you any different?

      To claim to be a disabled vet is fraud, it's disgusting, and it's a scam.
      Again you missed the point of the post, I said that I was going to lie and say I was a disabled vet. You didn't catch me in anything.

      My point is that I need to get these sales and It is not fair that i'm being punished because of scammers.
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      • Profile picture of the author ShayB
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        Again you missed the point of the post, I said that I was going to lie and say I was a disabled vet.
        And that makes it better?:confused:
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        • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
          Originally Posted by ShayRockhold View Post

          And that makes it better?:confused:
          Alright so maybe i'm wrong (haven't went through with it yet) but can someone provide me a solution?

          I can't just say send me money and I'll ship, people already have the "craigslist complex" against shipping.

          How do I keep all of these sales? (18 people ready to buy)
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    No, my point is that if you do it, even thinking of doing it, puts you in the same class as other people who lie to make money.

    I hope you don't.

    My best advice...

    Be honest about the whole shipping thing. If you think it's scammers who have ruined it, then say so. Honesty is the best policy, if you have to lie, then you're in the wrong game.

    All the best,
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    Oh yeah, you could also charge more for what you're selling to offset the cost.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

      Oh yeah, you could also charge more for what you're selling to offset the cost.
      HAhAH I like you Oksa, but you know where i'm coming from.

      UPdate: Another 3 buyers have emailed me. I have not yet replied to any of them!
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  • Profile picture of the author nemock
    If you choose to lie, that's you. Don't BS yourself and pretend that someone else "made you do it."

    I wouldn't lie and also I've seen enough people have that catch up with them to know that even if you make the sale in the short term, you will get what you deserve soon enough.

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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Riddle
    You've already lied by promoting locally to when you are not local.

    You have already lied to 18 people by your count.

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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by netmalls View Post

      You've already lied by promoting locally to when you are not local.

      You have already lied to 18 people by your count.

      Mark
      I never said I was local. I didn't put a specific place, I just posted in there area. Don't try split hairs
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  • Profile picture of the author Steven Fullman
    Do you want to build a business?

    Or earn a quick buck?

    Answer those questions -- honestly -- and you won't need to ask us.

    I'll pass no judgement either way.

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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    was that where I xcrossed the line?

    But seriosly I will try to be as truthful as possible. Which means, I will use lies sparingly.j/k

    (just got another buyer)
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

      (just got another buyer)
      First of all, you do not have a "buyer" until you have cash in your pocket. Period. You have a "prospect" or a "potential customer."
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

      was that where I crossed the line?
      *taking a deep breath*

      You will never create an established business by lying.

      Can you make a quick buck? Sure.

      But nothing you can build a secure financial future on.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mickm
    No chance. Start lying to customers and soon you ain't gonna have many left..
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    Here's the deal, Warriors are willing to help, and to forgive. IF you have lied to us about anything, we can't help you. IF you have lied to us, now is the time to come clean. (Notice I am using the word 'IF').

    Also, if you really are 20 years old, you have your future ahead of you. You're young enough to make a fresh start - AND get help from some of the best people online.

    Again, I'm not saying you're lying, just that IF you are it would appear to be a habit. I know it can be hard to stop once you start (that's the nature of the beast). Now's your chance.

    All the best,
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

      Here's the deal, Warriors are willing to help, and to forgive. IF you have lied to us about anything, we can't help you. IF you have lied to us, now is the time to come clean. (Notice I am using the word 'IF').

      Also, if you really are 20 years old, you have your future ahead of you. You're young enough to make a fresh start - AND get help from some of the best people online.

      Again, I'm not saying you're lying, just that IF you are it would appear to be a habit. I know it can be hard to stop once you start (that's the nature of the beast). Now's your chance.

      All the best,
      Michael
      Serioulsy you guys, I even mention lying and I get cast out like a leper. Nobody even believes anything about me now, your like, "hililuud, if thats your real name."

      but yeah I am 20.
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      • Profile picture of the author ShayB
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        Serioulsy you guys, I even mention lying and I get cast out like a leper. Nobody even believes anything about me now, your like, "hililuud, if thats your real name."

        but yeah I am 20.
        That is because (IMHO) it shows your true mindset.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        Serioulsy you guys, I even mention lying and I get cast out like a leper. Nobody even believes anything about me now, your like, "hililuud, if thats your real name."

        but yeah I am 20.
        That's exactly why I said, IF.

        And we do get very touchy about lying, for the same reason you get upset about scammers on Craigslist. It's not the right thing to do, and it makes it harder for honest people and non-scammers.

