What About You - Are You Afraid of Making Mistakes?
Mistakes are merely outcomes that didn't work out as we planned or hoped or anticipated. As such, mistakes are nothing more than the learning bridges we all cross over to reach the success on the other side.
Those who are afraid to make mistakes often have a history of an overly critical parent that mentally and emotionally, and perhaps even physically, punished them as a child for making mistakes. Or perhaps they had classmates that made fun of them, to the point of emotional scarring.
That was then...
Do not underestimate yourself, nor be overly critical of yourself. You must learn to be your own best friend, and that means being gentle and kind to yourself when you make mistakes.
Learn to recognize the good you do instead of doing or thinking things that validate any negative ideas about yourself that others instilled in you or you developed over time.
I want you to understand this...
Whatever you were told about yourself before you came to this point in time is history. HISTORY! Any disappointments others may have expressed in you is their problem, you are not here to live up to the expectations of anyone else. Their opinions are just that--opinions--and opinions only have as much meaning as YOU give them.
You are a singularly unique point of light in the world. Others may have tried to dim your light as you grew up, but it still shines. You are a wonderful creation. Give yourself permission to see yourself that way, and then begin looking for the good within you. It's there, I promise you that.
You are as worthy of love, respect, and happiness as everyone else--believe it.
In all that you do, know your True INTENT...
Just when you think you've got it all figured out, someone changes the rules.
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