The power of saying "Thank You"

mr.schutz · 05-03-2009, 10:30 PM

Very powerful and means so much.

THANK YOU!

Revolves · 05-03-2009, 10:38 PM

Saying "Thank You" is an effective way of networking. Anyone who wants to boost their business, read some books on Communication Skills, you'll find way more info than what a self-proclaimed Guru can ever teach you.

Thanks for the post!

Jeff Henshaw · 05-04-2009, 12:03 AM

It can depend on the culture.

English speaking countries tend to use "Thank You" frequently.

I live in the UK, and have a house in Spain. I don't speak too much Spanish, but in Spain, "thank you" and its derivatives are used much less frequently than are used in the English language.

That is not to say that people in Spain are impolite - far from it - it's just that the words, phrase, or whatever, are used less frequently.

I've noticed this in other countries in main land Europe too - there are different variations of when and where to use the words "please" and "thank you".

Of course, if you visit the "tourist" areas of Europe, then expect the Anglo Saxon version of the "please and thank you" as has been discussed throughout the thread - and spoken in English too - a second language to main land Europeans.

Regards,
Jeff Henshaw.

zeasondesign · 05-04-2009, 12:09 AM

Yeah, you're very right.. that's "Thank You" Secret Power..

I believe the power is even more greater if we said it with our heart ^^

eric.watson · 05-07-2009, 02:59 AM

Apart from the fact it is very good manners to say Thank you! My mother said it was like saying Amen at the end of an exchange. Maybe it is!

andrewpeacock · 05-07-2009, 03:03 AM

Something I also do is say "thank you" to myself, well the unconscious part of me. I do this at times like when I'm able to resist that doughnut without too much conscious effort, or when I'm trying to think of an answer to something without success, and then it comes to me later out of the blue, or when I suddenly remember that I need to do something that I had forgotten to put on my todo list.

I'm reasonably convinced that my unconcious appreciates it :-)

Andy

marketopoly · 05-07-2009, 03:05 AM

The words "Thank You", when said with sincerity, uplift both the parties involved.

TheAngelGuy · 05-07-2009, 09:35 AM

The reason is that the mindset that the phrase comes from is one of being open and accepting to things coming into your life.

Watch to see how often you tend to be closed off unless someone does something for you (we just do this by habit), and that "closing off" is what you're doing (subconsciously - not on purpose) to close YOU off to a stronger flow of goodness, however it shows up.

"Thank you" is also a positive affirmation of self-worth, which is immensely needed in an environment where we're socially trained to constantly berate ourselves and not only think, but take way too seriously, that we're not worthy of much and we have to prove it by gaining external wealth, fame, fortune, etc.

tamaradaria · 05-07-2009, 11:36 AM

I've begun to keep a gratitude
journal.

At the very moment I sink into
the thoughts that life has let
me down...I pick up that journal
and realize how good I have it.

I believe that being thankful for
what you already have is the key
to getting more of what you want.

chinois · 05-07-2009, 04:00 PM

Have you ever say thank you to a bored looking cashier and see her face brighten up instantly? That's the power of 'Thank You' and thank you for all the inspiring posts here.

pinoy bands · 05-08-2009, 01:51 AM

I really agree that saying thank you has its magical powers. if someone says thank you, I felt that my effort was acknowledged and I am appreciated. well, I would like to say thank you for sharing this nice post!

TristinTaylor · 05-08-2009, 09:43 AM

Yes, thank you is huge...in the 2.0 web thanks can mean writing a good review for someone...should not be overlooked...great way to form JV partnerships

Jay Vikaz · 05-11-2009, 02:07 AM

It is one of those "magic words" they teach us as children. Then many of us grow up and forget the wonderful doors that a simple "Thank You" will open for us. How many missed opportunities will it take before we realize the power of thanking people?

I see the difference now that I've started Thanking people again. When people know that their actions are appreciated, they are motivated to do more for us.

Thank You for the thought provoking post. A reminder like this certainly helps.

Jay
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shatner · 07-21-2009, 10:39 AM

saying "thank you" now a days has lost its true meaning. But for some these words are heartfelt and treasured. Words that should only be used if you really meant it.

