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Where else can I be truthful...

by evarda
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Hello fellow Warriors:

I have reached the end of my ropes in my current JOB. Which has brought be to tears and almost a nervous breakdown. Here a quick synopsis of my situation:

I have been reading and purchasing WSO and ebooks on all kinds of internet marketing. I have accounts with the top programs as well as the budget to become successful very quickly. I am a Quality Assurance Engineer who is very techincal in all types of software. Today I has a series of tests working for over 6 months. I run these tests every week, today they broke. Long story short, I am getting blamed for things I did not do. It's a constant battle day in and day out. The breaking point was I realized that I could be working for myself or even coaching people on how to do some the technical parts of wordpress, site developement, but here i am crying in my office.

So mindset has to be this:
I am a good person and I need to love myself first and foremost
I need to be happy with where I want to go, I might be unhappy right now, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Realize my job is just a means to me being a fulltime marketer.
I will be making 6 figures soon but, I will be making 5k a month NOW
#truthful
  • Profile picture of the author Max Stryker
    It's not until a man touches bottom what he decides to change.
    I'm a strong believer that everything happens for a reason, and that no matter how hard you're thrown to the ground, you must stand up in order to become the person you're meant to be.
    Another tip, it's not the quality and amount of ebooks you read that will make you 6 figures a day, it's what you do with them. Use the knowledge you have to create something of your own. Consider this job you had as a journey you had to take to be the person you want to be. Nothing is stopping you from being the better version of yourself. The only obstacle in the way is YOU.
    I'm pretty sure you'll make something great out of the bad experience you're going through. Just believe in yourself, if you know you didn't do what they're blaming you for, fight for it.



    Finally, there's no point in crying in your office, you won't get anything out of that, only maybe the pity of someone walking by or the laughter of one or two heartless co-workers. Hold your head up high, go have some drinks with someone.

    Fake it till you make it. Believe that you're successful and you'll eventually be.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Hi evarda,

    I have compassion for your situation. I've been driven to tears from former office jobs and a few tough situations in my life. As an aside, for anybody who hasn't been driven to tears, you ain't experienced real adversity yet Keep pushing and when you've been broken down enough, you'll reach that point.

    Your mindset is on point. Now you have to step into it and generate the feelings of having this mindset.

    Visualize yourself loving yourself, being happy where you are at right now, and being grateful for your job, and FEEL the emotions of these situations in your mind. It takes practice, but it's worth it for when you experience the emotions of living these situations out you literally attract whatever is needed to make these situations realities.

    All the best!

    RB
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  • Profile picture of the author mypiapo
    Do what you feel is right for you. 6 figures sounds good, but hey, so does 5k a month. Also dont worry if people blame you for something. you know the truth, and thats all that matters. People will always try to find someone to blame, and this time, they blamed you. but who cares,, just let it go and move forward friend. Also, never let your job stress you out. Do the best you can, and just let go. I hoped i helped you some. Also, if you have any free time, could you explain how to properly use wordpress for web design to me. Possibly in a pvt message. i would greatly appreciate any help
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    • Profile picture of the author donsean
      @OP. If you could channel the sadness into a die hard burning passion for success you'll surely succeed. Keep your head up, create a game plan, and decide you're going to do whatever it takes for the next 90 days...thanks for sharing.
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