A Simple Method an Ex-Lazy-Boy Used To Take Control Of His Life...

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Asalamu Alaikum (Peace be with you) dear Warrior Brothers and Sisters,

Let me tell you a story:

5 Years ago I finished high school. While I was in high school I had everything going for me.

I wasn't classed as a geek, but I excelled in every subject. Scoring the highest marks in the class on any given test was easy for me. I was just blessed to be able to learn any given subject rapidly if I gave it effort, which outwardly appeared effortless.

I wasn't classed as a popular kid, but I excelled in every sport. I have to confess, this is because I love sport! Ever sinse a minor, I was always the kid running down the road hyper-actively, spinning arround, jumping about, climbing on walls and up trees.

However, in my last year of high school, my life took a turn for the worst.

I lost dear Uncle, my Mother and Step-Father started to break up and the home began splitting. On top of that I went through what I believed to be true love with a girl who then went on to break my heart.

I became a mess.

That year, I missed my final examinations. I had no good reason too, I was just a depressed mess. I just couldn't find it in me to do anything constructive.

A few years went by and I still didn't achieve anything with my life.

I started college at a low level because I didn't have grades from high school - then I quickly became bored of the work there because it was too easy for me - then dropped out.

Things were looking real bad for me.

And then - about 6 months ago now...

I TOOK CONTROL OF MY LIFE AGAIN.

I regained what I used to have: my passion and energy.

Sinse then my life has been on the rise. Every week I'm taking on new challenges, loving them and dominating them.

I've regained my strength and stamina which I'd lost from not being active, I've been involved in some major classes in my home town which teach Comparitive Religion and basic skills.

It is safe to say, I'm back, and I ain't stopping again, not ever.


What I taught myself changed my life. And to help others change their life would be an honour.

So as I'm new to the forum and I don't have much to share marketing wise, I am taking this opportunity to teach you Warriors the methods I used to climb out of depression, build confidence and self esteem and tackle goal after goal.


Here is what I done:

1) Firstly I split my life up into three catagorys. a) Lifestyle. b) Fitness. c) Knowledge.

Lifestyle to me means things like: Washing, Cooking, Cleaning, Spending time with family, Saving for a rainy day, Giving to charity, Helping others etc.

Fitness to me means training the body to perform better in everyway: speed, strength, balance, flexability, endurance, explosiveness, breathing.

Knowledge to me means two things: firstly it means "subjects" which I am interested in learning or becoming better at: Maths, Economics, Art and Design, Marketing, Writing, Entrapaneurship, Business, Comparitive Religion etc.


2) I wrote up where I would like to be in 12months time. Using the 3 catagorys and the subjects above as a guide.

3) In each sperate "subject" for example "strength" I wrote up "Levels" and "Progressions".

For example, my ultimate goal in "stength" is to become a master of my own bodyweight.

After doing some research I decided that this goal mean't having the ability to perform:

2x50 Pistol (one-legged) Squats.
1x100 One Arm Push Ups.
1x10 One Arm Handstand Push Ups.
2x50 Complete Hanging Straight Leg Raises.
2x50 "Stand-to-stand" Back Bridges.
2x20 One Arm Pull Ups.

So what I done is created a workout diary containing these 6 exercises only.

I set ALL "levels" to ZERO.

Then I created the first 10 levels and noted them down.

My aim is always to reach the next level and the levels become progressively more difficult.

I also keep a record of my current "level" on any given excersise, and what the "next level" is, along with notes and other things a standard workout diary has.

Doing this gives me the motivation to consistantly improve myself.

Everyday I can see that I'm DOING SOMETHING and when I look back at the levels I've already achieved I know in my heart that I've actually ACHIEVED something that I want to achieve.


The whole thing took me about 2hours to set up in total. And I have a few notebooks all nicely kept together containing everything. It's all very neat and works very well.


Then, at the beginning of each week, I take a look through all of my notepads and I construct a "TO-DO" list for each day of the week.

