16 Rules To Live By

Jonathan 2.0 · 03-27-2009, 08:24 AM

Hey Mind Warriors.

Thought I'd share this excellent article by Bob Parsons with you. (Found it while looking through some old documents.) It was quite popular and distributed all over the Internet in 2005. So I thought I'd post it for those of you who haven't read it and as a reminder for those of you who have. The success principles and timeless wisdom you're about to learn can help you become more successful today and for the rest of your life.

Bob Parson's is the entrepreneur who founded GoDaddy.com and before that sold his company Person's Technology to Intuit Inc for $64 million. So you're getting advice from one of the Internet's most successful and well-known entrepreneurs.

Here's the article. Enjoy.

Bob Parsons' 16 Rules To Live By

1) Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers."

2) Never give up. Almost nothing works the first time it's attempted. Just because what you're doing does not seem to be working doesn't mean it won't work. It just means that it might not work the way you're doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn't have an opportunity.

3) When you're ready to quit, you're closer than you think. There's an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: "The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed."

4) With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen, but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be. Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of "undefined consequences." My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, "Well, Robert, if it doesn't work, they can't eat you."

5) Focus on what you want to have happen. Remember that old saying, "As you think, so shall you be."

6) Take things a day at a time. No matter how difficult your situation is, you can get through it if you don't look too far into the future and focus on the present moment. You can get through anything one day at a time.

7) Always be moving forward. Never stop investing. Never stop improving. Never stop doing something new. The moment you stop improving your organization, it starts to die. Make it your goal to be better each and every day, in some small way. Remember the Japanese concept of Kaizen. Small daily improvements eventually result in huge advantages.

8) Be quick to decide. Remember what General George S. Patton said: "A good plan violently executed today is far and away better than a perfect plan tomorrow."

9) Measure everything of significance. I swear this is true. Anything that is measured and watched improves.

10) Anything that is not managed will deteriorate. If you want to uncover problems you don't know about, take a few moments and look closely at the areas you haven't examined for a while. I guarantee you problems will be there.

11) Pay attention to your competitors, but pay more attention to what you're doing. When you look at your competitors, remember that everything looks perfect at a distance. Even the planet Earth, if you get far enough into space, looks like a peaceful place.

12) Never let anybody push you around. In our society, with our laws and even playing field, you have just as much right to what you're doing as anyone else, provided that what you're doing is legal.

13) Never expect life to be fair. Life isn't fair. You make your own breaks. You'll be doing good if the only meaning fair has to you is something that you pay when you get on a bus (i.e., fare).

14) Solve your own problems. You'll find that by coming up with your own solutions, you'll develop a competitive edge. Masura Ibuka, the cofounder of Sony, said it best: "You never succeed in technology, business, or anything by following the others." There's also an old Asian saying that I remind myself of frequently. It goes like this: "A wise man keeps his own counsel."

15) Don't take yourself too seriously. Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are.

16) There's always a reason to smile. Find it. After all, you're really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: "We're not here for a long time; we're here for a good time."

The above article is published with the permission of Bob Parsons (BobParsons.com) and is Copyright by Bob Parsons. All rights reserved.

bobcath · 03-27-2009, 08:58 AM

ZigZag

Thanks for posting this, it's the best post I've seen in ages. Each point is made simply but when combined into an everyday approach will be extremely powerful. This is one I'll be saving!

Regards
Bobby

jayden.fellze · 03-27-2009, 10:28 AM

Wow, that is very well said.. it is always nice that from time to time, we'll go out form our comfort zone to live a more meaningful life.

honestbizpro · 03-30-2009, 05:49 PM

For someone named ZigZag that post could lead a person Straight to Success.

Thanks.

Charan Saini · 03-30-2009, 06:40 PM

Great post , please keep on posting these threads...thnks.

MemberWing · 03-30-2009, 10:13 PM

GoDaddy.com might benefit from Bob's own rule #10 nowadays...

Gleb

Vincelog · 03-31-2009, 02:25 AM

Those are really great points! Thanks for sharing.

Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger

Madame_Imm · 04-03-2009, 06:15 AM

Love it..I am so printing this out and hanging it on my wall.

Thanks!

procoach · 04-03-2009, 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honestbizpro

For someone named ZigZag that post could lead a person Straight to Success.

Thanks.

LOL, honestbizpro!

Thanks for the post, ZigZag. Luve it!

