Its Time To Be Held Accountable!

by Halmac
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Motivation seems to be a big problem for a lot of people, me included so I thought I would post this.

Like a lot of fellow Warriors here, I spend too much time reading on this site, and find myself saying..."Oh, that's a great idea, that's what I am going to try!"

Only to come across another idea 10 seconds later, and like a kid on Christmas morning I am off to the next "present".

Needless to say, not much gets done.

This IM journey we are all on can be a darn lonely one at times, and I think that is why this site is so great. We can come together and share and realize that there are other people out there who are doing the same things.

Yesterday I watched a video that was sent to me from a well known online marketer and of course I watched it as I always do with almost everything that is sent to me. (I know this is not a smart thing to do. I appreciate the "Focus" comments but its something I am working on)

...Anyway, as I was watching the video and hearing much of the same stuff you hear over and over again, there was one point that caught my ear. It was that of an "Accountability Group". Of course I know about the concept of the MasterMind Group, but for some reason when it was put in this context it seemed to click with me.

I guess there is not really much difference between the two, but I think I like the AG name a little better.

As I said, feeling like you are trying to make this work all by yourself can be frustrating and probably leads to many people just giving up! I wholeheartedly agree with the NEVER GIVE UP mindset, but I also realize that having that support can work wonders.

Example: You are working on a website or blog that you need to get up. You know it needs to be done ASAP but you keep putting it off, and your dog (or cat) who is your only real business partner isn't much help!

If somebody you knew (fellow AG Member) was gently "nudging" you to get it done, you may just get your backside in gear.

By "Nudge" I mean placing a certain external expectation on your work so that you are accountable to someone besides yourself.

SO, with all that being said. I wanted to gauge the interest in an Accountability Group of sorts. A small group (maybe 5) of people who don't necessarily have to have the exact same goals as far as IM, but can help to keep each other going and share strategies and motivation on a regular basis.

This forum does that on a very large scale already, but I think it might be more productive to have a smaller group as well.

Just thought I would throw that out there. Any thoughts, suggestions or comments are appreciated. Take care!
#accountable #held #mastermind group #mentors #motivation #time
  • Profile picture of the author tylerdrun
    We can't do that on WF... Tell me if you want a forum set up. I could do that...

    accountability.thegreatestmarketer.com.
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  • Profile picture of the author scortillion
    I know just how you feel. That is why a friend and I are starting our own mastermind group of like minded people that wish to succeed.

    We are starting the discussion on Facebook to see what people want out of a mastermind group and form one or more groups. If you wish to take part please stop by.
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    • Profile picture of the author SteveSki
      Originally Posted by scortillion View Post

      I know just how you feel. That is why a friend and I are starting our own mastermind group of like minded people that wish to succeed.

      We are starting the discussion on Facebook to see what people want out of a mastermind group and form one or more groups. If you wish to take part please stop by.
      Hi James, I'd love to join your group. I just took notice that you live in Whitehaven, PA I use to do a lot of trout fishing under the bridge in Whitehaven on the Lehigh river. Moved from Northeast PA to OZ in 2004.

      An aussie by the name Michael Ross wrote an excellent report called "The Success Report" that discusses accountability in depth. I believe it's still available at the Seeds of Wisdom Publishing - Books on Success in Life
      forum.

      His report points out that joining an accountability group alone still might not give one the missing success factor that most motivation experts fail to touch on. It has to do with something a bit stronger that being held accountable.

      After all.... we are all held accountable by religion, peers groups or just karma but that accountability alone isn't always enough to get us to take the right actions that produce successful outcomes.

      I'll join your facebook group. Thanks for starting it!

      Cheers,
      Steve
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      • Profile picture of the author scortillion
        Originally Posted by SteveSki View Post

        Hi James, I'd love to join your group. I just took notice that you live in Whitehaven, PA I use to do a lot of trout fishing under the bridge in Whitehaven on the Lehigh river. Moved from Northeast PA to OZ in 2004.

        An aussie by the name Michael Ross wrote an excellent report called "The Success Report" that discusses accountability in depth. I believe it's still available at the Seeds of Wisdom Publishing - Books on Success in Life
        forum.

        His report points out that joining an accountability group alone still might not give one the missing success factor that most motivation experts fail to touch on. It has to do with something a bit stronger that being held accountable.

        After all.... we are all held accountable by religion, peers groups or just karma but that accountability alone isn't always enough to get us to take the right actions that produce successful outcomes.

        I'll join your facebook group. Thanks for starting it!

        Cheers,
        Steve
        Look forward to chatting with you.. and I'll be sure to check out that link you provided.
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  • Profile picture of the author LailaAmrouche
    I totally know what you mean - information overload!
    That´s a really good thing to be working on - good luck! I am on the sam journey...
    My tip is to give your self a reward when you have acomplished something; even the smallest thing. I personally feel I get more dicisplined after!
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    • Profile picture of the author scortillion
      Originally Posted by LailaAmrouche View Post

      My tip is to give your self a reward when you have acomplished something; even the smallest thing. I personally feel I get more dicisplined after!
      I use the small reward principle myself. It works really well when exercising and staying in shape. I go all week watching what I eat and being good about it and then Friday nights my wife and I go out to dinner and enjoy ourselves.
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  • Profile picture of the author SpaceAge
    Halmac, if you are still doing this, give me a shout
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