THY · 11-08-2009, 03:34 AM

A simple word to express your appreciation and this is what defines a successful person who builds solid network of contacts.

Michael Thai · 11-08-2009, 09:10 AM

Saying thank you for the sake of saying it is not as powerful as saying it from your heart

Michael T.

Tom Harvey · 11-08-2009, 10:08 AM

One of the basic tenets of human behavior that was ingrained into me and those of my generation was the very basic concept of saying "THANK YOU"
Unfortunately, humankind seems to have evolved into a generation of entitlement..
The quicker we return to the basics of civility such as "please and thank you" society as a whole will be better served.

Just my thougts..and no I am not a curmudgeon just a different generation

dcrannik · 11-08-2009, 11:57 AM

I agree with Josh T. I hate it when someone tells me "No Problem" in place of "Thank You". In my opinion, a gratious Thank You carries much more weight than Gold. I live by this and this has made a huge difference at work and in my personal life. In todays society you just do not hear the words Thank You enough, so when folks do hear it from you they are much more appreciative and receptive to you. This was a great post! Thank you!

cosmolito · 11-08-2009, 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thelastmuse

I just noticed that I feel better when I say thank you and I start to smile a lot, too. Sometimes I get comments that I look so happy and carefree. I just say, because I am grateful for some many things in my life.

That is truly awesome my friend. Thank you for the inspiration. Yes, thank you

05-03-2009, 10:30 PM	#51
mr.schutz A Little bit of Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 160 Thanks: 21 Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Very powerful and means so much. THANK YOU!

05-03-2009, 10:38 PM	#52
Revolves HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 230 Thanks: 21 Thanked 64 Times in 32 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Saying "Thank You" is an effective way of networking. Anyone who wants to boost their business, read some books on Communication Skills, you'll find way more info than what a self-proclaimed Guru can ever teach you. Thanks for the post!

05-04-2009, 12:03 AM	#53
Jeff Henshaw Senior Warrior Member War Room Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Wales, UK. Posts: 1,247 Thanks: 88 Thanked 157 Times in 129 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" It can depend on the culture. English speaking countries tend to use "Thank You" frequently. I live in the UK, and have a house in Spain. I don't speak too much Spanish, but in Spain, "thank you" and its derivatives are used much less frequently than are used in the English language. That is not to say that people in Spain are impolite - far from it - it's just that the words, phrase, or whatever, are used less frequently. I've noticed this in other countries in main land Europe too - there are different variations of when and where to use the words "please" and "thank you". Of course, if you visit the "tourist" areas of Europe, then expect the Anglo Saxon version of the "please and thank you" as has been discussed throughout the thread - and spoken in English too - a second language to main land Europeans. Regards, Jeff Henshaw.
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05-04-2009, 12:09 AM	#54
zeasondesign Graphic Designer War Room Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 52 Thanks: 24 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Yeah, you're very right.. that's "Thank You" Secret Power.. I believe the power is even more greater if we said it with our heart ^^
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05-07-2009, 02:59 AM	#55
eric.watson Active Warrior Join Date: May 2009 Location: Christchurch, New Zealand Posts: 43 Thanks: 12 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Apart from the fact it is very good manners to say Thank you! My mother said it was like saying Amen at the end of an exchange. Maybe it is!

05-07-2009, 03:03 AM	#56
andrewpeacock Senior Warrior Member War Room Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Glasgow , United Kingdom. Posts: 1,232 Thanks: 27 Thanked 25 Times in 12 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Something I also do is say "thank you" to myself, well the unconscious part of me. I do this at times like when I'm able to resist that doughnut without too much conscious effort, or when I'm trying to think of an answer to something without success, and then it comes to me later out of the blue, or when I suddenly remember that I need to do something that I had forgotten to put on my todo list. I'm reasonably convinced that my unconcious appreciates it :-) Andy

05-07-2009, 03:05 AM	#57
marketopoly Active Warrior Join Date: May 2007 Location: , , Australia. Posts: 37 Thanks: 28 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" The words "Thank You", when said with sincerity, uplift both the parties involved.