        Nobody is casting you out like a leper - if that was the case, we'd tell you to go away and then ignore you. Believe it or not, we're trying to help you do the right thing, and run a better (more profitable) business in the long run.

        All the best,
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        • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
          But yeah I kind of do get that tender/caring feeling from this place, that is the only reason i'm here there is a much tender enviroment.

          So alright I will not lie. I'm going to just give it to them straight take it or leave it.
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          • Profile picture of the author koolphoto
            Would I lie to get sales? NO.

            It isn't worth it to lie no matter how small the lie. I wouldn't do it for any amount of money.

            It could come back to bite you in the butt in the future.
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            • Profile picture of the author Gilbert714
              Why don't you get set up with a merchant account? Then if you don't send the Iphone they can just charge back the transaction.
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              • Profile picture of the author MissAnn
                What I am getting from this thread basically is that you have already lied, or stretched the truth, whatever you want to call it. Now you want the rest of us to tell you it's okay, you had no choice. Sorry, ain't happening.
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              • Profile picture of the author ShayB
                *taking another deep breath*

                Okay. I am going to choose to take the point of view that you really are trying to find ways to legitimately make money and are resorting to the possibility of using dishonest tactics out of desperation.

                Here is my advice:

                1. Change your mindset. The universe is not out to cheat you, scr*w you, or keep you poor. Read positive books. Read books and blogs about mindset. I recommend The Magic of Thinking Big (can't think of the author right off the top of my head) and also anything written by Zig Ziglar. I am sure others can suggest different books and authors.

                2. Take responsibility for your actions. No one makes you do anything. Your situation is the direct result of all of the choices you have made up until this point. Your future depends on your choices from now on. Make better choices. Which brings us to....

                3. Make the conscious decision to stay completely honest in all you do. Period.

                4. Be open to advice from others who are successful. If someone who is making money gives you advice, listen. Don't argue about why it won't work - because it does.

                5. Focus. Quit chasing every shiny bauble that sparkles. Focus on one method to make money for now.

                6. Read. Ask questions. Take action. This forum is a wealth of information. Use it. Be teachable.
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                • Profile picture of the author shane_k
                  Originally Posted by ShayRockhold View Post

                  *taking another deep breath*

                  Okay. I am going to choose to take the point of view that you really are trying to find ways to legitimately make money and are resorting to the possibility of using dishonest tactics out of desperation.

                  Here is my advice:

                  1. Change your mindset. The universe is not out to cheat you, scr*w you, or keep you poor. Read positive books. Read books and blogs about mindset. I recommend The Magic of Thinking Big (can't think of the author right off the top of my head) and also anything written by Zig Ziglar. I am sure others can suggest different books and authors.

                  2. Take responsibility for your actions. No one makes you do anything. Your situation is the direct result of all of the choices you have made up until this point. Your future depends on your choices from now on. Make better choices. Which brings us to....

                  3. Make the conscious decision to stay completely honest in all you do. Period.

                  4. Be open to advice from others who are successful. If someone who is making money gives you advice, listen. Don't argue about why it won't work - because it does.

                  5. Focus. Quit chasing every shiny bauble that sparkles. Focus on one method to make money for now.

                  6. Read. Ask questions. Take action. This forum is a wealth of information. Use it. Be teachable.


                  I think this is a great post. My first response also was to get pissed off and I started writing an immediate reply.

                  However, I thought if I do that how is it going to help him? And it is not.

                  Part of the problem is the lying but the bigger problem is that the only choice he felt he had included lying.

                  It just shows how inexperienced in sales and marketing he is.

                  So the question then becomes how can we teach him to have choice?

                  Because that is the real solution. To teach him how to create different options. The more options someone has or knows how to create the less the need to lie.


                  My opinion.

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                  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
                    Originally Posted by shane_k View Post

                    I think this is a great post. My first response also was to get pissed off and I started writing an immediate reply.

                    However, I thought if I do that how is it going to help him? And it is not.

                    Part of the problem is the lying but the bigger problem is that the only choice he felt he had included lying.

                    It just shows how inexperienced in sales and marketing he is.

                    So the question then becomes how can we teach him to have choice?

                    Because that is the real solution. To teach him how to create different options. The more options someone has or knows how to create the less the need to lie.


                    My opinion.