Sid Kaplan · 04-04-2009, 03:41 PM

Thanks Zigzag. That got printed out and put on stickies pretty fast..lol If it was a tad smaller I might have it tattooed on my forehead!

I may disagree with some of GoDaddy's practices but I sure like the content of the post.

Best

Sid

gee1 · 04-04-2009, 06:15 PM

I Love it!!

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15) Don't take yourself too seriously. Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are.
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I especially love No.15 as it puts a lot of life, success, accomplishment and happiness into perspective.

ricaparaleho · 05-04-2009, 10:07 AM

Here are also some Rules to Live by........

1) Never make a threat you don’t intend to carry out.

Your word is the only thing you have. If you make statements that you don’t carry out you will not be believed when it is very important. Think carefully when you say something and if you define a cause and effect ("If you leave, I’ll never talk to you again") be prepared to make good on the threat.

Therefore it is important to think carefully, word carefully and leave yourself an out ("If you leave now, I won’t talk to you until you apologize.")

If you do this consistently, then when you do talk people will pay attention, and as a bonus you will be more precise in your communication and less reactionary.

2) Don’t **** where you eat.

This usually involves sex, but could also include a multitude of unsavory activities. Mostly it means don’t do things that might effect you negatively close to home. For instance, don’t sleep with the daughter of an important client. Don’t steal from a friend.

3) Don’t mess with the devil in his own backyard.

Don’t get greedy. If the risk is too high, pull out. It is better to make several smaller scores then get busted on one bigger one.

4) The Glass Is.

Aka… Life begins today.

Is the glass half empty or half full? The glass simply is. Play the hand you are dealt. Enjoy life as it is, don’t waste life wishing it were different, or waiting for something to change..

I have a lot of trouble remembering this one.

5) Don’t **** with trucks.

Aka… Know what battles not to fight.

Sometimes it is better to walk away. Know when a battle is going to cost you more than winning is worth.

6) Never get angry because someone stops doing you a favor.

Aka... Don't take things for granted

Aka... Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

This occurs most often with family, friends and associates. Just because someone has taken it upon themselves to do something repeated, does not give you the right to get upset if they suddenly decide they no longer wish to. For example: the office worker that always brings the donuts, the family member that always sets the table. If they decide not to, do not be angry remember to be grateful for the favor they saw fit to grant for that time period. This extends to larger issues like relationships and Government "entitlements" as well.

It is human nature to feel neglected, slighted or wronged in these situation, but really you are just pissing on the past favors - and if you can manage that mental manipulation you will be much happier and more grateful for what is around.

7) Inflow equals outflow.

Aka… You reap what you sow

Aka… Kindness is it’s own reward

Aka… Kindness begets kindness

Flipside… The downward Spiral

When you are happy with your life, it is easy to eliminate or reduce envy and bitterness. Without envy it is natural to do the little things that promote harmony and peace in those around you. With peace in your environment you will become happy.

The only trick to this cycle is starting the ball rolling. You can do that at any time.

8) The price is the price

Aka… Know your worth.

Set a fair price for your product or service and then strive to produce the best produce or offer the best service, but do not negotiate on the price. If they are not willing to meet the price then your product needs to be improved.

9) Loyalty beyond self

We are lucky if in this world there are one or two people we truly trust at our backs. Treat these people as if they are yourself. When they need you be there even if it is a sacrifice. Be generous; give them the better end of the deal. In life all that really matters is family and friends.

10) Stuff can be replaced.

Aka… Don’t let your stuff rule you

Aka… Your worth is in you.

Nothing you can buy is worth sweating about. If it gets damaged or stolen, no matter what it cost, how hard you worked for it, or how irreplaceable it seems at the moment, it is just stuff. Don’t let your life be dragged down worrying about the state of your stuff. If you lose something, or it is stolen, let it go, don’t waste time dwelling on it.

Money really doesn't buy happiness. Enough money for freedom and security is all you need. Beyond that it can begin to run your life, rather than freeing you to enjoy your life as you want.

This also extends to the idea "Why pay for it twice?" People will buy things and be unhappy with them but still continue to stick with them and use them because they paid for them. In my mind this is paying for something twice, once in cash, and once in unhappiness and inconvenience. Stuff is just stuff, like excess money, it is only as important as the happiness and security it brings. It is not important itself.

11) All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.

