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The Golden Rule

by keithdougherty
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I have tremendous respect for the real Golden Rule:

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

It may seem so simple, but yet it is powerful. Just think every time you are angry, or get upset, or want to blame someone, before you retaliate with a hot head, ask yourself:

"How would I want this person to treat me now?"

You may not always make the right choice, but at least take the time to consider this. You will be surprised how well this can affect your outlook at things and how you treat people.
#golden #rule
  • Profile picture of the author he_who_brings_order
    That's right. This is the golden rule of life that everyone should respect. In this way we get growth and development. In the end, we will ask ourselves whether we did something good and worthwhile, we are not going to ask ourselves whether we make money in this life, because the money circulates.

    It is also basis of many religions. Although I am not a religious person, I know the value of this statement.

    I know another one. Create a win-win situation. This is a situation where everybody wins. For example. Seller of a product, sell a quality product and his customers win. And he wins because he received money from the sale.
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    • Profile picture of the author sundrop881
      Originally Posted by he_who_brings_order View Post

      That's right. This is the golden rule of life that everyone should respect. In this way we get growth and development. In the end, we will ask ourselves whether we did something good and worthwhile, we are not going to ask ourselves whether we make money in this life, because the money circulates.

      It is also basis of many religions. Although I am not a religious person, I know the value of this statement.

      I know another one. Create a win-win situation. This is a situation where everybody wins. For example. Seller of a product, sell a quality product and his customers win. And he wins because he received money from the sale.
      I do so agree with this. For example, there is a IM guru having a meeting in a nearby larger city. I can get in free but it would involve some difficulties on my part. As I considered whether or not to register, I remembered his webinars I attended. They promised me the knowledge of a certain thing or aspect of IM by the time the webinar was over. What did I actually receive? Discussion about what this knowledge would do for me when I had it and a link to purchase the product that contained this knowledge. This happened to me on 2 different occasions. So, I passed on registering and do likewise on any webinars he might offer.

      Another IM guru, did a product launch that included some tutorials. One was how to use this Word template to write an ebook. Then he gave us the template, which I still use to this day. I don't receive as many emails from him, but when I do I open each and every one. Somehow I feel that he cares about me, I am not just another statistic with him.

      So, if you show your readers and people who comment on your site, that you care --then they will care about you as well.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sam Mlambo
    I learned from Brian Tracy that with all the theories on Human relationships, the golden rule is the only principle that'll stand the test of time. Because it works. It works for me, and it works for others that live by that principle.

    I believe if more people truly adopted the golden rule principle then the world would be a better place. haha don't mean to sound cliche

    - Sam
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    • Profile picture of the author DeonKrey
      Originally Posted by Sam Mlambo View Post

      I believe if more people truly adopted the golden rule principle then the world would be a better place. haha don't mean to sound cliche

      - Sam
      Great spirit there Sam!

      Certainly, as it's called Golden, it's the most crucial thing that we should value in life. We need success to come in our lives and thus, we wouldn't want others to ruin that opportunity. Alternatively we shouldn't be pulling them down but helping them reach their goals up. That's how good relationships started and thus, people made ways to help each other all along.
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  • Profile picture of the author mpbiz
    ^^ I completely agree with the above post. Follow the GOLDEN rule and succeed!
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  • Profile picture of the author SilentX
    The golden rule is good, but like all rules they are never comprehensive. I don't want this to sound like a criticism, because I just want to make a comment/suggestion to those who use the golden rule.
    It is always good to remember that not all people of all faiths, cultures, sex, etc want to be treated the same as yourself. It is important to try and imagine (or if that is not yet possible ie: when meeting a stranger, to make your best effort) how that person wants to be treated. Or, better yet, if possible, simply ask them how theyd like to be treated. naturally, this is a very difficult endeavor in a heated argument or fight, but it is never too late to rectify a situation, even mid-fight. You may have to swallow your pride, but people do tend to respond with kindness if you initiate it.
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      He who has the gold makes the rules.
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    • Profile picture of the author keithdougherty
      Originally Posted by SilentX View Post

      The golden rule is good, but like all rules they are never comprehensive. I don't want this to sound like a criticism, because I just want to make a comment/suggestion to those who use the golden rule.
      It is always good to remember that not all people of all faiths, cultures, sex, etc want to be treated the same as yourself. It is important to try and imagine (or if that is not yet possible ie: when meeting a stranger, to make your best effort) how that person wants to be treated. Or, better yet, if possible, simply ask them how theyd like to be treated. naturally, this is a very difficult endeavor in a heated argument or fight, but it is never too late to rectify a situation, even mid-fight. You may have to swallow your pride, but people do tend to respond with kindness if you initiate it.
      You bring up an excellent point and I am sure that no criticism was taken. Every people has their own set of guidelines of how they govern themselves. But for the most part, if you think, how would it feel if I did this to myself, you would probably react differently. Thanks for sharing.
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    I totally agree!
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Hastings
    I also agree. I was brought up to give respect first in hopes to recieve the same respect. Also I believe really positive people see anger as a useless emotion.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dayton Keeran
      I always try to treat people how i would want to be treated. It can be really difficult in a heated situation but it's always good to take a few seconds and a deep breath before you say or do something you might regret.

      I also believe in giving as much of yourself to people and being genuine at all times. A lot of people try to be someone their not but i just don't see the point in trying to keep up a charade. It's much easier to be who you are and you will find people respond better to you as a result.
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      • Profile picture of the author keithdougherty
        Originally Posted by Dayton Keeran View Post

        I always try to treat people how i would want to be treated. It can be really difficult in a heated situation but it's always good to take a few seconds and a deep breath before you say or do something you might regret.

        I also believe in giving as much of yourself to people and being genuine at all times. A lot of people try to be someone their not but i just don't see the point in trying to keep up a charade. It's much easier to be who you are and you will find people respond better to you as a result.
        Very well say Dayton. I love people who are fake and put on a front. Usually their lies catch up with them and they look like a fool in the end. Just be yourself and be kind. I guess for some it is easier said than done.
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  • Profile picture of the author daryamconsult_aust
    It's amazing when you remain calm and respectful when another person/customer is angry, they will also calm down - even if you can't give them the outcome they want.
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  • Profile picture of the author PreetiN
    It is our natural tendency to think about our own feelings, emotions and goals. But the moment you think about the golden rule, it shifts your mental attitude completely and helps you see the situation as well as other people clearly. Without doubt, following the golden rule is the best way to maintain good relation with others.

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