Things I've learned through life

he_who_brings_order · 11-18-2009, 11:54 PM

Here are a few things I learned through life. Basically I have learned that when I did the opposite a few months or years, and learned the lesson.

1. Do not worry! I was worried because of different things in different parts of my life, and I did not achieve anything except to be blocked. Worry will not help you!

2. Do not be jealous ... It's like a disease that kills the relationship.

3. Laugh. Laugh yourself. You have a choice, or are you laughing or crying. When I cried, life was black. When I laughed, great opportunities were opened. Also help others to laugh, choose joy. Anyway everything will pass.

4. Realize that life is a joke, it's not something serious. This is one of valuable lessons I learned. If you are looking at life as something serious, you will lose the meaning of life. "Life is not as serious as my mind makes it out to be. "

5. No matter how much income you have, it will be little. Therefore, try to spend a little less than you earn.

7. No one can save you, except yourself! I was waiting for someone to save me ... and that person never came.

8. Do not care about other people's opinion! For years I was destroyed thinking about what other people think about me. Everyone has a their belief system, and that’s fine.

9. Many things that you believe now, you probably will not mean anything for a few years. So be open to new things, ideas, people...

10. Act. Your decision is not important if you don`t take determined action.

11. When everything is going as expected, there will occur one of two things ... or it will go better, or something will happen, some challenge, which you will have to resolve, and you will eventually learn valuable lessons and improve.

12. Nothing is impossible. Many, many times happened to me that I said, "it is impossible to get out of this situation", and I tried a little and it became possible.

13. There is no failure. Whenever you make a failure you automatically learn something new. Failure gave me more valuable knowledge than any book I've read.

* I hope I wrote well because English is not my native language. Maybe I made some grammar mistakes, apologize in advance for that.

What you learn through your life?

johnny.litson · 11-19-2009, 01:06 AM

Interesting thoughts there... Nice...

automated_atty · 11-19-2009, 04:20 AM

Here is my favorite about failure:

I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. -Thomas Edison

saintsguy · 11-19-2009, 04:54 AM

Great list. Especially number 10. If you don't act, there's not even the chance of success.

nota-bene · 11-19-2009, 06:16 AM

A couple of things I say to people all the time....

"Life is as easy, or as difficult, as YOU wish to make it!"

"I'm here for a good time, not a long time!"

Great list btw

hally0301 · 11-19-2009, 06:25 AM

Great List - Thanks for the share.

'It does not matter if you think you can, or if you think you can't. You will be right."

he_who_brings_order · 11-20-2009, 01:42 PM

Thanks ...

I would also add:

14. Love yourself!

15. What all people do, is not always the best.

16. Perfectionism is impossible for man. It is better to be a man and make the results now, rather than wait to become a God and a perfect "one day".

What advice based on your experience would you give to future generations?

Affiliatefunk · 11-20-2009, 07:29 PM

" Man is mortal God and God is an Immortal Human" ancient Greek philosopher

Greetings from Greece

rcjcal09 · 11-20-2009, 07:33 PM

There is no failure, only chances to learn.

Shanoa35 · 11-20-2009, 08:46 PM

Really a good list
Thanks for sharing

don21stc · 11-21-2009, 01:42 PM

Excellent list!
I would also add:
'Never be in a hurry' and
'Think before acting'.
I only wish I practised what I preached.

Jreyes2265 · 11-21-2009, 03:22 PM

Very respectful post!

Jaimel · 11-22-2009, 12:07 AM

Valuable information.

loenex · 11-22-2009, 02:34 AM

May I add Believe in yourself and believe in God.

jessiej · 11-22-2009, 06:51 PM

thanks for that encouraging article if you think about it..its really all correct it covers everything thanks I'll keep that it mind

Jim Gillum · 11-22-2009, 07:13 PM

Love yourself and it will give you the confidence to try almost anything. Nothing beats a failure but a try.

Whoever makes the most mistakes wins......provided they learn from those mistakes...

markfoo76 · 11-22-2009, 09:15 PM

I like #7 - No one can save you, except yourself! Too many people have failed to realise that they need to first help themselves before anyone can help them. They too often blame the government or the economy when things happen, but they just never bother to reflect on themselves before pointing fingers. If you want things to turn for the better, you have to first turn for the better!

