Reply by Mike Filsaime - Accused of Lying - Rebuttal

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Hey guys,

Michael Price tipped me off to the thread where someone asked how I could
lie in a promotion an get away with it.

(Thanks Mike Price)

After I read it. It got nuked. Thanks Mods. The problem with nuked threads is
sometimes I never get to defend my reputation after the damage is done.

His thread title
"marketers allowed lie promotions filsaime-did"

The person showed where I stated I made

4.4 Million in 2006
4.7 Million in 2007
8.1 Million in 2008
And YTD in 2009 I am over $3million and pacing $10+ Million and will do over $25 Million
in those 4 years. (Projected)

The person explain how I claim in my video that I said 1 Million optins and later said
700k optins. And that I claimed that I make on average $1 per month for every
member that is active on my list.

And his question is, if I make $1 per month from those $700k, that is $8.4 million. "Well, if he makes $8.4 million from that list. That means that is what he made last year from JUST that list and that also means all of his other businesses make $0.00"

HE IS A LIAR!!! - We know his others istes make money so the list can't make that alone!!!!

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OK - My response...

First off. All the figures I quoted for 2006, 2007, 2008, are based on what I
reported to the IRS. Those are GROSS FIGURES. Not Net.

Of course I have expenses, salaries, and I pay affiliates. I never claimed it is
NET, and I think everyone knows that.

For the record, (Since I was questioned) those GROSS numbers include ONLY
what Clickbank paid me, not gross sales. So you can also put that to rest. I
can only report as income to the IRS the 1099 I get from Clickbank. That is
a net number from Clickbank.

On to your point saying, if that was the case, why did I not make $8 Million last
year (2007).

Well, my list was smaller last year. And I was on the road a lot and not able to
run my company the way I wanted so I retired from public speaking and my
business took off.

But keep in mind, 675 people per day joined paydotcom last year. That is
246,000 people that joined my list just from one site. So yes, my list grows
every year.

When I say over 1 Million opted in. That is fact. Why I later said 700,000. That
was made clear in the video. Many people join multiple sites. So after I de-dup
and remove all of the MANY unsubscribes, I send to about 700k unique emails
addresses when I send out an email.

So, on to my point about making $1 per month for every subscriber.

For the last 6+ years online, That has held true for me on average EVERY
SINGLE YEAR.

I never said that make that ONLY from email.

I said, and it is said to be meant as a METRIC.

On average, over the last 6 years, my business makes about $1 every month
the same amount of "ACTIVE" subscribers I have on my email list.

Meaning, you can leverage that list NOT ONLY to make affiliate commissions.

But to ALSO LAUNCH YOUR OWN PRODUCTS. (As I did today with crusher formula)

It can also be used to win prizes and thus BUILD RELATIONSHIPS and RECIPROCITY
to get others to promote for you.

You can also sell the prospects your OTHER products and services unrelated to why
the opted in for something else.

AND... you can also train them to become your affiliates. (Read BFM Manuscript)

So, to be CLEAR, I am not saying I make $1 per month only as an affiliate. I NEVER
said that.

I am saying, as a METRIC, MY BUSINESS earnings monthly are DIRECTLY related
to the size on my ACTIVE OPT-IN LIST by a ratio of 1:1

It has been since day one. Many online experts will also give you that metric.

For me it is FACT. Since day one even to right now.

So, my point was I will teach you HOW TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP with your
list and show you what I do to maintain tha 1:1 ratio.

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If you doubt me, that is your problem. The only person I worry about my claims
is the IRS and TRUST ME, I know what it is like when they show up at
your office and go through your books. I would prefer an anal probe. But
they do not doubt my earnings like this person did. They were only concerned
with if I paid them enough taxes. (not fun)

So, for you to call me a LIAR in public is just WRONG. You got a question
you need cleared up. Email me or go to my help desk, or PM me.

(Although if you PM me I may not read it. I rarely check PMs, sorry)

But unlike the nice laws we have here in the US and many countries,
"Innocent until proven guilty" does not apply in public forums.

Any DIM WIT can come in and call some one a LIAR and scream bloody
murder without fact.

I must say, I was so happy to see many other warriors and even past critics
come to my defense or at least try to clear things up. Thanks to all of you.

But my reputation may have been tarnished my anyone reading..
"Why is Mike Filsaime allowed to LIE in is promotions"

"don't think of a GIANT RED ELEPHANT"

Even if you don't think it effects you, it still leaves an image.

