HELP!!!! IA M LOOSING IT

if that's what you're feeling, don't think success in IM will make you all happy.

Giving up is never the option!

Keep trying..start off with some low paying work like article writing and then you will see other ways opening up for you!

Just be patient, Angelguy.

I promise that the dark time will pass soon.

I know because I've been depressed and suicidal many times. Something I like to do is put on some “soothing” music and lay in bed asking for help from Jesus. Many times I've woken up feeling much better.

Think of all the amazing people throughout history who would have never made it if they gave up. :-(

Many people have been there and as far as I know none of them regretted choosing to live.

There's a story about some people who decided to commit suicide together by jumping off a bridge. However they misjudged the height and ended up breaking a couple of bones. According to them, the moment they jumped, they regretted it.

There are many things in life worth living for. Making new friends. Falling in love. Overcoming your challenges. Being wealthy. Bathing in the sunshine. Talking with your family. And about a million other things.

Even though I've been in some very dark places, I'm glad that I never committed suicide because now my life is great. (And I look back on it as a learning experience.)

So please don’t give up. :-(

If you are serious then you need to call a friend, a family member, a spiritual advisor, clergy, doctor, someone...PLEASE! This too shall pass. It WILL all be okay.

ileneg

Find your passion and live it. There are so many opportunities you can take advantage of. 20$ could make you a millionaire with all the knowledge available on this forum alone...

Do not give up. Things will become better

Please reach out to someone who knows you personally. You need a real friend right now. You joined this month, you are kinda new here. So not sure how much our words are going to mean to you.

I agree that writing articles is the quickest way to making cash from your 'puter.

Do let us know how you are doing.

If you find yourself driving to the bridge to jump of . drive to an er and check yourself in. There is help when you are at that point .

That will acheive nothing, and bring misery and dispair to those who love you.

Don't do that!

Everyone gets overwhelmed at some point. When it rins it pours, but do remember that it is always darkest before the dawn. You need to get to an old friend quick and have a sit down with them.....by old friend I mean someone who knows and understands where you come from and what you have already been through in your life to have you sitting where you are at. Chances are you have already been through something tougher than you current time and made it through it.

Let us know how you are doing!

-don-

Well thanks a lot for your advice, i am really in tears right now and ashamed of myself.To be candid, i am a very good writer and i just found that out...But getting writing jobs are quite hard.. i have tried a lot of websites and they just give you stories.. some collect my articles , saying they want a view copy of what i can do.. they reply me it's great and indepth and how did i come about that..then that's it.I don't hear from them.I have been the sole comtent provider and designer of blogs like http://www.amazingtouch.blogspot.com, http://www.keeping-family.blogspot.com, http://www.the-power-of-faith-and-focus.blogspot.com, http://www.get-the-right-spouse.blogspot.com
Hmm maybe i should just keep trying..well if anyone has a writing job..maybe you could just help me out.Thanks.

Ok getting back on track, thanks all for your advice

Do whatever you can to become financially stable. If you have to, work at Burger King and Live in a single room that you rent for cheap.

Your financial instability is causing you a great deal of stress. It will cause you to make irrational business decisions. It will be very hard for you to make the level-headed decisions required to succeed as an entrepreneur if it continues.

Get your income above your expenses ASAP. No matter what it takes.

Moral support is cool....but why doesnt SOMEONE help him out and hire him? Theres all these so called internet ballers on here? Right? Lend a fellow man a frickin hand! I would, but if you notice my thread before his labeled 'birds sh** on people, so does god' youll see im in no position to help anyone right now.
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Keep my info man, i will use you when i get out of this frickin black cloud!

Pick yourself up and start again. There's always help if you look for it. And there is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up dude.

Peace

Thanks a lot.. still trying to stand though and keep my head up....

I would try and pull yourself together first. Look at something more positive in your life and focus on that. It may sound weird but, I have to tell you that I too have been there. You could go into the section where people in the warrior forum hires people. The worst thing you can do is give up. Remember just when you are at the bottom there is no where else to go but up!
Kay

I know this will sound corny but my grand dad told me once when you hit bottom you stay there and sulk about it or head back up cause that's the only direction you have in front of you. Suicide is the easy way out and only leaves more destruction after the fact. Embrace each minute as though it was a gift, which it is, work on leaving a legacy even if it's just for yourself.

It will be ok! Many people in history who really understood how the mind works have agreed that we don't react to reality itself, but to the idea we have (i.e. we'be built) about reality.

And sometimes we're immersed so deep down in this defeating mindset, that we cannot possibly see what's outside this bubble we close ourselves into. I know, because I have suffered from clinical depression for a few months and nothing seemed to motivate me to get out of it. I had to struggle, really struggle to get back on track. This experience can make you a stronger person.

"Whatever does not kill you makes you stronger" (the most quoted idea from Nietzsche). Such a tough experience can be either a ticket on a downward spiral - or an opportunity for self-growth. You do have the power to make this choice.

"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" - Richard Bandler.

I know this topic shouldn't be taken lightly, but that quote carries some truth with it and frames it in a quite impactful way.

I also know this may not make perfect sense to you right now or might not get you right out of your situation - but come back to this thread in the future, when you've gotten out of this situation - and re-read the encouraging comments from all the fellow Warriors who've been so kind to post these encouraging and supportive comments.

All the best - and "keep walking".

Many people are here to help.

Hah........ you what.........making no money..........
hmmmmm is your live just money...and money.....?
i think you have skill , knowledge and experience.... used that 3 elements and your life will be happy.....

Hey Angelguy,

You need to change your thought patterns... instead of going down the negative route, start to focus on the positive. Once you change your mindset all your obstacles will begin to change form... Nothing can prevent your picture from coming into concrete form, except the same power that gave it birth..... yourself.
Start to focus on what you really want in life and start to work towards it... the going will be tough but just keep affirming to yourself that you WILL MAKE IT THROUGH.