This is the flipside of ‘Don’t **** with trucks’. Some battles you have to fight, regardless of the cost, if the result of not fighting the fight reduces the quality of your world and lowers the enjoyment of life for those you care about.

Some people are very unhappy and do what they can to stop those around them from being happy. Do whatever it takes to remove these people from your environment.

12) God is an Iron

Aka… Chance favors the prepared mind.

Aka… What you don’t know can hurt you.

Aka… Prepare for the X-Factor

Aka… The early worm gets eaten by the bird.

Think through conventional wisdom. Everything has a flipside. See things from all angles and plan accordingly. Always, always, always have several contingency plans, as the universe has an infinite number of surprises up its sleeve.

pinoy bands · 05-11-2009, 01:11 AM

wow..this post enlightens my perspective in life and brings the positivity in me. thanks for sharing these guidelines or rules to live by.

tamaradaria · 05-11-2009, 10:03 AM

Wow...that hit the nail on the head.

#13 is my favorite!

CalvinB · 05-11-2009, 11:34 AM

That about sums up everything you need to succeed in life.

Thanks,

Calvin

Emily Meeks · 05-11-2009, 03:31 PM

This list could not be any truer.

I strongly feel for #7, #14, #15 and #16 most of all.

JayMachado · 05-11-2009, 03:56 PM

#2, #3, and #7 really hit me square between the eyes. I'm always thinking of the story in Think and Grow Rich about being 3 feet from gold. It gets me every time and this post hit all the right spots. FANTASTIC. Thanks for sharing.

Achilles1963 · 05-11-2009, 04:05 PM

I like #15, It reminds me of what a rich tycoon said (i forget who), If you were right 51% of the time, you would be rich, if your not rich then you are probably not even right half the time

powerspike · 05-11-2009, 11:26 PM

I love these rules to live by, i also like one that isn't is on the line "Keep looking back to get the motivation to move forward". I have always taken it as, you'll never reach your goals (they always evolve and change), but if you look at what you have done, you'll see that you have accomplished alot and it'll give you the motivation to keep going.

DrewG · 05-11-2009, 11:56 PM

Excellent list, I do my best to follow those every day.

Biggy Fat · 05-12-2009, 12:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZigZag

16) There's always a reason to smile. Find it. After all, you're really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: "We're not here for a long time; we're here for a good time."

I lost my smile at the age of eighteen. It has been eight years and I haven't found it yet.

Great list nonetheless!

GameOver · 05-12-2009, 12:22 AM

Thats some good info. Reminds me of when I used to read zen habits blog.

shatner · 07-23-2009, 01:54 PM

thanks for posting this. Now i have the reason to smile

A. Caples · 07-23-2009, 04:22 PM

Thank you ZigZag. Definitely some guidelines to keep in mind when seeking out our own endeavors.

$Layla$ · 07-23-2009, 04:41 PM

Love it, live by it, did I mention it is hanging on my wall in the computer room where I am most often. Its been forever since I've saw anyone reference it.

Marlinark · 07-23-2009, 05:32 PM

"A man must be free for he can always choose his rules and rulers."
~Matthew Christiansen

Sonam22 · 07-24-2009, 04:25 AM

Excellent posting.Well I can say few rules to live by;
*Realize your own worth. Avoid comparing yourself with others. Each of us is special, because we are different one from the other.

*Set your own goals based on what is important to you, not what others think is important. Only you know what is best for you

*Treasure the things that are closest to your heart. Cherish them as you would your life, without them life is meaningless.

*Live your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.

Camagu · 07-24-2009, 04:47 AM

excellent, thanks

dsanchez · 07-24-2009, 08:26 AM

I like all those points.

This is one of those posts that is worth getting a print out of to stick it on your computer, or in a place close enough for us to read it every day, more than once.

Dagmar

lacicox · 12-06-2011, 09:54 AM

Pretty good list. thanks for this.

freedumb · 12-06-2011, 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ricaparaleho

Here are also some Rules to Live by........

1) Never make a threat you don’t intend to carry out.

Your word is the only thing you have. If you make statements that you don’t carry out you will not be believed when it is very important. Think carefully when you say something and if you define a cause and effect ("If you leave, I’ll never talk to you again") be prepared to make good on the threat.

Therefore it is important to think carefully, word carefully and leave yourself an out ("If you leave now, I won’t talk to you until you apologize.")