So I wanted to clear things up for this person and anyone else
he may have confused quoting me out of context. Although he
did mention "Go see the video"

Thanks for allowing me to clear things up.

Thanks,

Mike Filsaime
#accused #filsaime #lying #mike #rebuttal #reply
  • Profile picture of the author Joseph Then
    Thanks for your reply. It's important to protect your reputation and I know that 90% of the community believe that you have integrity.

    Your thread reminds me of a quote: "When you are at the top, beware of people with erasers"
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  • Profile picture of the author Asher
    Hello Mike,

    I am not anywhere in the right position to be saying
    this but you're fighting a losing battle here... You
    know that people will always try to say whatever
    they want to say.

    Regardless of what you've done.

    Your reputation will not be tarnished by something
    like this -- seems to me that is your concern here.
    And it's worth defending, a good name is worth
    more than anything.

    So, what I'm trying to say is rest easy -- your
    reputation won't be so easily tarnished with just a
    thread from a self-opinionated person who hasn't
    gotten to know what it's like to be dealing with
    the problems you're living with.

    Asher
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    • Profile picture of the author Harvey Segal
      Mike,

      Good post.

      You could put it up at your blog and refer to it whenever necessary

      And here's how you can make money from it.

      Use an affiliate link for the product you recommended here

      Originally Posted by mikefilsaime View Post

      I would prefer an anal probe.

      Harvey


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      • Profile picture of the author mikefilsaime
        Originally Posted by Harvey.Segal View Post

        Mike,

        Good post.

        You could put it up at your blog and refer to it whenever necessary

        And here's how you can make money from it.

        Use an affiliate link for the product you recommended here




        Harvey


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        I actually laughed out loud. I was like what product ... DOH!!!
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        • Profile picture of the author wingsofsuccess
          Hey Mike

          There will always be people who have never achieved success, and probably never will.

          Their only way of "getting noticed" is to try to tarnish other's reputation and try to make a name for themselves. Negative publicity - Not the right way to get popular, i think.

          Those who know the right ways to succeed will always move ahead, and the nay-sayers will continue gaping...

          You have done a great job with your reply. I have been your customer for a long time, and I know what substance you are made of.

          Keep it up, man!

          -Abhi
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    • Profile picture of the author Galactus
      Originally Posted by Asher View Post

      Hello Mike,

      I am not anywhere in the right position to be saying
      this but you're fighting a losing battle here... You
      know that people will always try to say whatever
      they want to say.

      Regardless of what you've done.

      Your reputation will not be tarnished by something
      like this -- seems to me that is your concern here.
      And it's worth defending, a good name is worth
      more than anything.

      So, what I'm trying to say is rest easy -- your
      reputation won't be so easily tarnished with just a
      thread from a self-opinionated person who hasn't
      gotten to know what it's like to be dealing with
      the problems you're living with.

      Asher
      It takes years to build a reputation and minutes to get it down, and there will always be people who try to do that. I agree Asher 100%
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  • Profile picture of the author Chris Wilkinson
    Hi Mike,

    Don't worry your reputation's still great and I don't think too many people took any notice of the original posters thread. It just sounded like sour grapes to me.

    Keep up the good work and thanks.
    Chris W
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    Mike,

    It's good to defend yourself, but I don't think you have much to worry about. Most people here have a good idea of who you are already. Unless the guy is going around posting that kind of stuff everywhere, you can probably rest easy.
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  • Profile picture of the author michaelmac
    Hey Mike,

    Whilst your reputation is everything in the business world as it sets your credibility and thus affects your earnings, i don't see what business your actual or projected earnings are to any of us. You are undoutebly a brilliant marketer who is in the top 0.25% of our trade, but that position wasn't handed to you...it was earned through a combination hard work, JV brokering, brilliance and possibly a sprinkling of luck initially.

    The problem is that envy and jealousy are extremely potent emotions that if allowed to manifest only lead to negative things. Although it is really easy to succumb to such feelings, why not just learn from your experiences and teachings and go for it yourself with as much energy as you can muster. Kangaroo courts seem to be quite trendy of late; hope they are just a passing trend...although i doubt it! Folk should just go get your share of the online dream...it's out there!

    Just my 2 cents worth from what i've read here.

