tanya7zhou

Hi Guys

What are your favorite selfhelp topics. Those ones you take particular interest in?

As for me I will go for

1. The Mind
2. The Brain
3. Emotions
4. Values
5. Habits
6. Dealing With Fear

I definately enjoy reading about those topics. I am drawn to them to be honest. What about you guys, any topics of interest?

Taz

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DynamicMentalFitness

Wow. Ditto for me. You nailed it. Great post.

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tanya7zhou

Hi Dynamic

Thanks mate. Just checked your site it's good, Mental Concetration.

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Hi guys

List your topics here. Share your favorite topics. I know you have some

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Very Important. Any ideas about what aspect of spiritualism you are interested in?

Taz

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MaskedMarketer

purpose. natural talents. passion. and just serving others while reaping rewards

Seeing the big picture is a critical element. most people have tunnel vision.

Alethia

Funny I have never read any self help books or articles. I have overcome my struggles myself. For example I would become depressed certain times of the year,well I came to realize that it was the same time my first husband died also I was in a terrible car accident inwhich my best friend died right next to me so I would become depressed this time also. I never dwelled on their deaths it was my subconsious going thru the motions, it is funny how the mind works.

LOL,I did have a fear of snakes that I overcame by learning how to dance with one (bellydance I had a back injury that the doctors were amazed that this helped,it's not fixed, it will never be but I have given it enough strength to function ) I got her when she was only 12 inches long,I could barely look at her without getting the hebbie jebbies, it would take me like five times of putting my hand in the cage to even pick her up. The last time I danced with her she was just about 8ft long,what a beauty plus I could hand feed her.

I'm finally at a point where I want to self help myself financially so I have been just wondering thru these threads.

tanya7zhou

Gratitude
Forgiveness
Love


Anymore guys, keep them coming

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Dantplayer

Some of us have that kind of thing come to them naturally. I can certainly relate to that. Alethia, you're probably more in a position to teach others.

As for me, my best topics are:

Happiness
Motivation
Spirituality
Affirmations
Attraction
Goals
Leadership
Public Speaking
Spirituality
Subconscious Mind

At least those are the ones I really enjoy writing about.

Alethia

Spirituality is something I have been working on for a while. There is so much to learn sometimes it can be overwhelming.I like reading about the Hopi, did you know that they are on the exact opposite position on earth as the Tibetian Monks. Also that the Hopi word for hate is the Tibetian word for love and Hopi word for love is the Tibetian word for hate. How did that happen?

tanya7zhou

Waal Alethia, You just taught me something here. I actually wrote something about the tibetians but didn't know "Nada" about the Hopi.

As for you Alethia at least you have the ability to cope. There are so many people who will never recover from what you went through. They will play that VICTIM MENTALITY of how there is NO GOD, life is not fair, why did these things happen to me mwa mwa mwa......mwa

But, you see in life we can't dwell on the past. we have to concetrate with the future.

And your future should always be seen as bright and nothing else. Thanks for your contibutions Alethia. Hey, I will also check out about the Hopi.

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tanya7zhou

Hey Dantplayer

Well said. I too enjoy all your topics. I am into public speaking too. But don't really read about it or study. Coz public speaking comes natural to me. Too natural.

But,.......2 days ago. I was thinking about it and decided that I will need to begin reading about public speaking. I know I will learn a lot

Thanks

Taz

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Lavender

The best for me are:

Goal-setting
Affirmation
Leadership
Spirituality
Public Speaking
Positive Thinking

tanya7zhou

Thanks Lavender. Hey Honestly, I enjoy all those you have listed too.

Thanks Mari

Yeah Leadership is one of those topics I will need to look into. Actually I have a few books by John Maxwel, I will need to dig them out soon

Taz

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ThomasW

Great post Alethia. You found everything that you need within yourself. You are now a new person with new qualities and resources and don't have to remember something you read. Congratulations.

I have always said "put someone in the desert without a book, or a tape, or a computer, or a cell phone and see how long their book learning lasts before they finally reach inside and find the answers they need to help themselves."

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Joe1204

Great post.
Self help topics that focus on the subconscious mind is my favorite.
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So live life to your fullest by realizing one's full potential of the mind.

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tanya7zhou

Hey Thomas, great contribution. Many people don't know how equipped and knowledgeable they are. Sometimes we just need to calm down, relax and "go inside"...if you know what i mean. We do have answers within.

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tanya7zhou

Well said Joel, The mind is a powerful thing and I believe everyone should learn about it. I love all 3 parts of the mind though

The conscious Mind
The subconscious Mind
The superconscious Mind

Thanks for your contribution. I have bookmarked your site.....I will look into it further.

Taz

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Alethia

Hahaha......Sticking me in the desert would be right up my alley,I've been teaching myself and children how to survive off the land,though the desert would be a definite challenge.Infact we are turning the main part of my property into a permaculture,we have plenty of homegrown meat,chickens,hair sheep and goats, now we need to get the vegetation going. It's a long slow process hopefully before my life is over it will be going strong, in any case it will always be here for my children and their children.

Hesaidblissfully

Time management and focus. Those may not fit into what most people consider self help, but I find they're essential to any kind of long term achievement.

jmendez

For me it will have to be goal setting and focus. I tend to stray all the time and not get things done. It feels so bad whenever my day ends and I realized that all I did was search and read stuff.

maybe you can add planning on that.