                    Shane_K
                    Thanx for being a big person (no sarcasm) now can you help me with a better solution. Like what should I say to these people?
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                    • Profile picture of the author Cynthia A.
                      Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                      Thanx for being a big person (no sarcasm) now can you help me with a better solution. Like what should I say to these people?
                      This is exactly the point I was trying to make. You claimed you'd already come up with a truthful message to get 32 people to take the Iphones even though they won't be coming locally (remember your countdown?). Now you're asking Shane what to say to them. So you've continued to lie throughout this thread...even though you said you weren't.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
                        Originally Posted by Cynthia A. View Post

                        This is exactly the point I was trying to make. You claimed you'd already come up with a truthful message to get 32 people to take the Iphones even though they won't be coming locally (remember your countdown?). Now you're asking Shane what to say to them. So you've continued to lie throughout this thread...even though you said you weren't.
                        No I was counting prospects, but I havn't hit any of them back yet. SO THERE!
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                        • Profile picture of the author Cynthia A.
                          Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                          No I was counting prospects, but I havn't hit any of them back yet. SO THERE!
                          My mistake. But that doesn't diminish the fact that you still joke :confused: you're going to have a WSO with the script (Shane's script I'm guessing). You may lose a lot of these potential buyers because you implied here that the Iphones are coming from out of State where you're at. But in the other thread you started, you said drop shipping. (I'm assuming that means overseas.) I know I wouldn't buy from anyone who is drop shipping an Iphone on CL. Yes, scammers have ruined it for you but you set yourself up for it by posting out of the area. Maybe you should go back to eBay & use your feedback to build your trust. People would feel much more comfortable buying thru eBay knowing their is less of a chance of getting scammed.
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          • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
            Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

            But yeah I kind of do get that tender/caring feeling from this place, that is the only reason i'm here there is a much tender enviroment.

            So alright I will not lie. I'm going to just give it to them straight take it or leave it.
            Hey..hey..hey hey, I just said I wasn't going to lie. So quit trying to make it seem like I'm "unholy" for even thinking about it.Jerks update: 30
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            • Profile picture of the author ShayB
              On another note - I have put the first person on my ignore list.
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      • Profile picture of the author Melody
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        Serioulsy you guys, I even mention lying and I get cast out like a leper. Nobody even believes anything about me now, your like, "hililuud, if thats your real name."

        but yeah I am 20.
        Guess you missed the Warrior that just got banned for faking Clickbank numbers?

        Believe it or not - there are actually people here with ethics!!!

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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Riddle
    Craigs TOS

    v) post non-local or otherwise irrelevant Content, repeatedly post the
    same or similar Content or otherwise impose an unreasonable or
    disproportionately large load on our infrastructure;

    w) post the same item or service in more than one classified category or
    forum, or in more than one metropolitan area;

    Any questions LOL
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  • Profile picture of the author marketguru
    money isn't worth lying for. Could you live with it on your mind?
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    I'm getting a wierd feeling as if i'm bout to do something wrong...how strange?
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  • Profile picture of the author Melody
    So - where do you REALLY live - and why are you able to sell these iphones so cheap that this many people want them???

    THAT has me very curious - all things considered.......iphones are not usually a discounted item........
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Riddle
    Brandon Swain, what did you do to get your squidoo lens blocked ?

    I'm guessing its a picture of an Iphone, after all he doesn't promise it to be a working real iphone, that's just some detail stuff that doesn't really matter LOL

    Its sad really to find someone with so little self worth.

    But Honest Officer, just because I was driving 120 MPH, doesn't mean I was speeding after all I WAS doing 35, I just adding some more MPH to it, whats the big deal. LOL
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by netmalls View Post

      Brandon Swain, what did you do to get your squidoo lens blocked ?
      ROTFL

      Too funny.
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      • Profile picture of the author RichardBravo
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        Compromising your integrity, in any manner, at any level, for the sake of a sale or any other reason is bad business and sowing bad seed in your life. Back in the day it was referred to as principles. Have you no principles sir?

        To place it a modern context...

        Have we learned nothing from Master Yoda?...
        "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering."

        "Remember, a Jedi's strength flows from the Force. But beware. Anger, fear, aggression. The dark side are they. Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny..."


        The simplest truths often times are the most prolific in one's life. A simple compromise here,one there... you will quickly find yourself on a road you did not intend to travel, yet one that you CHOSE non the less.

        Your FEAR of losing sales and ANGER of the status quo, is a poverty stricken, scarcity mindset, that time and again has driven many a men to a life of crime, dishonesty and self destruction.

        Every moment of your life is a choice. You can do the right thing, or get what you want. The choice is yours....