    Good luck to you Mike,

    Michael
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  • Profile picture of the author John Taylor
    Mike,

    You've done the right thing by posting a rebuttal.

    There's always someone who prefers to blame other
    people's success for their own inadequacies.

    I wonder if anyone can remember the guys name?

    John
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  • Profile picture of the author Tsnyder
    Hey Mike...

    A smart guy once told me not to worry when someone
    is kicking me in the butt... it just means I'm still out in front.

    Unfortunately, becoming successful makes you a target for
    every wannabe with an internet connection...

    Tsnyder
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      I have heard about this Filsaime character. I have been in IM for just over a year now. I saw a Video of this guy at Fox News or some major broadcasting Channel where he and others were talking about financial issues and the Economy.

      He was really reserved and polite and didn't have a blabber mouth like I would picture some Gurus to have. I got the impression that he was really humble and was definitley NOT full of himself.

      Definitely refreshing to see and he seems like a really upstanding and sincere guy. Who doesnt let Money go to his head.

      Hope he has time to continue to Post here at Warrior Forum.

      He is Okay in my book and what an Great Asset to this Community !!
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  • Profile picture of the author Terry Crim
    I missed the pick on Mike thread? WHAT???

    Damn it, I wanted to throw rocks in the air too! Crap.. I miss all the fun.

    Well, I didn't see the thread in question but there is a definite increase in tantrums and bashing going on out there. It reads to me from what Mike posted in his OP that the person in question can't believe the possibility that a list in excess of 500k can make the owner MILLIONS or that income can increase in multiples within a relatively short period of time.

    Nitpicking of numbers aside, I have personally seen lists in the 15k range make MILLIONS for the list owner. Mike has a much larger list which has been verfied by others. The only thing I don't understand is why Mike isn't earning in the 20M to 50M range per year.

    I think he is slacking but that is different issue. Everyone has a different business model and especially right now.. ANYONE can duplicate the success Mike or anyone else out there is or has had.

    I find it interesting though the various levels of mindset there is out there. 1 million, 700k or 250k sized list doesn't matter. The income in such sized lists, assuming that the lists were built properly with realtionship etc..., is very well within the ranges Mike reports.

    Hell a 50k sized list built and nurished properly can exceed Mike's revenue disclosures.
    The thing that bothers me is NOT that someone attacked Mike. The thing that bothers me is that there are people that don't believe that it is possible to make any large numbers in revenue. That everyone out there that makes more than 10k a year are liars and that the internet lifestyle reported by others is just made up and noone can actually achieve anything close to that level.

    That is what sickens me, the lack mentality, the illness of anti-success mindset.

    That is my thoughts. Mike is a big boy, he will get over it if he hasn't already. That guy and others that share his lack mentality.. those people on the other hand well truly be impacted much longer.



    - Terry
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  • Profile picture of the author Adaptive
    Thanks for your detailed explanation, Mike. I've not been condemned in a forum as public as this one. But I have been subject to invented accusations. Flies visit the garbage then buzz around relentlessly. Swat at 'em and they keep coming back. It's equally frustrating to have the truth attacked for no good reason. Hats off, I admire how you handled this.

    I responded in the original accusation thread. I pointed out something about your quotes that the self-appointed prosecutor used "against" you. Using just the numbers he cited from your video, guess what: they actually add up. And they do so in a logical, straightforward way.

    Its so obvious that you're direct and forthright about your experience and what you promise. No need to apologize or defend.

    "don't think of a GIANT RED ELEPHANT"
    The giant red elephant was the accuser's nonsensical tirade... easily forgotten.

    I do have one question that might help other Internet marketers in the future.

    When I saw the attack thread, I thought of posting in your charity thread. This could have been a way to let you know about how your reputation was being maligned on the same forum. I decided against it, because it could be disruptive to your goal of inviting the donations. It could also have risked the attack spilling over into your positive thread. Did I do the right thing? Or should I have posted in the other thread so you'd have known about the attack a little sooner?

    Hopefully this won't come up again, but if it does, I wonder if there's a rule of thumb about how to handle it wisely.

    Regards,
    Allen
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    • Profile picture of the author SandyDuPlessis
      I do recall reading the thread in question. I also remember thinking that the writer was a self-opinionated and presumptuous idiot who had not done his homework.

      Whilst I do not know you Mike, I do know your reputation. Because of that, I and probably most members of WF, automatically discarded everything that was said.