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tanya7zhou

Hi Hesaidblissfully

Time Management & Focus are part of self. Definately 100%. You know, after visualising and staff, you need to be organized and committed, otherwise mind harnessing won't take you to your dream alone.

Hi J Mendez

Yes, Goal setting and Focus are important. From experience, everytime I lie to myself and say, I don't have to write down my goals, I will remember them cause I was clever, I ended up being distracted and lose focus of what I intended to do in the first place. So it's important to write goals down, set time frames for accomplishment, use timers, etc.....that will keep you focused.

Hi KelvinLee

Thanks for your input. Any suggestions about Passion?

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linda.robe

"Leadership"... can it comes under the topic of self help?

lianwei

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tanya7zhou

I would say YES. After all, we all are examples to other people, we are leaders in different capacities.

You learn about emotional intelligence in selfhelp......Why, to be able to live in harmony with those around you and to set yourself as an example.

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tanya7zhou

Thanks Shirley for your contribution. Yes, Forgiveness is one of those topics many people neglect. But very very important.

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tanya7zhou

Hi Jimmy

Thanks for your contribution. Yes, Emotions are major contributors to what happens to us or how we react. But remember we still have that voice of reason, that aid us with help in making decisions as to which emotional states we should be in. That is the rational Mind from your perspective.

If you are feeling highly angry, the voice of reason knows it's wrong so it really tells you not to be. But your will is then needed as to whether you should give in to that emotion, or listen to the voice of reason. But we can make decisions from the voice of reason as to which emotional states we should accommodate.

Thanks

Taz

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jh.consultants

My favourite topic is: The Indentification, The Isolation, and The Clearing of Negative Belief.

The negative belief is everyone's "schoolyard bully".

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tanya7zhou

Hi JH

Thanks for your contribution. Yes I agree, negative belief is a bully. But you know what we are really meant to do to them? Stand up to the bully!!

One more thing....any elaboration on the topic Identification and Isolation?

Cheers

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Talking about instant transformation, Yes it is possible. Tony Robbins is a huge believer in Instant Transformation.

It also depends with the circumstance, situation,condition,etc but is possible!

Cheers

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Hi Mari

You hit the spot there. Gurus like Tony Robbins are only there to motivate you so that you yourself can initiate the change.

Change is feasible when you are ready to change!

Thanks Mari

Taz

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Canei Group

Hey Taz, Interesting topic. The only thing I would add to your list is leadership. John Maxwell has written some great books on the subject. My personal favorite is "21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership".

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Abigail Beal

Great topic

I would say......

Creativity
The law of attraction
Intuition/Mediumship
Goal setting and Intentions

Abby

tanya7zhou

Yes Leadership is a great topic. We all are leaders in some capacity and we need such kind of training. Thanks, because I will definitely, gather a few books about leadership

Taz

P.S John Maxwell is the man.

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tanya7zhou

Great topics here Abby. Thanks for your contribution.

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Thanks Naruq

I am on the same ship with you. I love those topics too!

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success4all

We are a bunch of belief system competing for domination. That is our world, our reality. Which belief system of yours is dominating at this moment - positive or negative? If your positive belief system is dominant then you feel positive most of the time. Your world is a positive one and positive things will happen in your life.

If your world is dominated with negative belief system, then you need to learn to identify, isolate and get rid of the negative belief system to make your world a positive one.

Transformation comes in different form to different people, because everyone is unique.

For some it might be book or article, a life changing incident, a guru, a meditation technique or some other technique. You have to try some and find out what works for you best.

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tanya7zhou

Great post Success4all. Cheers for that. I totally agree with you. Now I just wish, people can totally register this in their minds, that they have to cleanse themselves from negative associations if they want any good in their lives.

Let us make our world a better place.

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merigot123

I think all of us can use a dose self help on a daily basis. In order to succeed in the areas we are lacking we have to apply ourselves in those areas consistently and persistently that's how one can experience progress therefore success through repetition.
Affirmation,
Leadership,
Public Speaking,
Positive Thinking are the areas I like and want to excel in.

Great Topic

MG

tanya7zhou

Hi MG

Thanks for the contribution. I really am taking these doses everyday now. It's my medication so to speak!

Taz

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tanya7zhou

Any self help lovers out there! Anymore topics?

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DaveSchwReno

From an old post in this thread:

I really do not wish to be a "naysayer" (which I am not) but this is untrue. They cannot be on opposite sides of the world as they are both in the "upper half" of the globe. In order to be "exact opposite" of Tibet the Hopis would need to be somewhere south of the equator.

That being said, I do find the word-thing most interesting. Can you sight a source? I'd like to follow up.

Regards,
Dave S.

curt

Interesting. I too have been thinking about goal-setting lately. I had all these plans, but lately I feel like I'm just floating through life. I guess it's time to sit down, and figure out what I want out of it.

As far as self-help topics go, I've spent a lot of time reading about persuasion/influence. I've read Cialdini's works and, of course, Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People.

Speaking of that book, I am currently reading a biography of Warren Buffet, and he was really inspired by Dale Carnegie's book. He also took his public speaking courses back in the day. I've always thought of taking one of these courses.

Thanks for this thread. Got me thinking.

Curt.

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