So for example, my "To-Do" list for tomorrow is:

1) Full body stretch (2x30secs) followed by Balance Training (25reps per leg) - *My balance training is: Put an object on the floor in front of you, stand on one leg, pick it up with left hand, put it back down with the right hand, this is one rep*

2) Running - 2Miles.

3) Put clothes into laundrette - clean bedroom - pick up clothes - do ironing.

4) Breakfast

5) Write 3 high quality articles for bodyweight fitness blog.

6) Sign up to CPA network *If found one. (I've asked a few places online, including here for help).

7) Push Ups Workout.

8) Start cooking dinner.

9) Help Granddad with his new Sofa's.

etc. etc. etc.


Then I simply mark off the to-do list as I do them.

Bearing in mind that my to-do lists are all based on me working towards my "next levels", plus I add in things which have nothing to do with my levels, you know just everyday stuff, or stuff which comes up.

I have to say, it's worked a charm!

It take only a few minutes each day to record everything - when I'm out and about I record things on my phone - and each night I spend just 10 minutes looking over my future plans and tweaking them where need be.


Take my advice. Get some form of "progressions" written up and start hitting those targets.

Use simple lists to go from one task to another without wasting time.

Make sure you include rest time, food time and family time.

You will be a better warrior!

I sincerely hope this has helped - please ask if I wasn't clear or if you need further information.

My idea helped me so much I think I would be lost if I didn't dream it up. So I pray it helps you too.

Even if you custom taylor it to only 1 subject, i.e: Affiliate Marketing or eMail Marketing.

Write up your first ten "levels" and start ACTING.


Trust me, when your on something like level 29, and you've been keeping your progressions realistic, but increasingly more difficult, you'll look back and be so happy and proud of yourself.

You get a buzz and just want to work harder towards your next level.

Even when you reach level ONE you will feel the reward.


Comments and questions welcome. Was-Salam (peace be with you).
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  • Profile picture of the author Abdullah James
    Just to make this abit easier to understand.

    Within my "Fitness" catagory, I have "strength".

    As I meantioned, my ultimate goal strength wise is to be a master of my own bodyweight.

    For me this mean't being able to perform as stated above the ammount of sets and reps for these six exercises:

    One Arm Push Ups
    One Legged Squats
    One Arm Handstand Push Ups
    One Arm Pull Ups
    Stand-to-Stand Back Bridges
    Complete Leg Raises

    ( I must confess, my pure coincedence *which I believe to be fate* I found a book called Convict Conditioning which recommends using PROGRESSIONS to achieve to your target which makes you consistantly improve )

    So I put ALL levels to ZERO.

    So when I first started my notepad on strength was looking something like:

    One Arm Push Ups.............................0
    One Legged Squats...........................0
    One Arm Handstand Push Ups..............0
    One Arm Pull Ups...............................0
    Stand-to-Stand Back Bridges...............0
    Complete Leg Raises...........................0

    When I first started, I couldn't do ANY of the excersises, not even ONE REP.

    So I changed the excersises so that I could PROGRESSIVELY work up to them.

    I started with:
    Push Ups
    Handstand Push Ups
    Pull Ups
    Supported One Legged Squats
    Walking Down the wall with my hands Back Bridges
    45degree Leg Raises

    because they were the excersises I could perform at the time.

    Then I set the NEXT 10 LEVELS for each.

    Example: Push Ups.

    Level 1) When can perform 2x20 push ups.
    Level 2) When can perform 1 x 7 Diamond push ups.
    Level 3) When can perform 1 x 20 Diamond push ups.
    Level 4) When can perform 2 x 20 Diamond push ups.
    Level 5) When can perform 1 x 5 LEVER PUSH UPS**

    *Lever push ups are One Arm Push ups but with one arm resting on a low level object like a basketball, held out to the side of the body.