      Whilst nice, I do not believe a rebuttal was even necessary. Your reputation remains firmly where it was before that rather unpleasant post. Strong and steady.

      Sandy
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    • Profile picture of the author Brad Mc Bard
      Hey Mike,

      Before everything else - just to make you feel better:

      You're My Hero!
      The #1 marketer I aspire to be like "when I grow up".
      Both in terms of success AND in terms of integrity.
      (and no - I don't go around saying that to all the boys)

      OK... now with a smile on your face, you can go on reading, if you like:

      There's an old saying my grandpa used to say, something like: "It takes a hundred wise men to take out a stone that one fool threw into a well". The ugly thing about these dirt-throwers is that it takes so much time and effort to get to the point where you started. Time and effort that could otherwise be spent in much more productive way.

      Case in point - that butthead: How long did it take you to write that reply? More than 5 minutes, for sure. We're talking a small part of your life. Time that could be spent relaxing with your loved ones; or working on your next million; or just sending a thank you note to some customer.



      Well, at least in your case the results with this rebuttal were not too shabby:
      • You got to hear some nice words about you from the public,
      • and that business opportunity Harvey sent you is priceless (Good one, Harvey!)
      Keep up the good work,
      Brad
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  • Profile picture of the author artwebster
    Glad to see that my interpretation was accurate, sad to see how ignorance can manipulate information to support any hypothesis.
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  • Profile picture of the author Anna Johnson
    Mike,

    You've done the right thing by posting a rebuttal.

    There's always someone who prefers to blame other
    people's success for their own inadequacies.

    I wonder if anyone can remember the guys name?

    John
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  • Profile picture of the author Amitywill
    Has the Warrior Forum become the
    Mike Filsaime Show? lol

    Over the last couple of months theres
    been a lot of posts of Butterfly Marketing
    this and Mike Filsaime that. To be honest
    it's getting boring now.

    Will
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  • Profile picture of the author dean_holland
    Hey Mike and all other warriors ...

    It's a SAD reality but here is something you will never change.... Jealousy !

    It's real pathetic but the fact remains and always will that the higher you are ( In anything not just IM ) the more people will try to pull you down !

    Rather than look at what the person has done to get where they are and see if their success can be emulated people try to get noticed by attcking that person.

    The sad thing is that it normally works.. To a degree !

    Yes they get noticed....

    Yes they get attention ....

    And then they FALL !!

    I dont think theres anyone that would complain about being in the position Mike is in and to acheive what he has in business

    Forget that guy ... What a clown

    Where is he now ?? lol ... come on .. SHOW yourself !

    I didnt think so...

    Well done Mike, good for you !

    See you in Vegas brother

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    • Profile picture of the author Nathan Hangen
      I don't think it was jealousy.

      This isn't the right place to post that kind of stuff, but I don't think this thread needs to remain either. I'd hate to see this forum become the "guru" show.

      Mike, you are supposed to be above all this stuff, yet this is the 2nd thread I've seen you lose your cool.
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  • Profile picture of the author Simo
    Great response Mike, now send him a bill for your time.
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  • Profile picture of the author CPA
    Hey Mike!

    I'm Marko, I'm 14 And I make more than you!

    Well I'm joking... (not completely).

    Anyway, as far as I am concerned you got nothing to worry about.

    You still got your customers, list of subscribers and fans really and your reputation can not be ruined by some third jealous guy that came onto a forum and started offending you and trying to ruin your reputation or whatever.

    Your products and the way you know stuff tells everything about you.

    Not some jealous poster on a forum.

    All I can tell you right now is to do what you did yesterday and forget this whole thing.

    You are the same old mike to me and I believe everyone that watches this thread.

    Let me give you a tip.

    Get some pizza, drink a coke after and fire up camtasia.

    Get creative, do a couple of videos and make more money.

    You'll forget this in notime!

    Damn I wasted my 200th post for you.lol!


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  • Profile picture of the author TrafficWhizz
    Hi Mike,

    the thing is most people know that the people who do this sort of thing are just jealous of what others have achieved. Its almost a cry for "look at me, if i cant get famous on my own i'll have to bad mouth someone to get it".

