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People who are fond of criticizing and demeaning of others, often do not realize that he criticizes LESSER OF PLACE.

Whatever their criticisms, stay focused learning and working to make yourself better and more capable.

Usually, the PEOPLE who like to criticize others, his life was not BETTER.
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  • Profile picture of the author windwhirl
    That is so true. People criticize in others what they actually see in themselves. Others criticize to pull down others because they themselves can't get to the top. But receiving criticisms is not so bad actually. Criticisms keeps you on track and moivates you, it makes you aware of the situation, it awakens your spirit. There's nothing wrong listening to crticisms, just make sure that you are still in touch with your inner self. Also, despite having critics around, nothing beats if you have a solid support system.
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  • Profile picture of the author maidmarion
    Its very true what windwhirl said.
    When you are critical of others, if you look into yourself, you will find you are being critical with yourself! That is why you are projecting it outwards onto others.

    If we can correct ourselves when we are being critical, we will solve the problem before alerting others.

    And some criticism can be good for us too so long as we take it objectively and keep positive within ourselves.
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  • Profile picture of the author IMoptimizer
    Criticizing people is never a good thing. It's disrespectful for sure. Plus they're are the ones who usually have problems with life. Criticizing may help some cope with certain things in their lives. Well, that's how I see it anyways.
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  • Profile picture of the author scortillion
    Criticizing people is bad and brings you down along with them. Most of us are guilty about criticizing other people and we have to start realizing what we are doing.

    First we need to realize we are doing it and stop it when we do. Just end the conversation or change the subject.

    Second we have to start looking for anything good about the person we were just criticizing, find something no matter how small.

    Granted there are those people, that no matter what you just can’t stand, but if that’s the case then just don’t talk bad about that person. Find one thing, no matter how very small, and say that is good about them and then stop thinking about them.
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  • Profile picture of the author jesus72knight
    I don't mind criticisms. It won't bring me anything positive. Just don't mind them and keep strutting your stuff and show them what are you made of.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jun Balona
    Criticism in itself can be a bit harsh to many people. And you can't take it out on many of us, because like it or not people will criticize you regardless. But it's how we feel and react to those criticisms that matters the most and ultimately builds our character.

    Well you can always prove them wrong to shut them up. "What doesn't break you makes you stronger", so to speak.
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  • Profile picture of the author IMoptimizer
    Criticism can be a good thing too, especially if it helps you get better at what you do.
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  • Profile picture of the author Radcliff
    Criticism can be very helpful if we think about them calmly.Sometimes they pop up our faults and it is the best way to make ourselves into right way, since it is easy for others to see our faults than ourselves.

    Even if it helped us or not,being angry about criticizers is the thing we must not do in any case.
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  • Profile picture of the author MikeLiving
    I encourage critical feedback. It fires me up. If someone thinks they are better than me, thats fine, what goes around comes around. My work is my work, and I'm proud of what I do. That's all that matters.
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  • Profile picture of the author medi50cus
    I take criticism as a an encouragement. It gives me the boost and the reason and to work hard even more and show them that the person they are criticizing will be the one that will crush them in the near future. Take that, LOSERS!
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  • Profile picture of the author pethanks
    The truth is you cannot pleased everyone. All you have to do is not to entertain those negatives and focus on what you do.
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    • Profile picture of the author thriftgirl62
      It's not surprising that every comment shows a healthy respect for the ism in critical. If you have enough courage to speak out here, you know what "grow some skin" means.

      But what about those who don't ever comment out of fear of what someone will say? You must do the thing which you think you cannot do - Eleanor Rosevelt.

      Greatest fear: what if you can't help everyone?

      If everyone registered here made 1 comment during the same 5 minutes, what would happen?

      When someone s really, really mad, yelling and screaming (in person) what would happen if you just stood there and smiled. Say nothing. No laughing or crying. Just stand there and smile.
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