Cheers~

Mark

Tmilli · 11-22-2009, 11:55 PM

Great post. Like the Edison Quote " I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."

Arun Kumar · 11-27-2009, 03:11 PM

I have found some interesting and inspirational quotes which will make my life more happy.

letsmakeyourbusinessgrow · 11-27-2009, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by he_who_brings_order

4. Realize that life is a joke, it's not something serious. This is one of valuable lessons I learned. If you are looking at life as something serious, you will lose the meaning of life. "Life is not as serious as my mind makes it out to be. "

Do not take life too seriously, after all no one comes out of it alive
- Bugs Bunny

Daniel Viau · 11-27-2009, 09:49 PM

Thanks for all that.

Doloboy · 11-28-2009, 03:41 AM

Just here to say thanks, I'm in the process of writing college application essays and this has helped me in so many ways!

-Cheers!

Maddi · 11-28-2009, 08:16 AM

Great post man. Can't stress enough how much I can relate to everything you have said and can't emphasize or priorities any one of the points you have mentioned above as all are equally important and all are priceless.

If I was to add something to that I would say.

Believe in Yourself: If you don't believe in yourself, No one else ever will.

and

Never Quit : Most of life's failures are people who quit without realizing how close they were to success.

With you all the sucess and Happiness in life.

letsmakeyourbusinessgrow · 11-29-2009, 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doloboy

Just here to say thanks, I'm in the process of writing college application essays and this has helped me in so many ways!

How was it?

priyatham · 11-29-2009, 11:24 AM

"Life is to be enjoyed at every level,
even if you don’t have $ 1 million in the bank."

This is the thing I've learned through life...

(I just posted the same in another section as a quotation.)

cg101 · 11-29-2009, 12:38 PM

Lots of good stuff in your post here.. However even in all of that so much of it is easier said than done. Just my thoughts though.

Quote:

Originally Posted by he_who_brings_order

Here are a few things I learned through life. Basically I have learned that when I did the opposite a few months or years, and learned the lesson.

1. Do not worry! I was worried because of different things in different parts of my life, and I did not achieve anything except to be blocked. Worry will not help you!

2. Do not be jealous ... It's like a disease that kills the relationship.

3. Laugh. Laugh yourself. You have a choice, or are you laughing or crying. When I cried, life was black. When I laughed, great opportunities were opened. Also help others to laugh, choose joy. Anyway everything will pass.

4. Realize that life is a joke, it's not something serious. This is one of valuable lessons I learned. If you are looking at life as something serious, you will lose the meaning of life. "Life is not as serious as my mind makes it out to be. "

5. No matter how much income you have, it will be little. Therefore, try to spend a little less than you earn.

7. No one can save you, except yourself! I was waiting for someone to save me ... and that person never came.

8. Do not care about other people's opinion! For years I was destroyed thinking about what other people think about me. Everyone has a their belief system, and that’s fine.

9. Many things that you believe now, you probably will not mean anything for a few years. So be open to new things, ideas, people...

10. Act. Your decision is not important if you don`t take determined action.

11. When everything is going as expected, there will occur one of two things ... or it will go better, or something will happen, some challenge, which you will have to resolve, and you will eventually learn valuable lessons and improve.

12. Nothing is impossible. Many, many times happened to me that I said, "it is impossible to get out of this situation", and I tried a little and it became possible.

13. There is no failure. Whenever you make a failure you automatically learn something new. Failure gave me more valuable knowledge than any book I've read.

* I hope I wrote well because English is not my native language. Maybe I made some grammar mistakes, apologize in advance for that.

What you learn through your life?

Peter.Anthony · 11-29-2009, 01:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by automated_atty

Here is my favorite about failure:

I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. -Thomas Edison

Exactly! I love this quote.

he_who_brings_order · 11-30-2009, 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doloboy

Just here to say thanks, I'm in the process of writing college application essays and this has helped me in so many ways!

-Cheers!