    Big love from over here!
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    • Profile picture of the author pa321
      i think you dont need to rebutt every single frustrated who accuse you.It make looks you are more worried about accusations.I think you can rebutt it but not giving all this explanations as you did.
      Greetings for your work Mike here everybody wants to stay where you are.But difference is that we do not need fakes accusations to feel good.We work more and possibly better.
      Bye
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  • Profile picture of the author gareth
    "So, my point was I will teach you HOW TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP with your
    list and show you what I do to maintain tha 1:1 ratio"

    OK mike wheres the video ?
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  • Profile picture of the author Adeel_Chowdhry
    We all know that the other guy probably (highly likely) has never even made $1 online.

    ..you've got your 'release' now, so don't worry about it too much.


    Adeel
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      • Profile picture of the author Nathan Hangen
        Originally Posted by TMG Enterprises View Post

        So you get to a certain income and business level and you don't have feelings anymore? Sorry, Nathan, but I don't agree. Mike has just as much right to feeling hurt or ticked off as anyone else.

        Has nothing to do with feelings. I've seen a lot of threads get nuked for similar comments that are in this thread. He can be hurt and ticked off, but the best place to address that is on his blog. The thread was nuked, most people didn't see it, so there is no reason to reply here.


        And Will, the crack about the Filsaime show doesn't do you any credit. Since his name is in the post title, you clearly knew the subject before you came in and replied. If the topic is so boring, what attracted you to bother?

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  • Profile picture of the author Franck Silvestre
    Hey Mike,

    I clicked on the thread to read what's the problem was, but it was already deleted.

    Anyway, lying is a really bad habit! I don't say this for you, but for every one reading this.

    Mike, I knew that you don't lie for this kind of stuff. Frankly, it would be stupid for someone to risk his business like this.

    Mike, keep up the good work. You are successful (in business), and many people can sleep because of that.

    Anyway, you helped me a lot in my business, thanks.

    All the best, and I wish you more millions...

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  • Profile picture of the author stevenh512
    Hey Mike, what was that you said in your Butterfly Marketing Manuscript about the "keyboard cowboys"? lol

    Seriously, they'll always be there. It's good to get your side of the story out there, but don't let one post on a forum bother you too much. There are a lot of people who have been on your list and using your products and services for years (myself included) who know you do your best to be honest with your customers, staff and affiliates so I don't think the occasional post in a forum is going to hurt your reputation all that much.

    The slow response from your helpdesk has always been a big issue for me, but other than that I've never had a problem with any of your products or services that you or your staff haven't fixed.. well, except for the issue of making sure the affiliate who referred me to BFM 2.0 gets credit for the sale so I can get his bonus, but I can wait on that one if he can considering the whole support nightmare that happend with that.. lol
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Mike, I think it is laughable that YOU of all people would have to defend
      yourself.

      I would give my best mule to have your kind of success.

      Although I have to admit, I make more per subscriber than you do...almost
      $2 per.

      Maybe I can teach you about list building and list relationships. I promise
      not to charge you too much...say 5 mil?

      All kidding aside, anybody takes pot shots at you, I just laugh it off.

      Jealousy, envy, whatever. That's all it is.

      Let me know when you want your list building lessons.

      PS - Your Butterfly Marketing Manuscript probably helped me more than
      any one single product I ever bought in 6 years of marketing online.
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      • Profile picture of the author stevenh512
        Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

        PS - Your Butterfly Marketing Manuscript probably helped me more than any one single product I ever bought in 6 years of marketing online.
        Have to agree with you there. I wouldn't try using some of the techniques in the book anymore (like split-pay.. I want to keep my PayPal account and most of us know that's hard enough to do even when you are playing by their rules), but I can pick out one or two chapters that are worth a lot more than I paid for the whole BFM 2.0 package.. lol
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  • Profile picture of the author USEO
    Originally Posted by mikefilsaime View Post

    Hey guys,

    Michael Price tipped me off to the thread where someone asked how I could....

    ... Thanks,

    Mike Filsaime
    I am astonished you even took the time to write the above...

    I know very little about you (probably less than most) and even if I read the cra*p posted by the "accuser" I would have been off there before I got to the 2nd line...

    Idiots, up there with hackers and virus creators... nothing better to do other than this rubbish and watching Bay Watch re-runs...

    Yawn...

    CQ.
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  • Profile picture of the author kalynna
    Remember that a publicist would tell you that no press is bad press. Just look at Brittany Spears.

    Your best customers will continue to be 80% of your income because they already know you and believe in you.