        Choose wisely young padawan.


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  • Profile picture of the author AmyKay
    I'm such a chicken, I wouldn't.
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  • Profile picture of the author Johnathan
    It is wrong to lie. How would you like it if everyone of those "buyers" decided to "lie" to you, and didn't really have the money to pay for the iphones, so once you shipped them, discovered all the funds were charged back? Would you think it was "ok", because they were lying just like you?
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Johnathan View Post

      It is wrong to lie. How would you like it if everyone of those "buyers" decided to "lie" to you, and didn't really have the money to pay for the iphones, so once you shipped them, discovered all the funds were charged back? Would you think it was "ok", because they were lying just like you?

      That is an excellent point.
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  • Profile picture of the author PowerWealth247
    here's a novel suggestion... why not tell them the truth ? That you advertised when you were not local but are willing to ship the items to them when paid. If they will not trust you then you can blame yourself for posting in other cites than your own. You knew going in that most Craigslisters who buy do so BECAUSE it is local. Just tell them honestly that you have the item but you are not in their city and it will be shipped when they pay you and that they can always get a refund via Paypal if they are not satisfied. Everybody wins.
    In the future don't post in cities other than your own of be willing to drive.
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    22 lol im the best I'm'er alive.j/k haha
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

      22 lol im the best I'm'er alive.j/k haha
      Okay. That's it. I'm done.

      Good luck to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    update: 27!!! WOOT wOOT !!
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      Anyone who would consider claiming to be a disabled vet to make a buck is beyond help. Don't know the point of the j/k comments but most here won't bother to read your threads after your responses in this one.

      Really funny that in another thread you started, you are complaining about people trying to scam you. Wow, that wouldn't be fair, would it?

      Shay - your advice is spot on. But it requires a bit of maturity.

      kay
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      • Profile picture of the author ShayB
        Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

        Shay - your advice is spot on. But it requires a bit of maturity.

        kay
        Thanks.

        Yes, I believe it was wasted on the OP, but maybe it can help someone else.

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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    Hililuud, you are starting to come off as a troll. If you are serious about business and IM -- and if you really want help -- then you need to start thinking about and using the advice and info given to you in various threads.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by R Hagel View Post

      Hililuud, you are starting to come off as a troll. If you are serious about business and IM -- and if you really want help -- then you need to start thinking about and using the advice and info given to you in various threads.
      hey you missed my post I already said I wasn't going to lie.You got read before you just to conclusions. I am telling them the truth.
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      • Profile picture of the author dorim
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        hey you missed my post I already said I wasn't going to lie.You got read before you just to conclusions. I am telling them the truth.
        The fact that you even thought about lying to make a sale is morally reprehensible. You can make more money by being honest. Trust me, its the only way.
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  • Profile picture of the author JonStein
    Since we are talking about lying to make the sale, it never ceases to amaze me how many liars there are in IM. how about the guy that claims he made $300,000,000 with $87,000,000 in free ads from Google. Is that TRUE?

    It would appear to me, that many internet marketers lie to make the sale, not quite different from the Used Car salesman!
    (You know... yes sireee! This car was driven by a little old lady blah blah blah...)
    My opinion is; be honest to make the sale, be honest if a person asks you questions, and do not conform to the modus operandi of the vast majority.
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    • Profile picture of the author Cynthia A.
      Originally Posted by JonStein View Post

      Since we are talking about lying to make the sale, it never ceases to amaze me how many liars there are in IM. how about the guy that claims he made $300,000,000 with $87,000,000 in free ads from Google. Is that TRUE?

      It would appear to me, that many internet marketers lie to make the sale, not quite different from the Used Car salesman!
      (You know... yes sireee! This car was driven by a little old lady blah blah blah...)
      My opinion is; be honest to make the sale, be honest if a person asks you questions, and do not conform to the modus operandi of the vast majority.
      The reason many Internet marketers lie is because what they sell doesn't work! So the only way to get your money is to lie. Or if they told the truth (like you WON'T make $15,000 in 14 days - it'll take you 9 months to get over the learning curve) no one would want to buy. The hype of "get rich quick" is all over the Internet (& biz opp mags offline) so people have grown used to the "instant" lottery mentality.

      Many IMers promote lying (their affiliates do it to make the sale, lies are built into the affiliate tools) & so many justify it to make a buck.
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  • Profile picture of the author dorim
    Its always best to be honest and follow the rules even if you think those rules are unfair. Lying is wrong, there isn't any way to make lying not wrong.
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    New update: 32 (with honest)
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      If I came to you and said, "You know what? We could make a lot of money if we went to my 92-year-old Aunt Myrtle's house, knocked her in the head, and stole her pin money that she hides in her cookie jar."