If you do this consistently, then when you do talk people will pay attention, and as a bonus you will be more precise in your communication and less reactionary.

2) Don’t **** where you eat.

This usually involves sex, but could also include a multitude of unsavory activities. Mostly it means don’t do things that might effect you negatively close to home. For instance, don’t sleep with the daughter of an important client. Don’t steal from a friend.

3) Don’t mess with the devil in his own backyard.

Don’t get greedy. If the risk is too high, pull out. It is better to make several smaller scores then get busted on one bigger one.

4) The Glass Is.

Aka… Life begins today.

Is the glass half empty or half full? The glass simply is. Play the hand you are dealt. Enjoy life as it is, don’t waste life wishing it were different, or waiting for something to change..

I have a lot of trouble remembering this one.

5) Don’t **** with trucks.

Aka… Know what battles not to fight.

Sometimes it is better to walk away. Know when a battle is going to cost you more than winning is worth.

6) Never get angry because someone stops doing you a favor.

Aka... Don't take things for granted

Aka... Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

This occurs most often with family, friends and associates. Just because someone has taken it upon themselves to do something repeated, does not give you the right to get upset if they suddenly decide they no longer wish to. For example: the office worker that always brings the donuts, the family member that always sets the table. If they decide not to, do not be angry remember to be grateful for the favor they saw fit to grant for that time period. This extends to larger issues like relationships and Government "entitlements" as well.

It is human nature to feel neglected, slighted or wronged in these situation, but really you are just pissing on the past favors - and if you can manage that mental manipulation you will be much happier and more grateful for what is around.

7) Inflow equals outflow.

Aka… You reap what you sow

Aka… Kindness is it’s own reward

Aka… Kindness begets kindness

Flipside… The downward Spiral

When you are happy with your life, it is easy to eliminate or reduce envy and bitterness. Without envy it is natural to do the little things that promote harmony and peace in those around you. With peace in your environment you will become happy.

The only trick to this cycle is starting the ball rolling. You can do that at any time.

8) The price is the price

Aka… Know your worth.

Set a fair price for your product or service and then strive to produce the best produce or offer the best service, but do not negotiate on the price. If they are not willing to meet the price then your product needs to be improved.

9) Loyalty beyond self

We are lucky if in this world there are one or two people we truly trust at our backs. Treat these people as if they are yourself. When they need you be there even if it is a sacrifice. Be generous; give them the better end of the deal. In life all that really matters is family and friends.

10) Stuff can be replaced.

Aka… Don’t let your stuff rule you

Aka… Your worth is in you.

Nothing you can buy is worth sweating about. If it gets damaged or stolen, no matter what it cost, how hard you worked for it, or how irreplaceable it seems at the moment, it is just stuff. Don’t let your life be dragged down worrying about the state of your stuff. If you lose something, or it is stolen, let it go, don’t waste time dwelling on it.

Money really doesn't buy happiness. Enough money for freedom and security is all you need. Beyond that it can begin to run your life, rather than freeing you to enjoy your life as you want.

This also extends to the idea "Why pay for it twice?" People will buy things and be unhappy with them but still continue to stick with them and use them because they paid for them. In my mind this is paying for something twice, once in cash, and once in unhappiness and inconvenience. Stuff is just stuff, like excess money, it is only as important as the happiness and security it brings. It is not important itself.

11) All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.

This is the flipside of ‘Don’t **** with trucks’. Some battles you have to fight, regardless of the cost, if the result of not fighting the fight reduces the quality of your world and lowers the enjoyment of life for those you care about.

Some people are very unhappy and do what they can to stop those around them from being happy. Do whatever it takes to remove these people from your environment.

12) God is an Iron

Aka… Chance favors the prepared mind.

Aka… What you don’t know can hurt you.

Aka… Prepare for the X-Factor

Aka… The early worm gets eaten by the bird.

Think through conventional wisdom. Everything has a flipside. See things from all angles and plan accordingly. Always, always, always have several contingency plans, as the universe has an infinite number of surprises up its sleeve.

Is this your own compilation of rules or was it derived or taken from somewhere else?

DGFletcher · 12-06-2011, 06:09 PM

Any suggestions on how to make decisions faster? I finally started just flipping a dime sometimes, or rolling dice.

The money is in the details, but what details those are doesn't really matter.

(Can I just say how much I love this forum?)

abugah · 12-06-2011, 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

Hey Mind Warriors.

1) Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers."

I had difficulties with this rule in the past until I discovered something profound. I realized that if I moved one inch out of my comfort zone, tomorrow I could move two inches. It occurred to me that if I stick with it daily, in just one month I would have totally moved out my comfort zone without even realizing it.

Illuminart · 12-07-2011, 03:45 AM

As usual, another great post from Jonathan. Bookmarked!

Lindbeck · 12-07-2011, 06:16 AM

[INDENT][FONT=Arial]1) Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers."[/FONT

Comfortmissions are great. They make you feel alive and you begin to realize that it dosent matter what other people think about you.

Btw nice post!

phoenixseo · 12-07-2011, 11:13 AM

Thank you for posting.Nice post!

perfectlovehere · 12-07-2011, 11:26 AM

Helpful guide thanks for sharing. I think it's also worth mentioning to focus on the positive rather than the negative.

Jonathan 2.0 · 12-08-2011, 08:33 AM

Welcome everyone. Happy you found it useful. : )

hireava · 12-08-2011, 09:20 AM

Great post! It is indeed some rules that we should live by. Hope I can do at least 5 of those.

uppergrade · 12-08-2011, 11:16 AM

Its just beautifully written. I like #13 #17. really awesome.

TopKat22 · 12-08-2011, 11:21 AM

Very good reminders. This has basically been my code of conduct for my life.

RyanA4D · 12-08-2011, 11:48 AM

Great posts everyone, very inspiring and insightful.

Smiling1 · 12-09-2011, 07:15 AM

Those are great words to live by -thank you!

majay · 12-09-2011, 07:35 AM

thanks for the great post,especially on the point about "taking things a day at a time"

tylerjaysen · 12-09-2011, 11:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

Hey Mind Warriors.

3) When you're ready to quit, you're closer than you think. There's an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: "The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed."

I love that one. It reminds me of the story of the guy who buys a cave that is said to be filled with diamonds. So he spends years digging and digging and doesn't find any diamonds....so he decides that it's time to give up...and he sells the cave to someone else.

The new owner of the cave starts digging where the old owner left off....and in 1 day...yep....he strikes a huge diamond mine.

The original guy was so close...but gave up.

3000 · 12-09-2011, 11:45 AM

I really believe in #3 because I was so close to giving up and BAM! I started to earn continuous income, it may be small but income none the less

joelkippax · 12-13-2011, 08:27 PM

Nice list, will print it out to be reminded always. thanks!

Boxer123 · 12-15-2011, 08:29 PM

Awesome Quotes. I relate most to the quitting when your about to succeed one.