    Don't sweat petty little people. Life's too short.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
    People wonder why most of the ultra successful multi-millionaires in IM aren't active here anymore. Maybe if we stop beating them up and actually show them some respect they would share more of their success with us.

    Mike, you don't have to explain anything. All of the numbers you quoted were astronomical. You're really at a point now where you don't have to tell people how much you've made. You're successful enough to keep it a mystery and allow followers to speculate. They'll probably project you at much higher numbers anyway. For example - instead of saying 10 mill, say 8 figures without getting into specifics. It will only increase your celebrity in this market IMHO.
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    • Profile picture of the author RB
      Mike,

      Everything is relative to perspective.

      I was required to read Alvin Toffler's Future Shock waaaaay back in 1975.

      He used an example of a 15 year old boy who was just dying to get his driver's permit when he was 16. That one year wait equals 6.67 of the boys time that he has lived, so it seems to drag on and on from the boys perspective.

      If the boy's father is 50 year old, and he is going through that same one year wait, from his perspective the one year wait is only 2% of his life experience and relative from that perspective so it goes by quickly for him.

      So, naturally the time flies by for the father and drags by for the boy - it is significant for the boy from his perspective and insignificant for the father from his perspective.

      I often think of this example when trying to gain insight and perspective. especially when I am thinking of customers. You'll never be able to reach 100% of your customers and I'm sure you know that.

      The disgruntled post, can only see things from his perspective - both in terms of numbers and in terms of all issues, experience, and evaluative criteria.

      He is not using the same relative scale as you are, to evaluate the numbers, reasons and perspective that led him to his brash conclusion.

      He probably doesn't even know or have a perspective of what 8.7 million (or whatever the number) is and how insignificant what he speaks of is.

      I know you feel compelled to defend yourself, but most us who follow you won't be influenced by such dribble.

      More importantly, you don't want this poster, or those he can influence, as a customers anyway because they have a differing perspective and come from a different sphere so they will never be from the same relative perspective as you.

      Continue your great and successful work and rest assured, most of us who read and follow you actually understand where you come from.

      "Relatively" yours,

      RB
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      • Profile picture of the author edhan
        From my view point, your reputation is far too good to be 'hurt' by that statement.

        But then it must not goes without having your part of saying otherwise it can 'hurt' you with someone new. As for us who know you, it goes without saying that your reputation is not ruined. Once a while, you will come to the crossroad where there will be one or two bad apples that may put such statement. That's is unavoidable in life. I do believe if you are true in what you are doing, there is nothing to fear as many will be your witnesses.

        Nice to see you here though I am receiving your emails on promotion mostly. Cheers!
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    • Profile picture of the author Steadyon
      Originally Posted by Ron Douglas View Post

      People wonder why most of the ultra successful multi-millionaires in IM aren't active here anymore...

      OK, OK, I'll start posting some more in the near future...
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    Whilst I think we don't need the soap opera crap here on the forum, it made for chuckles on this relaxing sunday afternoon..

    Jealousy, envy, bitterness and all those other twisted emotions that manifest themselves when people are trying their best not to look in the mirror at their failures, make me almost wet myself...

    I bet the dude (the accuser) felt real big typin' his l'il message out, only to have it nuked a few minutes later...

    Now Mike, stop trying to kick me up the ass... just cos I'm in front of you lol

    Have a great day peeps.... I'm gonna grab a beer and watch the footie(soccer) out in the sun..

    Peace

    Jay
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    The only problem with the post was the way it was presented. He flat out called Mike a liar.

    On the other hand he had a valid question, and at first glance things did NOT add up. Whether you think Mike is the second coming, or a scammer (I think neither, just presenting two ends of the spectrum) it was a fair question to be asked.

    It was the way it was asked that was the problem.

    And, yes, there is no problem with asking that kind of question, as long as names aren't mentioned.

    Instead of calling Mike a liar, he could have asked something like, "How is it possible for these numbers from a successful marketer to add up? I'm confused."

    All the best,
    Michael
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  • Profile picture of the author Kevin Lam
    Your metrics are what we'd all want to reach some day. Go get'em Mike! We've got your back.
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    • Profile picture of the author Greg Cooksley
      Hey Mike,

      Good on you for taking the time to deal with this issue...

      They say that "even bad publicity is good publicity" and that the "truth comes out in the wash" - so in the end, I think you'll withstand this attack.....

      As for the perp....well he'll remain a nobody.....

      Regards

      Greg
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