Wow, I did not know that this post will help someone on this way...

@ Everyone else

Thanks for your comments!

Doloboy · 01-05-2010, 06:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by letsmakeyourbusinessgrow

How was it?

Too many drafts, but all done now

Gotta cross my fingers!

augest · 01-05-2010, 07:11 AM

Very nice post. Thanks for sharing!

Designr · 01-05-2010, 07:19 PM

"Worry is like a rocking chair - it gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere."

WiseWebWords · 01-06-2010, 01:37 AM

Good post - I'd have to agree with everything and perhaps add this little quote I once found:

Everyone wants to live at the top of the mountain - but most of your happiness and growth happen while you are climbing it.

Best wishes for 2010.

johnng · 01-06-2010, 05:37 AM

Thank you friend. Excellent thoughts! We can all learn a lot from that we have open minds!

kozmotm · 01-11-2010, 04:10 PM

Thank you for sharing your experience.

11-18-2009, 11:54 PM	#1
he_who_brings_order HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 155 Thanks: 21 Thanked 20 Times in 12 Posts Social Networking	Things I've learned through life Here are a few things I learned through life. Basically I have learned that when I did the opposite a few months or years, and learned the lesson. 1. Do not worry! I was worried because of different things in different parts of my life, and I did not achieve anything except to be blocked. Worry will not help you! 2. Do not be jealous ... It's like a disease that kills the relationship. 3. Laugh. Laugh yourself. You have a choice, or are you laughing or crying. When I cried, life was black. When I laughed, great opportunities were opened. Also help others to laugh, choose joy. Anyway everything will pass. 4. Realize that life is a joke, it's not something serious. This is one of valuable lessons I learned. If you are looking at life as something serious, you will lose the meaning of life. "Life is not as serious as my mind makes it out to be. " 5. No matter how much income you have, it will be little. Therefore, try to spend a little less than you earn. 7. No one can save you, except yourself! I was waiting for someone to save me ... and that person never came. 8. Do not care about other people's opinion! For years I was destroyed thinking about what other people think about me. Everyone has a their belief system, and that’s fine. 9. Many things that you believe now, you probably will not mean anything for a few years. So be open to new things, ideas, people... 10. Act. Your decision is not important if you don`t take determined action. 11. When everything is going as expected, there will occur one of two things ... or it will go better, or something will happen, some challenge, which you will have to resolve, and you will eventually learn valuable lessons and improve. 12. Nothing is impossible. Many, many times happened to me that I said, "it is impossible to get out of this situation", and I tried a little and it became possible. 13. There is no failure. Whenever you make a failure you automatically learn something new. Failure gave me more valuable knowledge than any book I've read. * I hope I wrote well because English is not my native language. Maybe I made some grammar mistakes, apologize in advance for that. What you learn through your life?
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11-19-2009, 01:06 AM	#2
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11-19-2009, 04:20 AM	#3
automated_atty Warrior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 23 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Here is my favorite about failure: I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. -Thomas Edison

11-19-2009, 04:54 AM	#4
saintsguy Active Warrior Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: USA. Posts: 53 Thanks: 9 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Great list. Especially number 10. If you don't act, there's not even the chance of success.

11-19-2009, 06:16 AM	#5
nota-bene HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Town Posts: 178 Thanks: 61 Thanked 30 Times in 30 Posts Social Networking	Re: Things I've learned through life A couple of things I say to people all the time.... "Life is as easy, or as difficult, as YOU wish to make it!" "I'm here for a good time, not a long time!" Great list btw
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11-19-2009, 06:25 AM	#6
hally0301 Learning for Earning War Room Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Brisbane Australia Posts: 71 Thanks: 8 Thanked 4 Times in 2 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: Things I've learned through life Great List - Thanks for the share. 'It does not matter if you think you can, or if you think you can't. You will be right."