howimakemony · 12-16-2011, 01:34 PM

Great quotes! I stand by all of them

03-27-2009, 08:24 AM	#1
Jonathan 2.0 Spiritual Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1,163 Blog Entries: 12 Thanks: 551 Thanked 312 Times in 230 Posts	16 Rules To Live By Hey Mind Warriors. Thought I'd share this excellent article by Bob Parsons with you. (Found it while looking through some old documents.) It was quite popular and distributed all over the Internet in 2005. So I thought I'd post it for those of you who haven't read it and as a reminder for those of you who have. The success principles and timeless wisdom you're about to learn can help you become more successful today and for the rest of your life. Bob Parson's is the entrepreneur who founded GoDaddy.com and before that sold his company Person's Technology to Intuit Inc for $64 million. So you're getting advice from one of the Internet's most successful and well-known entrepreneurs. Here's the article. Enjoy. Bob Parsons' 16 Rules To Live By 1) Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers." 2) Never give up. Almost nothing works the first time it's attempted. Just because what you're doing does not seem to be working doesn't mean it won't work. It just means that it might not work the way you're doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn't have an opportunity. 3) When you're ready to quit, you're closer than you think. There's an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: "The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed." 4) With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen, but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be. Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of "undefined consequences." My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, "Well, Robert, if it doesn't work, they can't eat you." 5) Focus on what you want to have happen. Remember that old saying, "As you think, so shall you be." 6) Take things a day at a time. No matter how difficult your situation is, you can get through it if you don't look too far into the future and focus on the present moment. You can get through anything one day at a time. 7) Always be moving forward. Never stop investing. Never stop improving. Never stop doing something new. The moment you stop improving your organization, it starts to die. Make it your goal to be better each and every day, in some small way. Remember the Japanese concept of Kaizen. Small daily improvements eventually result in huge advantages. 8) Be quick to decide. Remember what General George S. Patton said: "A good plan violently executed today is far and away better than a perfect plan tomorrow." 9) Measure everything of significance. I swear this is true. Anything that is measured and watched improves. 10) Anything that is not managed will deteriorate. If you want to uncover problems you don't know about, take a few moments and look closely at the areas you haven't examined for a while. I guarantee you problems will be there. 11) Pay attention to your competitors, but pay more attention to what you're doing. When you look at your competitors, remember that everything looks perfect at a distance. Even the planet Earth, if you get far enough into space, looks like a peaceful place. 12) Never let anybody push you around. In our society, with our laws and even playing field, you have just as much right to what you're doing as anyone else, provided that what you're doing is legal. 13) Never expect life to be fair. Life isn't fair. You make your own breaks. You'll be doing good if the only meaning fair has to you is something that you pay when you get on a bus (i.e., fare). 14) Solve your own problems. You'll find that by coming up with your own solutions, you'll develop a competitive edge. Masura Ibuka, the cofounder of Sony, said it best: "You never succeed in technology, business, or anything by following the others." There's also an old Asian saying that I remind myself of frequently. It goes like this: "A wise man keeps his own counsel." 15) Don't take yourself too seriously. Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are. 16) There's always a reason to smile. Find it. After all, you're really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: "We're not here for a long time; we're here for a good time." The above article is published with the permission of Bob Parsons (BobParsons.com) and is Copyright by Bob Parsons. All rights reserved.
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03-30-2009, 10:13 PM	#6
MemberWing Gleb War Room Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Ottawa, Canada Posts: 845 Thanks: 10 Thanked 104 Times in 85 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: 16 Rules To Live By GoDaddy.com might benefit from Bob's own rule #10 nowadays... Gleb
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03-31-2009, 02:25 AM	#7
Vincelog HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Singapore Posts: 258 Thanks: 8 Thanked 44 Times in 25 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Those are really great points! Thanks for sharing. Cheers Vincent Personal Development Blogger
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04-03-2009, 06:15 AM	#8
Madame_Imm Warrior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: The Matrix Posts: 11 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Love it..I am so printing this out and hanging it on my wall. Thanks!
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04-04-2009, 03:41 PM	#10
Sid Kaplan HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: California Posts: 396 Thanks: 71 Thanked 41 Times in 22 Posts Social Networking Contact Info	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Thanks Zigzag. That got printed out and put on stickies pretty fast..lol If it was a tad smaller I might have it tattooed on my forehead! I may disagree with some of GoDaddy's practices but I sure like the content of the post. Best Sid
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04-04-2009, 06:15 PM	#11
gee1 Active Warrior Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 54 Thanks: 2 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By I Love it!! ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 15) Don't take yourself too seriously. Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I especially love No.15 as it puts a lot of life, success, accomplishment and happiness into perspective.