    Level 6) When can perform 1x10 Lever Push Ups
    Level 7) When can perform 1x20 Lever Push Ups
    Level 8) When can perform 2x20 Lever Push Ups
    Level 9) When can perform 1x3 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
    Level 10) When can perform 1x5 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
    Level 11) When can perform 1x10 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
    Level 12) When can perform 1x25 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
    Level 13) When can perform 2x15 ONE ARM PUSH UPS.

    etc.

    And I am now on Level 7!!!!

    And I only started serious strength training 2 months ago. (Other issues in my life took priority which I needed to sort out - accomodation, income, family etc.)

    Do you see how progressions help you achieve you goal, help you keep a record and give you motivation?


    I sincerely hopes this helps!

    AJ.

    Just for added motivation to you, let me tell you, I have now reached the ability to do ONE of the excercises on my list.

    The Pistol (one-legged) Squat.

    I can do 10 on each leg and my original ultimate goal was to be able to perform 2x50. So I'm getting there!!!

    I am also extreme close to doing Stand-to-Stand back bridges, one arm pull ups and one arm push ups.

    Was-Salaam (peace be with you)
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    • Profile picture of the author KristieDean
      You have a great idea ! Reward yourself and make it like a game. Interesting.


      Originally Posted by Abdullah James View Post

      Just to make this abit easier to understand.

      Within my "Fitness" catagory, I have "strength".

      As I meantioned, my ultimate goal strength wise is to be a master of my own bodyweight.

      For me this mean't being able to perform as stated above the ammount of sets and reps for these six exercises:

      One Arm Push Ups
      One Legged Squats
      One Arm Handstand Push Ups
      One Arm Pull Ups
      Stand-to-Stand Back Bridges
      Complete Leg Raises

      ( I must confess, my pure coincedence *which I believe to be fate* I found a book called Convict Conditioning which recommends using PROGRESSIONS to achieve to your target which makes you consistantly improve )

      So I put ALL levels to ZERO.

      So when I first started my notepad on strength was looking something like:

      One Arm Push Ups.............................0
      One Legged Squats...........................0
      One Arm Handstand Push Ups..............0
      One Arm Pull Ups...............................0
      Stand-to-Stand Back Bridges...............0
      Complete Leg Raises...........................0

      When I first started, I couldn't do ANY of the excersises, not even ONE REP.

      So I changed the excersises so that I could PROGRESSIVELY work up to them.

      I started with:
      Push Ups
      Handstand Push Ups
      Pull Ups
      Supported One Legged Squats
      Walking Down the wall with my hands Back Bridges
      45degree Leg Raises

      because they were the excersises I could perform at the time.

      Then I set the NEXT 10 LEVELS for each.

      Example: Push Ups.

      Level 1) When can perform 2x20 push ups.
      Level 2) When can perform 1 x 7 Diamond push ups.
      Level 3) When can perform 1 x 20 Diamond push ups.
      Level 4) When can perform 2 x 20 Diamond push ups.
      Level 5) When can perform 1 x 5 LEVER PUSH UPS**

      *Lever push ups are One Arm Push ups but with one arm resting on a low level object like a basketball, held out to the side of the body.

      Level 6) When can perform 1x10 Lever Push Ups
      Level 7) When can perform 1x20 Lever Push Ups
      Level 8) When can perform 2x20 Lever Push Ups
      Level 9) When can perform 1x3 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
      Level 10) When can perform 1x5 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
      Level 11) When can perform 1x10 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
      Level 12) When can perform 1x25 ONE ARM PUSH UPS
      Level 13) When can perform 2x15 ONE ARM PUSH UPS.

      etc.

      And I am now on Level 7!!!!

      And I only started serious strength training 2 months ago. (Other issues in my life took priority which I needed to sort out - accomodation, income, family etc.)

      Do you see how progressions help you achieve you goal, help you keep a record and give you motivation?


      I sincerely hopes this helps!

      AJ.

      Just for added motivation to you, let me tell you, I have now reached the ability to do ONE of the excercises on my list.

