How do you persuade?

jayden.fellze · 03-02-2009, 08:03 AM

How do you persuade? What are the most effective tools/techniques do you consider where you can persuade other people? Share your thoughts.

DominicTFY · 03-02-2009, 10:08 AM

Hey jayden,

Before we can persuade anyone, we need to first build rapport with them. You can do this easily by:

1. Relating to a common incident/situation
2. Relating to a common interests
3. And much, much more...

How do you exactly do that? Just start by asking questions. e.g. "Ever had dirty tough stains that were difficult to remove?" etc

Hope that helped,
Dominic

Brad Gosse · 03-02-2009, 10:27 AM

Persuasion is a tough game. The word itself sounds shady but when done right you will always be able to persuade people. I try to live by the following...

Rule #1 Deliver on promises. If people believe you, persuasion will come easily over and over.
Rule #2 Offer real value
Rule #3 Solve a problem. People are easily persuaded by solutions to existing problems in life or business. This could be a home remedy for the common cold or a complex business solution.

rickymat · 03-02-2009, 11:43 AM

Hi Brad,

Here are the some useful tips to persuade anyone:

Enter Their World
Mirror Their Body Language
Be Cheerful and Nice
Be Sincere and Trustworthy
Provide Them With Compelling Evidence
Show Them “What’s In It For Them”
Genuinely Care For Them

Try to implement these points in you and start persuade people.

Best wishes

jayden.fellze · 03-03-2009, 09:42 AM

Thank you guys for your sharing of thoughts, I think these are all enough for me to learn more about the art of persuasion.

DominicTFY · 03-03-2009, 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jayden.fellze

Thank you guys for your sharing of thoughts, I think these are all enough for me to learn more about the art of persuasion.

Jayden, there's actually a good book on persuasion, called "Persuasion" by James Borg. Wonder if you've seen it before...

Loren Woirhaye · 03-03-2009, 09:59 AM

Check out Kevin Hogan's stuff. Body Language Expert, Speaker, Influence, Persuasion, Kevin Hogan - there is
some awesome free material on there about persuasion and the
bonuses for joining his list are killer.

Loren Woirhaye · 03-03-2009, 10:02 AM

Check out Kevin Hogan's stuff. Body Language Expert, Speaker, Influence, Persuasion, Kevin Hogan - there is
some awesome free material on there about persuasion and the
bonuses for joining his list are killer.

MaskedMarketer · 03-03-2009, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Loren Woirhaye

Check out Kevin Hogan's stuff. Body Language Expert, Speaker, Influence, Persuasion, Kevin Hogan - there is
some awesome free material on there about persuasion and the
bonuses for joining his list are killer.

I think kevin hogan says the first step to persuasion is persuading yourself.

Makes sense.

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DominicTFY Dominic Tay War Room Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Singapore Posts: 196 Thanks: 10 Thanked 15 Times in 10 Posts Social Networking	Re: How do you persuade? Hey jayden, Before we can persuade anyone, we need to first build rapport with them. You can do this easily by: 1. Relating to a common incident/situation 2. Relating to a common interests 3. And much, much more... How do you exactly do that? Just start by asking questions. e.g. "Ever had dirty tough stains that were difficult to remove?" etc Hope that helped, Dominic
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rickymat Warrior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 20 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts	Re: How do you persuade? Hi Brad, Here are the some useful tips to persuade anyone: Enter Their World Mirror Their Body Language Be Cheerful and Nice Be Sincere and Trustworthy Provide Them With Compelling Evidence Show Them “What’s In It For Them” Genuinely Care For Them Try to implement these points in you and start persuade people. Best wishes

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Brad Gosse Senior Warrior Member War Room Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Orangeville, Ontario Posts: 1,202 Thanks: 166 Thanked 164 Times in 107 Posts Social Networking	Re: How do you persuade? Persuasion is a tough game. The word itself sounds shady but when done right you will always be able to persuade people. I try to live by the following... Rule #1 Deliver on promises. If people believe you, persuasion will come easily over and over. Rule #2 Offer real value Rule #3 Solve a problem. People are easily persuaded by solutions to existing problems in life or business. This could be a home remedy for the common cold or a complex business solution.

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Loren Woirhaye gypsy accordion menace War Room Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Amherst, Massachusetts Posts: 3,164 Blog Entries: 11 Thanks: 75 Thanked 491 Times in 355 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: How do you persuade? Check out Kevin Hogan's stuff. Body Language Expert, Speaker, Influence, Persuasion, Kevin Hogan - there is some awesome free material on there about persuasion and the bonuses for joining his list are killer.
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