by EA
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Dear Warriors,

The new chapter in my life. I am thankful.

I just write it the way it is. It's time to make a BIG confession. I have failed numerous times, I have also wasted a lot of time in my life doing absolutely nothing other than complaining and whining and if you want to know the real reason behind those emotions, it all started one day I had accident.. and one year later another accident.. been dealing with constant neck pain and headache.. but what does not kill me, will just makes me stronger.. right?

The truth is this attitude wasn't always like that but from now on this is my new attitude. I know the accident chapter will be part of my life [my 2 months old daughter crying now in the background] oh, I love her so much.. be back in a moment..

Back to this story. What matters is this. I can't make this chapter in my life to be the excuse for not doing more then I could be doing, that is taking more focused action. I can't just think day after day, night after night what I should be doing, instead I should be doing it and what is so important here there are so many people who fall for schemes or get rich quick trap it's sad

Do yourself a huge favor, make a promise to yourself to stop playing hamster on a wheel.. I'm telling you just this year has cause me a lot of distractions and with each distractions it drives me into different directions and the crazy part is just this year I've had 112 e-mail distractions. It's only 12th of January. There are 353 days still left of this year.. Just imagine all the e-mails (distractions) I manage to block just by unsubscribing from people list that didn't give value.

So this is what I did next I started to unsubscribe from lists who was delivering me sales pitch after sales pitch I just threw them into the trash! But I stayed subscribed to lists with value and the really sad part is, there are not many lists out there that deliver true value to their visitors, I must say thought Paul Myers, delivers it! .. and Dennis Becker is also a great guy! Dr Veit has also a good list and few more.. So my advice to you is this, stay subscribed to people you like.

Now comes the crazy part, are you familiar with information overload? To be honest it's been my enemy for a long time, it's not only danger but it can paralyze you, right now this is what I need to get rid of, I'm finally doing it! And I know for me it will takes practice & persistence. It's so stupid playing the hamster on wheel game, where you go round after round, doing the same stuff again and again and expecting different results that is insanity, so STOP doing this.

I'm very good to kick people into action when it comes to my family, relatives and friends but when it comes to me.. well let's just say sometimes I kick ass and sometimes my mind is unsexy but the good news is, finally I took the plunge and I am working on it.. Hey and if you are one of those out there who are afraid to fail, just do it, not only will you save a lot of time but you will also learn from this and I know I have killed projects before I started working on it. How? I thought it would fail without even trying it, luckily I just told myself to just do it and it was a suprise to me because it was a success not failurie! And from this time on I will see it as an experiment and it's going to be ALWAYS a success and if it fails.. I don't care, I start again.

In 2010 I started to make regularly money with Clickbank and it came through out the year and in the end I was quite happy about it and in 2011 I haven't done a thing and I've already earn $86.38 by work I did in 2010.. I am not telling you this to brag about this.. I see threads after threads here where people talk about they haven't made any money online, not even their $1 dollar.. often it is because of lack of knowledge, don't take action and they are lazy.

It's really sad to see this happen, I mean these people are just like me with dreams but here is a very important message: Dreams will always be just dreams if you do not set goals and take action to make it happen!

But how do I know this, I've been there and the funny thing is when I focus and take action it's really hard not to make money online but still today I struggle with distractions and with information overload but I will no longer be a hamster on a wheel and play game of insanity. (what this means is basically this; I have to schedule a time, block distractions, focus and take action.. nobody will do this for me, for us.. Do you want to be a player or sit on the sidelines?)

I just can't do it anymore and I want to save you years of frustrations.. that's the reason I am writing this and also to be kind. People have feelings and they should be shown full respect. So here is my advice and please do me a favor and stick this on your wall, REMEMBER IT.

Find a course you like, stick to it, if the first project fails, create another, until you make $ - and remember to be careful what you choose or pick, find a product with creditbility with testimonials you see are real and honest. I really hope this post has been of value to you and please remember there are luckily people within this forum who have a good heart. I know this post isn't perfect but this came from my heart.

Now is the right time to say I'm thankful for all the great warriors, girls and guys who truly care about others here and are always willing to help or point people into the right direction. (girl and guys, are also men and women's.)

I want to leave you with this quote: 'As you get old, you don't regret for things you tried and failed but for the things you never tried at all' - by the way if you like to see what success takes look at one girl in this forum, Jennifer, nickname AFI. I have no doubts that one day she will be a big success.

I want to wish you the best - do not give up. I truly believe this is the beginning of something wonderful!
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  • Profile picture of the author Jason Carter
    Let 2011 be your year to success. Don't put it off, do something today that will make you money for years to come.

    Best wishes,
    Jason
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    that's so sweet
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  • Profile picture of the author rcritchett
    Very awesome thread.

    I like what you're saying here. I align with a lot of it on many different levels. It's funny, I just wrote a post about having a long term perspective in internet marketing.

    It's true, confusion can hit home and send people on a hunt for cheese in a maze that doesn't appear to have an ending.

    Luckily, I suspected this coming into the world of internet marketing. I watched how things worked for a while and then went RIGHT INTO creating my own products.

    Did I fail? Tons, and it was great. That's what gave me both the discomfort and the extra push to calibrate and refine my approach to make it as precise as possible.

    Good for you that you've taken a new perspective and are coming from a different position when it comes to life. Your new attitude is an intelligent one; it's the one that makes things work.

    Great thread, best of luck, look forward to interacting with you more here on the WF,

    Ryan.
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