Who Do You Listen To?

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Hi fellow warriors,

Let me ask you a question.

Who do you listen to?


ONLY listen to people who have what you want because they can show you that it's truly possible to have what you want. And when you see that it's possible, your belief level goes up that you can do it.

It's really amazing to me who's teaching who these days. A lot of people are teaching how to make money online before they even made HUGE amount themselves.

If you really want to teach people how to make money, make INSANE amounts of money yourself first before you teach other people.

If you teach people from your current place, you'll be adding your own mental garbage to that other person.

Remember the mindset of making money is MUCH, MUCH more important than the money itself because if you impart your success mindset to other people, they're going to make money themselves in the long run without ever needing your help.

Imagine you coaching other people or teaching them how to make money when you yourself don't even make a living online and you're also dreading your day job, then you think you can teach other people because you've picked up some techniques. The newbies who'll take a chance on you will just get more frustrated because they've picked up your mindset unknowingly.

Master yourself first and make a living online before you teach other people.

For the newbies, CHOOSE CAREFULLY who you will listen to.

Look and research people in the IM niche who already have what you want then listen to them.

It can be quite challenging to know who's the real deal online but you WILL FIND THAT TEACHER.


Hope this makes sense to some of you folks.



Cheers,
Alfonso
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  • Profile picture of the author yosk
    Originally Posted by Alfonso_Montenegro View Post

    Hi fellow warriors,

    Let me ask you a question.

    Who do you listen to?


    ONLY listen to people who have what you want because they can show you that it's truly possible to have what you want. And when you see that it's possible, your belief level goes up that you can do it.

    It's really amazing to me who's teaching who these days. A lot of people are teaching how to make money online before they even made HUGE amount themselves.

    If you really want to teach people how to make money, make INSANE amounts of money yourself first before you teach other people.

    If you teach people from your current place, you'll be adding your own mental garbage to that other person.

    Remember the mindset of making money is MUCH, MUCH more important than the money itself because if you impart your success mindset to other people, they're going to make money themselves in the long run without ever needing your help.

    Imagine you coaching other people or teaching them how to make money when you yourself don't even make a living online and you're also dreading your day job, then you think you can teach other people because you've picked up some techniques. The newbies who'll take a chance on you will just get more frustrated because they've picked up your mindset unknowingly.

    Master yourself first and make a living online before you teach other people.

    For the newbies, CHOOSE CAREFULLY who you will listen to.

    Look and research people in the IM niche who already have what you want then listen to them.

    It can be quite challenging to know who's the real deal online but you WILL FIND THAT TEACHER.


    Hope this makes sense to some of you folks.



    Cheers,
    Alfonso
    You are absolutely right!

    I mean , You can find a lot of stuff and free information on the internet ,that is sucks.

    But , if you try to listen and following some great people who will be willing to give you Free & Valuable infromation - then you defintly need to do this.

    Sometimes you just need to ask.

    Thanks , Alfonso.


    Yosk.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rob Harris
    Hi Alfonso,

    With respect, I wouldn't say you need to have made lots of money to tell other people how to make money.

    When people have found out that I can create a website and get people to it, not necessarily on the scale that I want yet, they ask how I do it and I tell them. So I'm telling people who are below the learning curve to me, something I know how to do, and they are thankful for it.

    I've made sales here and there and make an income from my offline business that I market online, but I feel that from what I've learnt in that process I can still help people who don't know how to do things when they are just starting out.

    Rob.
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    • Profile picture of the author butters
      Originally Posted by Rob Harris View Post

      Hi Alfonso,

      With respect, I wouldn't say you need to have made lots of money to tell other people how to make money.

      When people have found out that I can create a website and get people to it, not necessarily on the scale that I want yet, they ask how I do it and I tell them. So I'm telling people who are below the learning curve to me, something I know how to do, and they are thankful for it.

      I've made sales here and there and make an income from my offline business that I market online, but I feel that from what I've learnt in that process I can still help people who don't know how to do things when they are just starting out.

      Rob.
      But you have put it into action, implemented it and have a system which brings you in some money... How can someone who hasn't done that offer advice on how to make money when quite honestly, they haven't got a clue if it works or not.
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    • Originally Posted by Rob Harris View Post

      Hi Alfonso,

      With respect, I wouldn't say you need to have made lots of money to tell other people how to make money.
      Hi Rob. I understand your point and that it really depends upon what the newbie wants. Does he/she want to earn just an extra $800 a month? Then he/she should find someone who earns that kind of money and mimic that person.

      Does he want to earn thousands a month? Then he should listen to people who make that kind of money.



      Originally Posted by Rob Harris View Post

      but I feel that from what I've learnt in that process I can still help people who don't know how to do things when they are just starting out.

      Rob.

      Oh, that's sharing what you know.

      I'm talking about establishing yourself as a TEACHER, GURU, or ONLINE COACH.

      Before you become a TEACHER, master and make HUGE money yourself first then you are qualified to teach.

      Now maybe some of you may point out that "one learns the best by teaching".

      Sorry for the language but WHAT B.S.!

      You can't teach something that you don't know. You're going to muddle up the whole water. You haven't reached unconscious competence yet so why teach?

      You'll be adding your own mental garbage (inner doubts if making insane amounts of money is possible for you online) to the newbie.

      It's just like this example. Remember the game we play where around 5 or 7 of us would gather then I'll tell a story to the person next to me then he would tell the same story to the next person.

      Now if you make the last person tell the story, it's ENTIRELY different from what you said.

      That's because the person you told about your story doesn't really know what you told him. He's still not unconsciously competent.

      That's why it's very dangerous for you to go teach someone if you haven't even made enough money to support yourself and your family thru your online biz.

      One learns best by DOING, then when one gains mastery, teach it.
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