11-20-2009, 01:42 PM	#7
he_who_brings_order HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 155 Thanks: 21 Thanked 20 Times in 12 Posts Social Networking	Re: Things I've learned through life Thanks ... I would also add: 14. Love yourself! 15. What all people do, is not always the best. 16. Perfectionism is impossible for man. It is better to be a man and make the results now, rather than wait to become a God and a perfect "one day". What advice based on your experience would you give to future generations?
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11-20-2009, 07:29 PM	#8
Affiliatefunk Greek Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Greece Posts: 27 Thanks: 18 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Social Networking	Re: Things I've learned through life " Man is mortal God and God is an Immortal Human" ancient Greek philosopher Greetings from Greece

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rcjcal09 Your Friendly Affiliate Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I'm a nomad, but my hometown is Indianapolis, IN. Posts: 19 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts Contact Info	Re: Things I've learned through life There is no failure, only chances to learn.

11-20-2009, 08:46 PM	#10
Shanoa35 Warrior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 20 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Really a good list Thanks for sharing
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11-21-2009, 01:42 PM	#11
don21stc HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Brighton, England Posts: 109 Thanks: 1 Thanked 14 Times in 13 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Excellent list! I would also add: 'Never be in a hurry' and 'Think before acting'. I only wish I practised what I preached.
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11-21-2009, 03:22 PM	#12
Jreyes2265 Making Green Paper$ Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 27 Thanks: 20 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Very respectful post!

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11-22-2009, 02:34 AM	#14
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11-22-2009, 06:51 PM	#15
jessiej Warrior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 9 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life thanks for that encouraging article if you think about it..its really all correct it covers everything thanks I'll keep that it mind
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Jim Gillum HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Deltona, Florida Posts: 130 Thanks: 22 Thanked 20 Times in 16 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Love yourself and it will give you the confidence to try almost anything. Nothing beats a failure but a try. Whoever makes the most mistakes wins......provided they learn from those mistakes...

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markfoo76 The Big Dreamer Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Singapore Posts: 131 Thanks: 10 Thanked 31 Times in 19 Posts Social Networking	Re: Things I've learned through life I like #7 - No one can save you, except yourself! Too many people have failed to realise that they need to first help themselves before anyone can help them. They too often blame the government or the economy when things happen, but they just never bother to reflect on themselves before pointing fingers. If you want things to turn for the better, you have to first turn for the better! Cheers~ Mark
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11-22-2009, 11:55 PM	#18
Tmilli Active Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 38 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 1 Post	Re: Things I've learned through life Great post. Like the Edison Quote " I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."

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11-27-2009, 09:49 PM	#21
Daniel Viau Warrior Member War Room Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 12 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Thanks for all that.
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11-28-2009, 03:41 AM	#22
Doloboy Warrior Member War Room Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 12 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Just here to say thanks, I'm in the process of writing college application essays and this has helped me in so many ways! -Cheers!

11-28-2009, 08:16 AM	#23
Maddi Maddi Murtaza War Room Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 809 Thanks: 255 Thanked 286 Times in 134 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: Things I've learned through life Great post man. Can't stress enough how much I can relate to everything you have said and can't emphasize or priorities any one of the points you have mentioned above as all are equally important and all are priceless. If I was to add something to that I would say. Believe in Yourself: If you don't believe in yourself, No one else ever will. and Never Quit : Most of life's failures are people who quit without realizing how close they were to success. With you all the sucess and Happiness in life.
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11-29-2009, 11:24 AM	#25
priyatham Active Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: India Posts: 72 Thanks: 35 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life "Life is to be enjoyed at every level, even if you don’t have $ 1 million in the bank." This is the thing I've learned through life... (I just posted the same in another section as a quotation.)

01-05-2010, 07:11 AM	#30
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Designr Active Warrior Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 35 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: Things I've learned through life "Worry is like a rocking chair - it gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere."

01-06-2010, 01:37 AM	#32
WiseWebWords Active Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 36 Thanks: 5 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts	Re: Things I've learned through life Good post - I'd have to agree with everything and perhaps add this little quote I once found: Everyone wants to live at the top of the mountain - but most of your happiness and growth happen while you are climbing it. Best wishes for 2010.

01-06-2010, 05:37 AM	#33
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01-11-2010, 04:10 PM	#34
kozmotm Kozmo Kane Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 55 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Contact Info	Re: Things I've learned through life Thank you for sharing your experience.