The 5 Excuses That Keep Marketers Broke

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Need help forming habits? Believe it or not, there are people everywhere that are breaking away and making new patterns in their lives every single day.

For as many people that seem stuck on the treadmill of wild promises, brief struggles, and regression to the mean...

People who have "been" stuck are getting unstuck and experiencing fabulous results. That's usually because they're breaking free of excuses like these:

I Don't Have The Time


If you don't have time, build a plan that lets you leverage your time. Then squeeze in ten minutes per day. No matter how strictly regimented your time is, you can afford to give five or ten minutes to your work.

It's amazing how much progress you can make if you devote ten uninterrupted minutes to something. When you aren't Facebooking, Tweeting, checking email or talking to someone else, you can get in a zone of uninterrupted productivity.

I Don't Have The Money

Again, build a plan that leverages your free time. Write articles. Comment on blogs, create products, make contacts. For most marketers, connections are the most valuable thing that they have, and this can be done without money. All it takes is persistence and the ability to set a positive habit.

At every stage of our lives, there's a tradeoff between financial resources and time resources. The best people make the most of whatever situation they are in.

I Don't Have All The Knowledge And Skills

Look for plans that don't require a big list of technical skills. There's more than one way to skin a cat. Almost anyone can set up an account on Twitter, or make a video for YouTube.

Find people who fit in your "blind spot," people with skills and knowledge that compliment yours. Reach out to them and work on a project together. By pooling your resources, you cut down on the piles and piles of work that's needed to get any project off of the ground.
Just get started, that's the most important thing.

My Family Doesn't Support Me

That's very tough. One of the things you can you do is rev them up in stages. Sell your friends and family in the same way you'd sell something to someone else. Start with the emotional stuff - tell them how it feels when you haven't reached yur goal (whatever that goal might be). Make sure that they're on board with the idea that something is amiss and needs to change.

Then start discussing the causes of that problem, and how your solution will solve it. Chances are that somewhere along the line, there will be some objections - and you shouldn't brush those aside, because they're from people that know you and have lived with you.

But you've got to figure out what those objections are and address them, and dialogue is the only real way to do that.

If none of this works, you might have to put their concerns to the side and start educating them along the way. Nothing works to assuage people's concerns than seeing you make small successes, so start by focusing on the fundamentals and improving your ability to see things through to completion.

It's Just Too Hard

Here is a scary technique that will help you see how easy your current situation is. Imagine if things got worse. If you lost your internet access, if your kids got sick, if you lost your job or got stuck in a job that require too much work for not enough money. Imagine if your eyes stopped working as well, or you got carpal tunnel syndrome.
Wouldn't you be grateful for the opportunities that you have right now? Wouldn't you look back and wished that you had the chance to focus, to give everything you have in preparation for future disaster?

Apply that intensity and that focus right now.
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  • Profile picture of the author trevord92
    Often I find it's as simple as figuring out what the excuse is and then facing it head on. Most of the time it's not as scary as it makes itself out to be and I end up wondering why I was so worried in the first place..

    Other times it's just a matter of doing whatever it is that needs to be done before you give yourself time to procrastinate and come up with lots of excuses as to why it won't work, even if you've not tried any of those ways recently or at all.

    I've yet to meet anyone who has all the necessary skills - some just do things anyway, others admit what they don't know and seek out relevant help. A bit like Henry Ford's pre-Google row of electric push-buttons that he said he could press to get any answer he needed.

    Most things are "too hard" the first few times we do them but we un-learn that we have to keep at it. Watch any toddler trying to walk for the first time - they don't give up, they gently tumble and then try again until they get to their stage where they're good at it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sandycmy
    A couple more excuses:

    a) I'm meant for something BIG, small can't motivate me ( many times end up not doing small systems and eventually get scared to do it too )

    b) Being a victim of our own positive and negative history

    It's NO more a secret. We all fall prey for excuses. If the solution is tougher to do than the excuse, we fail. Tried so many approcahes with little to NO success.

    Read a quote today in the news paper which could be a solution :

    " You are responsible to your actions, no matter what you feel"

    I shall try to put this gyan into use, and see how it works. Shall return with my results.
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    • Profile picture of the author Marco Moeschter
      Originally Posted by Sandycmy View Post

      A couple more excuses:

      a) I'm meant for something BIG, small can't motivate me ( many times end up not doing small systems and eventually get scared to do it too )

      b) Being a victim of our own positive and negative history

      It's NO more a secret. We all fall prey for excuses. If the solution is tougher to do than the excuse, we fail. Tried so many approcahes with little to NO success.

      Read a quote today in the news paper which could be a solution :

      " You are responsible to your actions, no matter what you feel"

      I shall try to put this gyan into use, and see how it works. Shall return with my results.
      I guess we could add here plenty of more excuses but you are completely right with yours. Those are the most common ones.
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  • Profile picture of the author RedHat39
    You know my Pastor says "An excuse isn't nothing but a reason wrapped up in a lie..."

    Food for thought.
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  • Profile picture of the author talfighel
    Originally Posted by Marco Moeschter View Post

    I Don't Have The Time
    If they are serious about success, they will find the time. Even 30-60 minutes per day is a good start. If you don't have even 30 minutes to work on your business, you are not serious and don't even bother.