05-04-2009, 10:07 AM	#12
ricaparaleho Active Warrior Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 43 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Here are also some Rules to Live by........ 1) Never make a threat you don’t intend to carry out. Your word is the only thing you have. If you make statements that you don’t carry out you will not be believed when it is very important. Think carefully when you say something and if you define a cause and effect ("If you leave, I’ll never talk to you again") be prepared to make good on the threat. Therefore it is important to think carefully, word carefully and leave yourself an out ("If you leave now, I won’t talk to you until you apologize.") If you do this consistently, then when you do talk people will pay attention, and as a bonus you will be more precise in your communication and less reactionary. 2) Don’t ** where you eat. This usually involves sex, but could also include a multitude of unsavory activities. Mostly it means don’t do things that might effect you negatively close to home. For instance, don’t sleep with the daughter of an important client. Don’t steal from a friend. 3) Don’t mess with the devil in his own backyard. Don’t get greedy. If the risk is too high, pull out. It is better to make several smaller scores then get busted on one bigger one. 4) The Glass Is. Aka… Life begins today. Is the glass half empty or half full? The glass simply is. Play the hand you are dealt. Enjoy life as it is, don’t waste life wishing it were different, or waiting for something to change.. I have a lot of trouble remembering this one. 5) Don’t with trucks. Aka… Know what battles not to fight. Sometimes it is better to walk away. Know when a battle is going to cost you more than winning is worth. 6) Never get angry because someone stops doing you a favor. Aka... Don't take things for granted Aka... Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened. This occurs most often with family, friends and associates. Just because someone has taken it upon themselves to do something repeated, does not give you the right to get upset if they suddenly decide they no longer wish to. For example: the office worker that always brings the donuts, the family member that always sets the table. If they decide not to, do not be angry remember to be grateful for the favor they saw fit to grant for that time period. This extends to larger issues like relationships and Government "entitlements" as well. It is human nature to feel neglected, slighted or wronged in these situation, but really you are just pissing on the past favors - and if you can manage that mental manipulation you will be much happier and more grateful for what is around. 7) Inflow equals outflow. Aka… You reap what you sow Aka… Kindness is it’s own reward Aka… Kindness begets kindness Flipside… The downward Spiral When you are happy with your life, it is easy to eliminate or reduce envy and bitterness. Without envy it is natural to do the little things that promote harmony and peace in those around you. With peace in your environment you will become happy. The only trick to this cycle is starting the ball rolling. You can do that at any time. 8) The price is the price Aka… Know your worth. Set a fair price for your product or service and then strive to produce the best produce or offer the best service, but do not negotiate on the price. If they are not willing to meet the price then your product needs to be improved. 9) Loyalty beyond self We are lucky if in this world there are one or two people we truly trust at our backs. Treat these people as if they are yourself. When they need you be there even if it is a sacrifice. Be generous; give them the better end of the deal. In life all that really matters is family and friends. 10) Stuff can be replaced. Aka… Don’t let your stuff rule you Aka… Your worth is in you. Nothing you can buy is worth sweating about. If it gets damaged or stolen, no matter what it cost, how hard you worked for it, or how irreplaceable it seems at the moment, it is just stuff. Don’t let your life be dragged down worrying about the state of your stuff. If you lose something, or it is stolen, let it go, don’t waste time dwelling on it. Money really doesn't buy happiness. Enough money for freedom and security is all you need. Beyond that it can begin to run your life, rather than freeing you to enjoy your life as you want. This also extends to the idea "Why pay for it twice?" People will buy things and be unhappy with them but still continue to stick with them and use them because they paid for them. In my mind this is paying for something twice, once in cash, and once in unhappiness and inconvenience. Stuff is just stuff, like excess money, it is only as important as the happiness and security it brings. It is not important itself. 11) All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing. This is the flipside of ‘Don’t ** with trucks’. Some battles you have to fight, regardless of the cost, if the result of not fighting the fight reduces the quality of your world and lowers the enjoyment of life for those you care about. Some people are very unhappy and do what they can to stop those around them from being happy. Do whatever it takes to remove these people from your environment. 12) God is an Iron Aka… Chance favors the prepared mind. Aka… What you don’t know can hurt you. Aka… Prepare for the X-Factor Aka… The early worm gets eaten by the bird. Think through conventional wisdom. Everything has a flipside. See things from all angles and plan accordingly. Always, always, always have several contingency plans, as the universe has an infinite number of surprises up its sleeve.

05-11-2009, 01:11 AM	#13
pinoy bands Active Warrior Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 35 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By wow..this post enlightens my perspective in life and brings the positivity in me. thanks for sharing these guidelines or rules to live by.
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05-11-2009, 10:03 AM	#14
tamaradaria Love2Write Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: USA Posts: 36 Thanks: 8 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Wow...that hit the nail on the head. #13 is my favorite!
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05-11-2009, 11:34 AM	#15
CalvinB Calvin Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 21 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By That about sums up everything you need to succeed in life. Thanks, Calvin

05-11-2009, 03:31 PM	#16
Emily Meeks Innovative Revelation War Room Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 1,010 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 711 Thanked 263 Times in 178 Posts Contact Info	Re: 16 Rules To Live By This list could not be any truer. I strongly feel for #7, #14, #15 and #16 most of all.
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05-11-2009, 03:56 PM	#17
JayMachado Speed Content Warrior Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 35 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By #2, #3, and #7 really hit me square between the eyes. I'm always thinking of the story in Think and Grow Rich about being 3 feet from gold. It gets me every time and this post hit all the right spots. FANTASTIC. Thanks for sharing.
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05-11-2009, 04:05 PM	#18
Achilles1963 Achilles1963 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Denver Posts: 105 Thanks: 129 Thanked 8 Times in 5 Posts Contact Info	Re: 16 Rules To Live By I like #15, It reminds me of what a rich tycoon said (i forget who), If you were right 51% of the time, you would be rich, if your not rich then you are probably not even right half the time

05-11-2009, 11:26 PM	#19
powerspike HyperActive Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 296 Thanks: 8 Thanked 34 Times in 29 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By I love these rules to live by, i also like one that isn't is on the line "Keep looking back to get the motivation to move forward". I have always taken it as, you'll never reach your goals (they always evolve and change), but if you look at what you have done, you'll see that you have accomplished alot and it'll give you the motivation to keep going.

