How can I know if a person can be trusted?

loenex · 11-06-2009, 10:04 AM

I don't know if this is the right section for this question. I just want to know how to distinguish a trushworthy person. Please give me some idea. thanks in advance.!

sanjid112 · 11-06-2009, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by loenex

I don't know if this is the right section for this question. I just want to know how to distinguish a trushworthy person. Please give me some idea. thanks in advance.!

What do you want to know? From first impression or from what?

From first impression, if he look very nice to you plus talk to you as if you with them have been be friend for very long time, even if you just met him/her today, you should be careful. Yeah, I know, not all people like that, but, just in case.

From your experience with that person, if they often said some bull**** or from your own fella told you to be careful with that sort man, then you should consider it as early warning.

-Malik

Greg Jacobs · 11-06-2009, 10:26 AM

Ask them a question you know to be true and see what they say or how they say it.

TrinitydelaCruz · 11-06-2009, 11:02 AM

Knowing somebody is trustworthy or not isn't something that is meant to be thought of logically, or cognitively. You already know the answer to this question. Listen to what your intuition, your soul, your gut feeling, has to say; not your mind.

Lady_T · 11-06-2009, 11:08 AM

Listen to that still voice inside of you.

You know the one I'm talking about.
It's that feeling in your gut that alerts
you when something is wrong or not
quite right.

Trust yourself. You already know the
answer - you just have to accept it.

Ruth P · 11-06-2009, 12:13 PM

I like the answer above about looking at how the person treats someone below them.

I also think it's very hard to know who is trustworthy - especially on the internet. Often you have a gut instinct, but sometimes that doesn't work.

I think knowing who to trust ultimately comes from experience with people. We'll all be let down from time to time, but our experience can teach valuable lessons about people.

~Ruth

dcrannik · 11-06-2009, 11:31 PM

My Dad always use to say,"Trust them as far as you can throw them." Well, this may be true at first but generally I tend to give folks the benefit of the doubt. Burned once, shame on you. Burned twice, shame on me.

THY · 11-07-2009, 05:37 AM

I would rely on background research and reputation. A person can talk nicely and with confidence but you can never know if the person you are going to deal with is trustworthy.

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Greg Jacobs Mage War Room Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Chiang Mai Posts: 484 Thanks: 20 Thanked 208 Times in 77 Posts Social Networking	Re: How can I know if a person can be trusted? Ask them a question you know to be true and see what they say or how they say it.
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TrinitydelaCruz Active Warrior Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 51 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Re: How can I know if a person can be trusted? Knowing somebody is trustworthy or not isn't something that is meant to be thought of logically, or cognitively. You already know the answer to this question. Listen to what your intuition, your soul, your gut feeling, has to say; not your mind.

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Lady_T HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: North Carolina Posts: 99 Thanks: 50 Thanked 19 Times in 13 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: How can I know if a person can be trusted? Listen to that still voice inside of you. You know the one I'm talking about. It's that feeling in your gut that alerts you when something is wrong or not quite right. Trust yourself. You already know the answer - you just have to accept it.

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Ruth P Advanced Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 955 Thanks: 499 Thanked 329 Times in 213 Posts Social Networking	Re: How can I know if a person can be trusted? I like the answer above about looking at how the person treats someone below them. I also think it's very hard to know who is trustworthy - especially on the internet. Often you have a gut instinct, but sometimes that doesn't work. I think knowing who to trust ultimately comes from experience with people. We'll all be let down from time to time, but our experience can teach valuable lessons about people. ~Ruth

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THY Warrior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 26 Thanks: 1 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: How can I know if a person can be trusted? I would rely on background research and reputation. A person can talk nicely and with confidence but you can never know if the person you are going to deal with is trustworthy.
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