      What would you think of me? It's not the fact I would actually do it, but the premise that it really does show how my mind works.

      Like I am trying to toss out an idea and see if the other person runs with it, KWIM?

      I have the feeling that if people had jumped in after the OP saying, "Man! That's a great idea! Lie like a dog and make the sale!" you would be singing a different tune.
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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
      Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

      New update: 32 (with honest)
      What wording are you using? Just wondering. If you are being honest with them, then I'm curious if you've received any negative responses.
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      • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
        Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

        What wording are you using? Just wondering. If you are being honest with them, then I'm curious if you've received any negative responses.
        I'm going to do a wso later, you can pick that up.
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        • Profile picture of the author Cynthia A.
          Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

          I'm going to do a wso later, you can pick that up.
          Is it going to be your OWN wording? I see you posted this a few hours ago:
          I have a dropshipper, craigslist is the best place to list items besides ebay and people won't let me ship!!! Can someone help me create the right emotions in people so they will accept an offer even if it is shipped?
          Then later...
          anyone going to help me?
          You sure have quite a few posts for someone who just joined last month.
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          • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
            Originally Posted by Cynthia A. View Post

            Is it going to be your OWN wording? I see you posted this a couple of hours ago:


            Then later...


            You sure have quite a few posts for someone who just joined last month.
            your point?
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            • Profile picture of the author Cynthia A.
              Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

              your point?
              There are many people who sell WSO's who have no real experience doing anything. You've established yourself as someone willing to lie (I know you said you haven't).
              Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

              you have to lie to get their trust.
              You asked for help on how to craft an emotional sales pitch to convince people to accept your drop shipped Iphones. Asking for help doesn't make YOU the expert at all. Therefore a WSO with the "pitch" you're using to get 32 people to buy the Iphones is not really yours.
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              • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
                Originally Posted by Cynthia A. View Post

                There are many people sell WSO's who have no real experience doing anything. You've established yourself as someone willing to lie (I know you said you haven't). You asked for help on how to craft an emotional sales pitch to convince people to accept your drop shipped Iphones. Asking for help doesn't make YOU the expert at all. Therefore a WSO with the &quot;pitch&quot; you're using to get 32 people to buy the Iphones is not really yours.
                Im still not getting your point...I mean are you trying to say DS is not legitmate? I mean you can stop with the rambling and just say what you mean.
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  • Profile picture of the author Floyd Fisher
    Allow me to chime in.

    Claiming you're a disabled veteran when you're not is a federal offense.

    Just google 'Jesse MacBeth' and see what can happen to you.
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Floyd Fisher View Post

      Allow me to chime in.

      Claiming you're a disabled veteran when you're not is a federal offense.

      Just google 'Jesse MacBeth' and see what can happen to you.
      I did not realize that.

      Good to know.
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  • Profile picture of the author steven90210
    One of the foundations of a good and strong business is ethics.

    That's just my opinion, but I believe that money should be gotten the hard and moral way, including working smart of cos, which speeds up the progress considerably. :p

    At the end of the day, it all boils down to your conscience.

    So, all the best! I trust you won't make the wrong choice.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by steven90210 View Post

      One of the foundations of a good and strong business is ethics.

      That's just my opinion, but I believe that money should be gotten the hard and moral way, including working smart of cos, which speeds up the progress considerably. :p

      At the end of the day, it all boils down to your conscience.

      So, all the best! I trust you won't make the wrong choice.
      You are not very rich are you?
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      • Profile picture of the author steven90210
        Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

        You are not very rich are you?
        You are not very smart are you?
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        • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
          Originally Posted by steven90210 View Post

          You are not very smart are you?
          just answer the question? no need to insult intelligence, now that's just rude.
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          • Profile picture of the author steven90210
            Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

            just answer the question? no need to insult intelligence, now that's just rude.
            I'm doing fine thanks. At least I go to bed every night with a clear mind. Well I guess I sounded too cordial in my first reply.