    Originally Posted by Marco Moeschter View Post

    I Don't Have The Money
    Everyone who is successful today had no money to get started with. They had credit card debt and lots of bills. I heard a lot of stories of people who are really doing well with their own internet business right now but the day they started, they had over $30,000+ in credit card debt. They took this situation as a MOTIVATOR to take action.


    Originally Posted by Marco Moeschter View Post

    I Don't Have All The Knowledge And Skills
    Every successful internet marketer goes through the same door that everyone else does when they first start online. If you stay in the game long enough, you will learn a whole lot. Everyday or every week that goes by, you tend to learn new things.

    Originally Posted by Marco Moeschter View Post

    My Family Doesn't Support Me
    You are not doing this for them. You are doing this for YOU. Don't worry about what they tell you or if they laugh at you. When you do start to succeed, you will laugh at them.
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    • Profile picture of the author Marco Moeschter
      Originally Posted by talfighel View Post

      If they are serious about success, they will find the time. Even 30-60 minutes per day is a good start. If you don't have even 30 minutes to work on your business, you are not serious and don't even bother.



      Everyone who is successful today had no money to get started with. They had credit card debt and lots of bills. I heard a lot of stories of people who are really doing well with their own internet business right now but the day they started, they had over $30,000+ in credit card debt. They took this situation as a MOTIVATOR to take action.




      Every successful internet marketer goes through the same door that everyone else does when they first start online. If you stay in the game long enough, you will learn a whole lot. Everyday or every week that goes by, you tend to learn new things.



      You are not doing this for them. You are doing this for YOU. Don't worry about what they tell you or if they laugh at you. When you do start to succeed, you will laugh at them.

      Great complements talfighel and straight on the point!
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  • Profile picture of the author nurz
    Indeed, these attitudes will not get anyone to success. People are too easy to wonder what went wrong and why they did not succeed but too slow or too unaccepting to the fact their attitudes are the reason why they remain broke. If you want to be successful not just in IM but also in other aspects of your life you need to develop good habits and positive attitude.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Hi Marco,

    Yep, dead on

    I feel the WHY is missing in virtually every case. Like, if someone knew why they wanted to succeed in IM and if they tied that reason to being free then everything would come together nicely. I have circled the globe for the past 4 years straight. I am living in Bali now, for 5 months. Knowing I wanted to be free more than I feared doing uncomfortable stuff was a major league turning point for me, for when I craved freedom more than anything I let go these excuses.

    My start was not too great; I knew nothing about the internet save checking my email and espn, lol! But I was serious about freeing myself so I kept at it until I really succeeded, in a big way, and doing so has afforded me the ability to travel all over the globe. I mean, I lived in Fiji for 4 months...does it get better than that? And I did so through making money through my blog. Crazy I tell ya, but I had to thirst for freedom more than I feared killing these excuses by doing super uncomfortable stuff.

    As you may imagine, I do not regret this lol!

    Tweeting from Bali.

    Ryan
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    • Profile picture of the author Jeff Schuman
      Good list Marco and so true. Solving the I don't have enough knowledge and skills excuse would take care of most of these. I learned real quick if I wanted to make money online I needed Internet marketing skills, especially traffic generation. That solves most money problems regardless of the business model being used.
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    • Profile picture of the author Marco Moeschter
      Originally Posted by ryanbiddulph View Post

      Hi Marco,

      Yep, dead on

      I feel the WHY is missing in virtually every case. Like, if someone knew why they wanted to succeed in IM and if they tied that reason to being free then everything would come together nicely. I have circled the globe for the past 4 years straight. I am living in Bali now, for 5 months. Knowing I wanted to be free more than I feared doing uncomfortable stuff was a major league turning point for me, for when I craved freedom more than anything I let go these excuses.

      My start was not too great; I knew nothing about the internet save checking my email and espn, lol! But I was serious about freeing myself so I kept at it until I really succeeded, in a big way, and doing so has afforded me the ability to travel all over the globe. I mean, I lived in Fiji for 4 months...does it get better than that? And I did so through making money through my blog. Crazy I tell ya, but I had to thirst for freedom more than I feared killing these excuses by doing super uncomfortable stuff.

      As you may imagine, I do not regret this lol!

      Tweeting from Bali.

      Ryan
      Ryan you are of course right the why is or should be the most important thing to start an online business. If your why is not right or not strong enough you'll always find an excuse not to do it.
      You surely found your why you want to succeed and I hope more warriors here will find their real why before they find even more excuses or quit internet marketing all together.

      Greetings to Bali
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      • Profile picture of the author The Niche Man
        (Raising Finger in Air) One more to add .
        "My Product/Service is for Everybody"! That'll make a marketer broke - quick!

        I don't know how many times I've heard new and many old business or product owners (who should know better) say that. I immediately think "Rookie" and "disappointing sales or broke marketer walking".
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    • Profile picture of the author Nahawee A
      Ryan's post is really an inspiration!! It shows that if you stick with you it, it will happen. Really great short story!!
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