What do you reallly want??!!

Too many pages and blogs describe about 'The Secret' or Law of Attraction, and proof from people who applied it, that we must FOCUS ON WHAT WE WANT not on what we don't want, and write them in the piece of paper and read them at least twice a day and MANIFEST them! Practice makes perfect, doesn't it?

Here are steps to re-focus your mind and re-train your imagination by David Schimer, the mail checks and car parts guy from The Secret:

1. Know exactly what you want. Take out a pen and paper and write down what is NOT working in your life how you want it. Could your marriage be better? Do you have the money you need to do and buy the things you want to? Do you have an illness or are you often sick? Are you unhappy? Are you working at a job you hate? Do you live in a home or area you don't like?

2. Now write out on another sheet of paper in present tense exactly how you do want each of those things to be. Don't just write "I want a better relationship." Write out, in detail exactly what you want to do have and become. For example, "I have a loving fulfilled relationship with my husband. We spend time every day together communicating and falling more in love. We enjoy frequent romantic times together, like walking along the beach hand in hand or sitting enjoying a coffee together." Describe your life exactly how you want it to be.

3. Once you have completed that task, throw away or burn the first list you made of what is not working. You don't want to read or focus on that ever again.

4. Re-read your new life at least twice a day. When you wake up first thing in the morning and just before you go to sleep at night. Just like a child pretend that it already is, add emotion to it as if it has already happened. Re-writing your new life increases clarity, emotion and expectation.

5. Only speak to others of how your new life is. Our words create our world so our confessions or what we speak out about our circumstances creates our circumstances. If you continually speak to others about what's going wrong in your life then that is what you attract. Start speaking with excitement about how your new life looks.

6. Have Faith ... only believe! Many people just want good things to happen and want abundance and yet doubt about whether it can happen or worry about the worst happening. This is using the law of attraction to create a life that you don't want as we will always attract what we emotionally focus on. Worry and doubt create the huge emotion of fear. We must LET God, let the power, work through us without being anxious about whether the end result will happen or not! I think Jesus said it so well when he told us in Mark 11:24 "For this reason I say to you, Whatever you make a request for in prayer, have faith that it has been given to you, and you will have it." Note the words "Have faith that it HAS been given to you ... and you WILL have it" Some translations say "If you have faith..." or "If you believe..."

7. Be expectant and grateful. Expectation propels you into action and draws you closer to your goals. If you really desire something in your life there are certain steps you must take. For example if you desired to travel to Hawaii for a holiday you would have to decide when you are going, buy a suit case, inquire about tickets, hotels etc. What do you need to do right now if you truly expect your new life?

Good luck!!!


Ditha