            I'm sorry I insulted your intelligence, I'll just take a look at the post below your reply. By Cynthia. That should be evidence enough
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            • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
              Originally Posted by steven90210 View Post

              I'm doing fine thanks. At least I go to bed every night with a clear mind.
              and an empty wallet.
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              • Profile picture of the author steven90210
                Originally Posted by Hililuud View Post

                and an empty wallet.
                hahaha. I didn't say I was poor. I said "I'm doing fine", which means at the very least I'm surviving. But doesn't mean I can't be making more Why are you so defensive all of a sudden? Guilty Conscience? Then again, you'll still deny it. haha.
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                • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
                  Originally Posted by steven90210 View Post

                  hahaha. I didn't say I was poor. I said &quot;I'm doing fine&quot;, which means at the very least I'm surviving. But doesn't mean I can't be making more Why are you so defensive all of a sudden? Guilty Conscience? Then again, you'll still deny it. haha.
                  I'm making a wso(about this), you should buy.
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  • Profile picture of the author AlbertF
    If you lie, you are just adding onto the fraudulent scams in the Internet. You know how it hurts to be scammed, so why do it to someone else?

    Just learn from it, scammers is the reason why the Internet needs extra security and has rotten the trust of communities.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by AlbertF View Post

      If you lie, you are just adding onto the fraudulent scams in the Internet. You know how it hurts to be scammed, so why do it to someone else?

      Just learn from it, scammers is the reason why the Internet needs extra security and has rotten the trust of communities.
      This is my point, people have been scammed so much that you have to lie to get their trust. Craigslist has taken advantage of this by taking over the local dealings niche and just flat out calling everything else scams. I mean that is terribly smart and I that is why craigslist has grown so fast and large. It will one day be bigger than ebay. But what is that going to do the the global trade?
      But there is a big difference between the scammers who have no items and try to sell and me, because I have items to ship, but I get put into the same category as the real scammers. Me lying only does them good, they want the product and I'm making them comfortable enought to buy and enjoy the products.
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  • Profile picture of the author shane_k
    I find it interesting that you feel that your only choice is to lie.

    How about just telling the people the truth.


    Something like

    *******

    Hi (their name)

    I want to thank you for your interest in my product. Before you pay for it though I want to make sure you understand something first.

    To benefit both you and I, I want you to know that I am out of state. Now, I realize that there have been people who in the past have been burned when buying something out of their state. And that those other people's dishonesty is costing honest business people like myself real customers.

    So I feel it is best to let my customers know upfront what they can expect from me.


    Blah, blah, blah, you get the idea.

    ********

    Basically you want to point out the obvious which is that people in the past have been decieved/scammed, and how that hurts honest business people. Then you want to seperate yourself from those other people.

    Then to show that you are honest you can tell them that they can either buy from you still on craigslist, or they can go and buy from you on Ebay if they feel more comfortable.

    Then once you done that you leave the choice up to them.

    Sure you might lose some sales but it is better to lose some sale then to lose your integrity by lying.


    Let us know what you decide.

    Shane_K
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by shane_k View Post

      I find it interesting that you feel that your only choice is to lie.

      How about just telling the people the truth.


      Something like

      *******

      Hi (their name)

      I want to thank you for your interest in my product. Before you pay for it though I want to make sure you understand something first.

      To benefit both you and I, I want you to know that I am out of state. Now, I realize that there have been people who in the past have been burned when buying something out of their state. And that those other people's dishonesty is costing honest business people like myself real customers.

      So I feel it is best to let my customers know upfront what they can expect from me.


      Blah, blah, blah, you get the idea.

      ********

      Basically you want to point out the obvious which is that people in the past have been decieved/scammed, and how that hurts honest business people. Then you want to seperate yourself from those other people.

      Then to show that you are honest you can tell them that they can either buy from you still on craigslist, or they can go and buy from you on Ebay if they feel more comfortable.

      Then once you done that you leave the choice up to them.

      Sure you might lose some sales but it is better to lose some sale then to lose your integrity by lying.


      Let us know what you decide.

      Shane_K
      This is what I was expecting someone who disagrees to help me find a solution. I mean you can litterally look back in the post and you'll see me ask. People here are more interested in arguing...
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  • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
    Who wants a clear mind and a empty wallet? @ steve
    hope you have a clear stomach also (not being able to buy food and all)!
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  • Profile picture of the author steven90210
    Hahaha I give up.

    The irony is too much for me too handle. This kid just won't listen.
    Tell them the truth man.

    For the truth will set you free.
    AND make you rich.
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    • Profile picture of the author Hililuud
      Originally Posted by steven90210 View Post

      Hahaha I give up.

      The irony is too much for me too handle. This kid just won't listen.
      Tell them the truth man.

      For the truth will set you free.
      AND make you rich.
      Dude I wish you could afford my WSO ($7 by the way), its going to be life changing.
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