      The Pistol (one-legged) Squat.

      I can do 10 on each leg and my original ultimate goal was to be able to perform 2x50. So I'm getting there!!!

      I am also extreme close to doing Stand-to-Stand back bridges, one arm pull ups and one arm push ups.

      Was-Salaam (peace be with you)
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      • Profile picture of the author Abdullah James
        Originally Posted by CPA Munky View Post

        Nice post there, good to see a new member posting great stuff.
        Thank you very much.

        Originally Posted by KristieDean View Post

        You have a great idea ! Reward yourself and make it like a game. Interesting.
        Thank you dear Sister
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  • Profile picture of the author USGTMauthor
    Great post do you follow a bodyweight program like John Peterson or Ross Enamait?
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    • Profile picture of the author Abdullah James
      Originally Posted by USGTMauthor View Post

      Great post do you follow a bodyweight program like John Peterson or Ross Enamait?
      Thank you

      And no, I do not follow their plans. However I have read Ross Enamaits books and gained alot of knowledge from them, his books are excellent I must say and I strongly recommend them.

      The main idea's involved in my own excersise program at the moment come from a book called "Convict Conditioning" by Paul "coach" Wade.

      However my knowledge comes from my own training when I was younger, plus books by Ross Enamait, Bruce Lee and Pavel Tsatouline.


      Here is my routine, it's EASY, it can be done by ANYONE and the results I'm getting are AMAZINGLY RAPID.


      Every morning:
      Full body stretch (30secs x 2) [flexability]
      Balance training (25+ reps per leg) [balance]
      Running - 2miles

      Tues, Thurs, Sat mornings:
      Sprint Training [100m sprint, 100m jog x 20]


      Then **30-50 sets of 1-5reps, spaced randomly throughout the day as to NEVER GET FATIGUED***

      Mon: Lever Push Ups.

      Tues: Hanging 90degree Leg Raises.

      Wed: Pistol Squats. (1-10 rep because I can... ultimate target is 2x50 which I am in sight of now)

      Thurs: Handstand Push Ups.

      Fri: Walk down the wall then back up with your hands style back bridges.

      Saturday: Uneven Pull Ups

      Sunday: Rest.


      **At the end of each day I do a 2minute hold for whatever bodypart it is. I.E on Monday I do halfway down push up hold, tuesday I do plank, wednesday I do seat against wall hold, thursday I do halfway down handstand push up hold, Friday I do back bridge hold, Saturday I do half way pull up hold. ***


      This is sort of a mash up of what I learnt from Convict Conditioning, Ross Enamait and Pavel Tsatouline.
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    Nice post there, good to see a new member posting great stuff.
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  • Profile picture of the author David Ford
    I dont want a body builder body, any suggestions for just losing a couple of stone of excess weight from packing up smoking a few years ago?
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    • Profile picture of the author Abdullah James
      Originally Posted by David Ford View Post

      I dont want a body builder body, any suggestions for just losing a couple of stone of excess weight from packing up smoking a few years ago?

      What is your diet like?

      Assuming you diet is ok, then go running first thing in the morning, before your breakfast.

      Begin with Level One: 10mins running, 3 times a week.

      Work your way through these levels and you'll be slim in no time.

      Level
      1) 10mins running, 3 times a week.
      2) 15mins running, 3 times a week.
      3) 20mins running, 2 times a week.
      4) 20mins running, 4 times a week.
      5) 30mins running, 3 times a week.

      Now at this point you should be feeling alot better, have more energy and you'll be in routine of regular fitness. You'll feel alive and full of energy through-out the day.

      At this point, you can either begin to include another form of exercise into your fat burning routine, or you can just increase the intensity of your running.

      So after level 5 I recommend you either do A or B.

