The #1 Self-Defeating Behavior Revealed

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procrastination is
DEADLY
"Procrastination is the bad habit of putting off until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday."
Napoleon Hill
Author, "Think and Grow Rich"

In life there are many things beyond the scope of our influence, and learning to accept this fact is the foundation of maturity. Procrastination is so destructive because it squanders our most valuable (and irreplaceable) resource and the one most under our own control- TIME. Before you delay another decision, consider just some of the costs of inaction and how it can put you behind the proverbial eight-ball.

MONEY
During the real estate boom, many property owners adopted the "buy and hold" strategy of investment. Despite evidence toward over-inflated market valuations, idling and hubris led large numbers of investors to forego profit-taking in hopes of even higher future values. The inevitable bubble and crash forced many out of retirement and brought about delayed retirement for millions more.

Lesson: Pull the trigger on profits- "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush"

OPPORTUNITY
"Time is of the essence" is a legal term used to describe the intrinsic link between opportunity and value. In 1985 Coca Cola Co. introduced NEW Coke, the first variation of the classic formula in a century. Pepsi capitalized on Coke's hesitation to consumer backlash and reluctance to return to the old formula by making the largest headway in market share in the company's history.

Lesson: Procrastination favors the competition; "Carpe diem", seize the day!

MORAL
In baseball, striking out without taking a swing is a hitter's worst nightmare. Combat veterans often express that the uncertainty and waiting leading up to a fight is the most difficult to manage. Achieve a position of dominance, be proactive, and create a positive mental outlook for yourself and your team, rather than letting circumstance dictate a quagmire scenario.

Lesson: Bad decision is easier explained than indecision

In life, timing is everything and while no one can perfectly predict the future, everyone can read the writing on the wall in the present. Understand that to be dutiful is to be obedient, and delayed obedience is disobedience. Ultimately, its better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do.

"Procrastination is opportunity's assassin"
Victor Kiam

Author, "Live to Win: Achieving Success in Life and Business"
Owner, New England Patriots, 1988-1991

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  • Profile picture of the author sith005
    Nice post man, this hits so many nails on the head I used to suffer from chronic procrastination, now it's just regular procrastination . It's a tough one to overcome, but if you keep working at it, it gets better. Procrastination and laziness are a match made in hell when it comes to being successful.
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  • Profile picture of the author Greg guitar
    Some real wisdom there-great post! Just wanted to add my 2 cents. I heard something that really hit home for me recently, and highlighted how silly and absurd this horrible habit is: "When you procrastinate you are hiding from yourself", from a speech by Lee Miltner.

    Somehow that phrase just grabbed me, and made me think that a great antidote to procrastination is simply checking in with yourself, and asking the question "Am I avoiding what I know I need to do if I am to reach my stated goal?" "If so, how long am I willing to keep postponing my dream?" Sobering thoughts for me-providing a much needed kick in the butt.
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  • Profile picture of the author Cataclysm1987
    Here's what I do. Whenever there is something I should be doing that I know I need to get to, I take the smallest step towards getting it I can. Even just the first step. It usually leads to me saying, what the heck, I'll finish up all the work I need to get to.

    On top of that, it also helps to do some of the work for yourself a day ahead of time. If you set yourself up with half of your work finished for tomorrow, you are that much less likely to procrastinate then because a bunch of it is already finished. Makes it much easier and less intimidating to get started.
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  • Profile picture of the author austingirl
    I really like your post @liftedjesse - very nice. It is so easy to procrastinate - especially when working on the computer - especially with awesome forums like this to browse before I actually do any work!!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author silverwaterfall
    This is so very true. I have always struggled with procrastination, but finally doing better at fighting that monster off.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave Matthews
    Too true, procrastination is the thief of time and opportunity.

    When I get to feeling that way, I still watch Dead Poets Society. That really gets me going again!
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  • Profile picture of the author powerspike
    Great post, and to add in some irony to the post, i have had on my todo list a couple of anti procrastination books for the last 3 months or so =)
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  • Profile picture of the author Ester B
    Great post indeed! You have clearly hit some good marks with this post.
    Yes the good old procrastination demon.."pats on the head".

    I recently came across the anti procrastination method (forget the source)of considering the fact that our lives remaining time can be likened to the timekeeping method of sand in an hourglass and when its gone its gone..abit morbid I know but when I read it it did kick me into action but I do confess was abit harassed and harrowing in panic induced action

    But then at other times when I reflect on this does put things into prospective in a way.
    Abit tired so not sure if what I wrote makes sense!
    All the best to all.
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