05-11-2009, 11:56 PM	#20
DrewG UltimateIMGraphics.com War Room Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 539 Blog Entries: 9 Thanks: 113 Thanked 77 Times in 59 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Excellent list, I do my best to follow those every day.

05-12-2009, 12:22 AM	#22
GameOver Warrior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 10 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Thats some good info. Reminds me of when I used to read zen habits blog.

07-23-2009, 01:54 PM	#23
shatner Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 23 Thanks: 5 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By thanks for posting this. Now i have the reason to smile
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07-23-2009, 04:22 PM	#24
A. Caples Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 9 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Thank you ZigZag. Definitely some guidelines to keep in mind when seeking out our own endeavors.

07-23-2009, 04:41 PM	#25
$Layla$ Active Warrior Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 57 Thanks: 14 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Love it, live by it, did I mention it is hanging on my wall in the computer room where I am most often. Its been forever since I've saw anyone reference it.

07-23-2009, 05:32 PM	#26
Marlinark Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 14 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Re: 16 Rules To Live By "A man must be free for he can always choose his rules and rulers." ~Matthew Christiansen

07-24-2009, 04:25 AM	#27
Sonam22 Active Warrior Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 73 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Excellent posting.Well I can say few rules to live by; Realize your own worth. Avoid comparing yourself with others. Each of us is special, because we are different one from the other. Set your own goals based on what is important to you, not what others think is important. Only you know what is best for you Treasure the things that are closest to your heart. Cherish them as you would your life, without them life is meaningless. Live your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.

07-24-2009, 04:47 AM	#28
Camagu Active Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 32 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Contact Info	Re: 16 Rules To Live By excellent, thanks

07-24-2009, 08:26 AM	#29
dsanchez HyperActive Warrior Join Date: May 2006 Location: Georgia, U.S. Posts: 197 Thanks: 7 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By I like all those points. This is one of those posts that is worth getting a print out of to stick it on your computer, or in a place close enough for us to read it every day, more than once. Dagmar

12-06-2011, 09:54 AM	#30
lacicox Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 14 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Pretty good list. thanks for this.
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12-06-2011, 06:09 PM	#32
DGFletcher HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Utah Posts: 150 Thanks: 20 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Any suggestions on how to make decisions faster? I finally started just flipping a dime sometimes, or rolling dice. The money is in the details, but what details those are doesn't really matter. (Can I just say how much I love this forum?)

12-07-2011, 03:45 AM	#34
Illuminart The Wifi Master Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 123 Thanks: 6 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By As usual, another great post from Jonathan. Bookmarked!
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12-07-2011, 06:16 AM	#35
Lindbeck Warrior Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 22 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By [INDENT][FONT=Arial]1) Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers."[/FONT Comfortmissions are great. They make you feel alive and you begin to realize that it dosent matter what other people think about you. Btw nice post!

12-07-2011, 11:13 AM	#36
phoenixseo Active Warrior Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 38 Thanks: 5 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Thank you for posting.Nice post!

12-07-2011, 11:26 AM	#37
perfectlovehere Warrior Princess War Room Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 806 Blog Entries: 5 Thanks: 232 Thanked 94 Times in 81 Posts Social Networking	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Helpful guide thanks for sharing. I think it's also worth mentioning to focus on the positive rather than the negative.
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12-08-2011, 08:33 AM	#38
Jonathan 2.0 Spiritual Warrior War Room Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1,163 Blog Entries: 12 Thanks: 551 Thanked 312 Times in 230 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Welcome everyone. Happy you found it useful. : )
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12-08-2011, 09:20 AM	#39
hireava HyperActive Warrior Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 377 Thanks: 1 Thanked 20 Times in 20 Posts	Re: 16 Rules To Live By Great post! It is indeed some rules that we should live by. Hope I can do at least 5 of those.
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