      A:
      Level
      6) 15mins running, 3 times a week + 20min cycling 2 days a week
      (running:mon,wed,fri)(cycling:tues,thurs)
      (on excercise bike, keeping your heart rate above 60% of max)
      (to work out your max heart rate do 220 minus your age ;])
      *Running before breakfast, cycling anytime in the day

      7) 15mins running, 3 times a week + 30min cycling two days a week
      8) 25mins running - 45mins cycling.

      etc.


      or B:
      6) 1mile jogging, then (100m sprint, 100m jog) x 10, then 1 mile jogging.
      7) 1mile jogging, then (200m sprint, 200m jog) x 10, then 1 mile jogging.
      8) 1mile jogging, then (100m sprint, 100m jog) x 15, then 1 mile jogging.

      etc.



      The secret to loosing fat is firstly your diet, and secondly BURNING FAT.

      You are BURNING far when your body is working above 60% of your maximum heart rate.

      Working at 85% of your maximum heart rate burns fat ALOT quicker than working at 65% of your maximum heart rate.

      This is why I recommend to start easy, to get you used to excersise and into routine, and then either add cycling to your running or increase the intensity of your running.

      This way, you will begin by running, this will increase your fitness and it will be burning fat, most likely at about 60-70% of your max heart rate.

      Then you have the choice of either:

      a) adding in cycling. which will do extra fat burning.

      or

      b) doing sprint training which will increase your fitness ten fold, but also doing this you will get your heart rate up to 80/85%+ and really shed weight quickly.


      I hope this made sense.... Please don't hesitate to ask if you need anything further or if I was unclear.


      was-salam (peace be with you)

      AJ


      P.S - The idea is to start small and easy.

      a 10 minute jog, 3 days a week is a good starting level. Then increase it in time and intensity.

      Running is by far the best thing you can do.

      Cycling is an excellent additional aid because its easy to do and it doesn't tax the body too much, its gentle on the joints.

      Plus with Cycling, if you purchase your own exercise bike, you can do a 30min or even 1hour workout while watching your favourite TV show at home or watching a DVD and it will be effortless.


      Other great excerises for fat burning are: Skipping. and Swimming.
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    • Profile picture of the author kizio
      Originally Posted by David Ford View Post

      I dont want a body builder body, any suggestions for just losing a couple of stone of excess weight from packing up smoking a few years ago?
      Hi David leading on from what Abdullah James has said so far if you really are looking for great results without too much exercise then you need to look at what your eating and when your eating. If you can reduce your carb intake and preferrably replace them with healthier options such as Low GI vegetables and legumes, you should see an improvement within a couple of weeks.

      Infact you maybe able to shed the two extra stones in a couple of months with the combination of low carb diet and Abdullah James exercise tips.

      Never eat high GI carbs (rice, pasta, wheat, potatoes) before bed
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      • Profile picture of the author Abdullah James
        Originally Posted by kizio View Post

        Hi David leading on from what Abdullah James has said so far if you really are looking for great results without too much exercise then you need to look at what your eating and when your eating. If you can reduce your carb intake and preferrably replace them with healthier options such as Low GI vegetables and legumes, you should see an improvement within a couple of weeks.

        Infact you maybe able to shed the two extra stones in a couple of months with the combination of low carb diet and Abdullah James exercise tips.

        Never eat high GI carbs (rice, pasta, wheat, potatoes) before bed

        That's good advice there from Brother Kizio. (Kizio, I'm assuming your male?)

        The key with dieting is to eat small and often.

        Eat breakfast, small lunch, dinner, small snack, evening meal.

        Whatever you do, DO NOT starve yourself.

        When your eating small and often, along with excersise, your body enters "high motabalism mode" and works to burn off energy and fat.

        When you seriously cut down your food or starve yourself, your body prepares for starvation by storing fat to use as food later.

        So as long as you eat healthy, small and often, and excercise, you'll hit your weight loss goals no problem.
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  • Profile picture of the author PeterDunin
    Great post!
    The tips provided here will be an inspiration to many.cheers for sharing.
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