05-07-2009, 09:35 AM	#58
TheAngelGuy HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 214 Thanks: 159 Thanked 22 Times in 15 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" The reason is that the mindset that the phrase comes from is one of being open and accepting to things coming into your life. Watch to see how often you tend to be closed off unless someone does something for you (we just do this by habit), and that "closing off" is what you're doing (subconsciously - not on purpose) to close YOU off to a stronger flow of goodness, however it shows up. "Thank you" is also a positive affirmation of self-worth, which is immensely needed in an environment where we're socially trained to constantly berate ourselves and not only think, but take way too seriously, that we're not worthy of much and we have to prove it by gaining external wealth, fame, fortune, etc.

05-07-2009, 11:36 AM	#59
tamaradaria Love2Write Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: USA Posts: 36 Thanks: 8 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" I've begun to keep a gratitude journal. At the very moment I sink into the thoughts that life has let me down...I pick up that journal and realize how good I have it. I believe that being thankful for what you already have is the key to getting more of what you want.
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05-07-2009, 04:00 PM	#60
chinois Jenn Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: United Kingdom. Posts: 22 Thanks: 25 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Social Networking	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Have you ever say thank you to a bored looking cashier and see her face brighten up instantly? That's the power of 'Thank You' and thank you for all the inspiring posts here.

05-08-2009, 01:51 AM	#61
pinoy bands Active Warrior Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 35 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" I really agree that saying thank you has its magical powers. if someone says thank you, I felt that my effort was acknowledged and I am appreciated. well, I would like to say thank you for sharing this nice post!
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05-08-2009, 09:43 AM	#62
TristinTaylor a warrior with a cause Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 33 Thanks: 1 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Yes, thank you is huge...in the 2.0 web thanks can mean writing a good review for someone...should not be overlooked...great way to form JV partnerships

05-11-2009, 02:07 AM	#63
Jay Vikaz eBizClinic.com War Room Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 208 Thanks: 86 Thanked 30 Times in 23 Posts Social Networking	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" It is one of those "magic words" they teach us as children. Then many of us grow up and forget the wonderful doors that a simple "Thank You" will open for us. How many missed opportunities will it take before we realize the power of thanking people? I see the difference now that I've started Thanking people again. When people know that their actions are appreciated, they are motivated to do more for us. Thank You for the thought provoking post. A reminder like this certainly helps. Jay WebSupportTeam.com Tech Help For Your Internet Business

07-21-2009, 10:39 AM	#64
shatner Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 23 Thanks: 5 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" saying "thank you" now a days has lost its true meaning. But for some these words are heartfelt and treasured. Words that should only be used if you really meant it.

11-08-2009, 03:34 AM	#65
THY Warrior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 26 Thanks: 1 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" A simple word to express your appreciation and this is what defines a successful person who builds solid network of contacts.
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11-08-2009, 09:10 AM	#66
Michael Thai HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 227 Thanks: 31 Thanked 29 Times in 22 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" Saying thank you for the sake of saying it is not as powerful as saying it from your heart Michael T.

11-08-2009, 10:08 AM	#67
Tom Harvey Affiliate Ninja War Room Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: New York & Vienna, Austria Posts: 79 Thanks: 5 Thanked 16 Times in 12 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" One of the basic tenets of human behavior that was ingrained into me and those of my generation was the very basic concept of saying "THANK YOU" Unfortunately, humankind seems to have evolved into a generation of entitlement.. The quicker we return to the basics of civility such as "please and thank you" society as a whole will be better served. Just my thougts..and no I am not a curmudgeon just a different generation

11-08-2009, 11:57 AM	#68
dcrannik Active Warrior Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Jefferson City, MO Posts: 34 Thanks: 3 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: The power of saying "Thank You" I agree with Josh T. I hate it when someone tells me "No Problem" in place of "Thank You". In my opinion, a gratious Thank You carries much more weight than Gold. I live by this and this has made a huge difference at work and in my personal life. In todays society you just do not hear the words Thank You enough, so when folks do hear it from you they are much more appreciative and receptive to you. This was a great post! Thank you!
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